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Re: Confronting The Mistress by tpia6: 6:13pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
You're the one doing that, stop projecting. I simply gave my opinion, you do the same without fixating on my post because you certainly cannot intimidate me? |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:13pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
freecocoa: Now that she was screaming her life out, has it stopped her hubby from going back to the mistress? Has it stopped the cheating? NO!! you see why most nigerian women are taken to be stup1d? 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by pickabeau1: 6:14pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by crackhaus: 6:15pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Nashville:Actually I saw where you said that, I only reiterated it by asking again so the ladies commenting can see it and be sure - it was deliberate. Going by the comments, the general perception is leaning towards 'a physical throw-down' as the only form of confrontation. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 6:17pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:That will most likely push him farther away, if only our women will learn. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:17pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Spot on!! |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Pennywise(m): 6:18pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Not necessarily. Love and sex are entirely different things. Love is enduring. Sex is momentary pleasure. A lot of women storm out of their matrimonial homes only to find that 'all men are the same'. They end up living and dying in solitude, frustration and misery because being too old, no man would have them. It is a lot easier for women in the west to make this decision because of financial independence which is why divorce rate is highest among them. 2 Likes |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by tpia6: 6:19pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: So while the husband is inserting his penis into the mistress, his wife's screaming will not be reverberating through his head? What kind of sex is that where you are sweating like person wey see his dead great grandparents looking at him with ghostly eyes while he's having sex? You folks have no experience of what you're talking about, you just want to keep your " dignity" while your husband is humping various women all over the place. Or just say you do not have interest in fighting and the man is inconsequential to you anyway. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by damiso(f): 6:21pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
crackhaus: So what if the girl then tells you ' madam get off my phone where did you get my no are you ok do I know you what's my business with you ' amongst other tongue lashings. How has that helped anything or helped the marriage.Not saying she will but she is well within her rights to cos you called her . |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:24pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
freecocoa: Nigerian women will remain learners sorry to say. When they are tired, you will see them cheating too. lol. As you see me so, me i gat Ego too o. I got to boost it every now and then abeg. No time to check time. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Stillfire: 6:25pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
tpia6: What is wrong in the wife keeping her dignity while the husband runs around town in heat? Tpia if you want to fight your husband's mistress, nobody is stopping you. 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by beeevan: 6:26pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Very lovely program,always watch it till they switch to psychic investigators. I usually hate the ones that feature women killing their husbands just to cover their cheating ways and get the trust fund. I love " who on earth did I marry" too. There is this one about a man murdering his who*re after trying unsuccessfully to break loose from her and save his marriage, the bit*ch presented a foetus to trap the dude, not knowing she just touched a life wire, you know the rest.... You love the program too? |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:26pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
tpia6: Be very honest with yourself, has confronting/fighting mistresses ever stopped men from cheating? i dnt know where you are driving at. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Stillfire: 6:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
damiso: Lol, they keep on downplaying the confrontation to mere phone call or reporting to 'her' parents. lol As if a manic lover has any decency to respect a wife's phone call. 3 Likes |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Mariecakes(f): 6:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
If the wife doesn't deal with the mistress..The mistress will deal with the wife..... They know these men are married n they are dating them majorly because of money..but somehow along d line they start to believe another woman's man is their final bustop..Sooo u advice the wife to just sit there n do nothing while some useless chic wage war against her..lai lai I say Confront the bitch...she deserves more than a few slaps..but there are other creative ways of doing that n showing maturity wisdom n in control of the situation |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 6:29pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:I dey tell you walai. I've come to realize that, that ego of a thing is very important in one's life o. I can't remember how many times it has saved me from certain things as regards relationships, it's done me more good than harm. I must say though, one should always know where to draw the line. But come to think of it, why do so many naija women have none? Ego that is. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:33pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
