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moca:
Kanwulia, what did u commit this time?
I thought u said u will free from temptation till next year?

Abeg u guys should unban kanwulia for me o!
If u guys need to barn anybody, go to politics abeg!

Angry black women indeed!

Coogar my bro a peacemaker?
Oh!
What a day!

Did you miss the memo?

https://www.nairaland.com/2009199/dear-nairaland-family-how-define

The 'devo' made me do h-it!

2CatWoman:
So, to summarize:

Angry black man (oh yes, he does exist) = whiteys/system fault.

Angry black woman = err, her own fault.

issokay.

how did u get that summary from all the pages

both genders have a part to play

coogar:
there are many factors to this.....
a black man will not let himself to be trampled upon by any woman. the black man has come a long way and to some extent -

hypogamy is in play when a white woman marries a black man. the black guy here isn't 100% comfortable because of the gulf that exists between the 2 social classes.

Coogar my man, did you at least go through that first link thoroughly...the author is even arguing against the diagrammatical-description stats posted on there

It's been hours since I asked her to tell us where she got her stats from and after scouring the length and breadth of the web, that is what she came up with...

I won't dispute the authenticity of it anyway, but anyone with some common sense would know why it appears that divorce rates among black males/white females is slightly higher than white males/black females.

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I never thought this thread would turn out to be this much fun... Lmao.. NL reputation now seems the best form of achievement for folks who otherwise lead totally boring and depressed lives.

Madness!

Who is this GenBuhari and how can we clone him?

GenBuhari:
SirShymex,
I never get abused by any female on nairaland. I have even just gotten a promise of a hug simply because if you show our women respect you get it back. If disrespect them then do not complain when the favour is returned.

Sure some women disagree with my views but I have rarely had any lady insult me for no reason like a lot of men tend to do just because you have a different view.

Louis Farrakhan said something like:
If we black men want their women to follow us and be subservient, then have to give her good reason to fall into that role. We black men need to ensure that we can offer her and our children protection, financial security and visionary and ambitious plan for the future . Then and only then would those female who wish to give you the respect of being treated as the head of the family.

But as is often the case in white man's land the black man is deliberately put down and given even less opportunities to get jobs than the black females. They usually can not offer the black woman and her children the protection, financial security or a plan for the future. But they still have the mindset that the black woman who often is the breadwinner must be subservient. This is why they label a black women angry because she cannot find any reason to give the black man the respect that he believes is his birthright.

The ball is in our court either we as black men man up earn the respect as breadwinner and head of our families or we accept that black women cannot be subservient in the way we are expecting her to be.

Below is one of my posts that I think you were referring to as being to pro-black. You can never be to pro-yourself.

Coming from a gentleman. This, my fellow angry sisters is very rare to find.
If you find a black man like this, why wont you submit your soul

G for General! Carry go! nothing do you. If i hear pim from anybody again for your side, hala at me to deal with the person.

Keep it real

GenBuhari:
[b]SirShymex,
I never get abused by any female on nairaland. I have even just gotten a promise of a hug simply because if you show our women respect you get it back. If disrespect them then do not complain when the favour is returned.

[size=20pt]Sure some women disagree with my views but I have rarely had any lady insult me for no reason like a lot of men tend to do just because you have a different view.[/size]

Louis Farrakhan said something like:
If we black men want their women to follow us and be subservient, then have to give her good reason to fall into that role. We black men need to ensure that we can offer her and our children protection, financial security and visionary and ambitious plan for the future . Then and only then would those female who wish to give you the respect of being treated as the head of the family.
But as is often the case in white man's land the black man is deliberately put down and given even less opportunities to get jobs than the black females. They usually can not offer the black woman and her children the protection, financial security or a plan for the future. But they still have the mindset that the black woman who often is the breadwinner must be subservient. This is why they label a black women angry because she cannot find any reason to give the black man the respect that he believes is his birthright.
The ball is in our court either we as black men man up earn the respect as breadwinner and head of our families or we accept that black women cannot be subservient in the way we are expecting her to be.
Below is one of my posts that I think you were referring to as being to pro-black. You can never be to pro-yourself.[/b]

Chukwu d'alu!

Logged back on!
Copied that!

*Logs back off*

ileobatojo:
Who is this GenBuhari and how can we clone him?

hope you are not an angry black woman

KanwuliaJara:
Chukwu d'alu!

Logged back on!
Copied that!

*Logs back off*

You still dey copy?

ileobatojo:
Who is this GenBuhari and how can we clone him?

Remove ya eyes from him

@Genbuhari

G for general, general in Calabar, general in women affairs, general in all good things. Please answer these questions;

1. How old are you?

2. Where are you based?

3. Are you single?

I have an angry black single female cousin who needs you in her life to calm her anger and gra gra

Chillisauce:
hope you are not an angry black woman

In fact, I'm defaulting to the head and neck crew with immediate effect.

