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| My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Toolegit123(op): 1:34pm On Jul 03 |
Good dey everyone here. It's me again, . The young man whose fiancee just broke up with without any reasonable reason ![]() But now,I've gone into the dating pool fully again and my observations of ladies of nowadays is sometimes I'd really like to discuss here,with you my brethren. First and foremost,I must really say that relationship in Nigeria has become transactional and it seems ladies now go into relationship with the mentality of being fed and taken of. Recently,after my first date with the 27years old lady ended abruptly and chaotic,I decided to go for an older one. The new lady I met,a lady in her early 30s, precisely 31 years old was nothing to write home about . Imagine a lady at that age bracket having the mentality that --"men are everywhere" that she doesn't have to respect me simply because I'm in a relationship with her. She's rude and ill mannered. The worst part of it all was that she was into idol worshipping and not only her,but her entire family ![]() Though I had almost fallen in love with her but whenever I remembered how my previous relationship ended badly,I had to clean my slippers and ran for my dear life. Funny thing is that,how can a lady of her age with more than 4 body counts still have that mentality that "men are everywhere",when in reality no man would want to end up with a woman of that age who has bad character ![]() Finally, I've made up my mind. And for now, I'll only be considering 18-23 years old girls. I won't mind if I spend my money on her after all she's still a baby who will someday outgrow her childish behaviors. Unlike the ones who have crossed the bridge of their prime. So,my fellow Nairalanders,what do you guys have to say to me, about the age of the ladies I'm considering? Hope I'm not about to make a wrong decision? Nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun Dominique nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun Dominique |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Powerbandooo: 1:51pm On Jul 03 |
Toolegit123:You go still cry 18 to 23?, continue |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Jman06(m): 2:12pm On Jul 03 |
You have made the right decision by resolving to go for girls of 18-23yo. That age bracket is the best to marry because aside that their fertility is topnotch, they'll develop further in your house with little to no tendency of getting corrupted by the older unmarried women. Older ladies usually think that they know it all and will be there rejecting suitors for flimsy reasons. At such older ages, they are usually very confused and find it hard to make the decision to accept suitors. Having dated multiple guys at such ages with numerous body counts, they are usually confused about which of the numerous boyfriends to accept for marriage. Marriage is not for the "I too know" people and that is why it is better for ladies to marry young because as they age, they become too "wise" and picky and that is one reason men run away from such older ladies. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by favour32(m): 2:39pm On Jul 03*. Modified: 4:13pm On Jul 03 |
Toolegit123:Your age is not known. 18_23 is suitable if you have enough resources. If not,you will be dating a child. I bet you,you go correct tire. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Goo0dHardDick: 2:45pm On Jul 03 |
She told you she has 4 body counts and you believed? Lol A woman of 31 has approximately 65 body counts, excluding other men who she knacked for fun and konji. Adding those ones will make it 87 |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Toolegit123(op): 3:17pm On Jul 03 |
favour32:. It'll be more preferable for me to be correcting her than to settle down with the one that will never heed to correction simply because she feels our age different isn't much. Besides,I'm 32yo. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Toolegit123(op): 3:18pm On Jul 03 |
Goo0dHardDick:. I believe you 🤔 |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Toolegit123(op): 3:19pm On Jul 03 |
Jman06:. Abi oh. After touring around ladies of 30yo +,I now believe it'd be a suicide mission for any young man to be thinking of settling down with them. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by gerizzim: 3:36pm On Jul 03 |
Toolegit123:You say you are 32. if the lady is 18yrs meaning it's 14yrs age gap btw you both. hope you have weigh the pros and the cons? dnt be too quick to assume older gals are like the gal you just described. Wat counts most is the maturity of the lady in qtn you want to be with not age. some older ladies behave same way as the 18- 23yrs age pool you want to pick frm. Misnomer or deviant behavior is more of an individual thing not by age range . |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by kpankpangolo: 3:45pm On Jul 03 |
Go and sin no more, my child. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Host78: 3:46pm On Jul 03 |
A hungry girl is not and will never be capable of loving you. Believe this bro. A 27 or 30 year old girl, most times, have been dating since the age of 12 or 15. That's almost 15-20 years of dating experience. Imagine you have been doing the same thing for 15-20 years, you become so good at it, it becomes second nature. But more importantly, it just doesn't impress you anymore. If you have been driving cars for 15-20 years, e no go "shark" you like the first time. That's the position these women are in. Nothing you say or do is new to them under the sun. Like for instance, What's something new do you think she hasn't seen in the dating pool? What kind of love language do you think she hasn't heard before? What kind of love has she not proffessed to another man before you? Is it fvck? What kind of style has she not seen before in the bedroom? My brother, the real issue is you're trying to make a retired player feel impressed with your dribbling skills. It's like a child running to his father trying to impress the father by reciting ABCD. The father will 'act' impressed to keep the child happy but internally, the ABCD is nothing and he has seen all those things countless times. My geography teacher