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- Bisi Adewale

Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them:
1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice; I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character.

2) MUSCLE: [/b]Muscular and heavy looking guys are also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say "they look manly" "they look like real men". Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.

[b]3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who have a house with King size; beautiful Italian Settee, micro wave oven, well stock freezer, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.

4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They don't want to know where the money is coming from; they don't even want to know what the guy does for a living. What concerns them is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED, it won't turn to GREEN.

5) PLACE OF WORK: Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a small firm, or one man business. What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is not about where he is working but about who is working in Him, God or devil.

Read more from......http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/

I want a tall muscular guy with a fat bank account living in a well set house and having a fat bank account from his place of work.
Thanks.

Hian!! NL counterthreading since 1400BC

If I hear say I settle for short man.
#Hemustbetallorforgetit#

You made a mistake Op. Item no.4 should be topping the list.

Vivly:
I want a tall muscular guy with a fat bank account living in a well set house and having a fat bank account from his place of work.
Thanks.

Lol...babe calm down

Vivly:
I want a tall muscular guy with a fat bank account living in a well set house and having a fat bank account from his place of work.
Thanks.

What if he's very short but with billions in 5 different bank account?

They are not totally wrong, what could be wrong is making them a priority.

.....Gals be like, "if you aint TALL,RICH and SEXY".....
forget it......

A serious dude should not even disclose how fat his account is to a lady he wants to date. This will enable him to know how materialistic the girl is

Some guys that do such dnt really have serious intentions while some serious ones feel money can buy love

Be wise

Vivly:
I want a tall muscular guy with a fat bank account living in a well set house and having a fat bank account from his place of work.
Thanks.

pm me baby

Let dem make more list...mtcheww DRINKING HARP .... My hapinez

Elantracey:
They are not totally wrong, what could be wrong is making them a priority.

Yeah, u are right. Nothing wrong with having preferences, the wrong thing is actually being obsessed over it and making it a priority. I for one prefer a slim girl over a fat girl, that doesnt mean, I can't marry a fat girl.

moscobabs:
pm me baby

I would but I'm going for tall, muscular and fat bank account. Sorry.

3cycle:
If I hear say I settle for short man.
#Hemustbetallorforgetit#

You peeple jes like to beef us. Wetin we do una? What you don't know is that we short men do it better, just name it. And we even end up with even better wives more. So you cannot intimidate us. #TeamShortMen

Vivly:
I would but I'm going for tall, muscular and fat bank account. Sorry.

And you, keep dreaming.

Tho am a guy... Ion rili see anyfin rong in all diz facts u juz pointd out.. Errgurl has a tatse...nd shld,under no circumstance settle 4 nofin less. #juzSaying.

This thread... Giving hope to short broke guys like me...

3cycle:
If I hear say I settle for short man.
#Hemustbetallorforgetit#

lol....short men no be human beign

braine:
We short men do it better, just name it. And we end up with even better wives. So you cannot

Wake up Short guy equals plenty waahala

sameer1212:
lol....short men no be human beign

They are but not for me.

3cycle:
Wake up Short guy equals plenty waahala

How you take know? You never do any of us before na...

braine:
How you take know? You never do any of us before na...

I knew guys who were eyeing me then, short guys with plenty wahaala.
Plus inferiority complex choking them each time I get to Hang out With some of them.
I want very tall kids btw.

I think a fat bank account is the priority.

sameer1212:

Sorry oo

Hehehe... Op wants to destroy some girls belief system? This page's got potential

3cycle:

Sorry oo

lolz.... i am nt a short guy

Only if they would understand

sameer1212:
lolz.... i am nt a short guy

5'7 is short for a guy.

3cycle:
5'7 is short for a guy.

lmao did i told u dat i am 5'7

sameer1212:
lmao did i told u dat i am 5'7

was judging by your grammer sha.

Just curious, Do girls get excited/wet when a short finger caresses them?