Men are wonderful creatures that we can’t do without (There’s no point arguing about that).  We need their strength, support, care and love. At times some of us confuse a man’s constant invitation to his house and compliments for love while others are just blinded by the idea of finding Mr Right that when they meet a guy with 90 percent of the “criteria” they become satisfied and down for whatever. If you and your guy have decided to be friends with benefits with no strings attached then this really isn’t for you but if you’re in a committed relationship or you just met this guy and all he wants is sex or you’re not even sure about where you stand, then you should read this.


1. HE NEVER LETS YOU CHECK HIS PHONE He tends to be a bit secretive like he’s hiding something. If a man has nothing to hide he’ll be totally free around you and not be bothered if you find anything or not. He tries to distract you when you reach for his phone or begins to kiss you. These are signs that he has a gf and you’re the side chick or he just doesn’t want you snooping around.

2.HE ONLY CHATS YOU UP WHEN HE’S Hot If he doesn’t call you the whole day or for days then its a sign that he’s not into you. When he eventually calls, he says “Sorry I haven’t called but I miss you and wish you were here” *rolls eyes* you know what he wants.

3. HE DOESN’T TALK MUCH ABOUT HIMSELF When you ask about his family or work, he doesn’t say much or nothing at all.  He never wants to be as open as you are willing to be or talk about his emotions but will rather talk about how sexy you look and how he wants to try out new things in bed. If a man is in love with you, he’ll be willing to share his likes, fears and tell you about his family.

4.HE DOESN’T ASK ABOUT WORK,FRIENDS AND FAMILY This is also a major sign! He doesn’t show concern for your work or friends, he only wants you to himself (when he wants you). You always find yourself telling him about work, family or your adventures with friends instead of he asking you. If he really cares about you then he should be interested in knowing everything and anything concerning you, call you often and make you feel loved not lust after.

5. HE DOESN’T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FRIENDS/FAMILY If you haven’t met his friends or his family then he doesn’t find you worthy enough. If you think you’re in a serious relationship and he hasn’t invited you to hangout with his buddies then have a re-think. Whenever you ask about his family and you express hopes of meeting them, he tells you its unnecessary and turns you down.

6.HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE SEEN IN PUBLIC WITH YOU Now this just gives the cat out of the bag. There’s nothing as romantic as a public display of affection.  When you talk about going to the movies, he brings up some excuse about work or tells you how much he hates the cinema and prefers to cuddle up with you. He never wants to do anything fun with you or be seen in public with you instead he invites you to a date at his “house”. That’s not a date but a trick!  A man in love is never shy about his feelings

7.HE’S NOT VERY AFFECTIONATE WITH YOU If he’s not sweet, kind, fond, loving, caring, warm-hearted, devoted, supportive, tender with you and he constantly makes everything sexual, what other signs do you need? Its time to call it quits and find a serious gentleman for yourself.

I don't comment on mondays

he is only having sex.. shey?... what r u then having? xes?

All those you listed clearly shows he doesn't really love/like you. Does Not necessarily mean that he wants to just have sex with you. I do some of those stuffs when I don't like a girl, don't care whether I end up fukkkin her or not.

Why are guys always at the receiving end? What about 7 signs she is after sex only?

I do the opposite of these u mentioned when actually, I wanted sex. There's no definite formula cuz us the men have learnt 2 get what we want without raising dusts!

*furious
cc : Cikoloko

nas4q: I do the opposite of these u mentioned when actually, I wanted sex. There's no definite formula cuz us the men have learnt 2 get what we want without raising dusts!

Yea exactly. A guy can still do the opposite and still want only sex. It's all about tactics.

Op you are very correct

All these ladies thinking that they know niggas too well though

destante:
*furious
cc : Cikoloko

lol baby you know m different

Lol,,,,, am nat buying thz,,,,

Cikoloko: lol baby you know m different

Lol e show well well

Wat of 7 sign she wants our moni

Men are now worse than what we ladies think. A man can do the opposite of those things u just mentioned yet his intention is just to sleep with the lady. A man can allow u check his fone yet all he wants from the lady is just sex a man can introduce u to his family & friends & he will also tell them in a way that you the lady will not understand that you are not the right lady oh that he is just managing you.

Men are really worse than what we ladies think we need to wise up too as ladies oh.

That's true!




How to Sing More Clearly

chimerase2: Wat of 7 sign she wants our moni

Lol,,,
oh yeah ?

real22: Men are now worse than what we ladies think. A man can do the opposite of those things u just mentioned yet his intention is just to sleep with the lady. A man can allow u check his fone yet all he wants from the lady is just sex a man can introduce u to his family & friends & he will also tell them in a way that you the lady will not understand that you are not the right lady oh that he is just managing you.

Men are really worse than what we ladies think we need to wise up too as ladies oh.

Pls stop the generalization please,its shows immaturity!
No man will love a lady genuinely and do the above.
Even at that, there are men that will do the above and yet they are not after sex!

Dis kain thin no get formula guys too smart dem dey change d norm

True talk... Thanks @op

May God help us, my next generation, i go become man make i see somethings for myself, cos am tired of been told, weather is true or not, we just keep believing guys!

wat is true about it, ehn?

izaray: May God help us, my next generation, i go become man make i see somethings for myself, cos am tired of been told, weather is true or not, we just keep believing guys!

Lol,,,,, like you folks have a choice ?

izaray: May God help us, my next generation, i go become man make i see somethings for myself, cos am tired of been told, weather is true or not, we just keep believing guys!

NinoBrown888:


Lol,,,,, like you folks have a choice ?

Dat's my own taught 4 now, but i may still have a change of mind tho lol.

izaray: Dat's my own taught 4 now, but i may still have a change of mind tho lol.

Lol,,,,,and when would that be ?

True talk op.. i was once guilty of this i wont lie

Regenerated:
Pls stop the generalization please,its shows immaturity!
No man will love a lady genuinely and do the above.
Even at that, there are men that will do the above and yet they are not after sex!

plz do not insult me. Did I mention ur name are u an illiterate who told u I was generalising don't be stupid. I don't abuse ppl & I hate it when someone I don't no & was not even talking to abuse me.

By men, I mean men in the op's context that is I mean men who go around asking a lady out just to have sex with her. Never u quote me again if u don't understand my comment. U don't even understand my comment & u are quoting me.

una don tire me wit all dis 'romance' tips....when would a thread like...'how to get gainfully employed' make its debut here?.....sowie 4 booking dis space....lemme search for threads that would make me a better and more valuable human being

NinoBrown888:


Lol,,,,,and when would that be ?

Worry not, i will get u inform when dat time comes!

What about 7 signs that she's ready for sex?