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†̥ be honest with Ɣøû,

She's not cheating on yu, she's just trying †̥ make yu ƒ̲̅ε̲ε̲ƪ what she felt by telling Ɣøû all those. Brother, she hasn't seen your remorse enough, that's why she's doing that.

Start showing her respect, love and care......
God bless and heals your marriage

Kick her bottom out.

egbedore:
Any female single medical psychologist here? Or a lawyer. ℓ̊ need to talk to one. If there is any,just quote me here and send your contact so we can talk. ℓ̊ am running nut

Halo, we need to talk seriously if u need my help let me know. I am a relationship and marriage councillor and I will b glad to help

......

unclecycs:


U Dey feel ma baa, for the issue to even reach level wey be sey d woman get liver open mouth the yarn that kind rubbish mean say op na pant .women Dey smart, dem know d kind men dem Dey do some kind tins with e get as u and woman go package wey be say u fit cheat (not that I support infidelity) and she go Dey beg u untop ur own fuckup.

I feel you bro. OP no be man. Since I see this thread I just dey vex. Even if na joke she dey joke..... na 1st class ticket time travel as you talk. Woman follow OP dey drag trouser, he come Nairaland to seek help instead of am to treat the mega Fvck-up ASAP.Mtchewwwwww That woman luck plenty pass her liver.

I think that she is not telling the truth and that she may be wanted to teach you a lesson, but who knows women are brainless some time and they can do something even if they do not want.

See guy, a man can sleep with as many women as possible without an iota of commitment nor feelings. But for a woman it is the other way round except she is a prostitute.

If she has done this to your face, brother, save ur insanity and move on.

I tell you, things can never be the same in that family again; except of course she is the bread winner.

Move one, else, one day, one out of you will leave the other permanently disfigured if not dead, if emotional/ psychology disorder of either of the party runs out of proportion. Remember the Lagos banker, stabbed 72 times by her husband. Na like this e dey start.

Or at least, u guys should stay separately for now until the long gone passion creeps in again. Insanity is slowly creeping in . So before u do the Un imaginable, unexpectly,, kindly be separated for now

marriedvirgin:


abeg abeg abeg i no need man
i dumped my cheating husband and i'm not looking for a man
no matter how they claim they are good,time always tells
please look for a woman else where.
there are lots of women who can put up with a man's shit but i can't no more
thank you

I am 100% sure that ur cheating husband dump ur sorry ass
I sure you are now sleeping with a man with two wives

arimahoseloka:
my brother when a woman is pained in her heart it is worse than when she is pained in her body. u hurt Ur wife unimaginably.. how dare u cheat on her?? do you know the implications of your action??

you need to go to Ur wife kneel down and beg for forgiveness. u also need to go for counselling, the both of u. don't ever cheat on her again. y did u get married in the first place?? hmm I've said my own

"kneel down and beg for forgiveness."-------------kneel for a cheating b
That her Bleep up goal was for revenge
Go play
U full of it

Opp, I once cheated on my wife as well without her knowing though.I toaste d single mother of 1 in question 4 2 yrs only 2 b badly bruised on my j-stick by contracting an STI when we finally did it once. I was so scared dat I initially thought I might have been infected wif somfing more serious-HIV. But thank God today I have learnt a valuable lesson d hardway. And I believe 0god has forgiven mem I fink d first mistake u made was telling ur wife cos u cud have handed off and repented without her knowing d adultery u committed. Try to sit her down and make her realise d dangers of indulging in exrta-marrital affairs as ur kids future r at stake as well. So many AIDS orphans u know as well as let her know hw remorseful u feel for ur past mistake. U guys still got a bright future ahead of u

Airpure:
Dear OP.

your wife is just hurt that you betrayed her love and trust i am going to guess the reason she feels the need to make you feel the pain she felt when you cheated on her is that you didnt show enough remorse for the wrong you did.you should have helped her through the healing process showed more love and commitment enough to regain her trust. its a known fact that one of the main reasons women cheat is to get back at a cheating partner. there is still hope for your marriage i think you guys just need to take time out and decide the things that are more important to u both like your lovely kids.


That said men need to realise that we have pass the era of its a mans world.This is no longer the era of our mothers where men go to work and women are full time moms and have to depend on a man and never complain when they cheat cos she has no where to go. in 80% of workplace now we have more women than men. wake up guys things have change. when you cheat on a woman and expect her to get over it cos its normal she will probably pay u back one way or the other. blood runs through the veins of a woman too.we both feel the same hurt and pain when we get betrayed . if you understand that you will thread carefully. next time u gringing on top a woman imagine your wife doing same if you like it then continue. lol.

The wife should have left the marriage not cheating

See guy, a man can sleep with as many women as possible without an iota of commitment nor feelings. But for a woman it is the other way round except she is a prostitute.

If she has done this to your face, brother, save ur insanity and move on.

I tell you, things can never be the same in that family again; except of course she is the bread winner.

Move one, else, one day, one out of you will leave the other permanently disfigured if not dead, if emotional/ psychology disorder of either of the party runs out of proportion. Remember the Lagos banker, stabbed 72 times by her husband. Na like this e dey start.

