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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Anka(m): 9:08pm On Oct 13, 2014

Any female single medical psychologist here? Or a lawyer. ℓ̊ need to talk to one. If there is any,just quote me here and send your contact so we can talk. ℓ̊ am running nut. Pls were are u based? U v to take it easy as two wrongs don't make a right. Just that ur wife is going the wrong way. Pls don't go back to dating other girls. Pls I need to know ur location so I can advise appropraitely.

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by ogaprime(m): 9:10pm On Oct 13, 2014

Royal30:

coming from a matured mind......the best advice in this thread..infact God bless u

Women issues should be treated maturely and calmly...... OP, if ure wise u will follow this advice maturely too

Thanks to God and thanks to you...its for greater good. God bless you too..

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Fourwinds: 9:11pm On Oct 13, 2014

AmberQueen:

yes his wife is grinding her pus..sy on a banana rock. she told d man and man knew about it.hmmmm

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by liongirl: 9:14pm On Oct 13, 2014

Pls am confused too advise me

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Luckygurl(f): 9:18pm On Oct 13, 2014

pedro08:
Soooooooo annoying,even if a man cheats,dat doesn't giv d wife d same incentive to do such.I resent women who can't keep their asses in their hubby's home.oga pls do d needful,u re a man.if u re in benin,I would hav shown u d most exotic places to pick endearing babes with nice curves.

Men have all the liberty to cheat whereas the female counterparts are restricted from doing so. I wonder where people get this kind of orientation

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 9:18pm On Oct 13, 2014

Mod please remove this from FrontPage. U would only invite chewing gum girls and boys that have never had a successful relationship to give marriage advise.

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by san316(m): 9:18pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:

This isn't a story at all. Its a real life situation that ℓ̊ have found myself. It didn't happen to someone and ℓ̊ didn't read it someplace. Its happening to me as ℓ̊ type this.

A friend ℓ̊ met here some days ago knows about this cos ℓ̊ just needed to talk to someone!

u must b sure dt she's realy sleepin arnd cos she may gv u d idea dt she is. in orda to spite u whereas she's nt. when u r sure dt she's sleepin arnd, sit ha dwn, appeal to ha to cal truce. if she refuses to stop, send ha to ha parents.

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Donykua: 9:19pm On Oct 13, 2014

You did wrong, Yes, but ur wife is committing an ABOMINATiON. Under ur roof? This is not allow in this part of d World. Truth is bitter. Love wt ur heart not wt ur head. Pls iam not encouraging divorce.

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by san316(m): 9:20pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:

This isn't a story at all. Its a real life situation that ℓ̊ have found myself. It didn't happen to someone and ℓ̊ didn't read it someplace. Its happening to me as ℓ̊ type this.

A friend ℓ̊ met here some days ago knows about this cos ℓ̊ just needed to talk to someone!

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Raypawer(m): 9:21pm On Oct 13, 2014

MRbrownJAY:

bro, the only reason you are writing the above is because you are DESPERATE for toto, NOT because you are truly sorry for what you did or understand that it was wrong. i mean look at what you posted only yesterday on NL:

and yet you expect your wife to be sorry for your cheating self?! we all know what type of "friend" you are looking for.....

dude of ur in this guys situation, u go pursue women pass am, d guy z confused at this point and needs a Pastor and a marriage Councillor!

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by redcloud(m): 9:24pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:
Any female single medical psychologist here? Or a lawyer. ℓ̊ need to talk to one. If there is any,just quote me here and send your contact so we can talk. ℓ̊ am running nut

you don't need them. You need to talk to yourself. What do you want? A woman who could kill you any day for a slight mistake or a woman who is ready to be a wife? No woman with the heart of a mother will cheat and say it to the man's face. But let me guess; you married at 27. That means your wife could be older than you or probably the bread winner. If any or both of them are true then your marriage will need God's intervention to work.

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by kenex4ever(m): 9:26pm On Oct 13, 2014

Tallesty1:
Start bringing women home.

Tell her to sleep at the boy's quarter or guest room when your gf visits

Or better still sacrifice her to the gods of your village.

BTW this is nairaland not Egypt

So stop writing in codes.

But on serious note@OP. I don't advice you to do anything to safe your marriage.

To cheat on a man is a big crime and to speak it to his face and dare him is another serious offense.

Bundle her back to her parents before she kills you.

U just spoke my mind

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by chlowi(f): 9:28pm On Oct 13, 2014

EfemenaXY:
This thread isn't real jare.

