egbedore:


ℓ̊ don't want to cheat anymore. ℓ̊ don't want to live that kind of life anymore. ℓ̊ have already being denied sex since June so ℓ̊ don't want to be adulterous anymore

MizMyColi:
Your marriage sir, reeks of different, but one purposeful shade of abuse........Revenge.
I take it you've blamed yourself enough, I won't add to it.

You two need to take some time apart.
Abi you wan die prematurely?

While at it, a sober reflection and a high resolve to do all it takes to make your marriage work should be your focus.
Where all that fails, please take a walk, whatever it takes.

I doubt you two'll ever be the same again.

Your woman?

Well, I've never really been in her shoes, so I better keep mute.

I can say two things for sure.
- A wise woman builds her home. She is proactive, not reactive.
- Now that she has decided to embark on her own journey of revenge, please remind her to dig 2 graves, 4 maybe.

egbedore:


If ℓ̊ want to cheat,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ am married,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ have kids,ℓ̊ wouldn't say the ages of my lovely kids. For the fact that ℓ̊ mentioned that,means ℓ̊ am not hiding anything and ℓ̊ just needed someone to talk to. And when it comes to matter as this,the women folk can be more attentive and knows what to do.

egbedore:


If ℓ̊ want to cheat,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ am married,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ have kids,ℓ̊ wouldn't say the ages of my lovely kids. For the fact that ℓ̊ mentioned that,means ℓ̊ am not hiding anything and ℓ̊ just needed someone to talk to. And when it comes to matter as this,the women folk can be more attentive and knows what to do.

egbedore:
Help,ℓ̊ am in dare need of serious bleeping. 'Haven't bleep or bleeped since June this year. Anyone here on NL that can help. ℓ̊ don't want self service anymore,ℓ̊ want the real thing. ℓ̊ can't do brothel cos of my church mind. ℓ̊ need a bleeping fast cos the thing don full my body. R gbami o

MRbrownJAY:


who are you trying to fool bro?! just because you are putting your cards on the table dont mean you do not want to cheat, lets get real here.
here below is what you posted TWO DAYS ago, yet you come here telling us all that you are a changed man?! bwaaaah!



abeg, stop making a foul out of yourself with your BS.

coogar:

this is why i don't take threads such as this seriously.

egbedore:


This isn't a story at all. Its a real life situation that ℓ̊ have found myself. It didn't happen to someone and ℓ̊ didn't read it someplace. Its happening to me as ℓ̊ type this.

A friend ℓ̊ met here some days ago knows about this cos ℓ̊ just needed to talk to someone!

MRbrownJAY:


they are no better than attention wh.ores, coming up with silly stories.

missberrypop5:
hmmm, quite a complicated issue. Have you caught her "in the act"? If no, them i'm certain she doesn't cheat. Only wanna make you feel her pains. I think you should really show her how sorry you are if you've really stopped your own cheating.

egbedore:


ℓ̊ think so too but she has been vengeful. That's her phylosophy. She beleives that the best way to correct someone or teach a lesson is to retaliate so Ɣøû feel what she felt.

What do Ɣøû suggest that ℓ̊ do now?

egbedore:


ℓ̊ think so too but she has been vengeful. That's her phylosophy. She beleives that the best way to correct someone or teach a lesson is to retaliate so Ɣøû feel what she felt.

What do Ɣøû suggest that ℓ̊ do now?

MissSlimbody:
Two wrongs can never make a right.

What you did,is in the past, since you've repented of ur deeds, I see no reason why she should engaged herself in such a shameful act.

Your wife is not morally sound, I must say.

That a man cheated on me is not reason enough 2 turn me to a cheat.

What to do






Mizmycoli you're needed here.
Abeg, wetin make him do?

Bae, done

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

coogar:


show no emotions....
let the kids go spend some time with their grannies - then put yourself to task & bring exotic ladies into the house.

different ones per week.

MizMyColi:


Bae, done

coogar:


is it a continuous thingy for her or its a one-off thingy? if she keeps going back to her boyfriend, i think you should also call your ladies....you are the man here, never let her outscore you in this game.

get a lawyer & sign an open marriage contract with her.

MissSlimbody:


Tanchu

Good morning
Trust you had a beautiful night

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

MissSlimbody:


Tanchu

Good morning
Trust you had a beautiful night

chaircover:


Daleru

The funny thing is that a woman will always be one step ahead if she decides to cheat & she can hide it and the evidence for years. Its the men who always keep on getting caught.
By the time she brings home other mens children your eyes will clear
Never challenge a woman to a duel that involves emotion and secrecy cos she will win
Strength . . yes a man can win that one.

@thread assuming its true. .
2 wrongs dont make a right and revenge is not always as sweet as one thinks and there will come a day when wifey will feel dsgust at herself for what she has done after her eyes have cleared.

@poster/anyone in this situation - now you have tasted some of your own medicine and you now see how if tastes and I hope that you have learnt your lesson.
You are the one who put burning coals on your straw roof and went to bed.
If you still want the marriage and feel that you can both make it work, then have a long discussion with your wife and both apologise to each other and both agree and promise that neither of you will cheat on each other again, then start again.

I hope hubby and wife are able to forgive each other and move on. Cheating takes the soul out of a marriage and kills it.

MissSlimbody:
Two wrongs can never make a right.

What you did,is in the past, since you've repented of ur deeds, I see no reason why she should engaged herself in such a shameful act.

Your wife is not morally sound, I must say.

That a man cheated on me is not reason enough 2 turn me to a cheat.

What to do






Mizmycoli you're needed here.
Abeg, wetin make him do?