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echobee:
Coming back to reply. Make i s h i t first

NO!!!! Are guys even worth it??

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

Rival:
Interesting, but don't you think that by telling him you could strengthen his feelings of love for you and make him believe that you love him and chose him above everyone else, especially if you show that in actions also? Don't you think it would strengthen the bond of trust! Or perhaps telling him has nothing to add to building trust?

Evina:
Telling doesn't build trust. It mostly destroys it. What is the point in rubbing it in your man's face that he's got competition? Men have big egos, they want to be known as sole proprietors. Why deflate the ego?

Not wise, if you ask me.

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

DaGC:
I personally have no problem with knowing/not knowing that. If she says it, fine. If she don't, still fine.

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.

mizzkeji44:
Exactly.....sum guys wl even think you are lying or u want dem to be jealous.

How come we have so much in common?

Rival:
Sorry if I have to disagree with you, but the difference is where and how you choose to tell him!

In my opinion telling your man does not deflate his ego, rather it inflates it because he would think that he has in his possession what others want but can't get!

It makes him feel that you want him to be with you because he has some qualities you saw that the others do not have.

He'd feel that you're indirectly telling him that he's important to you and you want him to have complete trust in you; he'd feel that you're indirectly telling him that you'd not cheat on him and that he's everything you desire in a man.

Anyway, it's your opinion and I respect it!

EnlightenedSoul:
You mean you guys actually want your gf to tell you about every guy that hits on her, flirts with her, and etc.

That is just super weird.

ArtanK:
If my girlfriend did that, I'd get the idea that she wants to get a reaction out of me or perhaps make me feel a little jealous.

Evina:
Ohh sweetim, I couldn't respond to this post sooner cos I was banned from posting on the romance section

Unbelievable I am not even sure what rules I flunked

I think it is cause I type in French sometimes

mizzkeji44:
Sorry dear....glad to have you back,i miss ur views&ideas abt romance.

Evina:
Telling doesn't build trust. It mostly destroys it. What is the point in rubbing it in your man's face that he's got competition? Men have big egos, they want to be known as sole proprietors. Why deflate the ego?

Not wise, if you ask me.

Evina:
To what end? What is the essence of telling?

Truth be told, it is immature and girls who do, do it to test how jealous their partner is over them. They feel that the depth of jealousy exhibited by their boyfriend is a determinant factor of how much love he has. Lol...wash.

When maturity and experience sets in, you will realise that there is no need sharing such irrelevant information because it can begin to sow the wrong seeds.