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softsparkyy:
I like shy guys especially in bed.

plaetton:
You are wrong on all counts.
First, being shy and introvert does not equate to lacking confidence. No sir.
In fact, introverts have an over-abundance of confidence, that is what makes them meek and sensible.

The more one talks, the more one's tongue is likely to misrepresent one's thoughts and intentions.

When you are very confident, your thoughts, words and actions are very well co-ordinated to achieve the most with the least noise.


Extroverts, on the other hand, have an over-abundance of FALSE confidence, confidence in ephemeral things .
There is a saying that " bullies are cowards " and "an empty vessel makes the most noise " . These perfectly encapsulate the extrovert character.

Introverts are deep thinkers who ponder on ideas, issues and events that have universal significance.
They are therefore the architects of the policies that affect global events.

A simple roll call and biography of the past and present most influential world leaders would show that a far greater percentage of them are or were introverts.

The truth is that introverts, despite all the noisy rackus from extroverts, rule the world.

GlorifiedTunde:
Mr man are you introverted? Because all she said ain't lies at all!

I have them as friends and like I said in my earlier post, they're faithful.

But borin, shy and lack if confidence is very true.

Even to present a seminar na wahala, they can't look at the audience.

And most of them live their world in their own, I know one who'd rather spend more hours playing video games than gisting with his wife. Its like stress for him.

cryptography:
you're very wrong...... i'm an introvert, but when it's time for serious business, i get serious, which means i can hold official conversation, partake in a debate, and speak in public............ serious businesd is serious business, anything outside that is dimunitive

glitest:
Exactly!!!!!!!They are the best husbands...... Problem is, I can't seem to find them.

Hadizy:
But u forgot to add that these set of people are bold online.

softsparkyy:
Just watch him misbehave... they are satisfied easily and won't even ask you for more. They are always happy after straffing.

GlorifiedTunde:
OK,maybe an exception

Ololade1999:
Its a lie. I am extreme introvert who hates and avoid leadership role but when i have no other choice than to lead, i lead and perform excellently and perfectly
.we can never be sidelined infact people trust us with leadership roles than our extrovert counterparts because we are honest faithfully and brilliant

priscaoge:
Hahhahahahahahahha . This girl yaf spoil finish ooooo

philtrum:
From a Nerdy point of view( when I say nerdy I mean the kind of nerd who doesn't sleep becos he needs to find a way to create free energy that's constant enough to power all the gadgets in his room.24/7..) I think you have not searched in the right places....
A lot of guys on nairaland are nerds, literature section(poets), programming section or science and technology...

Ololade1999:
Honestly, every she said described me personally. To add to what she said, we are very choosy when we talk of choosing friends but keep that friendship for lifelong. i still keep a very cordial relationship with my J.S 1 close friend(close to 2 decades now). i use to sleep in his house anytime i want before i left the country. i also have a guy from my SSS 1 days that we are forever inseparable. i love living a very quiet life.even some of my classmates dont know me. you cant say every woman wants a leader and what makes you think shy guys cant be good leaders.You seems not to understand women.What a woman want is someone who is able to live to his responsibilities as a man and not an irresponsible guy, someone who will treat and respect her very well and someone who is faithful, honest, purpose driven and diligent. one of my exs that complained that i was too quiet , gentle and use to avoid social life left me with the help of her friends and got married to an extrovert.Today, she is regretting of quitting that relationship and not being patient cos i so understand and know her more than any other guy(even than her present husband).

softsparkyy:
Your girlfriend one?

plaetton:
You are wrong on all counts.
First, being shy and introvert does not equate to lacking confidence. No sir.
In fact, introverts have an over-abundance of confidence, that is what makes them meek and sensible.

]The more one talks, the more one's tongue is likely to misrepresent one's thoughts and intentions

When you are very confident, your thoughts, words and actions are very well co-ordinated to achieve the most with the least noise.


Extroverts, on the other hand, have an over-abundance of FALSE confidence, confidence in ephemeral things .
There is a saying that " bullies are cowards " and "an empty vessel makes the most noise " . These perfectly encapsulate the extrovert character.

Introverts are deep thinkers who ponder on ideas, issues and events that have universal significance.
They are therefore the architects of the policies that affect global events.

A simple roll call and biography of the past and present most influential world leaders would show that a far greater percentage of them are or were introverts.

The truth is that introverts, despite all the noisy rackus from extroverts, rule the world.

THAINDIVIDUAL:
A shy person "cannot" be a leader, brother.

You are generalising, extroverts are not irresponsible but are likable people. People that will show you how the world works. People that will make experience life.

Extroverts get things easily unlike introvert because of the easy way of relating to people.

Extroverts to hold grudges on people for long. They live life as it comes.
Introverts are only good as scientists, philosophers, etc.
They aren't social.

Her living you to marry an extrovert doesn't mean all extroverts will have failed marriages, ok.
I know some extroverts who live very good life. Husband will take his wife to the pitch and they'll ball.

Introverts are cool but are not the best lovers bro.

ggirl4real:
I hate introverted guys with so much passion. I can't stand a guy who can't initiate communication, cannot defend himself all in d name of being peaceful. I can tell u dat most of these introverted guys r just pretenders (they r wolves in sheep clothing). They look gentle, calm and walk as if they can't hurt a fly, wen u go near dem, u discover dey r worst dan d extroverted ones. I hate introverted guys o.

#talking from experience#

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

Missmossy:
Don't know why this list makes little or no sense to me. Who says shy introverted guys don't cheat?

What a funny assertion. Some pretend though. Ladies,whatever rocks your boat.

maximunimpact:
D only truth here is just d reverse side of all u have said, guyz who are not shy end up with d best girls, is not lyk shy guy even have any choice of woman, d women more often chose dem nt dem makin a pick

softsparkyy:
Valmunich know say I no dey lie.

softsparkyy:
Just watch him misbehave... they are satisfied easily and won't even ask you for more. They are always happy after straffing.