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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Babyboy1986(m): 9:27am On Oct 08, 2014
U be leaner

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by justmag(m): 9:27am On Oct 08, 2014
ammyluv2002:
smh

he just booked a one way ticket to hell.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by omenka(m): 9:28am On Oct 08, 2014
Trust me, after all is said and done, your heart is what you gonna listen to.

Advice are meaningless in cases like this.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by merieam16(f): 9:28am On Oct 08, 2014
Be truthful 2 urself nd don't let it affect ur studies
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by PastorOluT(m): 9:29am On Oct 08, 2014
vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem
Hmm, the foundation was destroyed from the onset, u were dating a cultitst n knew he is a cultitst? Says much about u i guess.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by safarigirl(f): 9:30am On Oct 08, 2014
henryhemon:

All of a sudden she remembers he is a cultist,all along she was enjoing d D she didn't know?what's the guarantee the new guy isn't? Girlsually don't know what the want.
you know how you go to the market with the intention of buying a particular shoe, only to get there and find that the shoe you've wanted for so long has some defects nd there's a better, more attractive one on sale?

Same thing happens in relationships. Sometimmes you think you want one person, only to find there is someone out there far better for you. It's not like the first guy is bad, it's just that the second guy suits her more and he might be the one she was really waiting for while the first dude was a distraction

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:30am On Oct 08, 2014
There are 2 reasons why pple get killed in school,WOMAN & MONEY,i advice you if u lyk ur new bf's life,leave him alone,cuz that system man will murk him,trust me i knw wat am saying.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by understatement: 9:31am On Oct 08, 2014
Mtscheew..abeg who don see eclipse for in area?

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Richiy(f): 9:32am On Oct 08, 2014
You need to leave the both of them. Do not endanger yourself or another person.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:32am On Oct 08, 2014
vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Nigeria is now so bad that you find yourself with a cult guy and you termed him "nice".

There is no nice cult guys. They can kill by any minute.
You don enter one chance

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ugoezeik(m): 9:32am On Oct 08, 2014
equlibrium:

grin
elders are sleeping.
they will be here soon
lol mumu, wen did their let u go off quarantine center
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by austinbrown: 9:33am On Oct 08, 2014
U r simply confused, didn't u knw that he was a cultist b4?
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by wahles(m): 9:33am On Oct 08, 2014
The devil u v known is far better than d angel u v jst met# if u can make him quit smoking, u can make him quit d cult tin# if he is ready to keep u#dis is my 2kobo

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Davo93(m): 9:33am On Oct 08, 2014
samflexxy:
My advice for you will be to go back to your cultist boyfriend you might need his backup someday like when you get your sorry ass in dip shiit he'll be there to rescue you.
Never knew we still have people think this way in this modern world. SMH

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Busieman(m): 9:33am On Oct 08, 2014
Be focused.......take the stairs one after the other. You aren't on the stair of marriage yet. Infatuation is what you have for both guys.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by IHEKESON: 9:34am On Oct 08, 2014
tolaxin:
Yeah, Jesus has a big dick
Blasphemy!!!
Blast Femi embarassed

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Beennkumar(m): 9:34am On Oct 08, 2014
You were dating a cultist for 3 years. What did you expect? undecided

Well, I think you should continue with the cultist for the sake of your safety and that of your 'new love'

Or, you could pray the cultist gets killed. lipsrsealed

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Deefuray(f): 9:34am On Oct 08, 2014
Ditch the both of them
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by simon3603(m): 9:35am On Oct 08, 2014
Don't worry, let experience teach you miss lover.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by chismo007(m): 9:35am On Oct 08, 2014
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.


Thought u said u met him recently how come u av been crushing on him since sec.sch days abi na dream u bin dey c am? grin grin

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:35am On Oct 08, 2014
Davo93:
Never knew we still have people think this way in this modern world. SMH
common am just trying to be enthusiastic you can't take everything you see here serious

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Davo93(m): 9:36am On Oct 08, 2014
slap1:
You can't truly love two people at a time; because if you really love the first, you won't need the second.


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I know you won't take my advice but I'll just give it anyway: LEAVE BOTH OF THEM!
Why? You are sitting on a time bomb by dating a cultist. ( What kind of girl are you self?!)

I also feel the second guy knows you're crushing on him and is waiting to crush you back.

For safety sake, leave the second guy completely and pretend you still love the first one...maka ndu gi.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ugoezeik(m): 9:36am On Oct 08, 2014
henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.
if to say u de close to me nw I for blow u 7 hot but I jux de fear 14yrs. as for d topic? she will hate u b cos of dis gud advice

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by IbokUtoroh(m): 9:36am On Oct 08, 2014
wey i fit see captain black?
my ship is hovering around the bermuda triangle. abeg holla me if u c am.
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ugoezeik(m): 9:37am On Oct 08, 2014
justmag:
Leave them both n take ya asss to church. You need jesus!
yes bro. 7 tuale for u

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by adepiero: 9:38am On Oct 08, 2014
young lady, the blind truth is that you are a thief! if not, you won't ditch a guy you dated for 3yrs for a guy you knew as a kid. yes the guy is a cultist which automatically disqualified him but you didn't breakup with him when you found out until recently when you met ur old crush. Wat u feel for this new guy is infatuation and not love. FYI, you don't know anything about this new guy. he might be far worse than your cultist BF.

*the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know*

my advice, maintain a neutral stand and think of more important things like your academics and personal self.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by englishmart(m): 9:38am On Oct 08, 2014
Don't you worry, you will love to meet me too. wink
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:39am On Oct 08, 2014
This is the problem we women have. Who made u super man thinking u can change a man. Same reasons women marry wrong men believing he will change after marriage. Do you think it's easy to modify a behaviour. If u cannot cope wiv something don't stay and cry wolf when wahala start. As a young girl, u should never go into a relationship thinking u can change the man. In no get family member? Why they no fit change am.

Secondly, u have 2 options it's either u leave both of em or u stay wiv the cultists. Ma lo ba ye omolomo je o. Don't go and spoil the other guys life because of ur lost. Your cultists bf can do something nasty to the new guy. The choice is yours. Next time don't date a bad boy. Leave the bad boys for bad girls. grin



Sorry for being a bit harsh. U seem like a young girl from ur dp. We all make mistakes. U no won no d kind mistake I don make. wink just becareful. Cut them off totally or stay alone. Lastly you can join scripture union. That's another easy way of running.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Missonas(f): 9:40am On Oct 08, 2014
Davo93:
Never knew we still have people think this way in this modern world. SMH

cheesy nah advice him give na
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Princecharmin(m): 9:41am On Oct 08, 2014
tolaxin:
Yeah, Jesus has a big dick
idiat angry

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:41am On Oct 08, 2014
henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.


CONTENTED ,INFATUATION.

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