Or at least, u guys should stay separately for now until the long gone passion creeps in again. Insanity is slowly creeping in . So before u do the Un imaginable, unexpectly,, kindly be separated for now[b][/b]

Go and mark my word somewhere. She is not cheating on you .she just wanted you to feel the pain. Don't get mad at her. It is not enough to ask for her forgiveness but vow never to cheat on her again. Do everything possible to restore her trust in you. But my broda u no try at all how dare u cheat on a woman u called ur wife?

greggng:
Go and mark my word somewhere. She is not cheating on you .she just wanted you to feel the pain. Don't get mad at her. It is not enough to ask for her forgiveness but vow never to cheat on her again. Do everything possible to restore her trust in you. But my broda u no try at all how dare u cheat on a woman u called ur wife?

Guys think with their D?
Now and days more women now think with their toto

Godmystrength:
You do not qualify. You have to be SINGLE

Understand d statement I made, I said "Am a relationship/marriage Councillor". But if u don't understand dat then I tnk u hv to go bk to primary school.

xandyE:


Understand d statement I made, I said "Am a relationship/marriage Councillor". But if u don't understand dat then I tnk u hv to go bk to primary school.

No need to insult me because i didn't insult you with my statement. I was just joking at the expense of the OP and that is why i put the smiley...... But if that is how you feel, no vex o AUNTY

Godmystrength:
No need to insult me because i didn't insult you with my statement. I was just joking at the expense of the OP and that is why i put the smiley...... But if that is how you feel, no vex o AUNTY

Ok o, am not angry o, just thought dat since its a serious situation for d OP dat it doesn't hv to be joked with

xandyE:


Ok o, am not angry o, just thought dat since its a serious situation for d OP dat it doesn't hv to be joked with

Okay o

Akpos the village teacher

Akpos was once employed in a school and he went to class to teach. The first day. Akpos: Good morning students Students: Good morning sir! Akpos: I'm going to be your new teacher, do u know what we have this morning? Students: No sir! Teacher: Since u don't know, there's no point of teaching u.. Akpos went and came the following day. Akpos: Good morning students! Student: Good morning sir.! Akpos: Do u know what we have this morning? Out of fear of the previous day, they said "yes sir". Akpos: Since u already know, then there's no point teaching u again. The third day Akpos came to class. Akpos: Do u know what we are having this morning?.................................. http://www..com/m/view_joke.php?id=179

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

You made 1 mistake, you admitted you cheated. You should have blamed something/someone and leave a gap for benefit of doubt

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

You made 1 mistake, you admitted you cheated. You should have blamed something/someone and leave a gap for benefit of doubt

Book of Proverbs: "A foolish woman pulls her home down with her own hands."

Let her pull it down but make sure you escape with your life intact.

Take your time and start a new home with another woman.

THE END

Luckygurl:


Men have all the liberty to cheat whereas the female counterparts are restricted from doing so. I wonder where people get this kind of orientation

its not an orientation,its a norm.even in d western world,a cheating wife is often regarded as a LovePeddler,while a cheating husband is called"sharp and smart"so we didn't lay d ground rule,it has been dere.am sorry.

The Funny part is she may just tell you that to see how u will feel, she may never have slept with anybody yet, women are dangerous, if you are wise , you will see that,... so my question to u is, have u seen the Boyfriend she is sleeping with? did she bring him home? did u catch him on Top of her. if the answer is no, then she may just be pulling ur legs, just to see how u will feel also. maybe she hasnt cheated on u back yet.

The future is here...am happy for you OP .

xandyE:


Understand d statement I made, I said "Am a relationship/marriage Councillor". But if u don't understand dat then I tnk u hv to go bk to primary school.

I think he was referring to the fact that the op specifically asked for a single councillor which in my opinion shows that he isn't serious about wanting to save his marriage, if this is even true.

Some men dey here dey claim I go do this, i go do that if nah me , in real life dey go just dey dey look like dog pikin just like OP .

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

THE BEST ADVICE IS TO DIVORCE HER AND SAVE YOUR LIFE. BELIEVE ME YOU ARE IN FOR HELL. experience. She does not deserve you

beeevan:
Some men dey here dey claim I go do this, i go do that if nah me , in real life dey go just dey dey look like dog pikin just like OP .

"
"Why Do Nigerian Wives Chase Out Their Maids When Caught With Husband?"
below was from u
If you pay the rent, both husband and maid should be sent parking, if not, still throw down their personal effects and keep the doors locked . They should go somewhere and start a family already.


I wonder how some women ever stayed married to a husband that slept with their help, still have sex with him arrrrgghhhh!


Op your question tire me sha

GoodFaith:

"
"Why Do Nigerian Wives Chase Out Their Maids When Caught With Husband?"
below was from u
If you pay the rent, both husband and maid should be sent parking, if not, still throw down their personal effects and keep the doors locked . They should go somewhere and start a family already.


I wonder how some women ever stayed married to a husband that slept with their help, still have sex with him arrrrgghhhh!


Op your question tire me sha

Eehhhheeee...so?

beeevan:






Eehhhheeee...so?

full of shit

GoodFaith:


full of shit

Leave me alone and go argue about how Nigeria men are customized cheating machines and Nigeria women meant to watch and applaud. I no too get strength for back and forth .