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| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Tymax(m): 8:03am On Nov 30, 2014 |
3cycle:Don't want NL babes to spam me with PMs  |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Tymax(m): 8:04am On Nov 30, 2014 |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by MizMyColi(f): 8:04am On Nov 30, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Free her joor  She never said that expressly, did she? Besides, whoever sets out to date a broke guy or girl  Life just throws it at some of us and we do so in the hope that things'll get better  2 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by jmoore(m): 8:06am On Nov 30, 2014 |
If you are judging from his spending habits towards you then you are making a wrong conclusion about him. A stingy guy should be stingy to others too. Does he spend on his siblings? Does he spend on his parents? A man can decide not to spend on you but still spend on his siblings and parents.You call him stingy while his siblings and parents are enjoying. "What kind of man does that?". A man that is treading with caution is the one doing that, he doesn't want to be the latest mugu in town. This type of man will definitely change after wedding and start spending on you because he now knows you are his wife, you deserve it. If you think a man that spends on you while dating will not change after wedding, then you are on a 'long thing'. Most men use cash and gifts as bait. After the wedding, their true colours will appear. Their focus will now be on the kids. I watched a report on NTA months ago and it confirmed this statement. 98%(women) of those interviewed said their husbands no longer take care them as they did during their dating days. Who is a stingy man? A man that is unwilling to spend money on others not just on you. You want your wardrobe to be changed, you want recharge cards, you want brazilian hair. If your parents can't give you these, is it not fair to tag your parents stingy too? They are the ones to do that, it is their duty!! Btw, look in the mirror. Are you a stingy lady? Judge yourself the same way you judge him. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by pickabeau1: 8:07am On Nov 30, 2014 |
MizMyColi: I tire oooo.....she no even revise wetin she post But seriously why can't girls date a broke guy Don't guys date poor girls n upgrade them 3cycle: Lol |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by iceberylin(m): 8:08am On Nov 30, 2014 |
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| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 8:10am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Tymax:They won't, pls attach the note |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Michelle55: 8:12am On Nov 30, 2014 |
3cycle:hahahahaha.... i neva sée one before oh dearie.mayb cos i dont actually dépend on dem for anytin sha. but wait oh..how u take knw say guys dey stingy abi u don date one before? |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by holatin(m): 8:12am On Nov 30, 2014 |
I hate materialistic Girls |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Odunharry(m): 8:13am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Raiders:1million likes 1 Like |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Tymax(m): 8:14am On Nov 30, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Guys have never complained about broke girlfriends. Please delete that error from your comment.  |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Odunharry(m): 8:14am On Nov 30, 2014 |
ahmodu4real:buhahahahah |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Odunharry(m): 8:15am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Michelle55:God bless u |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by chibwike(m): 8:19am On Nov 30, 2014 |
All these Nairaland girls cef..... I dont know what you people are taking us,as cef. U guys are making this dating stuff, look like,.its a priviledge to we guys to date u people. Abeg u guys shud just you work hard for your own self., and forget about this stingy guy or generous guy., Afterall am not your father. 1 Like |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Michelle55: 8:19am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Odunharry:bless u too dear |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 8:21am On Nov 30, 2014 |
I am totally not against a guy spending reasonably on a lady. Matter of factly I am of the view that a guy who has no viable means of livelihood shouldn't get into any serious relationship, safe for one or more not too seroous dates. My reservations notwithstanding, I am totally not into ladies who believe the guy owe them the duty of spending on them. More so when such expenses fall within the purview of parental responsibility, except for exceptional cases which rarely occur. 3 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by MizMyColi(f): 8:40am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Tymax: Ask the admin of this forum www.nairaland.com/attachments/1902628_screenshot20141129145146_png3c113995739c1e0b247ae6daddbb18d6 |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by MizMyColi(f): 8:42am On Nov 30, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Are you also a proponent of gender equality? |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 8:42am On Nov 30, 2014 |
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| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 8:43am On Nov 30, 2014 |
