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Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 11, 2014
RedBenson:


Okini kwa? Or kilo sele?
Stop joor is it not cos I went to ur ashawo thread. Oya help me talk to him as my broda dat u are
Re: Advise From Nlanders by chimerase2: 12:05pm On Oct 11, 2014
Give him sometin to drink undecided
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 12:07pm On Oct 11, 2014
chimerase2:
Give him sometin to drink undecided
Like wat sir
Re: Advise From Nlanders by chimerase2: 12:09pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Like wat sir
like otapiapia undecided
Is cheap undecided

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Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 11, 2014
chimerase2:
like otapiapia undecided
Is cheap undecided
So dey sent u to kill my husband abi. If not dat u r a pastor I would have ban u. Lolz
Re: Advise From Nlanders by chimerase2: 12:20pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

So dey sent u to kill my husband abi. If not dat u r a pastor I would have ban u. Lolz
u knw amu a minster of the gospel, amu always led by the spirit so dnt condemn me dota of zion cheesy
Re: Advise From Nlanders by valdes00(m): 12:23pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

U seeee u know he can't. Dey r all after him like leeches. Hmmmm
We both knw he can,,,,,, I hop u knw dat d kind of privilege dat applies to guys does nt apply to ladies...... Guys wil always b guys
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Stop joor is it not cos I went to ur ashawo thread. Oya help me talk to him as my broda dat u are

ese kini? Wetin i do?
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 11, 2014
Hmm, olubukato have got a nice cat though
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:15pm On Oct 11, 2014
toecyne:
Hmm, olubukato have got a nice cat though
Eerm cat?
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:16pm On Oct 11, 2014
RedBenson:


ese kini? Wetin i do?
One new joint dey ma area ill come later to give d address
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Eerm cat?
Yh cat grin grin
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 11, 2014
toecyne:

Yh cat grin grin
Am not a cat o. Lolz
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

If u check it sis am not flirting like dat o na dem dey disturb me o, how abt dat
if they disturb u, start the conversations with. My brother or good friend, after one week them go know say u don "brother and friend zone" them. cheesy grin
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:22pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Am not a cat o. Lolz
grin grin novice grin grin
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:24pm On Oct 11, 2014
samisparkle24:

Thats a fat lie, there are lots of guys here that will give her a shoulder to cry on. She will be fine
avoid guys like this and their e-shoulders. Na let's sexchat, phone intimacy and show me ur n*de go end am. grin angry
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 11, 2014
toecyne:

grin grin novice grin grin
Tell me na
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 11, 2014
benromeo39:
avoid guys like this and their e-shoulders. Na let's sexchat, phone intimacy and show me ur n*de go end am. grin angry
I don run tey tey sef. Thank u ma
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 11, 2014
Enjoyed those comments
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

One new joint dey ma area ill come later to give d address

That's why i/we luv u. We'll be expecting u. Meanwhile, i dont want anyone getting jealous on how we get flirted online or otherwise. Hope say if we reach there holla at u, we got meet u plus?
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Sleekyshuga(f): 1:47pm On Oct 11, 2014
Hmmmm... Never knew NL have real couples grin...

Eeeermmmm... Online flirting causing issues for both parties cheesy... Dear, it's natural for a man to be jealous over his possession.. I'll rather advice you limit it pls, for the sake of the relationship(that's if you so value it)... Like you rightly said, he met you this way, but what happened to 'CHANGE'? Rules are bent for those we love...

The idea of, 'I'll stop if he stops' isn't d best shoot... Work on yourself first... You are the lady... You know what you want... Any dude that pose as a threat to your relationship, you press the 'IGNORE BUTTON'..


The discipline should start with you 1st, and trust me, he'll follow suit.. He is human, and if he has got the heart of love, he'll definitely sacrifice his e-flirtatious habit for you..

