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Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


She obviously lacks the ability to take care of herself so he probably also pays for her life and so she is dependent on him.
Birds of same feather...loneliness is really tellin on you both.hehehehehe
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 9:00am On Nov 30, 2014
Midehi:

I remain Midehi notin else ok, & pls dnt give me names..turn ursef to Medusa..i dnt care

Sigh... They lied. Ignorance is not bliss, it's painful... Okay nana, I can see ignorance puts you to sleep at night...go on...
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


If that was meant to be an insult it went right over my head. As I said, I don't speak ignorant ... Next insult...

Ps: I've said over and over again I don't consider myself a feminist. The reason I don't cook or clean has nothing to do with feminism it's because I've never needed to learn or do manual labour. Some of us can afford to pay people to cook and clean for us wink

You keep insisting that you are not a feminist but you believe in equality, may I ask what you think feminism means?

I also believe in equality but with the way many men are insecure and emotionally sensitive it may just be that women are actually a tard better than they are grin grin grin
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 30, 2014
VickyyB:

What a LOOSE GIRL. angry

You like your bf 'cos of prick. Smh
Why do guys go for prick enlargement?....for ur mind to evn go there,u are so loose..birds of same feather
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:03am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


Sigh... They lied. Ignorance is not bliss, it's painful... Okay nana, I can ignorance puts you to sleep at night...go on...

Please ignore that attention seeker, probably a man posing as a woman. There are many of them on this site and they show up a lot in threads like this to talk about how they submit to their boyfriends and husbands and how they are very very happy and living satisfied lives because of that.
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:04am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


Sigh... They lied. Ignorance is not bliss, it's painful... Okay nana, I can see ignorance puts you to sleep at night...go on...
Lmao
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:06am On Nov 30, 2014
fellis:


Please ignore that attention seeker, probably a man posing as a woman. There are many of them on this site and they show up a lot in threads like this to talk about how they submit to their boyfriends and husbands and how they are very very happy and living satisfied lives because of that.
Hehehehehehehe.. pity
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:07am On Nov 30, 2014
Midehi:

Why do guys go for prick enlargement?....for ur mind to evn go there,u are so loose..birds of same feather
There's no effective penis enlargement.

Btw, they do it for LOOSE GIRLS like you.
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:09am On Nov 30, 2014
VickyyB:

There's no effective penis enlargement.

Btw, they do it for LOOSE GIRLS like you.
hahahahahaha....hw do u kno dey do it for loose girls..cos u av tested it..tnx for admitting dear
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:10am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


There you go with your Engrish again...
U are really frm d bush
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by folameme(f): 9:21am On Nov 30, 2014
Midehi:

U are jus a cheap LovePeddler dat has reduce ur tinkin facaulty.. ur brain is so loosed dat u dint get me...i dint ask of ur dull opinion...freak*harlot* stilvryproudofmywaywittreasure...
lol u call me a harlot?well thnx becos I know no guy is entitled to see my unclothedness just my future hubby. I really want u to be sincere honey,don't u have sex wit your bf?doesn't he pay your bills?isn't that why u have no dignity or a say in d r/ship?don't u clean and cook?what have u contributed to the r/ship since it started?its only a lady who has lost her dignity and pride as a woman thinks exactly like u,must u be dependent on a guy?can't u make ur own a decision?what makes d guy superior to you?becos of the two balls between his legs?smh,u really need to re_ orientate yourself,becos u've really lost it,if u know your worth,no guy should lord over you,you should be his partner not slave,I bet all u do is cower in fear and leave everything to ur bf lmao,have some sense of dignity and pick up d left pieces u've got,A man has got to respect ur decisions and opinion not u been submissive as if he birthed u,he's your lover for christ's sake,u both compliment eachother,not u acting like a dumb indecisive gal becos u don't want to challenge his ego and he lording over u. Inspite of all these ur submissiveness,I won't be surprised if he still cheats on u,that's to show that guys loves an independent woman who knows her worth,value and can make decisions herself not one who always have to look up to her man for direction (lmao),its shows how shallow u are becos deep down,u know u've got nothing to offer!!!cheers
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 9:25am On Nov 30, 2014
fellis:


You keep insisting that you are not a feminist but you believe in equality, may I ask what you think feminism means?

