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Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by babygirlfl: 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
MissMeiya: Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Actually I'd just put my opinion on such thread and move on. No big deal. It remains my opinion on such an issue. Why you're bent on derailing is what I don't understand. I said i never knew that some women would willingly go into polygamous homes and wanted to know if there are other ladies like her. So what's the fuss? EfemenaXY: Nope she's not from a Muslim background. Dad is from Edo state and to the best of my knowledge, not a Muslim., 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: Exactly. I wonder why she'd have an issue with the thread. I just wanted opinions and views on this. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:03pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: And that shows I explicitly stated that only Muslims are polygamous? Still waiting for how you drew your conclusion about me being biased about Muslims. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by babygirlfl: 6:04pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: Have the last word. I don't go back and forth 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:04pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Mintayo:So Muslims are the only people into polygamy? Where's this traditionalist guy macof, he believes in polygamy. let him come. coogar is not a Muslim waiting for him. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:04pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
masonkz: What makes you think I've got an issue with the thread. I asked you a question about your colleague. Why won't you answer it? |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by adebisicutie: 6:06pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: You are derailing the thread. The OP asked a simple question, answer and move on instead of accusing him of having a hidden agenda. You are the only bringing religion into this discussion 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
#ThreadDerailed 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:08pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
masonkz: You live in Nigeria. You're surrounded by people practicing polygamy. Why don't you start by asking them? Or better still, finish your conversation with that colleague of yours by asking her more indepth questions about her choice? Must you bring every single thought that crosses your mind onto Nairaland? |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: LAWD HAVE MERCY. I'M DONE! Sorry if I touched a nerve or something. Apparently you're looking at this issue from another perspective. @bolded, yes! I reserve every right to do so. And you have the right to either comment or not comment. GOOD DAY! 14 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: *stare* Lady, you are clearly crazy. Go and take your meds. Masonkz don't even reply. Nonsensical attention-seeker. 14 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:13pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:If you are not biased about this... Then why did you think the lady op is talking about must be a Muslim? Why did you mention "Muslim"? 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:15pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
MissMeiya: Really? Takes one to know one, doesn't it? Attention seeker you say? And yet you get high from quoting me? Listen. This is a public forum and I post as I want, when I want, where I want. You don't have to quote me let alone respond to my posts do you? Or do you get 0rgasm!c shudders when you see my name/posts? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:15pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
masonkz:She's being biased. Don't reply her, she's already derailing this thread. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:16pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: Do Muslims practice polygamy or not? |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:17pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: Yeah? Is it possible to have an argument with oneself, Mr Tintingz? Hmmm? |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:19pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:[size=14pt]Must you comment in this thread?[/size] 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:19pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
People with their biased mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by delishpot: 6:20pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: You are right. My only problem is, most women that choose to be second wives or extra wives, never think about the first wife o. They say they dont mind marrying a man that is married already as if their being the next wife is just between them and the man. As if it doesnt affect the first wife in any way. And then, after they enter the mans house, they become angry if he decides to bring another new wife after them. Even women in Islam will be happier if their husbands have eyes only for them. The women do not like sharing their men but their religion make them not have a say in affairs of the home. They can only pray and wish he will marry only them or only two wives. Because if they stand against his having another, they will be seen as bad wives and not good role models for young muslim girls who should not oppose a man. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Tgirl4real , RoyalRoy, seun . You guys should please clean up the thread as someone is derailing. Thanks 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:22pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: Must you quote me? Why are you actively derailing this thread? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:24pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:Do traditionalist practice polygamy or not? Do Jews practice polygamy or not? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:26pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:And why must you show your anger? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by EfemenaXY: 6:27pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: Who says I'm angry? Over what? Are you angry, Tintingz? tintingz: ***Yawns...*** Remind me what your point(s) is / are ...was / were again. Actually, never mind. ***Thread Unfollowed!*** |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 6:39pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Am I angry? Who shows, expressed this emoticon below? EfemenaXY: ***Yawns...***Thank you, at least we will read reasonable, unbiased post in this thread. |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
@masonkz, dont misinterpret efemena's posts and questions. Maybe u r not a regular poster here and we know what always follow after a heated arguments on polygamy especially as patterns muslim. Severally some folks have hv been banned for airing their views about polygamy in this section cos i tell u, it must become a heated argument in a matter of minutes if care is not taken. Some people deliberately avoid threads like this cos they r always banned from mods from other sections(biased banning anyway) for airing their views. So pls, i respect u(i read ur posts sometimes and i am even commenting cos of u), majority of family section nairalanders know Efemena is being careful and warning others to be careful too. We perfectly understands her worry. Efe is as innocent as a dove(i can attest to that) No vex. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
@topic, no, i can't. I'm a human being, not property. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
moca: Alright. Thank you for that. As you can see, I meant no harm. I never even brought religion into it, neither did other posters, until she came. So there was just no need for the pre-emptive. She was obviously doing the same thing she might have been warning people of: creating heated argument. Thanks though. Mods, tgirl4real and royalroy, can this be moved to the FP please. I would like more views on this. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 7:07pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
moca:So what if the op stated that the lady he was talking is a Muslim. What do you think will or would have happened in this thread? I remember a thread where a Muslim lady gave her view on polygamous marriage, because she's a Muslim are view was not welcomed by biased people in this family section. If you read comments in that thread, you will be surprised...that thread was later closed. So my question is why did Efe mention "Muslim" or drag religion into this thread discussion instead of her going straight to the answer like other ladies did in this thread? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by tintingz(m): 7:10pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Chiamaka01:...But you will collect bride price and change your maiden name huh? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Would You Consider Marrying Into A Polygamous Family? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tintingz: My dad will collect the bride-price because it's our culture. I'm not changing my maiden name, ever. 2 Likes |
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