Chillisauce:
You still dey copy?

Oh gal!
Na injurITY time we dey for this 'marssssssssssh' o.
I will only copy sensible men. . . FROM NOW ON!
Me sef don taya!
Shioooor!

Good to see a reeeeeeeeeeeal man on this thread.

I wish he can open a 'school' or JUST ONE CLASSROOM in this family section.
Me sef go attend.
I have been looking for one single GROWN man on this NL. . .
Glad to have found one. . . FINALLY-FINALLY!

OH LORD!

[size=20pt]O KA KA BI N'IGWE!!!!
[/size]


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlDxbalohms

pickabeau1:
both genders have a part to play

you're the only one saying that so far. The ladies are blaming the men and the men are blaming both the women and the system.

When a guy sends chain PMs to all kinds of chics on a forum.

You just have to question his sanity, and if he has a life outside this place.

Like, who does that? Insanity!!

jennykadry:
Remove ya eyes from him

@Genbuhari

G for general, general in Calabar, general in women affairs, general in all good things. Please answer these questions;

1. How old are you?

2. Where are you based?

3. Are you single?

I have an angry black single female cousin who needs you in her life to calm her anger and gra gra

LMAO!

GenBuhari

I'll reply you in a bit. You know we go back.

jennykadry:
Remove ya eyes from him

@Genbuhari

G for general, general in Calabar, general in women affairs, general in all good things. Please answer these questions;

1. How old are you?

2. Where are you based?

3. Are you single?

I have an angry black single female cousin who needs you in her life to calm her anger and gra gra

*dies*

SirShymex:
GenBuhari

I'll reply you in a bit. You know we go back.

Hehn?

Please. . .Your 'ROYAL' SIRNESS. . .

You don't have to REPLY.
Pleasssssssssssssssssssssssssssse!
I am using 'THE ROSE OF SHARON' to beg you.

You win.
Please. . . ANGRY WOMEN OF NL ASSOCIATION ARE ON THEIR KNEES!

*Hey. . . Time to pray. . . you wan to put san san in awa garri? . . . .NA WETIN WE DO YOU? . . . .*?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ww7SOqbslM8

crackhaus:
Coogar my man, did you at least go through that first link thoroughly...the author is even arguing against the diagrammatical-description stats posted on there

It's been hours since I asked her to tell us where she got her stats from and after scouring the length and breadth of the web, that is what she came up with...

I won't dispute the authenticity of it anyway, but anyone with some common sense would know why it appears that divorce rates among black males/white females is slightly higher than white males/black females.

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I never thought this thread would turn out to be this much fun... Lmao.. NL reputation now seems the best form of achievement for folks who otherwise live totally boring and depressed lives.

Madness!

stillfire is a comedian.....

she forgot the simple concept of hypergamy that is in the genetic code of our black women. less educated couples and couples with a high degree of disparity between education levels, are more likely to divorce than well-educated couples. so it's tenable for one to assume that intelligence and compatibility are crucial for having a successful marriage.

no black woman with college degree would marry a white man that is less educated. she's more likely to marry a white man that is on the same level(at least) or higher than her thus she's more likely to have a successful marriage.

due to the gulf in class between the black folks & white folks in america, only the left overs only really settle for the black men. it's a step-down for any white woman to go after the black man(unless he's stupendously rich). the average black man is not hypergamous - he can date a white senator or stoop low & date a white trash chic. the disparity in their intellectual level or educational background would lead to disparity which would then ultimately lead to a divorce.

KanwuliaJara:


*dies*

The girl too vex. Haba now I have her cure...she vex from lagos go abuja go PH enter Abia now she don return lagos

I for give her Coogar or sagamite but you and I know say na Coogar and sagamite obituary we go see for NTA after one week of marriage....."gratitude to God for a life well spent".....that girl fit kill person so she need man wey understand women in her life and I go pay for all the marriage tinsss

KanwuliaJara:
Oh gal!
Na injurITY time we dey for this 'marssssssssssh' o.
I will only copy sensible men. . . FROM NOW ON!
Me sef don taya!
Shioooor!

Good to see a reeeeeeeeeeeal man on this thread.

I wish he can start open a 'school' or ONE CLASSROOM in this family section.
Me sef go attend.
I have been looking for one single GROWN man on this NL. . .
Glad to have found one. . . FINALLY-FINALLY!

OH LORD!

