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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by chimauk(m): 10:23pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
salvatore007:Omo u wicked o |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ihedinobi2: 10:23pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
1one:Is it inconceivable that he would be everything you said that he may not have been and more and she just was being immature herself? I agree that life is full of non-absolutes but that does not eliminate the existence of absolutes, my friend. Some things are wrong no matter how excusable they may seem. Some things are right no matter how inconvenient they may seem. That story he told is not a nice one. It's not a painless or kind one. If you are a man at all and have loved you know that when men love they become terribly vulnerable. They expose the most vulnerable parts of their lives to the one they love. This guy presumably loved a woman who did not deem him worthy of her love. You say she may have learned over time to love him back? That's why it took till her ex went all wrong all of a sudden for her to realize that he was the right man all along? Look, I know that people make mistakes and all. I never knew how much I could forgive and tolerate personally until I chose to love...twice. But I'll tell you straight up, this is an open-and-shut case. A very simple matter. She does not deserve him. And accepting her now is a big risk. But if he has the capacity to forgive her rejection of him before then he should not waste a moment before accepting her back. If he doesn't, he should just move on. I did notice that he said he moved on and found somebody else. That's one problem with these things. You have torn loyalties. If this were me, it would not even be possible for the girl to get close enough to me again if I'm with somebody else. I have to still be single to be that available. 2 Likes |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 10:26pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Hanibal:You b mumu... Start as friends and see if you will come out alive. 2 Likes |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ihedinobi2: 10:26pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
tania28:Is it still a mistake when you walk into a mud pit with your eyes open wearing your best dress? |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ochon: 10:32pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Daresh: Total Bullshìt @the embolden words Jump ko, fly ni. She be gold? |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ikekings(m): 10:44pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Nihilist:Lmao.. Oh lawd! See wickedness.. Boys are not smiling.. 1 Like |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ihedinobi2: 10:44pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
@YankeeJoe, bro, if you are in another relationship already, devote your strength to making it work. Don't just damage somebody else's life for an old flame. If you're not, here is the truth: Love is very forgiving, so forgiving that it is infuriating. I promise you I know. You can handle forgiving her if she means enough to you. But understand that she's not your last option. She's not the magic pill that will fix everything. Not unless you yourself name her that for reasons that you are in full acceptance of. You can find somebody else that you can love the way you loved her. It's happened to me twice. So if you choose her make sure it's not because you feel frustrated about finding somebody else. If you choose her you have to understand that you must wipe the slate clean. You can't EVER talk about how she was anything or did anything. You will treat her like a pure virgin with no stain on her honor. That is what forgiveness means. If you can't do that, let her go now. It may not be easy for you. It may take some time before you totally lose any thoughts of her past. But if you commit to it you will accomplish it. 1 Like |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 10:48pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
[color=#006600][/color] pascyj:Gals re fast Learners they ve learned frm d guys |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by chibyke2x(m): 10:56pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
This time u need to think wit ur dick. afterwards u make use of ur sense. |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
[color=#006600][/color] sage2:Let him tell her d truth and let her be more over planty pipo dey wait |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:02pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Daresh: You talk as if she's doing him a favour by being his friend. Jump ko fly ni |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by amalex(f): 11:03pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
My dear,4get all these ple dat said u shld have sex wiv her and leave her. U said u have a gf ryt? And I guess u love ur gf? So y do u disturb urslf wiv wot d girl says she wants? If u really have a gf and u love her,then don't let wot d girl is asking u bother u dear...wen u needed her,she turned u down,so don't give a damn to wot she's saying and focus on wot is ryt infront of u(ur own gf) and knw if anything good wld come out of it. She sld find another guy 4 all I care,bt pls,never u slp wiv her,cus u myt regret it leta. I rest my judgemnet 1 Like |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 11:03pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
2sExy1:[color=#006600][/color]hey dat bros no Mumu at all na him talk d correct thing |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by sassydave: 11:03pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
YankeeJoe: Make the girl go look bush, she nor deserve you. |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:05pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
YankeeJoe: Bros shebi uve combed her, let her go then. Not like ur right for the poor lady anyways from the way u talk. Im no advocate for being a dummy for ladies but mehn u really dont like the girl so back off and let ur deep seated desire for revenge slide.... pity her. |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by delors(m): 11:08pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
rozzay:Dem go come here come dey form super woman like one thing one thing...All of una na china product! |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by akinz4u(m): 11:09pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
great1:best post i've seen so far |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Glexxx: 11:17pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
I 1da wen babes go learn..u c a 9ice guy,u wud turn him 2 friend...guy no accept dat gal..if na me,na chop n quench. |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Daresh:Nne, d thunder that will fire you...dey come |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:25pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
deboraha:Udonmeanit!!! |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:27pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
salvatore007:U wicked sha. Lol |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:28pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
ifymusa:Are you sure u're not the one? |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:30pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:31pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
merieam16:Nne. Love has expiry date |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by rexibity(m): 11:32pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
U sound like a force Man... |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:32pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
tosyne2much:Hmm, odiegwu |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 11:48pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Henrick007: Under that hairy place |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by opsynea2j(m): 11:52pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
After testing the waters of sharks n crocodiles wt her 2 feet. Now she wants to wrap u up like sharwama .. If u fink u still love her, carry go BUT u don't have my blessings !! Just tell her u proposed to ur gf on oct 1st and introducion is Dec 25th. Give her d job to be ur wedding planner. Fair enuf. Friends forever !!! |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by nellyhandsom(m): 11:56pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Daresh: |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Diction10nairal: 11:57pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Daresh:haaaaa u be bad market............ |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by gen2lpatty(m): 12:13am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Guess she was 25 when she friend-zoned him. |
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by wizhaywhy(m): 12:27am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Daresh: afta 5yrs? Mtchewww love ko love ni. REVENGE AIN'T BITCH. |
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