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killjoy:
d society is still filled with bastards, savages and non-entities. dos armed robbers n kidnappers wer born n raised in homes having married parents - most likely. u think WizKids son wud be any less proud wen asked dsame question, whose son r u mind u, I don't see d big deal bout having kids, although I tink they are adorable n love dem.

Isn't ds guy an antichrist? Going against an institution set by God.its no news dat d devil is attacking marriages and y'all are listening to ds Demon of a guy.kip giving ur mind to d devil,he wl giv u a million rzns y u shdnt be marid.dnt pollute ur mind...

zyzxx:
c ur moniker "killjoy" so what will I expect dan u too kill d joy of marriage and show us d bad side



if ur parent are not married how will be born sire?

So everybody is born off a marriage? Haba u too!

abolem369:
N.B: DO NOT QUOTE ME N.B: DO NOT QUOTE ME. N.B: DO NOT QUOTE ME

SOME PPU(E.G OP) JUST COME AROUND AND COME UP WiTH A COMPOSITION BASED ON. THEIR FRUSTRATION,EXPERIENCE AND CHALLENGE AND PUT IT HERE FOR ODA PPU TO BELIEVE AND ACCEPt. WORSE STILL THE MODS MOVED IT TO FP.

MY QXNS FOR OP

HOW OLD ARE YOU?


HOW MUCH HAVE U SEEN IN LIFE?


WHAT ARE UR EXPERIENCES?


WHO ARE THE PEOPLE U'VE BEING ASSOCIATED WITH?


WHAT HAVE U BEING LEARNING ALL DIS DAYS oF YOUR LIFE?


EVEN. IF URE AS OLD AS METHUSELAH, WHO KNOWS WhETHER UVE BEING PRACTISING MADNESS! In ODa WORDS WE DON'T NEED YOUR COUNSEL! KEEP It To YOuRSELF!







MY ADVICE FOR POTENTIAL OPs
CONSIDER WHAT U WANT TO TYPE HERE VERY WELL(LEST U ARE USED BY THE DEVIL) COS U MIGHT MISLEAD HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS READING IT

MY ADVICE FOR DEAR READERs
NoT EVERYTHING YOU READ IS WORTH BELIEVING! GUILD YOUR HEART WITH ALL DILIGENCE!

MY ADVICE FoR MODs/SUPERMODS
WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE U?










ARE U ATHEIST?






POLITICIAN?









UNCONCERNED FELLA?













AGENT OF THe DEVIL?







MIND WHAT U POST ON FP!!!







BTW!


#DONT EVEN TRY TO BAN ME oR SOMETHING! YoU'LL PAY FoR It IF U EVER TRY!

MARRIAGE IS GOD'S OWN INSTITUTION, U MUST BE AN ATHEIST OP FOR GOING AGAINST IT

ucheokpara100:
women with their fish brain, so all we are talkin here d only tin tht entered ur mind is 2 analyse or be sure if ur 2 years boy friend still love u.

Laffin in Chinese

killjoy:
my view isn't biased but based on experience hence in touch with reality. if u don't believe single men hv as much fun as married men, tell me what they r missing.

You're wrong saying single men hv as much fun as married men. It's a fallacy! Single men have much more fun! Period!

