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I remembered one evening, few years ago… I stopped by one of those guys pushing fancy sunglasses on a wheelbarrow. While I was checking out frames, this fine, well-dressed babe walked up and started pricing glasses too.

She picked up a sharp, masculine pair. I looked at her and teased her.

"That glasses na for man face o..." I said with a smile

Then she replied with something that caught me off-guard:

"Yeah... I'm actually buying it for someone."

I raised an eyebrow. "Let me guess... you are buying it for your boyfriend?"

She smiled.

"Yes.”

In that moment, something shifted in me. I smirked and looked at her with real respect… not because she was beautiful, but because she immediately stood out from many other women.

I told her straight up: “I respect women who buy things for their man.”

She smiled and what she told me next shocked me. She said:

“I and my Man play this game every month… We surprise each other with a gift. This glass is my own for this month. I’m already excited to see what he’ll get me.”

I said to myself: “Damn… they gamified investment in each other.”

That small revelation broke my brain
. Their relationship wasn’t built on “a Man is the one to provide.” It was spiced with mutual investment. They turned giving into a game. And both of them were winning.

That same evening, I picked up my phone and called the girl I was dating at the time:

"I have an idea," I said. "Let's play a game. Every month, we surprise each other with a gift… no matter how small.”


There was a brief pause on her end.

Then she replied with a clear enthusiasm in her voice: “Game on.”

And that completely rewired how i see female interest forever. That quick, excited “Game on” told me everything I needed to know… this girl genuinely liked me.

But if she had hesitated, made excuses, or tried to laugh it off? That would have been the clearest red flag that tells me she has no real interest in me.


Here's the bitter truth:

Women always find a way to bring out money for the man they truly desire… even if she's broke.

The difference isn’t her account balance.
The difference is how she feels about YOU.

The woman who likes you will rarely tell you “I need transport fare before I come see you” every time.

But the woman who doesn’t like you ?
Even if she’s earning 500k per week, she’ll still be billing you unnecessarily. That's because she doesn't like you, so she's trying to ruin your life financially.

Women when like you no go pressure you,as long as you don't derail from being who she sees you to be.

You're right!!! Everybody dey invest their money for the place wey dem see future or where dem go reap bountifully. Na make I dey advise all sane men wey marry non-virgins to invest in DNA, else another man go reap wetin you sow.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Man, I can't access that link, it's giving me a 403 error (basically a "you're not allowed in" wall). Maybe it's a private board or region-locked.
But from the title "Tested Simple Game Response Exposed," I'm gonna guess it's about a game with some kind of trick or pattern. If that's the case, I've been there, sometimes the simplest strategies are the ones that get overhyped. In my experience, most of these "exposed" tactics just boil down to timing or memory. Don't overthink it; try it out yourself and see if it actually works for your playstyle.
If you want, share the gist here without the direct link, and I'll tell you what I think. Otherwise, just take it with a grain of salt until you test it yourself.

Op,you made a whole lot of sense here.

What gifts has she gotten you so far?

Pukkalolo:
I remembered one evening, few years ago… I stopped by one of those guys pushing fancy sunglasses on a wheelbarrow. While I was checking out frames, this fine, well-dressed babe walked up and started pricing glasses too.

She picked up a sharp, masculine pair. I looked at her and teased her.

"That glasses na for man face o..." I said with a smile

Then she replied with something that caught me off-guard:

"Yeah... I'm actually buying it for someone."

I raised an eyebrow. "Let me guess... you are buying it for your boyfriend?"

She smiled.

"Yes.”

In that moment, something shifted in me. I smirked and looked at her with real respect… not because she was beautiful, but because she immediately stood out from many other women.

I told her straight up: “I respect women who buy things for their man.”

She smiled and what she told me next shocked me. She said:

“I and my Man play this game every month… We surprise each other with a gift. This glass is my own for this month. I’m already excited to see what he’ll get me.”

I said to myself: “Damn… they gamified investment in each other.”

That small revelation broke my brain
. Their relationship wasn’t built on “a Man is the one to provide.” It was spiced with mutual investment. They turned giving into a game. And both of them were winning.

That same evening, I picked up my phone and called the girl I was dating at the time:

"I have an idea," I said. "Let's play a game. Every month, we surprise each other with a gift… no matter how small.”


There was a brief pause on her end.

Then she replied with a clear enthusiasm in her voice: “Game on.”

And that completely rewired how i see female interest forever. That quick, excited “Game on” told me everything I needed to know… this girl genuinely liked me.

