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32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 8:55am On Aug 29, 2014
First of all, I created a new I'd so I can pour out the real me,what ever thing I post with this Id is nothing but the truth

I was born on 19th april 1982,32 years of age now but what me and people very close to me don't understand is why I never had a gf before, am not a virgin which means I do get some actions but never had a gf properly

Whoever I meet is in a relationship or not ready for one because she just came out from a miserable one

I've tried all my life but failed,when some people said they never had a girlfriend,what they actually meant is that the relationship usually collapse within days,mine is that no one has ever said yes

I wasn't all that bothered because I had sex more than people who have gf but now that am serious getting one its becoming almost impossible, it seems the harder I try the harder it becomes

Is anyone in my shoes

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:02am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: First of all, I created a new I'd so I can pour out the real me,what ever thing I post with this Id is nothing but the truth

I was born on 19th april 1982,32 years of age now but what me and people very close to me don't understand is why I never had a gf before, am not a virgin which means I do get some actions but never had a gf properly

Whoever I meet is in a relationship or not ready for one because she just came out from a miserable one

I've tried all my life but failed,when some people said they never had a girlfriend,what they actually meant is that the relationship usually collapse within days,mine is that no one has ever said yes

I wasn't all that bothered because I had sex more than people who have gf but now that am serious getting one its becoming almost impossible, it seems the harder I try the harder it becomes

Is anyone in my shoes

Are you looking for a gf or a wife?

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by yorke1: 9:03am On Aug 29, 2014
Are you for real?
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:08am On Aug 29, 2014
Vanellope:

Are you looking for a gf or a wife?
gf
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:09am On Aug 29, 2014
yorke1: Are you for real?
yea,like I said before I created this I'd to say the real things about me, am 4 real bro
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by onstelly(f): 9:14am On Aug 29, 2014
@ poster are you serious, even during your uni days no gf !

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:16am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: gf

At 32, I think you should be thinking of getting yourself a wife.

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by hungryboy(m): 9:20am On Aug 29, 2014
Uncle, even bible talk say man shall not live with woman alone,
Not having a girlfriend doesn't make u a failure bro,
Live your life, do the things u love,
one day u will meet a girl who loves u the way u are

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:20am On Aug 29, 2014
onstelly: @ poster are you serious, even during your uni days no gf !
yes,it was even worse then,many who read this may think am ugly,Lol.. People actually get surprise when I tell them because am actually cute
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:21am On Aug 29, 2014
Vanellope:

At 32, I think you should be thinking of getting yourself a wife.
this is why marriage collapse,waking up one day and start looking 4 a wife, my dear a gf can become a wife

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by Danhumprey: 9:23am On Aug 29, 2014
Vanellope:

Are you looking for a gf or a wife?
Are you available?wink

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by onstelly(f): 9:23am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: yes,it was even worse then,many who read this may think am ugly,Lol.. People actually get surprise when I tell them because am actually cute
Well don't know what else to say, let's just say maybe you keep on meeting the wrong people or the problem is from YOU
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by kalushaiyke(m): 9:23am On Aug 29, 2014
U shouldn't have created a new I.d if u are for real...goodluck searching tho undecided
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:24am On Aug 29, 2014
hungryboy: Uncle, even bible talk say man shall not live with woman alone,
Not having a girlfriend doesn't make u a failure bro,
Live your life, do the things u love,
one day u will meet a girl who loves u the way u are

Lol.. Maybe you didn't read exactly what I wrote, I never said am a failure, as the matter of fact am happier than relationship people, I phuck more than people in a relationship
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by ideee03(f): 9:24am On Aug 29, 2014
WoW...maybe you'v been asking the wrong ladies or there's something wrong with your appearance, breath or the way you relate with people.

Even the most 'shyest' of guys has had a girlfriend at some point in his life.

So step back and review yourself and your wooing process...try to view it from an outsiders perspective without trying to justify your actions.

Hope this helps. smiley

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by Danhumprey: 9:24am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: gf
Bro,I doubt you are serious! Smh.





ITbomb,what do you think?grin
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:25am On Aug 29, 2014
kalushaiyke: U shouldn't have created a new I.d if u are for real...goodluck searching tho undecided
I did because the previous one will be contrary to this one, you see me there giving people relationship advice,talking about my gfs
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:26am On Aug 29, 2014
ideee03: WoW...maybe you'v been asking the wrong ladies or there's something wrong with your appearance, breath or the way you relate with people.

Even the most 'shyest' of guys has had a girlfriend at some point in his life.

So step back and review yourself and your wooing process...try to view it from an outsiders perspective without trying to justify your actions.

