[quote author=brixton post=27463128]

Are you sure no guy has ever bought you a gift? Even sweet and chewing gums?

1) Never ever give gifts that you cannot afford. If you had to pay it over 10 months then you can't afford it.

2) Never ever give big gifts like this to someone you are just dating. Buy flowers and chocolates instead and go to movies and stuff.

3) If you can get it back without drama, I doubt it, then do it if that's what you want to do. Else take it as a life lesson.

Good luck and I truly hope that you've learned a lesson here.

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

uncle if u no collect dat fone ehn, even devil go vex for u o, wch kain yeye loss, some gals can b wicked o

Zedric:
Wait!! U seriously had to ask

Common, find the b*tch and make sure u collect that phone back. She used u, the speed at which she broke up with u says it all. All she needed was the phone and if u don't collect it back, u deserve a plaque for Ur "MAGArious" actions

Thank you for saying this,
Why dint she notice the family issues, cultural background on her birthday and decline the gift.

Ladies sha, they can be wicked!

If I'm the one o, I'll collect the phone back +more sef.

@OP you can stay matured and keep let it go, but for me I'll choose the childish option sha.

This guy is a Dumbass. Anyway, I don't believe this story.

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

Guy go get ur fone back, be rogue, free dat maturity tin, u can't be suffering over an ungrateful soul, go get ur fone, its ur property, u paid for it with ur money. She has no entitlement to ur fone. Go meet her track her when shez wif d fone n bam jump her.

Nope...she's x 2u nw so is d phone bro.

Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

...........My guy,she has nothin 2 regret.. , collect ur phone..u also have nothin 2 regret. Bt I blame u too.. Have u bought somethin worth dat amount for ur mama...?

Zedric:
Wait!! U seriously had to ask

Common, find the b*tch and make sure u collect that phone back. She used u, the speed at which she broke up with u says it all. All she needed was the phone and if u don't collect it back, u deserve a plaque for Ur "MAGArious" actions

I dey tell u !!!
Guy collect the phone bak, she used u!!!

beinstein:

and why won't he collect it?
Is it a parting gift?
OP no forget to give her a sound slap when u finally collect am ooo, very important pls.

Honestly, guy me no understand some people reasoning oh.
If I hear say I no collect am. @op the fact is that if you don't collect the gift then you were doped. She could have as well disappeared immediately she collected the phone. She lied to love you when she collected that phone. This na the kind of format my guy take dope one oyinbo

op,threaten the gal,gals dey fear bad boys,but if u no get liver call police

hahahahahahahahahahah ;Dhahahahahahahahahahah Op, you just made my day. Thank you so much

Krystalxxx:


No and I don't need it. It's nothing to be ashamed about as anything a guy buys,even if it is five naira pure water he wants a refund.

It's none of your business anyway

You are either lieing or fugly... Either ways I pray your village ancestors will allow rich and romantic guys notice your ministry.

Ting is yr bad manners will not let such guys come close to u

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

you see how guys have turned to Muguns in the name of love..and why are Naija gals so fake..n wicked....to make matter worst using another guys pics as dp...shame to all ye small brain naija babes...who dont have anything to offer to this world only to take take and consume...one day una head go burst....as for you guy now your eye don clear because of one yeye gal..and love that is deceiving you..you went to get a note 3 instrumental payment,you never seee anything oga pay ur debt....oo if na ur sister ask you for money now na excuses....ol boy carry ur cross

I am very sure the word 'mugu' is on the OP's birth certificate.

What a loser

for all this orsteerity everywhere .....haba bros! if its gonna make u childish, just b childish once again so that u can go and collect the damn note 3 joor


make sure u go back n tell us have gotten your note 3 back.

wheres yo location sef, if u want us to accompany u.