I also believe in equality but with the way many men are insecure and emotionally sensitive it may just be that women are actually a tard better than they are grin grin grin

1. I do not label myself. I am a human being therefore I'm dynamic and am not defined by any one thing. I do not need a label, my character and passions are enough definition of who I am and they are as flexible as I am.
2. Feminism is a political movement aimed at advancing women. In theory, it is an admirable cause but in practice in my opinion it fails because it by its very nature of focusing on women it is sexist and becomes the flip side of male chauvinism. In the end it creates an "us" (women) vs "them" (men) environment because it is solely focused on advancing women. Feminists also tend to be condescending to men and to women who don't fall into their beliefs and movement. For example many feminists hold disdain for women who choose to be housewives. I believe if you want to sit and bake all morning while popping babies in the afternoon then so be it, as long as it's your YOUR CHOICE and you still retain your personal power. It doesn't make you any less of a strong woman. Also I believe in order to create healthy and sustainable change men have to be included not excluded and the feminist movement excludes men. Feminism is detrimental to both women and men. We should promoting HUMAN rights, not WOMEN'S rights or MEN'S rights - it should be a holistic approach. Feminism is political and therefore is a fight for power. A true feminist fights for power and I'm not in the power game.
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 9:29am On Nov 30, 2014
fellis:


Please ignore that attention seeker, probably a man posing as a woman. There are many of them on this site and they show up a lot in threads like this to talk about how they submit to their boyfriends and husbands and how they are very very happy and living satisfied lives because of that.

Lol
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by folameme(f): 9:29am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


Just curious: Have you ever had a differing opinion to his to something important? Did you suppress it or express it? If you expressed it, what was his reaction and how did that make you feel? (Really am curious, I'm trying to understand the kind of relationship you have)

Btw I find it hard to believe he only has complements for your outfits. Surely if he is someone who likes judging your clothes there have been outfits he hasn't liked, unless you deliberately dress in a way you know he will find pleasing...? In which case that means you have absolutely no mind of your own in this relationship. Do you not then see that not being allowed/given the opportunity to have a mind of your own means he has authority and power over you? In other words you are a child and he is your father?
love u mucho honey,I bet all she does is to cower in fear without hurting her man's ego,so all he does is to complement ur dressing?wow,that really shows how shallow minded u are,didn't I say u have nothing to offer in d r/ship?lmao I tot love is patient and not selfish,so for a man to love u whole heartedly,u have to be submissive?he has to make d ultimate decisions without your opinions?wow,babe wake up and smell d coffee,and ask self dis qst,(Are u really happy)cheers!
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by folameme(f): 9:34am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


If you want to say something to me you are need to learn English. I do not speak or understand ignorant language.

Ps before you use big people language it will help you immensely to learn the meaning of words first wink
hehehehe,lmao
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by folameme(f): 9:35am On Nov 30, 2014
Midehi:

pls how old are u,i hope u are more dan 18yrs ooo,if u are,so sorry abt ur shallow tinkin...did i tell u his complement on me is only on cloths...i av notin to xplain to u agn cos i blive u are underage... all i kno is i av d best r/ship.
lo why won't u,when u've got nothing to offer lmao
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 9:36am On Nov 30, 2014
folameme:
lol u call me a harlot?well thnx becos I know no guy is entitled to see my unclothedness just my future hubby. I really want u to be sincere honey,don't u have sex wit your bf?doesn't he pay your bills?isn't that why u have no dignity or a say in d r/ship?don't u clean and cook?what have u contributed to the r/ship since it started?its only a lady who has lost her dignity and pride as a woman thinks exactly like u,must u be dependent on a guy?can't u make ur own a decision?what makes d guy superior to you?becos of the two balls between his legs?smh,u really need to re_ orientate yourself,becos u've really lost it,if u know your worth,no guy should lord over you,you should be his partner not slave,I bet all u do is cower in fear and leave everything to ur bf lmao,have some sense of dignity and pick up d left pieces u've got,A man has got to respect ur decisions and opinion not u been submissive as if he birthed u,he's your lover for christ's sake,u both compliment eachother,not u acting like a dumb indecisive gal becos u don't want to challenge his ego and he lording over u. Inspite of all these ur submissiveness,I won't be surprised if he still cheats on u,that's to show that guys loves an independent woman who knows her worth,value and can make decisions herself not one who always have to look up to her man for direction (lmao),its shows how shallow u are becos deep down,u know u've got nothing to offer!!!cheers

