aisha2:


There are stalkers ohhhhh. Please lets not make the assumption that its only when you give them attention they stay. Stalkers have a sickness they twist reality. I had one, it was bad, never showed him the slightest interest but he had already made me his wife in his mind and had named our kids. Will call me 20 times first thing in the morning followed by a barrage of text messages, threaten to come to my hosue, my office send me pictures of myself, my family etc. It was bad. People laughed it off and said the guy was in "Love".I however reported to the Security agencies and he was invited after sending some threats asked to write never to contact me again.

Watch channel 171 there is a special program on stalking and stalkers. A man stalked a couple claiming to be their son infact almost killed them. Stalking is bad and dangerous, has nothing to do with the victim giving attention or lack of it

pickabeau1:
Cool....


So all this hard women things na just online formings.....


...

it almost makes them competitors.

bukatyne:

You took actions because you were not interested and told people about it.
If a stalked man reports to his wife, family, friends and necessary authorities, a solution will be found

pickabeau1:

what if he gets tired and calls your bluff and runs to the arms of the other woman

edwife:


I kid you not....

Not everyone was born with an iron arm or fighting skills...

We do have differents ways of fighting....

I love my life so much as to involve myself in something that will probably affect my vision or leave me with a scar.....

Does ain't the husband coming back home?

Nashville:


So the mistress is not doing any wrong. It seems we are giving these daughters of jezebel a free pass aint we.

The men no doubt are dogs, but shouldnt these girls be called biatches too? When they know nothing happens, they are even encouraged to break more homes. And then they get married hoping to have living husbands?

Sophyrocks:


Sincerely, a stalker cannot continue to stalk for long especially when you have shown to be steadfast, unmovable, disciplined and consistent in your stance!! How jobless can one be to keep stalking another? Once a man lets his wife know and they botth come together to ward off temptations, they will come out victorious! if a man is that weak like a puppet, let him let his wife know o. However they choose to handle it is up to them.

Sophyrocks:

Let me ask you, who gave these ladies the power to be biatches? who gave them the power to break homes? For you to be bold enough to do something,l you must have a backing, isnt it? You must have people to encourage to forge ahead and do it. who are they? Can fire burn a house when it isnt introduced or started in that house? even if fire starts, who is to quench that fire?

Kimoni:




Edwife, I can't stop laughing. You need to get some karate skills o, why you go see fight dey run now??

aisha2:


I remember when the chat history of a certain married actress leaked to the press. She was sending seductive solicitious text messages to some Governors and Guber aspirants. Of the 4 she sent 3 responded, one went to have an affair with her and later stopped talking to him you could see it from the way she kept begging and throwing herself while he answered in monoslyabus meanwhile weeks earlier he was declaring love for her.

One a highly disciplined south west popular governor who despite being very handsome and should be expected to give in to this desperate woman was the one who never responded. She sent several messages even pretended to be crying and heartbroken, in love with him and all sorts he never responded.

People can only ask na you go choose how to answer

Kimoni:



Exactly, and I am 99% sure of how the woman will choose to handle it.

one went to have an affair with her and later stopped talking to him you could see it from the way she kept begging and throwing herself while he answered in monoslyabus

aisha2:


People can only ask na you go choose how to answer

edwife:


Picka say the truth,have I ever appear or sound hard online before? I don't even fight....I don't know how to start with ,not because i am righteous or saint,but because i chose to live this way....and i am wired like that.

tpia6:

then wish them good luck and godspeed.
he who fights and runs away will live to fight another day.

pickabeau1:


Not you oooo...

I meant in.a general sense

Apologies if it sounded like it was u

Nashville:


So when it is the woman asking - nothing wrong abi. Meanwhile, these ladies know the men are married o.

But when it is the man asking, then all hell is lose because he is married. I know this is wrong, but I do not think these useless girls that date married men are any better than the men.

When these same girls marry, they now start crying that their husbands are cheating.

edwife:


None taken.....

I know you did not mean it that way....

Nashville:

So when it is the woman asking - nothing wrong abi. Meanwhile, these ladies know the men are married o.
But when it is the man asking, then all hell is lose because he is married. I know this is wrong, but I do not think these useless girls that date married men are any better than the men.
When these same girls marry, they now start crying that their husbands are cheating.

Sophyrocks:




How will she handle it? Remember, both she and her husband are involved. Not every woman is the same.

edwife:


Leave me o,karate skills kwa?

What i do in the gym is enough for me....

I beg,there are differents ways to kill a rat...

Kimoni:



Not everybody be edwife ooo

Some women can fight for africa esp when they don't believe in divorce or separation.

naijaboiy:
Some of these girls won't leave we men

No matter how hard we try,,you know say konji no dey respect man

I don't blame some women that confront the mistresses

EfemenaXY:


Only a f00lish woman would leave her home, kids, business, etc to go confront a mistress. Why should she fight the man's battles for him while he sits there watching wifey embarrass herself over his shyte?

A woman can't force a man to sleep with her. The man must be a willing party for it to happen in the first place - and such a man deserves to lose his home.

foolish or no foolish....it won't stop.

Some women can't stand a small girl whom they can give birth to trying to snatch their husbands...

As for the willing partnership,,konji na bastard

EfemenaXY:


Only a f00lish woman would leave her home, kids, business, etc to go confront a mistress. Why should she fight the man's battles for him while he sits there watching wifey embarrass herself over his shyte?
A woman can't force a man to sleep with her. The man must be a willing party for it to happen in the first place - and such a man deserves to lose his home.

Stillfire:


I think there's an orgas..mic sensation men feel having women fight over them.
A classy woman would never embarrass herself. Even if I were this stupid to attack a mistress, I would hire people to do the dirty work for me rather than soil my fingernails in a bid to 'confront'.

Nashville:

Confronting the girl does not mean going out to fight her. It could mean calling her and giving her a warning. It could mean calling her parents. It could mean calling someone that knows her or even in her office or church or finding a way to get back at her.
It is about passing a message that - young girl you are doing wrong and you this may bite you someday. I am not sure why you women are ignoring these young girls as if what they are doing is ok. This whole thing is about demand and supply. Wandering d1cks as you call them know that there are itchy puussies out there. If there were no itchy puussies, there wouldnt be wondering d1cks. I think both sides of the equation need to be addressed and not just wondering d1cks.

beeevan:
Don't confront a mistress, agreed! Edwife did you say meeting them in an eatery? I may not resist the urge to run them over . Reaction depends on my stage in life, too young to fight over a man....After one have built ,invested and old, a cockroach comes from no where to partake? Never confront a mistress if you have no tight game and the guts to see it through. Never fight a mistress if you intend leaving the man unscathed to continue dis respecting you, he can't cheat when he is bedridden.


If you are tired of marriage, get a divorce and let your partner take the blame for your cheating if they refused you freedom.

aisha2:
About fighting for what we believe in, If the man believed in us he will fight whatever temptation. That he cheated means he doesnt believe in us in the first place, so there is nothing to fight for