freecocoa: The man will probably say to the mistress "You see the mad woman I have to put up with abi?" and the mistress will rub his big stomach and say "Sorry Baby I can imagine" while the wife is home going crazy dialing mistresses number calling pastor and sending text messages 4 Likes |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Stillfire: 6:34pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
aisha2: Buhahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
aisha2: Hahahahahahahahahaha. The stup1dity of women!!! Apalling!!! Chai!! 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by crackhaus: 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
damiso:I'm just saying, a confrontation doesn't have to be a physical fight. What happens, or how the other woman reacts, or the efficacy of 'confrontations' in general, is not where I'm driving at…but I get your point though. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
And you can bet pastor and mama and whoever she calls will say "Ignore him, pray for him, when he gets back make sure his dinner is ready, do not question him, dress sex-y, if he asks for se-x give him" lmao, so she switches off her pain and betrayal enters zombie mode, cheating continues with husband getting rewarded on both ends. While the women jazz, fight and fire each other |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by pickabeau1: 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
beeevan: Not really More like on off |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 6:38pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
aisha2:Kai! This woman you too funny but all you've said is true, hard as I try, I can't understand how you think the other woman is the problem. Like if she goes away, he won't find a replacement. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by tpia6: 6:40pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Mariecakes: eod. even the law makes it a crime to be the receiver of stolen goods. in this case, mr wandering prick is the stolen goods and the desperate hoochie is the receiver, yet some people are saying she should just get a pat on the back and go scot free. life is not like that, sorry. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by damiso(f): 6:40pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Stillfire: Some girls don't send anybody you are talking parents or pastor I know a lot of people think most naija gals date married men alot don't. Most gals who date married men or don't mind being side chics don't send the wife or main chic in the first instance so why should her ranting get at them Except we are talking more vicious attacks like getting thugs to beat her up , acid attacks, getting her kidnapped etc I don't think confrontation by mere verbal means can make much difference. I never dated married men because I always put myself in the position of the wife always.As a typical naija wake up gal I had married men who wanted to date me and I always used to think of their wives as one of the reasons I could never date them.So to date them or like dating them the girl no send, you abuse she abuse you back. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by freecocoa(f): 6:43pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Mariecakes:Hehehe. Go confront girl wey her own no good, your body go tell you. 1 Like |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:43pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
freecocoa: Oooooohhh. you are just like me. we are alike. This my ego ehn. Very very very precious to me o. it has also saved me from very huge ridiculous mistakes with men. Well, all women have ego. but you know the problem? nobody to massage it for them. it also has a lot to do with their upbringing. instead they are taught to massage that of men always. Nigerian women are veeeeeery gullible and have been taught to not have one. Infact its a sin to have one. It only takes a reaaaaaalllly strong willed quality and huge dose of self esteem to be capable of massaging your ego. Once you dnt have any of these qualities, it would appear you dnt have ego. Reminds me of this beyonce's song 'Ego'. I love that song. It boosts my ego. lol. Me, i dey massage my ego if nobody dey there to massage am for me o. Lol. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by tpia6: 6:45pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Stillfire: so its ok for the mistress to be manic but not the wife? if the mistress is manic and your man is still humping her regardless, what does that say? she used juju on him? |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by damiso(f): 6:49pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
crackhaus: I get you and Nashville but someone who is dating your husband does not send you in the first place.if you abuse her she abuse you except we mean vicious attacks to teach her a lesson e.g acid baths, thugs beating her up kidnapping etc.Or the wife begging the woman to leave her husband alone which frankly is a bigger insult. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by tpia6: 6:50pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Stillfire: what most of you are not getting here is IF YOUR HUSBAND IS RUNNING AROUND TOWN FREELY DISTRIBUTING HIS SERVICES LIKE A PUBLIC TAP, your dignity is already gone. which dignity are you looking for again when another woman is busy showing off what is supposed to belong to you? your "dignity" has vamoosed long time, you are still acting the emperor who wears no clothes, saying you have it. if I want to fight my husband's mistress, she will definitely win your choice dear. |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by pickabeau1: 6:53pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
..tpia....nåked empress |
Re: Confronting The Mistress by Nobody: 6:56pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
tpia6: I get what you are trying to say. So you will confront the mistress then what next? will it stop your husband from cheating? you have answered my question. |
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