[size=20pt]O KA KA BI N'IGWE!!!!
[/size]


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlDxbalohms

GenBuhari will cause some HBP. we still have hope.

jennykadry:
Remove ya eyes from him

@Genbuhari

G for general, general in Calabar, general in women affairs, general in all good things. Please answer these questions;

1. How old are you?

2. Where are you based?

3. Are you single?

I have an angry black single female cousin who needs you in her life to calm her anger and gra gra

ileobatojo:
In fact, I'm defaulting to the head and neck crew with immediate effect.

. Me i still dey look am with one eye, before you know the evil ones will corrupt him

Chillisauce:

GenBuhari will cause some HBP. we still have hope.

Jehovah you are so gooooooooooooooood
You are so HEGGGGZELENT!
Anya nee le uwa daddy!
Onye oma mee eeee

Jehovah e bu chim o!!!!
Jehovah JIREH!!!!


Omnisexxy GOD! YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOOOOOD!!!!




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Klz4TocPG-k

KanwuliaJara:
Me? I nor kia o. . . .France o. . . RUSSSSSSSSIA o. . . . .Belgium o. . . .Anyone!
OYINBO MEN DEY PROTECT THEIR WOMEN.
I think Germany!
There are 2 girls I grew up with in Nigeria as next door neighbors. . . .
Very good family! SERRRRRRRRIOUS AJEBOS!
Well brought up girls o. DEM NOR EVEN SABI SPEAK PIDGIN ENGLISH SEF!
Not flasshy. . . very level-headed. I never, ever heard them raise their voices as children.
Once wahala start. . . them go just carry dem shoes enter house je-je like them mama tell dem to do!

My dear. . . dem find husband taya for Nigeria. . . .
AS SOOOON AS DEM REACH GERMANY. . . na wedding bells o.
WITHIN ONE MONTH!
My sister gist me last month say she jam one of them for Abuja!
The older one. . . she narrated her woes with the 'husband' shortage in Nigeria and went to GERMANY TO MEET AN ONLINE SPOUSE!
Then got her younger sister to follow suit!

Omo!
If you see this girl now. . .HER HUSBAND(VERRRRRRRRRRRRRY YOUNG MAN) NA DIPLOMAT abi na BUSINESS TYCOON she call am?
She dey carry GUCCI-VUITTON BAG DEY PARADE FROM PLACE TO PLACE FOR ASOKORO! Hiahn!

No shouting. . . o
Flying first class from Nigeria to Germany like no man's business!
She says she has ABSOLUTELY NO REGRETS!
My sister say if you see this babe. . . .YOUR MOUTH GO FALL OPEN!
Very educated o! VERY, VERY QUIET!
BEHOLD! The Nigerian 'female rejects'!

Wow I missed a lot of quality posts. About protection, do you know that when the Whites arrived our unemasculated African men willingly gave up African women as gifts to suit the loins of the invaders? Africa was known as the sexu..al destination for the colonialists to engage in animalistic se.x spearheaded by the wise, ageless unemasculated wisdom of our men. Meanwhile these same colonialists had set up policies to protect their women from the django unchained menace of the black male. Our own dashed us out like the way Esau gave up his birthright for a plate of porridge!

Stillfire:
Wow I missed a lot of quality posts. About protection, do you know that when the Whites arrived our unemasculated African men willingly gave up African women as gifts to suit the loins of the invaders? Africa was known as the sexu..al destination for the colonialists to engage in animalistic se.x spearheaded by the wise, ageless unemasculated wisdom of our men. Meanwhile these same colonialists had set up policies to protect their women from the django unchained menace of the black male. Our own dashed us out like the way Esau gave up his birthright for a plate of porridge!

Chineke!!

Unemasculated kwa?

Shege!!

Sirshymex, Cococandy and all ye angry black women
Time to sheathe your swords .


Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God.

cococandy:
you're the only one saying that so far. The ladies are blaming the men and the men are blaming both the women and the system.

hmmmm


the fact is that if men step up once again to their responsibilities and dont abandon their kids AND AT THE SAME TIME women dont use the modern system to emasculate their men to get welfare benefits, using kids against the fadas...

That will be a start

KanwuliaJara:
Me? I nor kia o. . . .France o. . . RUSSSSSSSSIA o. . . . .Belgium o. . . .Anyone!
OYINBO MEN DEY PROTECT THEIR WOMEN.
I think Germany!
There are 2 girls I grew up with in Nigeria as next door neighbors. . . .
Very good family! SERRRRRRRRIOUS AJEBOS!
Well brought up girls o. DEM NOR EVEN SABI SPEAK PIDGIN ENGLISH SEF!
Not flasshy. . . very level-headed. I never, ever heard them raise their voices as children.
Once wahala start. . . them go just carry dem shoes enter house je-je like them mama tell dem to do!