Hey Killjoy I really enjoyed reading your post which really wasn't long. Also perceived a whiff of satire, but I may be assuming too much. I held those same ideas in college. Existential questions. The futility of it all--marriage, blah blah blah. After a few years I've revised my views a bit. I'm still not a fan of marriage, all my siblings around me are happily married with kids and its an open secret that i may yet never get married. I'm ferociously ambitious and fall into the categogory of men who value their career much higher than some flimsy societal expectation such as marriage/ having kids. But i hate low brow sex( which you describe as easy to get) and I value companionship/relationships much more. After a hard days work in which you've been brusided by stuffy corporate pri.cks you just want to slide into the warm knowing embrace of your woman or man( if u r female/g.ay), and not some easy lay. Yes. Mother Theresa didnt have kids and nobody remembers who the greats were marrried to. But their partners all had their roles in bringing the best out of them. Sometimes it could be stability sometimes it could be influence. Read their biographies. Einstein had women in his life right through to his grave( Married his cousin Elsa,lol). In Zlatan Ibramovic's autobiography he raved about how settling down and having kids had a calming influence and propelled him in his career. Your views were generally spot on but marred by sample bias. I could cite two of my favorite poets( Larkin and Auden) who remained single but the vast majority of great poets were married. My point is that the overwhelming majority of successful people are married( maybe not happily married, but most of them were) So it'd be a stretch to say having a good marriage and a successsful career are mutually exclusive. Personally i'd just want to have a partner and cohabit "happily" without the burden of marriage. But if that can't give, there's always a compromise to be made.

networkrecharg:
A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request.

The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

Moral of the story: To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is everything.

Waoo!!!.These your quote is so powerful. It brought tears to my eyes. It really nice to love and be loved back.

3cycle:
@ op.... something still tells me you will certainly get married even if you create another thread with 500 reasons why men shouldnt get married.
the truth remains that yo make all the money and you will still feel a vacuum in your life that only a woman can fill.

ok lets say you become the Dangote of your time, or get promoted to an enviable height, with whom would you share that happiness? your friends who probably might be busy with their families? or an empty house when you are 40?

women come with their own drama but without the drama, life will get soo boring for you.
women are the spice a man needs to make life sweeter.

you talk about adoption when you can get your own child? training another person's "mistake" while yours wastes away?
i believe you just typed all those under the influence of alcohol.

stop seeing women as a burden, a good woman is not interested in your useless money, rather she will push you up to a better and solid ground. no wonder the scripture said "he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord".
go figure

Let she push herself... if u get money...no dull moments. Poor married men and women will always be around begging and enjoying themselves. Any drama that leads to early grave is not welcome.

Marriage is done under stupor...if u must have kids...look at C. Ronaldo.

jmoore:
I will marry.
I will live long.
I will sleep with one woman(my wife) for the rest of my life.


He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God..

God bless you, Sir!!!!

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

na hw dem take bon u?

Policewoman:
The guy is right. Marriage benefit us much more than the menfolk.

babe...your posts are usually on point and unlike dt of most ladies...


this is the second or third post of urs am luving...


we suppose date o...

Ojugunrege:
God bless you, Sir!!!!

but wetin him still dey wait for?

God saw that Adam needed a companion and he gave him eve. marriage is an institution instituted by God himself. the entire body of a woman tends towards procreation from puberty. that is why when some women gets married, after giving birth they shift their love from d man to the child. marriage is to be enjoyed by both spouses with love and understanding they conquer all obstacles. open your hearts to love and live with someone whom you will not like anyone else to live with except you. God bless.

killjoy:
leme make this clear. der r guys who live in utopia (a perfect world were gals love n respect u for who u r irrespective of ur dead broke asss) n guys who live in reality (dey knw very well hw honey attracts flies n Hw money attracts gals). used to be lyk ur bf( by nw u shud knw d category he belongs to) I dated this gal for two years without sex (God is my witness) until she cheated on me, dumped my sorry assss n married a guy who had wot I was lacking - money. its just a matter of tym before reality jolts ur guy out of his dream.

Eyaaaa I understand where you are coming from now. O me gi strong tin! Sorry! Don't mind her ...

Princecalm:
Now i get what all this is all about,op has not really tasted true love that is why he opted for some so called judicious list,i know it will be a pain to op and his likes who see men marry and also live happily because all the girls they came across were bad eggs as they claim.But does it also occur to you that there are men who enjoys thier marriage till death do them part and why is it that they are and you are not enjoying yours?Certainly you are reaping the seeds you have sown.From op analysis he says the best way to keep yourself happy is to stay single all your life.Even Adam,the first man on earth asked for a companion and God who knows the best offered him a woman,why was Adam not happy when he was single.
Marriage really has a lot to offer,you belong to a family as the op indicated in his write-up,and others are going to be part of your family as well.