What full blooded male - a Naija brother for that matter - would take this on the chin with such a sheepish attitude?

@OP is just seeking some fun entertainment this Sunday Evening.

Was gonna say same. Till I found you comment

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Pamcrest(f): 9:28pm On Oct 13, 2014

Op, what do u do, u ask? When u confessed yr own misdeeds what did she do? So go n do likewise naa.
Just cool down n let her go through this passing phase......have Patience n continue to love her! grin

My humble submission

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by stanmorry(m): 9:32pm On Oct 13, 2014

coogar:
to be fair to her, she's correct!

you cheated once, it's only fair you get your comeuppance. don't worry yourself too much - she's done the deed already. dust yourself up & pretend everything is a dream.

you have a poor reasoning, why did you say things like dat

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Mariopgomery(m): 9:32pm On Oct 13, 2014

Well i think she is just using the fact that you cheated to justify her cheating self... Even if you never cheated on her, a woman like this would still cheat but the only difference is she wont tell you.

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 9:32pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

There is a saying that goes " An eye for an eye, leaves the world blind.." because u cheated, she feels it's alright for her to do the same.... what if in the process of trying to pay u back in ur own coin she gets infected with a deadly STD or worse...? There is a limit to which stuff like that should be allowed... what example is she showing your daughter.... yet she feels unperturbed by her actions and she's rubbing it in ur face... invariably telling u how weak u are... yes you messed up and u owned up to ur mistake remorseful and changed... but she chooses to mess around with a few other men... and u are feeling bad? How are u so sure she wasn't before u even married her? Dude... The only excuse the bible allows a divorce is INFIDELITY... she enjoys it u say... pack what's left of ur life and find a better woman... cos this one can kill u if things get beyond her control...

Most women underestimate their roles in the house.... Only a woman can keep the home together... that is the role of the woman... she's the backbone of the bond within a family... If she ain't playing that role... you're just living with ur baby mama... so my advice to u... its hard and harsh... but let her go with her boyfriend... so she won't cause bodily harm to u... or you kids... cos that kinda woman thinks about herself alone... Get a divorce... no amount of counselling can bring her back

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by vislabraye(m): 9:32pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

You should call for a truce. You both should start on a clean slate. But who knows if she'll keep to her side ?

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by bobfash(m): 9:35pm On Oct 13, 2014

Hmmmm.. Wonders shall never end... Make she go try am for warri, de hubby go don bandage her face! :-XHmmmm.. Wonders shall never end... Make she go try am for warri, de hubby go don bandage her face!

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by stanmorry(m): 9:35pm On Oct 13, 2014

Tallesty1:
Start bringing women home.

Tell her to sleep at the boy's quarter or guest room when your gf visits

Or better still sacrifice her to the gods of your village.

BTW this is nairaland not Egypt

So stop writing in codes.

Dats it my broda, u have said it all

But on serious note@OP. I don't advice you to do anything to safe your marriage.

To cheat on a man is a big crime and to speak it to his face and dare him is another serious offense.

Bundle her back to her parents before she kills you.

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by bedfordng(m): 9:36pm On Oct 13, 2014

This has gone beyond just getting back at you.there is no point keeping the marriage.sleeping once to get back can be forgiven but doing it with other more men is beyond getting back.maybe there is something more to what you have just said else, a real man will know what to do because the act is not just decent for a married woman.sleeping and telling you on your face shows there is something more to this.now she is taking it as habit and nothing you can do she said.that means you have lost respect to the core,she now sees you as one that can't say yank.too bad.the game is not just getting back but now having fun which is the end of the marriage, no love anymore

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by KolaShangOne(m): 9:37pm On Oct 13, 2014

You know your wife better than us. Is she capable of cheating on you? Have you seen signs shes dating someone in her school?

Mr Man, if U don't make your wife happy, she'll look for happiness outside. Women say things dey don't mean when they're angry or frustrated.

My advice is that U don't talk about it, spend the next 3 months buying her gifts and taking her out every weekend.
And most importantly, STOP FINDING "COMPANIONSHIP OR FRIENDSHIP" with females outside ur marriage!!!!! Its cheating!

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by chlowi(f): 9:37pm On Oct 13, 2014

MRbrownJAY:

bro, the only reason you are writing the above is because you are DESPERATE for toto, NOT because you are truly sorry for what you did or understand that it was wrong. i mean look at what you posted only yesterday on NL:

and yet you expect your wife to be sorry for your cheating self?! we all know what type of "friend" you are looking for.....