But if she had hesitated, made excuses, or tried to laugh it off? That would have been the clearest red flag that tells me she has no real interest in me.


Here's the bitter truth:

Women always find a way to bring out money for the man they truly desire… even if she's broke.

The difference isn’t her account balance.
The difference is how she feels about YOU.

The woman who likes you will rarely tell you “I need transport fare before I come see you” every time.

But the woman who doesn’t like you ?
Even if she’s earning 500k per week, she’ll still be billing you unnecessarily. That's because she doesn't like you, so she's trying to ruin your life financially.

Relationships ought to be enjoyable by reciprocating. Sadly Nigeria girls no send you. They feel it is your duty as a man to give while theirs is to collect.

97% Nigeria women will reject this idea. Others will embrace it. However, ensure you match whatever she gives you. Don't go and gift her and iPhone when she's gifting you sun glasses or boxers. It must be an iPhone for an iPhone

meobizy:
What gifts has she gotten you so far?

Quite a few, actually. A perfume, headphone, a branded notepad with my name on it and pen (because she knew I love writing down ideas), fancy palm slippers, a sharp corporate shirt...

But the real value was never the gifts themselves.

It was the intention behind them.

Each gift quietly said, "I think about you. I pay attention to you. I enjoy investing in you too."

Goo0dHardDick:
Relationships ought to be enjoyable by reciprocating. Sadly Nigeria girls no send you. They feel it is your duty as a man to give while theirs is to collect.

97% Nigeria women will reject this idea. Others will embrace it. However, ensure you match whatever she gives you. Don't go and gift her and iPhone when she's gifting you sun glasses or boxers. It must be an iPhone for an iPhone

I get you, bro.

But I'd be careful about concluding that 97% of Nigerian women think the same way.

One lesson I've learned is this:

Women don't treat every man the same. The same woman who seems unwilling to do certain things with you will happily and voluntarily do with another Man.

The difference is often how she feels about you, and what behaviors she sees you are willing to tolerate from her.

When that lady with the sunglasses told me about the monthly gift game, I didn't argue with the idea or assume, "No woman will do this."

I simply took to heart and suggested it to the girl I was dating. Her immediate response was, "Game on." That told me we were aligned on the kind of relationship we both wanted to build.

As a man, you get to decide the standards you're willing to accept. Don't build your standards around what you believe "most women" will or won't do. Build them around you want, then look for a woman who genuinely wants the same thing.

Do you use ChatGPT for all your replies?

Pukkalolo:
I get you, bro.

But I'd be careful about concluding that 97% of Nigerian women think the same way.

One lesson I've learned is this:

Women don't treat every man the same. The same woman who seems unwilling to do certain things with you will happily and voluntarily do with another Man.

The difference is often how she feels about you, and what behaviors she sees you are willing to tolerate from her.

When that lady with the sunglasses told me about the monthly gift game, I didn't argue with the idea or assume, "No woman will do this."

I simply took to heart and suggested it to the girl I was dating. Her immediate response was, "Game on." That told me we were aligned on the kind of relationship we both wanted to build.

As a man, you get to decide the standards you're willing to accept. Don't build your standards around what you believe "most women" will or won't do. Build them around you want, then look for a woman who genuinely wants the same thing.

Lording123:
Do you use ChatGPT for all your replies?

No, I'm a trained writer.

Pukkalolo:
I remembered one evening, few years ago… I stopped by one of those guys pushing fancy sunglasses on a wheelbarrow. While I was checking out frames, this fine, well-dressed babe walked up and started pricing glasses too.

She picked up a sharp, masculine pair. I looked at her and teased her.

"That glasses na for man face o..." I said with a smile

Then she replied with something that caught me off-guard:

"Yeah... I'm actually buying it for someone."

I raised an eyebrow. "Let me guess... you are buying it for your boyfriend?"

She smiled.

"Yes.”

In that moment, something shifted in me. I smirked and looked at her with real respect… not because she was beautiful, but because she immediately stood out from many other women.

I told her straight up: “I respect women who buy things for their man.”

She smiled and what she told me next shocked me. She said:

“I and my Man play this game every month… We surprise each other with a gift. This glass is my own for this month. I’m already excited to see what he’ll get me.”

I said to myself: “Damn… they gamified investment in each other.”

That small revelation broke my brain
. Their relationship wasn’t built on “a Man is the one to provide.” It was spiced with mutual investment. They turned giving into a game. And both of them were winning.