Hope this helps. smiley
if so why do I get people I sleep with?
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by dahmie2013: 9:27am On Aug 29, 2014
U men always think u're smart, u sleep with a lady dump her&come here seeking 4 pity. Wat of dose babes u were f^cking, can't u date dem? 4 ur mind, u're feeling like sumone dat can dump gals. Keep it up bro, ur search has just began, u've not seen nything yet.

There shud be a caveat on u cos, ur type will be plauged with diseases. Thank God 4 dose babes dat rejected u, dey're so lucky.

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:28am On Aug 29, 2014
onstelly:
Well don't know what else to say, let's just say maybe you keep on meeting the wrong people or the problem is from YOU
maybe the wrong people,the problem is not from me

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by hungryboy(m): 9:30am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: Lol.. Maybe you didn't read exactly what I wrote, I never said am a failure, as the matter of fact am happier than relationship people, I phuck more than people in a relationship
So tell me, wetin be your problem?
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:30am On Aug 29, 2014
dahmie2013: U men always think u're smart, u sleep with a lady dump her&come here seeking 4 pity. Wat of dose babes u were f^cking, can't u date dem? 4 ur mind, u're feeling like sumone dat can dump gals. Keep it up bro, ur search has just began, u've not seen nything yet.
Lol. I keep advising people to read before commenting, pls read my post over and over again, I never dated anyone talkless of dumping, those I had sex with wasn't interested in relationship, I met them by asking them to be my gf but they refused, even when we do have sex, they left on their own

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by onstelly(f): 9:31am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: maybe the wrong people,the problem is not from me
If you are so sure is not from you, then keep faith you will see her one day
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by lastchild: 9:32am On Aug 29, 2014
hungryboy: So tell me, wetin be your problem?
its not more like a problem,its more like a surprise to know if anyone here is in the same shoe
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by ideee03(f): 9:35am On Aug 29, 2014
Could be as a result of various reasons...either you pay them to sleep with you, or you r good in bed and you boast about it-even when wooing a lady-etc...like i metioned earlier step back and review,you might get helpful insights
lastchild: if so why do I get people I sleep with?

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by hungryboy(m): 9:36am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: its not more like a problem,its more like a surprise to know if anyone here is in the same shoe
I'm in your shoes too bro, but am still a youngster, but if i reach that your age i no suceed get atleast one girlfriend,
i go buy drink go beg my village people make them leave me alone.

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by onstelly(f): 9:37am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: if so why do I get people I sleep with?
Is not an Achievement bro, cos @ the end of the day you are still very lonely
Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by dahmie2013: 9:46am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: I wasn't all that bothered because I had sex more than people who have gf

That statement was what formed my opinion, especially d bolded one. Nywys, ur post didn't sound like u asked dem out b4 sleeping with dem, it sounded like u sleep with gals randomly&u"re feeling good abt it.

Apologies, but I hate it wen men try 2 take advantage of gals, it aches me. All d best in ur search, thank God I'm not a sucker 4 men, I njoy who I've turned out 2 become#teamsingle&independent

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by priscaoge(f): 9:49am On Aug 29, 2014
lastchild: if so why do I get people I sleep with?
Maybe U sleep with Runs girls. I guess U need to try something new,like d way n manner u ask ladies out,U might be cute but ur approach might turn them down IMO. Sleeping with ladies any time u want isn't an achievement my dear! And again just bear in mind that Some people are not favoured with this relationship stuff. Wish U luck!!!

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by priscaoge(f): 9:51am On Aug 29, 2014
dahmie2013:

That statement was what formed my opinion, especially d bolded one. Nywys, ur post didn't sound like u asked dem out b4 sleeping with dem, it sounded like u sleep with gals randomly&u"re feeling good abt it.

Apologies, but I hate it wen men try 2 take advantage of gals, it aches me. All d best in ur search, thank God I'm not a sucker 4 men, I njoy who I've turned out 2 become#teamsingle&independent
I love Ur comment my dear!!!


#TeamSingle&Independentgrin

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by nikkypearl(f): 9:55am On Aug 29, 2014
Stop sleeping around and get yourself a wife?for how long will u keep sleeping with different girls?
Mind you,having a girlfriend is not only limited to having sex with her!itz more fun when you have someone to play,share ideas,relax..with!

You missing alots big time!

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Re: 32 Years Old & Never Had A Girlfriend by Danhumprey: 9:56am On Aug 29, 2014
hungryboy: I'm in your shoes too bro, but am still a youngster, but if i reach that your age i no suceed get atleast one girlfriend,
i go buy drink go beg my village people make them leave me alone.
grin

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