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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
To be honest the way it all seems, I dnt think this is real love... She is only after emotional comfort, and to me she seems to be going about it the wrong way. Personally most girls in her position would act instinctively because no one wants to be lonely, or feel used. If she is really genuine, she would draw closer for a while, without discussing her past relationship with you or trying to build what she knows will not last long.

Emotional comfort can only be found in Christ, Not guys..


I feel for her though.... but just apply wisdom with the decisions you make, so you dnt drive her to the deep end.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by falconey(m): 5:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
Sleep with each other 1st
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by sirjohnson(m): 5:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
Run for your life

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by onoja12: 5:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
Answer because women think men are stupid and they control us.(in the words of a close friend{you don't know}.)
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by dhamstar(m): 5:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
Then give it to her!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by deboraha(f): 5:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
Another thread to bash ladies.#them bashers will arrive soon#
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Heyliesha(m): 5:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
You done enter one chance bro
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
Just play along,while servicing her engine.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Oceemo(m): 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
:@Op u have already concluded in ur mind what do u want us 2 say? Cus I knw wat u already want. Cut ur share n clean ur mouth. P

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Lovexme(m): 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

I'm sure if you were in his shoes, you'd jump at the offer?

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by pelvicky(m): 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
Thats the problem of Nigeria girls...they know 4 sure that you truly love dem o and you care about them but they prefer that guy that will collect their mani nd still bang them like anytn...punishing the other guy by not acceptn

then, as at the tym u don give up dem go show...omo! I dnt take dem serious.

Source: personal experience

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by salvatore007(m): 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
Date her, in d nxt 5yrz dump ha.....
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by onoja12: 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
jump at the chance because watin the woman na Gold,or his life will end if shes not there,white man done deceive una finish.

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
You seem to have developed ill feelings for her. Your mind is already made up. Nothing we say in here will make you change your mind. Just keep on remaining a good friend to her, since you can't see anything good in her anymore...She'll still be the apple of other men's eyes. Assume the role of an advicer and confidant, not her boyfriend. Get rid of all these thoughts about her being used and dumped... It's not nice seeing her as garbage

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by wellmax(m): 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
I had a similar experience. I just told her, "I'm sorry I'd moved on and love my girl so much."

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Azazi(m): 5:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
no gree jor
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ok
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by blemon44(m): 5:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
For her to think that you are a spare tire depends on how women have used you.
But do you still love her like 2006?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 5:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
It's possible she loves you as she said but was not ready for d relationship than. Why not give her a chance if there is undecided

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by DEEMARIA(m): 5:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
sometime??
toecyne:
Hammer the kpekus for a sometime.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by JuicyGee(f): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
toecyne:
Hammer the kpekus for a sometime.

See ur big head angry

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by merieam16(f): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
I guess she didn't kno u luv her dat much,buh if u still luv her go ahead wif her,dez nofin wrong in it
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by FrenchyL(m): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
Things don hard am oh! grin grin grin grin grin Now the ball is in your court but if you are not interested in her please do not give her any hope abeg. I wish you the best.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Tenim47(m): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
Na do ur best nd leav d rest
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by tosyne2much(m): 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
Bwahahaha roflmao.. OP , I could not but reading each sentence.. You are just so funny my guy
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by solomonbrown64: 5:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
...Well, Friendzone is actually "back up"......sadly you have been that "back-up" for five years...sincerely, brother u tried oh....lol...
and now she wants to put that back- up to use after the break-down of the first....buh, she forgot one thing...you aren't her property!!!!....
On a serious note, that gal is wicked oh.....five years on the back heel...chai!

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Lovexme(m): 5:18pm On Oct 09, 2014
great1:
To be honest the way it all seems, I dnt think this is real love... She is only after emotional comfort, and to me she seems to be going about it the wrong way. Personally if she was really intelligent, she would draw closer for a while, without discussing her past relationship with you.

Emotional comfort can only be found in Christ, Not guys..

By 'guys', you mean both gender, right?

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