but some ladies can b so heartless

Man up dude! Just move on!all girls are use to this kinda thing I lost three phones to a girl, and much more! Almost lost my life for luv! But what did I do?? She came back and told me she found a richer guy! Wants to get married in December 2015! She troubles me with chats on bbm, Whatsapp, viber, all because while she left I didn't give a hoot! Now she posts her pictures on Facebook and changes them often on the different chat platforms! All of these I know was to get my attention! And when I did get tempted to chat with her for the luv I had for her! She said she wanted to c me! And I'm like for what?? And she is like she misses me, I was nice, she enjoyed the whole time we spent together! And stuff! Just yesterday I told her to concentrate on her marriage, free me emotionally and not see me as some companion because d other guy did this or that! Women are wicked

please bobo collect your phone back jo. she is a cheat. if u were my brother o, i will collect the phone back for you. i hate cheats. assunming she didnt have another guy now, fine. she broke up with you and now with another guy, it means she was with the guy before she left you. she mugu you ni. so bobo collect your phone and be happy again.

Someone's been 'phone-zoned'. Sorry.

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

bros me sef need q10 oooo since na fada xmas tins dey board nw, u can pay for anoda 12mnths, wat r frnds for

Brother see it as one of those girls that love up because of material things....honestly as a guy,u don try but alll sacrifice went in to scam...move on

Mobebi:
bygones are bygones.its painful sha but don't worry abt it, she will regret her actions later. whatever u do for love, don't regret. I know how u feel and its painful.

let maturity have its way.. why would u wanna get it back? if u do,its childish!

Hahahaha, you're so bloody silly, Excuse me, is the girl jobless? I can afford a Note 4 for myself comfortably but will never go into debt because I wanna get my girlfriend a birthday present, that's the first mistake, In fact I never almost get into debts, I hate it, I never date a girl that can't afford these little things, Don't get it back, see it as one of you life's mistakes, Move on bro, I just had to call you silly

Na Amadioha go punish you if you no collect that phone back. For the girl mind now, she sharp while you be mumu.

Hunt that filthy bïtch down and reclaim your phone immediately.

Can you also return all the BJs she has given you back?

You are a fool- how can you buy a phone on credit, worse of all, for a girl, don't collect the phone back, let the monthly payment be a constant reminder that you are a fool

This government sef.

ivyy:


Within 48 hours?
Wat rubbish
Get back that fone if you can especially since your still in dept for it.


And pls guys be watchful of golddigers

I'm a guy and I hate gold-diggers but truthfully I hate STU*PID people more!!! Dude borrowed( to pay MONTHLY for a year) 130Gs to buy a phone 4 another person( Gf , BF , cousin ... It doesn't really matter who) that was an extremely stupid thing to do!!!... Welllll, a Stu*pid person is a stu*pid person, thats just the way it is and d way it will remain.I'm sure he will do it again if given a chance...

2days after or what? Abeg arrange an appointment with her and make sure u collect the fucking phone. Your X and the guy she is dating now both collaborated to play you and she don dey shop ogbona, apu plus ikokore Infact diff kinds of food behind ur back since. She is a terrible player, so make sure u collect dat fone or else don't come here again and tell us another tory cos we won't response o. Lol. Next time u r in love my guy pls use ur head cos most of these ladies are lazy, thieves and parasites. Remember to give her the sim card o and tell her its not about the money but she doesn't jus deserve it.

poweredcom:


you see how guys have turned to Muguns in the name of love..and why are Naija gals so fake..n wicked....to make matter worst using another guys pics as dp...shame to all ye small brain naija babes...who dont have anything to offer to this world only to take take and consume...one day una head go burst....as for you guy now your eye don clear because of one yeye gal..and love that is deceiving you..you went to get a note 3 instrumental payment,you never seee anything oga pay ur debt....oo if na ur sister ask you for money now na excuses....ol boy carry ur cross

instrumental payment?

Oluwalala:
You are a fool- how can you buy a phone on credit, worse of all, for a girl, don't collect the phone back, let the monthly payment be a constant reminder that you are a fool

On second tbought, this makes a lot of sense. Best advice..

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

. Na wao, dis grl harsh o, she wuld av rejected d phone since she knew she wuld break up in d next two days. & u sef dat day she broke up wit u is d day u wuld collected it o, but now its up to a month it wuld seem somhow

U c. I keep saying dont love if ur not ready to part away with ya hard earn naira. Guy, d rule z once u've given dem anything, just forget it. BTW, BE A MAN.