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Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by bigpriik(op): 6:48pm On Aug 24

I am an Igbo guy, but I have spent most of my life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently. I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ.

I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh, English speaking educated girls Iike me. I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops embarassed

I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute.

I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called Rokibat, first time I approached her she said she was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I fell in love with her.

She even asked me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok.

I need help seriously.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Bwilliam(m): 7:31pm On Aug 24

I'm the opposite.
If I sense any Bullish masculine energy from a woman, my intentions become short term. I'm going to still hit it, but I'm going to disappear afterwards.

Sha, since your friends don't seem to want to advise you, let them not go too far on your burial day, so your family won't stress themselves looking for who to carry your corpse.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Stephen0mozzy: 7:55pm On Aug 24

Answer this question - honestly.

Do you plan to have kids? If yes, will you like girls of such qualities to be the mother of your sons and daughters?

Like you said, "fetish". So, who are you condemning them for?

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by NoSmoking: 8:02pm On Aug 24*

Your problem is in your opening sentence...

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Lithiumite: 8:17pm On Aug 24

bigpriik:
I am an Igbo guy ,but I have spent most of life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently ,I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ
I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh,English speaking educated girls Iike me I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute
I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called rokibat,first time I approached her she said was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I feel in love with her
She even ask me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok
I need help seriously.

You aren't alone,I admire confident ladies alot,I like them with swag,intelligent and confident......you really can upgrade one of those girls to the type of person you want and I will tell you for a fact,many of those less educated ladies can be very loyal.

Many of those awkward girls you see living in the slums,smoking amd drinking stuff,often always with tattoos and are usually slim,they are one of the most loyal breed of ladies I have seen.....i observed them by interacting with them during the covid awareness campaign,we toured slum communities also my wife worked on a HIV/AIDS intiative with fdi targettind same demography.

they don't date outside their circle and tbey stick to just one guy at a time and no matter how much you try to entice them with money or looks,they never fall........they have this crazy mindset that anyman with a big car is a ritualist.......

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by FitCorper: 3:28am On Aug 25

Have you thought it could be because they are easy to get? Easy cum easy go.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Cum4me(m): 8:30am On Aug 25

Some of una just like uncomfortable life. grin

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Sonnobax15(m): 8:43am On Aug 25

Maybe you're destined to exit this world through the hands of an abusive and violent woman angry

. I wish you can find someone like my Ex to date or marry angry

. I swear e go clear for your eyes and na once only you go retrace your steps angry

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by addictiv(m): 10:00am On Aug 25

What kind of older women did you have around you growing up, your mum, older sisters, aunts and so on? Sometimes we are drawn to certain traits because they feel familiar from what we grew up around. Other times, we may be drawn to the complete opposite of what we are used to. I am not saying either is necessarily a bad thing, but it might be worth thinking about.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Pootle: 1:10pm On Aug 25

Sonnobax15:

Maybe you're destined to exit this world through the hands of an abusive and violent woman . I wish you can find someone like my Ex to date or marry . I swear e go clear for your eyes and na once only you go retrace your steps

no mind am until woman chokehold am to death for cowgul position, my problem na weytin him go tell baba god

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by care4you: 4:33pm On Aug 25

Cum4me:
Some of una just like uncomfortable life.

Away name look so similar

..

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by ReluctantAdult(m): 5:40pm On Aug 25

Had an experience one time where a confident, rugged, but really curvy and beautiful shorty hit on me, taking me by surprise due to her blatant directness. I suspected she sensed my calm demeanour that day because I was sort of ill and was calm like a puppy so she got attracted to me to exert control cheesy

I played along and we banged the whole weekend. Then I switched to my normal persona which is an ultimate alpha. She got super pissed and tried to dominate but I was always going to tame that beast cheesy

I eventually squeezed her under my wings and manifested the femininity in her cheesy

though she later ran away because that was not how she wanted to live. I understood and respected that though, and I know there's a sissy boy out there for her. To each their own wink

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Belurved1(m): 6:46pm On Aug 25

Hey men in the house; as anyone marry such type of girl? Please help this our brother from your experience.

I just hope he won't regret his decision.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Reloadedisraelp: 10:20am On Aug 26

bigpriik:
I am an Igbo guy, but I have spent most of my life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently. I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ.

I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh, English speaking educated girls Iike me. I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute.

I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called Rokibat, first time I approached her she said she was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I fell in love with her.

She even asked me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok.

I need help seriously.

cho... So fight con happen for the house wey both una go stay ...who go con quench the fire??

Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by CorperKola: 10:20am On Aug 26

FitCorper:
Have you thought it could be because they are easy to get? Easy cum easy go.

You prolly dont understand fetishes

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by femi4: 10:20am On Aug 26

bigpriik:
I am an Igbo guy, but I have spent most of my life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently. I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ.

I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh, English speaking educated girls Iike me. I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute.

I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called Rokibat, first time I approached her she said she was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I fell in love with her.

She even asked me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok.

I need help seriously.

You really need help cos those girls are carriers of diseases

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by CorperKola: 10:20am On Aug 26

FitCorper:
Have you thought it could be because they are easy to get? Easy cum easy go.

You prolly dont understand fetishes
Mine is the opposite of his
Or is it because they are hard to get

Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by ZeekrX9: 10:20am On Aug 26

Person say razz you say confident 😏

Lithiumite:
You aren't alone,I admire confident ladies alot,I like them with swag,intelligent and confident......you really can upgrade one of those girls to the type of person you want and I will tell you for a fact,many of those less educated ladies can be very loyal.

Many of those awkward girls you see living in the slums,smoking amd drinking stuff,often always with tattoos and are usually slim,they are one of the most loyal breed of ladies I have seen.....i observed them by interacting with them during the covid awareness campaign,we toured slum communities also my wife worked on a HIV/AIDS intiative with fdi targettind same demography.

they don't date outside their circle and tbey stick to just one guy at a time and no matter how much you try to entice them with money or looks,they never fall........they have this crazy mindset that anyman with a big car is a ritualist.......

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by cule7(m): 10:20am On Aug 26

The reason why you are attracted to razz girl is 100 percent your fault. You can only attract your type.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Helinuse: 10:21am On Aug 26

You need help with what you just told us that you like.
What should we help you with?

Nigerians need a lot of mental health checks.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by onuman: 10:22am On Aug 26

bigpriik:
I am an Igbo guy, but I have spent most of my life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently. I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ.

I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh, English speaking educated girls Iike me. I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute.

I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called Rokibat, first time I approached her she said she was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I fell in love with her.

She even asked me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok.

I need help seriously.

Are you a female or a male?

Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by yewit37486: 10:23am On Aug 26

With the kind of moniker you have, that might be an indicator.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by essentialone(m): 10:24am On Aug 26

First: nothing is wrong with you for liking a certain "vibe". Attraction is not always logical. The fact that you’re Igbo, grew up in Lagos, speak Yoruba fluently, educated, and you’re drawn to "razz, stubborn, aggressive" energy instead of "toosh, English speaking educated" girls — that just means your heart responds to something different.

What I’m noticing in what you said:

*1. The contrast pulls you*
You said "toosh, English speaking educated girls" vs "beautiful and razz like paraga sellers at bustops". That’s not about education vs no education. It feels like you’re drawn to rawness, confidence, women who don’t filter themselves. Women who fight, who are stubborn, who feel _alive_ and unapologetic.

*2. The Rokibat story*
You liked her when she was reserved. But you _fell_ when you saw her rugged side in a fight. And when she apologized and said she’d change, you told her "it’s ok".
That tells me: the fire, the stubbornness, the "don’t-take-nonsense" energy is what makes her sexy to you. Not in spite of it, but because of it.

*3. "I need help seriously"*
So something about this is stressing you. Is it because:
- People judge it? "Educated guy should like educated girl"
- You’re worried the aggression will turn toxic in a relationship?
- You don’t understand _why_ you like this?

Real talk, no judgment:

Liking bold, street-smart, aggressive women doesn’t make you bad. A lot of guys find that energy magnetic because it feels real, passionate, and challenging. Lagos girls especially have that "I no dey gree" aura and it’s attractive.

The key is: *aggressive ≠ abusive*. Stubborn and sexy is fine. But you also want someone who can fight for you, not fight _with_ you every day. Someone who can be soft with you when it matters.

Since you told Rokibat "it’s ok" when she said she’ll change, it sounds like you actually love her exactly as she is.

3 questions for you:
1. *What scares you about this preference?* Is it what people will say, or you’re worried it’ll hurt you long term?
2. *With Rokibat now* - are you still talking? Do you want her to change, or you want to learn how to date her as she is?
3. *"Razz and beautiful"* - to you, what exactly makes it sexy? Is it the confidence, the way they talk, the way they don’t beg?

You’re not weird. You’re just a Lagos boy with Yoruba fluency and Igbo roots who likes fire.