My dear. . . dem find husband taya for Nigeria. . . .
AS SOOOON AS DEM REACH GERMANY. . . na wedding bells o.
WITHIN ONE MONTH!
My sister gist me last month say she jam one of them for Abuja!
The older one. . . she narrated her woes with the 'husband' shortage in Nigeria and went to GERMANY TO MEET AN ONLINE SPOUSE!
Then got her younger sister to follow suit!

Omo!
If you see this girl now. . .HER HUSBAND(VERRRRRRRRRRRRRY YOUNG MAN) NA DIPLOMAT abi na BUSINESS TYCOON she call am?
She dey carry GUCCI-VUITTON BAG DEY PARADE FROM PLACE TO PLACE FOR ASOKORO! Hiahn!

No shouting. . . o
Flying first class from Nigeria to Germany like no man's business!
She says she has ABSOLUTELY NO REGRETS!
My sister say if you see this babe. . . .YOUR MOUTH GO FALL OPEN!
Very educated o! VERY, VERY QUIET!
BEHOLD! The Nigerian 'female rejects'!

Smart girls.
German men are very good men.

Family-oriented, faithful, virtuous, hard-working, honest and expect women to be more than just a beautiful but shallow shell.
They have no issues with feminism and they know how to help around the house without thinking that their d*icks will fall off as a result of doing so.

He is my favorite German man.

[img]http://heavyeditorial.files./2014/06/save3.jpg%3Fw%3D640%26h%3D360[/img]

[img]http://www.gq-magazin.de/var/gq/storage/images/media/images/artikelbilder/unterhaltung/manuel-neuer_120804700-quer/2754316-3-ger-DE/manuel-neuer_120804700-quer_article_landscape.jpg[/img]

Stillfire:
Governmental policies and how accessible one is to education spearhead the knowledge of the public on the use of contraceptives and other health requirements. In a country like Nigeria that is obviously run by the 'unemasculated' men, how come it has not gotten into their thick skulls to create public awareness on contraceptives to alleviate problems that stem from black men's hypersexual, django unchained, manic disposition to sex. The black man indeed create civilization women can never enjoy.

Can you explain to me why the divorce rate between black men/white women are twice as likely to end up in divorce?
This pic places it at 200% more likely to divorce. Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[img]http://thoughtcatalog.files./2014/05/divorce.jpg?w=584&h=358[/img]

http://thoughtcatalog.com/jim-goad/2014/05/2-cute-handy-charts-on-interracial-marriage-divorce/

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3729.2008.00491.x/pdf

NH Black husband/White
wife marriages were twice as likely to divorce as
White/White couples, and NH Asian husband/
White wife couples were 59% more likely, according
to Model II. Highlighting the role of gender in
interracial dynamics, the reverse combinations actually
showed a lower or similar risk of divorce. White
husband/NH Black wife couples were 44% less
likely to divorce than White/White couples, and
White husband/NH Asian wife couples were only
4% more likely to divorce by Year 10

Now this study has shown us reasöns why the black woman is angry. Im gonna be blunt here. Its telling us thats theres something wrong with the way the black man runs his relationships with women in general. This macho, chauvinistic, selfish virus is the cause of the divorces. Na me dey tell u. All the garbage they have accumulated as a result of no mentor/father figure, baby mama ish, side chick/main chick ish, they think they can repeat all that on a white woman. Which white woman will take all that sh1t? That is why divorce is inevitable for them.
You wanna do all macho things for a white woman when u know she believes in equality/partnership, how the marriage go take survive? Lai lai. You wanna cheat as u like make white woman tolerate am? U dey craze?

In conclusion, the study has helped to answer babygirlfl's question.

Stillfire:
Wow I missed a lot of quality posts. About protection, do you know that when the Whites arrived our unemasculated African men willingly gave up African women as gifts to suit the loins of the invaders? Africa was known as the sexu..al destination for the colonialists to engage in animalistic se.x spearheaded by the wise, ageless unemasculated wisdom of our men. Meanwhile these same colonialists had set up policies to protect their women from the django unchained menace of the black male. Our own dashed us out like the way Esau gave up his birthright for a plate of porridge!

This same white men have realized we need LOVE. . . aka HANDLE WITH CARE.
And will do ANYTHING TO MAKE AMENDS FOR THE PAST.
Black man still dey lock women for 'crates' under ships to sell to EURASIA for ashawo work.
NA BINI MAN GO FIRST SELL IM OWN SISTER TO GO DO ASHAWO WORK FOR ITALY!

Gba be!

I saw this clip from youtube. . . I WAS CRYING UNCONTROLLABLY!
White people make US BETTER. . . BLACK PEOPLE MAKE US WORSE!
Fact!

Watch this:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7eXMV8Cc6s