poweredcom:


dude stfu n stick to the topic..ok its just a mistake na spell checkers do am like dat....ok..i i hurriedly post without noticing

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

pansophist:


You reason like a pig. So sex is a gift now eh?

brownlord:


Bro what are you saying? This Is no maturity, if we should talk of maturity, the fact that he stupidly got a phone that he will pay for with 1 year salary, bros reason am now ( no woman is worth it) I mean a phone haba

The girl was waiting to get the phone, ask the op if that girl was with him on that same birthday, I doubt if that girl spent the whole day with him, the relationship ended a long time ago, the op was only trying to patch patch the wannabe relationship with his meagre salary, I mean who does that, buy a phone of 130k to pay with your monthly s salary for a period of 12 months, can he do same for his siblings? is that the kind of guy you want me to encourage to get the phone back? The guy is a coward and can't even go get the phone even If you advise him to, a matured guy won't do what he did.

Listen no girl, no matter how heartless will just dump a guy two days after receiving such a gift, the baby has bn rocking another bobo, and the op want to keep servicing the union with his salary. Sorry the baby don't need a civil servant like salary.

I swear If the op na my friend, I personally go order em beating

kullozone:


i wonder oh!
as if na only guys dey enjoy sex.

donmekins:
I wonder the type of original mugu you are....Confrim mugu..

beinstein:
call me all names you wish, i shamelessly collected the phone i gifted her with no regret.

Emmysteve:
Shut up there. People like you would do worse than that bitchhh

Krystalxxx:


For a man sex is just physical fun. He won't get judged by his future partners. It won't affect his chance of getting married. Naija will never blame a man.

But you know the deal with women. And you know how your fellow guys are picky and judgemental towards their spouses or gfs. Hell, there's a thread here on whether a guy should marry a girl or not cuz she ain't a virgin. Lies women tell....about sex
....all to please this guy that she hasn't had marathon sex and partners cuz he's asking.

It's as simple as this. That's the way it is in naija. Sex is a bigger deal to a woman than a man. I have sense,my dear friend.

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

jidestroud:
REASONS YOU ASK?
MAYBE I SHOULDN'T BE SAYING THIS BUT THE REAL EXCUSE SHE GAVE WAS
I'M YORUBA and SHE'S IBO, AND HER FAMILY WOULDN'T ALLOW HER MARRY....BLAH BLAH
BLAH BLAH BLAH.......Her exact WORDS: "Jide; This can't continue. my father will never agree to us and I can see you making so much plans for the future for Us. I can't deceive you any longer. It won't work..."

these very words stuck!!!
and for the records; I SAID I PICKED UP TWO SAMSUNG 3 NOTES......OBVIOUSLY MY KID SIS GOT THE OTHER ONE

jidestroud:
Firstly, i feel so stupid and used.
okay, the real story is this, I promised my girlfriend (Now ex) a Samsung Note 3 phone for her birthday. Luckily for me at my place of work, the cooperative had the same phone up for pick up. As a guy who is deeply in love and knows that giving is part of maintaining a healthy relationship, i decided to pick up 2 Samsung Note 3 at the rate of N130,000 to be paid over a period of 12 months. Good news, the birthday came and i delivered.
Bad news, just 2days after my warm heart gift to her, she BROKE UP WITH ME. REASON: She doesn't see a future, blah blah blah...family issues, cultural differences.
i'm in the second month of my payment now. still paying for my Ex phone.

Advice: Can I ask her for the phone back? i feel cheated. (To make matters worse, she even uses her new bobo as Dp's on her bbm, for a phone i'm still going to be indebted for the next 10 months.

SHOULD I GET MY PHONE BACK?

poweredcom:


dude stfu n stick to the topic..ok its just a mistake na spell checkers do am like dat....ok..i i hurriedly post without noticing

jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then.
And i really did loved her
life goes on!!!
and ofcos, no more phone giving

pansophist:


Sex is not ''just a physical fun for men'', wonder where you got that from. It depends on the kind of men you roll out with I will say, I do not judge a woman by her past, I respect women views to exploring their sexuality and wont condemn her, thats stupid. I am not religious though maybe?

I will prefer a woman will an intelligent brain, not a woman that think her virginity is all she have to give a man.

3cycle:

Op already made up his mind before giving her the gift that he would pay over a period of time.
100k wsnt a big deal for op at the point of buying and giving the gift.
Stop pitying him

Nashoji:
taaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, who said so? no tell me that one oooo before I go vex.

Tymax:
hahaha you too dey question d questioner

Ask? Ask for my property?

Me I go collect my phone back. She breached our contract

pansophist:


The maturity I was referring to was not directed to the OP, but to you because you said you would let it go without collecting your phone back. The OP na confirm mugu, but he wil graduate to a clinical mugu if he forgets that phone. Since he has been acting silly all this while, then he should forget maturity and collect his phone like a silly man as usual.

The only case I will advise a guy to forget a any property he gave to a girl is in a case where the breakup was not a scam case, unlike this one. The OP should get his phone back, he has been tortured enough by this girl financially, emotionally and mentally. If he didnt collect this phone, he will be a mugu in boys book and the girls book also. He must truly be a mugu to be dumped within 48hours, the girl took a pure advantage of him.

But to arrange for him beating never reach that wan na, at least he de pass through heartbreak.

destante:
sorry but anything that has been gifted is no longer yours. pele

pansophist:


If we look am well sef, na woman de enjoy sex pass men. Men de enjoy am when de orgasm generally, but women go enjoy am all though the thrusthing. Yeye people.

ebosse:


I'm a guy and I hate gold-diggers but truthfully I hate STU*PID people more!!! Dude borrowed( to pay MONTHLY for a year) 130Gs to buy a phone 4 another person( Gf , BF , cousin ... It doesn't really matter who) that was an extremely stupid thing to do!!!... Welllll, a Stu*pid person is a stu*pid person, thats just the way it is and d way it will remain.I'm sure he will do it again if given a chance...

kullozone:


am telling u..after we don use all our strenght satisfy dem wen dey lie down like log of wood,dey'll start claiming dey did us a favour..