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Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Edusouls(m): 3:25am On Jul 08
Ways of getting wealthy in zoo Nigeria, go into politics and steal as much as u can

Become a fraudster and defraud people of their sweat

Join a cartel and Become a drug dealer

There’s no good and planned life in the black man’s land we came to this world with an inherent curse..
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Munzy14(m): 4:09am On Jul 08
Goo0dHardDick:
There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.
With this mindset , you've got a whole lot of problems waiting ahead.

You think it is okay for a man to do Nursery School run at 70 😂😂😂
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Munzy14(m): 4:14am On Jul 08
If you have nothing doing, stay away from Romance or whatever you call it.

Get something doing,
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Smartguyboy(m): 4:25am On Jul 08
Anabosee:
There's no logical blueprint for that....me that have been stable financially I never still see woman of my spec........and time is going
Sounding like a yahoo boy , hard for them to meet nice ladies only hookup girls .
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Goo0dHardDick: 6:44am On Jul 08
Munzy14:
With this mindset , you've got a whole lot of problems waiting ahead.

You think it is okay for a man to do Nursery School run at 70 😂😂😂
Nawa for una oo. Are you trying to tell me you cannot give birth without marriage? Which one is nursery school run?

Oga look for a girl to impregnate and birth your child, she either takes care of the child. Na you wan dey do school run? I don't understand?

Almost all my friends have kids without marriage and they're enjoying their lives.

There's no such thing as time is going for a man
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Pharaoh4rin(m): 1:39pm On Jul 08
Goo0dHardDick:
There's nothing like time is going for a man. A woman should be the one saying that because biologically time isn't on her side.

Change your mindset. There's no such thing as time is going for a man.
You mean you marry, and have children but your children will not see your young age? One kain grandpapa, lol
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Emeka71(m): 2:04pm On Jul 08
zanshi:
I am laughing at my family relative who relocated to my city, and was lucky enough to find a girl who works and they have been talking back and forth. The boy in question does not have a job oo but love don dey shark am i just dey look am dey smile. He dey talk say his girlfriend is always buying things when comming to see him bla bla bla. Na until he enter system body go tell am.


As men, it is imperative we fix our lives financially before we add any responsibilites to our lives. Cos the life of a family man na so so bills. Your hairline go first receeed amongst other noticable changes.
So right.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Guest14(m): 2:05pm On Jul 08
QuinQ:
Quite dumb advice from an inexperienced person.
Sometimes romance is exactly what will fix your life or help you achieve your destiny.
Many times what you can't achieve by yourself you can achieve when there is a partner around even if they're not directly helping
Think and Grow Rich Chapter 11 - The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Goo0dHardDick: 3:45pm On Jul 08
Pharaoh4rin:
You mean you marry, and have children but your children will not see your young age? One kain grandpapa, lol
You don't need marriage to have kids my bro. Tf is wrong with you sissy men?

There are thousands of men out there with kids without getting married. I'm going through the same path.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Babatunjo(op): 9:53pm On Jul 08
Goo0dHardDick:
You don't need marriage to have kids my bro. Tf is wrong with you sissy men?

There are thousands of men out there with kids without getting married. I'm going through the same path.
That is a different conversation. Whether you have children in marriage or outside marriage, both have their pros and cons. My point is that both are easier when you've first fixed your life.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Munzy14(m): 7:34am On Jul 09
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Goo0dHardDick:
Nawa for una oo. Are you trying to tell me you cannot give birth without marriage? Which one is nursery school run?

Oga look for a girl to impregnate and birth your child, she either takes care of the child. Na you wan dey do school run? I don't understand?

Almost all my friends have kids without marriage and they're enjoying their lives.

There's no such thing as time is going for a man
Wrong circle influence.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by QuinQQ: 12:31am On Jul 10
Guest14:
Think and Grow Rich Chapter 11 - The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
Long discredited.
See below what actually happens when you abstain from sex for long

Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Guest14(m): 12:55am On Jul 10
QuinQQ:
Long discredited.
See below what actually happens when you abstain from sex for long
Hill didn't advocate abstention in his book, rather transmutation.

I am adding to the point that romance can flip your life 180 degrees for good.

Good partner, Good economy, environment, and God's grace as well
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by QuinQQ: 2:03am On Jul 10
Guest14:
Hill didn't advocate abstention in his book, rather transmutation.

I am adding to the point that romance can flip your life 180 degrees for good.

Good partner, Good economy, environment, and God's grace as well
Funny guy, what are you transmitting if you're having sex?

God is not stupid to create men and women. You'd think a nan will achieve more if he focuses on work without wasting time on a partner. But reverse is the case - most high achieving men first have a woman
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Babatunjo(op): 8:20am On Jul 10
QuinQQ:
Funny guy, what are you transmitting if you're having sex?

God is not stupid to create men and women. You'd think a nan will achieve more if he focuses on work without wasting time on a partner. But reverse is the case - most high achieving men first have a woman
If your theory were true, most married men would be thriving. But you and I both know that's not the reality.

A good partner can certainly help, sometimes.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by QuinQQ: 11:19am On Jul 10
Babatunjo:
If your theory were true, most married men would be thriving. But you and I both know that's not the reality.

A good partner can certainly help, sometimes.
Neither are most unmarried men thriving. BUT most thriving men are married!
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Babatunjo(op): 3:50pm On Jul 10
QuinQQ:
Neither are most unmarried men thriving. BUT most thriving men are married!
Hmm... I'd be careful with that conclusion.
Marriage itself doesn't make a man thrive. It depends on who he marries.

A good wife can multiply a man's progress. The wrong one can drain it.
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by QuinQQ: 4:13pm On Jul 10
Babatunjo:
Hmm... I'd be careful with that conclusion.
Marriage itself doesn't make a man thrive. It depends on who he marries.

A good wife can multiply a man's progress. The wrong one can drain it.
It iis not a conclusion based on logic. It is simply an observation. Do you know any very successful people not married?
I have a feeling (just a feeling) nature rewards certain things. Example, you'd think having no children will give one time to focus and be more successful. But it turns out to be the opposite. Why??
Re: Men, Withdraw From Romance If You Haven't Fixed Your Life Yet by Babatunjo(op): 4:38pm On Jul 10
QuinQQ:
It iis not a conclusion based on logic. It is simply an observation. Do you know any very successful people not married?
I have a feeling (just a feeling) nature rewards certain things. Example, you'd think having no children will give one time to focus and be more successful. But it turns out to be the opposite. Why??
There are plenty of successful unmarried people too, so I don't think marriage is the determining factor.

A wife doesn't make a man successful. She complements a man who has already started building himself. The work is still his to do.
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