in secondary school once said there's literally nothing you can write in my exam that will impress me, especially those of you that like to write long essays. "I know more than you do, so writing those long essays will only take my time, just write the essential points" This is the 30 year old woman you're trying to love. Love means nothing to her. She has given her heart several times to several men. She don chop love tire. She don hear countless 'sweet things' for her ears. So, each time you come go to her, telling her sweet things, doing romantic stuff, she has seen it long before. Yes, she'll 'act' surprised and impressed like she had done countless times but at the core, in her heart of heart, those things mean nothing to her. So if she must 'act' submissive (she's no longer capable of being submissive), it means you must be offering her what she cannot get by herself anymore: money. So if you find a 30 year old woman acting submissive and pleasing her man, trust me there are two things involved, one she was desperate to survive (nothing is working well for her) or the man is spending. Both of which involves the man having money. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Host78: 3:53pm On Jul 03 |
The guy thinks women are men. I got the shocker of my life while in working in gynae ward and interacting with women. Most women start their sex life from the age of 12. Like 12 o. It was only in the university most guys even get disvirgined. Now imagine starting at age 12, the body count go almost enter 100 for some women especially if you meet her at 30+ years. At 30, she has been sexually active for almost 18 years. So in 18 years, let assume she has only 4 boyfriends. That's dating each for 3+ years. Which is not possible. Now let's add random flings. Sex na water for women abeg. Goo0dHardDick: |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Esc2ctrl: 4:43pm On Jul 03 |
HUMILITY IS THE BEST IDICATOR OF A GOOD WOMAN |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Toolegit123(op): 5:10pm On Jul 03 |
Host78:. Thanks alot bro for taking your time to hit the nail on the head. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by alshalz(m): 9:00pm On Jul 03 |
Goo0dHardDick:87 body count! you are too wicked 😃😃Heaven will be too far for you |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Dtruthspeaker: 9:18pm On Jul 03 |
You think women of that age's body is less than 1000? That explains why your fiance ran away! |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Dtruthspeaker: 9:19pm On Jul 03 |
Goo0dHardDick:Bros, it's actually anything above 600 |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Dtruthspeaker: 9:25pm On Jul 03 |
Jman06:How naive! They are going to still cheat on you when they are 30 upwards. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Dtruthspeaker: 9:25pm On Jul 03 |
Powerbandooo:Tell am |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Dtruthspeaker: 9:30pm On Jul 03 |
Host78:Tell them oo. They think that whilst they were playin Super Street fighter in Js3 the girls were reading their books |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Jman06(m): 10:19pm On Jul 03 |
Dtruthspeaker:And how did you know that? Any lady that wants to cheat would cheat regardless of her age! Our mothers were married at even younger ages but they remained faithful to their far older husbands. Decent girls with good upbringing would be very faithful in marriage. You guys like to exaggerate this issue of infidelity among married women. Any occurrence of such infidelity is blown out of proportion without considering the higher number of faithful wives. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by spiceadole(f): 10:25pm On Jul 03 |
Lol Men .. They so hate women but can't live without these same women. Everytime, threads and topics complaining about women. After 18-23 years, it's to look for a pregnant woman carrying a female foetus . |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by BItt: 12:50am On Jul 04 |
Age is just a number for men But for women age is more than a number |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Freeyourminds(m): 4:00am On Jul 04 |
That last sentence is a fact. The problem with their wisdom at that age is that it is one sided. Yes, their concerns might be valid but it is also usually coming from a selfish stand point. Imagine my 26yr old former class mate expecting me to have quadriple of what she has right now. This is a supposedly smart individual. Jman06: |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Freeyourminds(m): 4:03am On Jul 04 |
I salute your experience and wisdom. Only those who know by experience can say this. That's my first indicator to look out for. Esc2ctrl: |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by oz4real83(m): 5:31am On Jul 04 |
You have to work on yourself, the question you haven't asked yourself is this- why are you always attracting bad women and bad relationships which always have a bad ending? You always pick the bad ones despite the good ones in the same pool in large numbers, some others will pick the good ones, but not you. Why? |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:53am On Jul 04 |
Baba go and make money |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by floss(m): 8:00am On Jul 04 |
Toolegit123:4 body counts... That is football age Use Kuntus accelerator device to check the mileage of her Kpekus ![]() |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by funnyDM: 8:04am On Jul 04 |
Toolegit123:My advice: Be a phenomenal (proactive) guy and date an inexposed village girl. She will definitely be in love with you. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by tiswell(m): 8:11am On Jul 04 |
Just so you know,90% of ladies above 30yrs and still single have character and attitudnal issues. They are all walking-talking red flags. |
| Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by tiswell(m): 8:36am On Jul 04 |
spiceadole:funny enough,men doesn't hate women. Women tend to naturally lack the capacity to genuinely love men. ![]() That's why you'll see a woman well taken care of by her man,yet she brazenly sabotage his efforts,and cry victim if held accountable |
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