#Best cool
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 11, 2014
RedBenson:


That's why i/we luv u. We'll be expecting u. Meanwhile, i dont want anyone getting jealous on how we get flirted online or otherwise. Hope say if we reach there holla at u, we got meet u plus?
Seti beere I go give una address but una no go see me (for security reasons) grin
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 11, 2014
Sleekyshuga:
Hmmmm... Never knew NL have real couples grin...

Eeeermmmm... Online flirting causing issues for both parties cheesy... Dear, it's natural for a man to be jealous over his possession.. I'll rather advice you limit it pls, for the sake of the relationship(that's if you so value it)... Like you rightly said, he met you this way, but what happened to 'CHANGE'? Rules are bent for those we love...

The idea of, 'I'll stop if he stops' isn't d best shoot... Work on yourself first... You are the lady... You know what you want... Any dude that pose as a threat to your relationship, you press the 'IGNORE BUTTON'..


The discipline should start with you 1st, and trust me, he'll follow suit.. He is human, and if he has got the heart of love, he'll definitely sacrifice his e-flirtatious habit for you..

#Best cool
Hmmmm I mean am speechless thank u so very much dear, I rily appreciate, nd I will change cos I love him nd he s d no 1 on my scale. Thank u
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Seti beere I go give una address but una no go see me (for security reasons) grin

U fit show that thread now make we yarn am dia?
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 11, 2014
Am still waiting for my oga xynerise to come and give his own say o its paramount
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Sleekyshuga(f): 2:09pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Hmmmm I mean am speechless thank u so very much dear, I rily appreciate, nd I will change cos I love him nd he s d no 1 on my scale. Thank u
Most welcome, boo kiss.
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 2:09pm On Oct 11, 2014
RedBenson:


U fit show that thread now make we yarn am dia?
Haba now you no go let dis mata die down first abi u wan render me bf less. Calm down first ayam coming
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Sanchez01: 2:15pm On Oct 11, 2014
Most guys can't stand seeing their ladies flirt. They feel threatened by it and that explains why some of us use the aggressive means to make our hurts known. Double standards does not apply, trust me. My recommendation is that you sit your man down, explain things and make him see reasons why your online personality is different from the real you in person. More importantly, I believe it is high time you 'upped' your trust levels because the whole thing bothers on trust. It is worthless being in a relationship devoid of trust. Everything still falls back on you though smiley
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 2:23pm On Oct 11, 2014
Sanchez01:
Most guys can't stand seeing their ladies flirt. They feel threatened by it and that explains why some of us use the aggressive means to make our hurts known. Double standards does not apply, trust me. My recommendation is that you sit your man down, explain things and make him see reasons why your online personality is different from the real you in person. More importantly, I believe it is high time you 'upped' your trust levels because the whole thing bothers on trust. It is worthless being in a relationship devoid of trust. Everything still falls back on you though smiley
Haba u just blamed all on me tis not fair o, diarisgod

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Re: Advise From Nlanders by Sanchez01: 2:30pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Haba u just blamed all on me tis not fair o, diarisgod
Lolz... Not really smiley. What I actually meant is that you might have sent some wrong signals to him already and the best way to put his mind at rest is by 're-assuring' him. The perfect way to go about re-assuring him is for him to earn your trust (once again or more). Naturally, the need to flirt comes, even without ulterior motives, but still, the other person does not understand because to them it is a threat - more like saying 'I'm seeing a better person in this new fellow'
Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 2:36pm On Oct 11, 2014
Sanchez01:

Lolz... Not really smiley. What I actually meant is that you might have sent some wrong signals to him already and the best way to put his mind at rest is by 're-assuring' him. The perfect way to go about re-assuring him is for him to earn your trust (once again or more). Naturally, the need to flirt comes, even without ulterior motives, but still, the other person does not understand because to them it is a threat - more like saying 'I'm seeing a better person in this new fellow'
Ok dear thank u, ill work on dat

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Re: Advise From Nlanders by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 11, 2014
rozzay:

Haba now you no go let dis mata die down first abi u wan render me bf less. Calm down first ayam coming

Bf plenty for market. If one go, another one dey market. Abeg come o make we go rub minds.

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