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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:49pm On Oct 09, 2014
Sunshinelady:
@OP, d grl u r datin now or d grl u will even marry , u tink say oda guys never still knack d kpekus (as u pple wuld say) abi? & u nko 4dose past 5yrs havnt grls been knackin u too? D truth is dat mayb u never rilly loved her in d frst place
Oshi
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by KingTom(m): 6:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
MzMariah:
Deal with which one kwa Na so friend zoning dey pain? grin the thing don pain you whalai. cheesy
That thing pain pass guys gonorrhea o grin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by mexzony: 6:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
You must really be sick to expect the guy to date her.
A guy who told her he loves her six years ago and yet she went to have the fun of her life thinking all is rosy and now she suddenly comes back.
You think guys are fools or did you not read the whole story.
Selfish girls like you are the reason why men don't value girls in this day and age.
How would you feel if it were you a guy did this too.
You can't friendzone a guy for that long and expect him to just love you like that or did you expect the guy to just wait for her all this time.
You girls should stop being selfish and put your self in the guys shoes for once.
I know you want to defend the girls but for goodness sake this girls has galivanted for 6 years and now suddenly remembers a dude who told her he loved her "6 years ago".
Be real for once.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by McDanD(m): 6:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 09, 2014
KingTom:
That thing pain pass guys gonorrhea o grin
Hahaha. So e pain you too? Tell me about it. wink
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by harryoc: 6:52pm On Oct 09, 2014
Guy ur head dey deir
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by udemzyudex(m): 6:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ignore her bro... Forget about nacking gbegus,just tell her u're ok with being a friend...



Thats all...
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
I guess this is "show her" time. I hope the gal flees for her soul.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
MzMariah:
Deal with which one kwa Na so friend zoning dey pain? grin the thing don pain you whalai. cheesy
e no dey pain but some girls nor sabi friendzone guys... Dem go do am like say person na sh1t and na dat 1 me nor like nd u go pay for am when u do such.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by OmoEziokwu: 6:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

The rationalization hamster is at it again. You females are unbelievable.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
God purnish you.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by KingTom(m): 6:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
MzMariah:
Hahaha. So e pain you too? Tell me about it. wink
I played truth or dare with her o, she then forced me to open a thread about her after that she will lipsrsealed I did as I was told only to be Friendzoned by her grin grin grin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
2sExy1:
e no dey pain but some girls nor sabi friendzone guys... Dem go do am like say person na sh1t and na dat 1 me nor like nd u go pay for am when u do such.
Lmao. That babe really do you strong thing. grin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 6:56pm On Oct 09, 2014
Hackin:
Hear yourself! ifymusa u can't eat ur cake and still hv it .
[color=#006600][/color]you kn d kind courage wai dat gal take come bck?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:57pm On Oct 09, 2014
KingTom:
I played truth or dare with her o, she then forced me to open a thread about her after that she will lipsrsealed I did as I was told only to be Friendzoned by her grin grin grin
Hehehe. Did I friend zone you Na you friend zone me na undecided
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by YankeeJoe(m): 6:57pm On Oct 09, 2014
1one:
It just feels like more than half of the replies I've been reading especially from guys are guys between 17-22years old..

"Knack am"

"Hammer am"

"Chop am"

"Give am akpakpo"


Really are your lives habitually hinged on sex?
Is it your necessary-you can't do without it-food

I find it even shady and questionable as to why the OP chose to bring his "plight" here... What exactly do you want us to do or tell you... You've "combed" her already (hopefully you didn't carry dandruff along with the combing exercise), you've made up your mind to use and get your "fair data usage" from her.... So what really is your point.


Truth is inspite of all your smack talk, I feel you still have a thing for her, there's a mixed blend of hurt, bitterness and anger in your post, in fact your post is very thick with it... But still I sense some subliminal attraction that you feel for her and that's why you're particularly hurt.. You're not just bitter because she sees you as a readily available spare tyre, but you're also hurt because you're still "feeling" the girl.