Choi this is what I call Exposê

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by landinfo: 9:41pm On Oct 13, 2014

Oi boi diz one na GOBE Ayakata.....original GOBE

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Mariopgomery(m): 9:42pm On Oct 13, 2014

Pamcrest:
Op, what do u do, u ask? When u confessed yr own misdeeds what did she do? So go n do likewise naa.
Just cool down n let her go through this passing phase......have Patience n continue to love her!
My humble submission

you say it like its so easy to 'Just cool down n let her go through this passing phase' like its a ordinary thing..

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 9:42pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:
Any female single medical psychologist here? Or a lawyer. ℓ̊ need to talk to one. If there is any,just quote me here and send your contact so we can talk. ℓ̊ am running nut

lol

I smell something fishy here,why should it b a female and single medical psychologist?? grin

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by ElPhenomenal(m): 9:43pm On Oct 13, 2014

Make una divorce na

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 13, 2014

MRbrownJAY:

bro, the only reason you are writing the above is because you are DESPERATE for toto, NOT because you are truly sorry for what you did or understand that it was wrong. i mean look at what you posted only yesterday on NL:

and yet you expect your wife to be sorry for your cheating self?! we all know what type of "friend" you are looking for.....

chaiii diaries Godooooo grin

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by ghettodreamz(m): 9:46pm On Oct 13, 2014

In respect to the aforementioned issues that led to this misshapen and repugnant situation, it is no doubt you two have serious growing up to do. Where has two wrongs ever make a right?

Like seriously? Frankly speaking, the attempt to salvage your marriage will take a lot of time, perseverance, understanding, serious readiness, willingness, commitments, determination and team work which involves you two. Love is a two-way street and chances of winning back your matrimonial home lies not only in your hands but also your estranged wife's.

Of course, rebuilding bridges is a slow and painful process and if you must safe your marriage you have to be patient with each other, depending on if you both felt the necessities. Otherwise, annulment won't be a bad option here, if you really want to live long. Although you are the causative agent and a starter of this whole ugly drama you are currently going through but the way your so-called wife is going about it in order to pay you back is not morally inclined or justifiable. If all else fails and provided you want to live long, I will advise you take a walk, nothing kill faster as a cheating wife.

Lastly, judging from your own story; from all indications your case could be likened to two adulterous and cheating parties married to each other. If your wife would have found it easy to cheat back it means cheating is also in her blood, probably she has not been doing it because she is married or she has been committing the attrocities underG herself without your knowledge.

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Tuktuk: 9:47pm On Oct 13, 2014

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

Hi Ayo, pls calm down, put yourself together and try to find out for real if indeed she is cheating on you. if it turns out she is, and she does not feel sorry and is willing to continue, pls send her packing. but if you love her and cannot let her go, then talk to her mother.mind you the mother should not let anybody know. if truly she loves you she will stop and feel sorry for what she has done else just forget her. you see marriage is solely built on trust. we women excuse Men cheating not because we are not jealous or cannot do same but because its like a second nature and any matured lady should know this as painfulas it may be. There is a source of concern when it becomes habitual and happens every now and then.But the fact is, we preserve our dignity for the sake of our LINEAGE. If on the other hand she is not sleeping with anyone,then she is saying it just to get you worried as you are now and have a taste of the bitter coin. Either way PLS!!!! Go for a thorough screening in the hospital. All possible tests to rule out any iota of doubt. meanwhile, talk to a confidant who will profer solutions or intervene not just hear your little dirty secret and go (eyyyah!!)

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 9:48pm On Oct 13, 2014

vislabraye:

You should call for a truce. You both should start on a clean slate. But who knows if she'll keep to her side ?

Brother... There can be no truce in a situation where a woman tells u she is bleeping someone else and there is nothing u can do about it... that woman can never come back... she's telling her husband she is enjoying shagging someone else... and u want to call a truce...

Forget it... she's gone round that bend... marriage is like the feel of being a virgin... just one guy... when she goes out (disvirgined) brother there is no going back... All that revirginizing (truce) na crap... u want the truth... she did so with the mindset of no remorse intended.. she can never be sorry for her actions... so life goes on... count ur losses... let her go... she does not respect u and she does not love u.... move on

Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by SailorXY: 9:48pm On Oct 13, 2014

your wife is one hell of a woman oo, cheat and rub it on your face?? grin

if na me eh, that thing wey happen for 1963 go happen again oo wink

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