That same evening, I picked up my phone and called the girl I was dating at the time:

"I have an idea," I said. "Let's play a game. Every month, we surprise each other with a gift… no matter how small.”


There was a brief pause on her end.

Then she replied with a clear enthusiasm in her voice: “Game on.”

And that completely rewired how i see female interest forever. That quick, excited “Game on” told me everything I needed to know… this girl genuinely liked me.

But if she had hesitated, made excuses, or tried to laugh it off? That would have been the clearest red flag that tells me she has no real interest in me.


Here's the bitter truth:

Women always find a way to bring out money for the man they truly desire… even if she's broke.

The difference isn’t her account balance.
The difference is how she feels about YOU.

The woman who likes you will rarely tell you “I need transport fare before I come see you” every time.

But the woman who doesn’t like you ?
Even if she’s earning 500k per week, she’ll still be billing you unnecessarily. That's because she doesn't like you, so she's trying to ruin your life financially.

Three are several women/girls spending for their man, it's jobless and few who are ebina, that spoiling naija women.

My wife wen we are still dating, she didn't use to ask money from me and she used to spend on me even up til now(though I'm doing my duty as well o). My underwear, she is the one that has been buying them, since we are dating till this present moment, more than a decade o, when we first dating, she has been handed over her ATMs and every other her social media accounts for me till date.

So,we still have good girls who are not Ebina, but very few.

Upon all these, she go still straff another guy on a steady and won’t stop until the day you catch her

Op, you sink vajmen are phoose? What a mistake

Fiscus105:
Three are several women/girls spending for their man, it's jobless and few who are ebina, that spoiling naija women.

My wife wen we are still dating, she didn't use to ask money from me and she used to spend on me even up til now(though I'm doing my duty as well o). My underwear, she is the one that has been buying them, since we are dating till this present moment, more than a decade o, when we first dating, she has been handed over her ATMs and every other her social media accounts for me till date.

So,we still have good girls who are not Ebina, but very few.

You have a wife who genuinely likes you, treasure her, brother. She’s rare.

Massive respect to you for securing a real queen.

Meteng:
Upon all these, she go still straff another guy on a steady and won’t stop until the day you catch her

So you think every single woman is out here cheating on her man?

Lalami3232:
You're right!!! Everybody dey invest their money for the place wey dem see future or where dem go reap bountifully. Na make I dey advise all sane men wey marry non-virgins to invest in DNA, else another man go reap wetin you sow.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

You’re always on every post talking trash. An your type dey wash and and clean women bobbbum in private

Majority of them will accept, but watch the kind of things they buy for you. Some won't spend upto 2k in buying things for you but hoping that you buy them things greater than 50k, they won't complain but in their mind, they have seen you finish. This type of game will backfire because on a long run, you as a man will feel cheated when you start comparing what you are buying for her in return to what you get as human in nature. It is better to watch how she give you things without asking, that is the best way to know a lady that likes you.

nnamdi640:
Majority of them will accept, but watch the kind of things they buy for you. Some won't spend upto 2k in buying things for you but hoping that you buy them things greater than 50k, they won't complain but in their mind, they have seen you finish. This type of game will backfire because on a long run, you as a man will feel cheated when you start comparing what you are buying for her in return to what you get as human in nature. It is better to watch how she give you things without asking, that is the best way to know a lady that likes you.

Look, most women are wired to believe that the man’s role is to spend while she simply receives. And the majority of men she meets reinforce this exact mindset, by showering her with money while she gives little in return and feels fully entitled to it.

Your solution:
“just watch what she gives without asking”...

Bro… that's passive and weak. Even though she genuinely likes you, she might not feel the need to reciprocate because she has been brainwashed to believe only men provide.


A self-assured man doesn’t sit back, watch, and hope. He sets the standard.

If she buys you something worth 2k while expecting 50k from you, you don’t keep quiet about it silently like a weak ass pussy. You address it immediately, by boldly expressing your mind…

You either train her to match your energy or you dismiss her.

See bro… Waiting quietly for her to “just give” is simp behavior.

Most women won’t suddenly start giving once they’ve pegged you as the provider who happily accepts crumbs. You must demand reciprocity early, clearly, and consistently.

The guy who later feels cheated is the one who never had the balls to set the frame from day one.

You are a fvck!ng Man. You must be bold and demanding.

Yeah yeah yeah... The intention behind the gifts abi? Any girl try me with those nonsense wheelbarrow glasses of 500/1k will regret it. Buy something good or just buy gas lighter refiller for my beach lighting moves instead of something that will cook my eyes