It's normal to feel cheated and used by someone you loved years back but friendzoned you only to come back later on to profess love for you... But thing is this is life... There are most times no black or white... But many grey areas... You may not have been mature enough for her then... She may not really truly have liked you or loved you enough back then, but as the years grew by, she got to learn more and more about you and hence the attraction...



Enough tori jare.. No be my matter... I've already written too long... Sorry for my boring piece.





for ur plastic mind, u think sey, u too sabi english abi? Beta stil, why dnt u go for since u feel u re more sensible than evry oda rational being here.. Call a spade a spade

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by AnonymustME(m): 6:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

waz this one saying?...
she obviously doesn't like him if not she would have jumped at the chance to date him back then.... after collecting a variety of dicks from other guys she is now into him

Op shed more light abeg...I'm sure you are in a better financial situation now than you were 5 years ago...hence the sudden change of heart

she probably sees marriage prospects with you
and has satisfied all di.ck cravings
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by decode55(m): 6:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

you're absolutely nuts to utter such a statement,


its when other dudes have used & dumped her that's when she remembered the guy that has always been by her side

SMH


Nigerian females sha

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
I...diot like you. He should jump on what chance to prove what? I wonder why Op is still in contact with the so called lady to the extent of talking about starting a relationship. Ladies like you think you can always make your decisions and have it reversed. Perfect description for ladies= Confused Beings.!!!
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by zyzxx(m): 6:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
all is well @least she made her intention knwn to u
I believe u don't love her
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by KingTom(m): 7:00pm On Oct 09, 2014
MzMariah:
Hehehe. Did I friend zone you Na you friend zone me na undecided
Yimu who said anything about you, abi your conscience don dey judge you grin grin grin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Fourwinds: 7:01pm On Oct 09, 2014
toecyne:
Hammer the kpekus for a sometime.
oboy u fear me oooo. d moment I read OP post finish na u comment I first see. I almost ran out of d thread. abeg dis ur advice heavy ooo
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 7:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
KingTom:
Yimu who said anything about you, abi your conscience don dey judge you grin grin grin
No o, I'm innocent. grin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 7:05pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
Hehehe...does anyone willfully choose hand-me-downs over new stuff?

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by McDanD(m): 7:05pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
'delusion of grandeur'! Dnt no y SOME ladies bliv dey can eat their cake n hav it back. Smh 4u cos ur type r destined 2 go frm one crusade to anoda night vigil wen naped out of fantasies....#noinsultpls
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Daresh(f): 7:06pm On Oct 09, 2014
I dont understand all the noise. If you still like her date her. If you dont like her don't date her. Everyone has their opinion on NL only you know how you feel about her. After all it's not like you didn't sleep with other girls in the 6 year period.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by dammytosh: 7:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
Enemy zone her.

She just finished enjoying herself and coming back home.

That guy she was crazy about no gree.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Henrick007: 7:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
didadavid:
You are in for hell. Run for ya life.

PS: That bastard guy that caused google to close down Linda's blog has come out to speak, justifying why he did it...See that one Here
where?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 7:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
Fourwinds:
oboy u fear me oooo. d moment I read OP post finish na u comment I first see. I almost ran out of d thread. abeg dis ur advice heavy ooo
My oga no fear, na which play Lion dey follow goat play than to hammer am.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by tania28(f): 7:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
vislabraye:


If you were in the guy's shoes, U will do the same. No one likes to be seen as 2nd option, talkless of 3rd or 4th option. It's annoying enough. Probably the guy is now well to do or has a bright prospect so she wants to key in.
I understand u perfectly,but he already knows ‎​What he wants.no need busing around the bush,he shouldsave her time n his too.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ogaprime(m): 7:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
@op am not in support of you chopping and cleaning mouth so am not going with the crowd...for me you are at fault for standing around like you still have interest in her thereby making you her last resort or back up to fall on just in case the" bad boys" can't take her to the altar...so just sit her down and tell the truth that
YankeeJoe:
She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.
So you two should continue that way. Peace!!!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by KingTom(m): 7:18pm On Oct 09, 2014
MzMariah:
No o, I'm innocent. grin
Guilty geh! Abeg Op you can never be spare tyre o... just dance abeg grin come o you sabi wether she get STD grin

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