MOST ladies beg 2much diz days.. U have turned it, into an employable job. D WORST is dat, most stuffs u ladies BEG for are already in your possession. How du u xpect a guy to change a fone he just bought for u few weeks ago. Just because a new one arrived.. Just for u to meet up. We now have more INDOOR BEGGARS dan OUTDOOR.... Hardly will u find a lady that is project -driven.. Everyday SHOPPING..SHOPPING...SHOPPING.. with whose money..? The only THING left is for d guys to start taking their ENTIRE FAMILIES out ,for shopping... IS THIS HOW YOUR PARENTS TAKE U OUT 4 SHOPPING....? D WORST dat can happen to u as a struggling GRADUATE IS TO DATE A JOBLESS and insatiable lady... 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 30, 2014 |
This girl na poverty dey worry you and It's obvious. He should recharge your fone, give you money for your hair, change your wardrobe. what's the use of your parents? Why do ya ladies feel it's your boyfriend's duty to provide all these for you. If your parents can't provide them for you then go and Stand in Festac! Your bf is suppose to do things on his own and not ask him. Thats where guys differ from one another cause some of us like giving willingly and others unwillingly buh that doesn't give ya the impetus to tax us. Lastly, girls asking for all these things you just mention are the ones who usually get fvcked cheaply for money, you beta reboot that ur brain and think straight b4 I classify you among the Un-loyal hoes. I wonder why many of you ladies opening this type of provocative thread always hide ya Ugly faces. Maybe that's the reason a brother don't wanna spend on ya, coz ya ugly. Just saying  3 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 8:46am On Nov 30, 2014 |
lilmax:. A girl buying a phone and u recharging it for her,I remember people buy things they can afford and maintain and not buying for others to maintain it for them. Just like sm1 will be told buying a car isn't the problem bt can u keep the car in good condition when the need arises. |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by pickabeau1: 9:01am On Nov 30, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Its either all or nothing... gender equality in all its forms Women too should start marrying men below their social class...lol |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by AJ01(m): 9:03am On Nov 30, 2014 |
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| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Michelle55: 9:07am On Nov 30, 2014 |
hmmmm... oya ladies una don hear am frm d men..make una wise up nd work for ur own money.cum to think of it sha..dis guys aint ur parents so lets sit up nd do wat we knw how to do well i.e. working afterall wat a man can do,women can do bêta if not best sef. kayciano:hmmmm... oya ladies una don hear am frm d men..make una wise up nd work for ur own money.cum to think of it sha..dis guys aint ur parents so lets sit up nd do wat we knw how to do well i.e. working afterall wat a man can do,women can do bêta if not best sef. 1 Like |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Michelle55: Two gun shot of Halleluia! For you this Cool Sunday money. Plz advice this ya fellow female folk to go and hustle and stop depending on bf. Ogini! A man, no just a man. A reasonable man can only be supportive of his woman when he sees she has a goal, a direction to achieve something, a path that will yield positively. Taking my gf for instant, I sent money to assist her with her skul project even though I knw she has her own moni. If I didn't that makes me an uncaring n stingy bf buh I knw it's for her own gud n future. Recharge card things it's on my own terms even though I send it to her a lot. She dare not ask me on her own coz I will deliberately refuse. |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by johnfiyele(m): 9:12am On Nov 30, 2014 |
....let's take a look @ d same scene backward in time... d black nd white days …ladies can ask their mothers what sort of ladies they were in those days... I hate stringy people... but most stingy people still give to some other people or purpose. my question is why? are they supposed to give @all?... I v a friend who people think nd even say he's stingy but he isn't to me. my conclusion: how connected r u to d person? if ur not he's friend don't expect any sacrifice from him cos as far as he's concerned he's wasting his resources if spends it on a course not connected to him.. get real connected to him... understand him nd u wouldn't v problem with receiving or giving to him. that's being a lady nd not ashawo! 1 Like |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 30, 2014 |
D annoying part is dat,this is ORDINARY DATING ...not even a legally married .. I can NEVER DATE a visionless and jobless lady. D worst is that if u hear what these ladies request for... A lady(24yrs) i once took to silver bed cinema..b4 i met my BELOVED FIANCEE... Immediately, we alighted she went straight for sun glasses costing about #15,400... I asked her whom she wanted to see with such glasses..(may be ghosts). Before she could turn around, i had already scampered through d emergency exit... 6 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by mikeomo11(m): 9:14am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Michelle55:You are a reasonable lady. |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Michelle55: 9:15am On Nov 30, 2014 |
Stelvin101:i don hear sir but u guys shud aleast put a smile on ur gfs faces kwanu by helpn dem small.dats for dos dat actually nids it becos person like me too dey proud to ask sef cos i hâte begn. i bliv whoeva dat wanna assist u will do so on his own accord not cos u asked. a genuine man will help u in anyway hé can if u truly merit it.dats ma bliv sha 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Michelle55: 9:21am On Nov 30, 2014 |
mikeomo11:tnx nd remain blessed |
| Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by MizMyColi(f): 9:23am On Nov 30, 2014 |
pickabeau1: That happens everyday na For what it's worth, I'm more a fan of mutual respect among people of all genders.  |
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