Adam never asked GOD 4 a companion.

killjoy:
as a matter of fact, d good tins marriage has to offer to a man r tins he can enjoy while still single. wot I withheld r more downsides to marriage. my parents r separated n seem happier that way. my friends Dada died of heart attack caused by his wife, look marriage shud be a no go area for a man who intends to live eida happy or long or both.

just because u came from a broken home doesn't mean u be discouraging others who have a wonderful homes now.
Marriage is a divine Order by the creator n if someone has decided to be blind folded like u how will u be who u r today
So just try to fix ur self b4 trying to fix others

LoL are we really supposed to take seriously a woman hater telling us not to marry?

Marriage in this generation is just unnecessary stress. You can be unmarried as a man and still live all the benefits in the so called marriage.
My wife once told me she does not like sex, which on the average was once a week. Can you imagine? What the OP stated are so true. Truth be told. When I was little I said I would never get married. Though! I don't regret marriage now o.... Still singleness is awesome.

Seriously I am confused.... If no marriage then that's the end of the world

shytt have you seen the way most of these nigerian women treat their housegirls or houseboys ? lwtmb. come dey inside the same house with this wicked person for the rest of your life ? na suicide be dat

This guy needs to understand the purpose of life. The guy is really spreading the idea of Lucifer, he should understand God supports marriage but Lucifer against it. Wish u quick recovery

zyzxx:
u are right about beyonce. But she is not our standard.
Av seen many Apy family ome. Which I luk up too
bro think positive and experience positive
Don't think negative it dangerous.

My moto is pray for the best but expect the worst.

killjoy:
d society is still filled with bastards, savages and non-entities. dos armed robbers n kidnappers wer born n raised in homes having married parents - most likely. u think WizKids son wud be any less proud wen asked dsame question, whose son r u mind u, I don't see d big deal bout having kids, although I tink they are adorable n love dem.

OP, ARE U ONE OF THE BASTARDS?

Omotolu:
...an organize human prepares for his death...

and how does being married prepares him for such. You really do not have a point bro.

killjoy:
d society is still filled with bastards, savages and non-entities. dos armed robbers n kidnappers wer born n raised in homes having married parents - most likely. u think WizKids son wud be any less proud wen asked dsame question, whose son r u mind u, I don't see d big deal bout having kids, although I tink they are adorable n love dem.

OP, ARE U ONE OF THE BASTARDS?
WHY DISTURB OTHERS WIT UR FAMILY PROBLEM.

faithugo64:
op since you have given them seven reasons not to marry,please give them hundred reasons why they should never sleep with another man's wife or probably why they should cut off their d*cks!

you & D.cks!

1 Corinthians 7:1-8 Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to live a celibate life. But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. The husband should fulfill his wife's sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband's needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won't be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. But God gives to some the gift of marriage, and to others the gift of singleness. So I say to those who aren't married and to widows—it's better to stay unmarried, just as I am.

AM IN LOVE I THINK I WILL MARRY MY PS4 THEN.

killjoy:
u knw dis is an anonimous forum so u can tok shit, meet me on d street n repeat these words nigger, if blood doznt flow out of ur head, call me a mad man

Tell am! The thing can pain. You will spend hours typing out a nice forum contribution. a shiit-gobbling imp will pop out from nowhere to shiit on it without reading or making any attempt to understand it. Bastardios!

I won't blame u 4 dis decision u'hv made buh I know 4 sure dat u wud regret it when u get Old n see ur mates carrying deir granchildren,by d way,u said u wud adopt if need be,who gave birth 2 the child u chose 2 adopt,Animals ba?