...And na that fire go burn you down las las.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Mckandre(m): 10:30am On Aug 26

See as person is deliberately looking for a demonic possessed vessels to entertain and engage in a relationship. Bro,see u and 6ft,anyways,see u on nairaland funny pages. cool

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Dancebreaker: 10:31am On Aug 26

Pootle:
no mind am until woman chokehold am to death for cowgul position, my problem na weytin him go tell baba god

Chai, so that's your only problem? So, advise him well now to avoid that scenario cheesy

Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Pythagon(m): 10:35am On Aug 26

essentialone:
First: nothing is wrong with you for liking a certain "vibe". Attraction is not always logical. The fact that you’re Igbo, grew up in Lagos, speak Yoruba fluently, educated, and you’re drawn to "razz, stubborn, aggressive" energy instead of "toosh, English speaking educated" girls — that just means your heart responds to something different.

What I’m noticing in what you said:

*1. The contrast pulls you*
You said "toosh, English speaking educated girls" vs "beautiful and razz like paraga sellers at bustops". That’s not about education vs no education. It feels like you’re drawn to rawness, confidence, women who don’t filter themselves. Women who fight, who are stubborn, who feel _alive_ and unapologetic.

*2. The Rokibat story*
You liked her when she was reserved. But you _fell_ when you saw her rugged side in a fight. And when she apologized and said she’d change, you told her "it’s ok".
That tells me: the fire, the stubbornness, the "don’t-take-nonsense" energy is what makes her sexy to you. Not in spite of it, but because of it.

*3. "I need help seriously"*
So something about this is stressing you. Is it because:
- People judge it? "Educated guy should like educated girl"
- You’re worried the aggression will turn toxic in a relationship?
- You don’t understand _why_ you like this?

Real talk, no judgment:

Liking bold, street-smart, aggressive women doesn’t make you bad. A lot of guys find that energy magnetic because it feels real, passionate, and challenging. Lagos girls especially have that "I no dey gree" aura and it’s attractive.

The key is: *aggressive ≠ abusive*. Stubborn and sexy is fine. But you also want someone who can fight for you, not fight _with_ you every day. Someone who can be soft with you when it matters.

Since you told Rokibat "it’s ok" when she said she’ll change, it sounds like you actually love her exactly as she is.

3 questions for you:
1. *What scares you about this preference?* Is it what people will say, or you’re worried it’ll hurt you long term?
2. *With Rokibat now* - are you still talking? Do you want her to change, or you want to learn how to date her as she is?
3. *"Razz and beautiful"* - to you, what exactly makes it sexy? Is it the confidence, the way they talk, the way they don’t beg?

You’re not weird. You’re just a Lagos boy with Yoruba fluency and Igbo roots who likes fire.

...And na that fire go burn you down las las.

This one that your using ai to post comments. na wa o.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by essentialone(m): 10:36am On Aug 26

Pythagon:
This one that your using ai to post comments. na wa o.

How does it affect you?

Shift.

Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by eniteden(m): 10:37am On Aug 26

Simple as ABC grin

The guy na Yoruba man cheesy

You pick the trait of the environment u grew up cool

NoSmoking:
Your problem is one your opening sentence...

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by iamjavadem(m): 10:38am On Aug 26

You dont need help. Those are my specs too.

bigpriik:
I am an Igbo guy, but I have spent most of my life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently. I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ.

I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh, English speaking educated girls Iike me. I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute.

I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called Rokibat, first time I approached her she said she was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I fell in love with her.

She even asked me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok.

I need help seriously.

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Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Emeka71(m): 10:41am On Aug 26

Bwilliam:
I'm the opposite.
If I sense any Bullish masculine energy from a woman, my intentions become short term. I'm going to still hit it, but I'm going to disappear afterwards.

Sha, since your friends don't seem to want to advise you, let them not go too far on your burial day, so your family won't stress themselves looking for who to carry your corpse.

Don't mind him the answer is so simple and is because of his big prik.

Re: Why Am I Attracted To Razz Girls? by Greenodds: 10:48am On Aug 26

bigpriik:
I am an Igbo guy, but I have spent most of my life here in Lagos so I can speak Yoruba fluently. I am educated and maybe slightly above average in IQ.

I notice this fetish recently I don’t like Those toosh, English speaking educated girls Iike me. I prefer them beautiful and razz like the ones that sell paraga in Lagos bustops I love stubborn and aggressive women they give me they exude this sexy vibes I find so cute.

I once dated this fine Yoruba girl called Rokibat, first time I approached her she said she was cool and well reserved but when she sh showed me her rugged side after she had a fight with a friend I fell in love with her.

She even asked me to forgive her bad behavior that she will change but I told her it’s ok.

I need help seriously.

Be careful what you wish for.

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