Please do not take offence. She is no adversary of yours. We need to be understanding. She is a submissive and never gets a chance to be rampant or say the nonsense in her head, this is her chance and that is why I've been entertaining her. Hopefully she will get enough joy to move it from the internet to her real life. (We can only hope)
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:

1. I do not label myself. I am a human being therefore I'm dynamic and am not defined by any one thing. I do not need a label, my character and passions are enough definition of who I am and they are as flexible as I am.
2. Feminism is a political movement aimed at advancing women. In theory, it is an admirable cause but in practice in my opinion it fails because it by its very nature of focusing on women it is sexist and becomes the flip side of male chauvinism. In the end it creates an "us" (women) vs "them" (men) environment because it is solely focused on advancing women
I understand you and personally I also hate labels and believe in individuality so if you don't want to be identified as a feminist then that is A-Ok , its completely fine.
On the bolded part of your post; Feminism focuses on women only in aspects where they are denied opportunities or rights that they deserve just because of their gender.
Ideally, feminism doesn't focus on women in situations where women are not suffering sexism so I don't believe it is the flipside of chauvinism, I believe it is a human rights movement.
For instance feminists will never tell you that a woman should 'submit'and let her husband take every major decision in her life simply because she is female and even when she does not like that arrangement. If there is an understanding and full consent between both parties to live like that then no problem, feminism has no reason to come into the picture. The movement works to help women ONLY when they are being oppressed because of gender, not just because they are women.

It's quite unfortunate though, very unfortunate infact, that some women have started hiding under the cover of feminism to immitate patriarchal men and to make the movement look like it is promoting the kind of gender supremacy many men are very keen on promoting over women. One cannot solve a problem or defeat their oppressors by acting like them.

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Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by folameme(f): 9:41am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


Engrish is what you speak because English is clearly above you. Case point? Saying Mr to a woman, well... Unless you used Mr to show I have an intelligence of a man which you clearly view as above yours in which case you mean my intelligence exceeds yours. So... grin THANK YOU!!!
kisses
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by folameme(f): 9:56am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


Please do not take offence. She is no adversary of yours. We need to be understanding. She is a submissive and never gets a chance to be rampant or say the nonsense in her head, this is her chance and that is why I've been entertaining her. Hopefully she will get enough joy to move it from the internet to her real life. (We can only hope)
lol
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 30, 2014
folameme:
lol u call me a harlot?well thnx becos I know no guy is entitled to see my unclothedness just my future hubby. I really want u to be sincere honey,don't u have sex wit your bf?doesn't he pay your bills?isn't that why u have no dignity or a say in d r/ship?don't u clean and cook?what have u contributed to the r/ship since it started?its only a lady who has lost her dignity and pride as a woman thinks exactly like u,must u be dependent on a guy?can't u make ur own a decision?what makes d guy superior to you?becos of the two balls between his legs?smh,u really need to re_ orientate yourself,becos u've really lost it,if u know your worth,no guy should lord over you,you should be his partner not slave,I bet all u do is cower in fear and leave everything to ur bf lmao,have some sense of dignity and pick up d left pieces u've got,A man has got to respect ur decisions and opinion not u been submissive as if he birthed u,he's your lover for christ's sake,u both compliment eachother,not u acting like a dumb indecisive gal becos u don't want to challenge his ego and he lording over u. Inspite of all these ur submissiveness,I won't be surprised if he still cheats on u,that's to show that guys loves an independent woman who knows her worth,value and can make decisions herself not one who always have to look up to her man for direction (lmao),its shows how shallow u are becos deep down,u know u've got nothing to offer!!!cheers
I just want u to know dat i dint read all ds trash u wrote here cos i know der wont be any sense in it....e pain u? hahahahahahahaha.
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 30, 2014
folameme:
love u mucho honey,I bet all she does is to cower in fear without hurting her man's ego,so all he does is to complement ur dressing?wow,that really shows how shallow minded u are,didn't I say u have nothing to offer in d r/ship?lmao I tot love is patient and not selfish,so for a man to love u whole heartedly,u have to be submissive?he has to make d ultimate decisions without your opinions?wow,babe wake up and smell d coffee,and ask self dis qst,(Are u really happy)cheers!
Harlot of same feather Bleep togeda...
cant imagine my simple write-up turn ur heads upside down dat u cudnt figure out wat i said...its a pity...if its nt hurtin u gurls or u not jelous dat u dnt av a faithful & cute guy,u wont be replyin me..sowie ooo...shud i recomend gud guys for u..hey i don die for laff ooooo....keep on replyin me,keep it up..attention seekers...basterds...harlots...stinky pussy...uuuuzzzzz...Tchao
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 10:41am On Nov 30, 2014
fellis:

I understand you and personally I also hate labels and believe in individuality so if you don't want to be identified as a feminist then that is A-Ok , its completely fine.
On the bolded part of your post; Feminism focuses on women only in aspects where they are denied opportunities or rights that they deserve just because of their gender.
Ideally, feminism doesn't focus on women in situations where women are not suffering sexism so I don't believe it is the flipside of chauvinism, I believe it is a human rights movement.
For instance feminists will never tell you that a woman should 'submit'and let her husband take every major decision in her life simply because she is female and even when she does not like that arrangement. If there is an understanding and full consent between both parties to live like that then no problem, feminism has no reason to come into the picture. The movement works to help women ONLY when they are being oppressed because of gender, not just because they are women.

It's quite unfortunate though, very unfortunate infact, that some women have started hiding under the cover of feminism to immitate patriarchal men and to make the movement look like it is promoting the kind of gender supremacy many men are very keen on promoting over women. One cannot solve a problem or defeat their oppressors by acting like them.



Where are you from, may I ask?
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by conscript1967: 11:05am On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


A bigger fool than someone with an intelligence less than a 2 year old? :-/

DieeDiee dear pls don't let them drag u down to their level of trading insults. I respect ur vews personally. No MAN wants a lady that has no mind of her own( ie dummies). But submission in a relationship must be mutual for it to work. Sometimes he submits to u even though he is de head,and sometimes u submit to him even though u don't agree. All done in love and respect like de left hand that washes the right hand and is then washed by the right hand.I don't believe in gender equality( I just naturally feel protective of women) and I don't believe in gender superiority( trust me men are never superior to women. Sadly some ladies just let themselves slide. Laziness?) Both gender are just different in ways that complement each other. Some women even make more money than their man yet they keep their home running smoothly. Heroes......
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by mikolo80: 12:36pm On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


... The crickets are getting loud. Still waiting for your evidence ...
ye,me cricket
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by mikolo80: 12:46pm On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


... The crickets are getting loud. Still waiting for your evidence ...
ye,me cricket. Anyway enjoy your insult
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by mikolo80: 12:52pm On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


... The crickets are getting loud. Still waiting for your evidence ...
Why should I be submissive? He's not my master he is just my partner. I have no problem allowing a man LEAD but he cannot LORD/MASTER over me. I am not a submissive kind of woman and I was never taught to be submissive.

2) I don't understand why I keep being blamed. All the r/ship burden has been put on me and it seems you guys expect the woman to put in 350% effort and the man only 25% Yet, I'm supposed to allow this man to lord over me?
Burden , lord, master,weakness is it a competition
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 1:11pm On Nov 30, 2014
conscript1967:


But submission in a relationship must be mutual for it to work...
I don't believe in gender equality( I just naturally feel protective of women) and I don't believe in gender superiority( trust me men are never superior to women. Sadly some ladies just let themselves slide. Laziness?) Both gender are just different in ways that complement each other...

Oh no darling, maybe you didn't read the beginning of my post. But from the beginning I said I have no problem with a man being a leader in fact I believe men should be leaders of the home. A real man is one who is comfortable with himself and his masculinity and is able to lead without needing his woman to submit to him. He doesn't need that power because he knows he has power already and he knows how to use it effectively. A leader guides. He INSPIRES respect and honour, he does not command it through dominion (ie submission). His woman follows him out of WILL not SUBMISSION. Because he is a leader instead of a master mutual respect and honour bears itself ORGANICALLY out of the relationship and a healthy balance of power settles that enables the woman to take lead when necessary (maybe he is momentarily weak for whatever reason).

Submission in a relationship means one thing and one thing only there are no other meanings. You can consult Websters, Collins, encyclopedia ask a psychiatrist whatever the answer will remain the same: to submit is to YIELD to a SUPERIOR power the one who yields has ABSOLUTELY NO power. In a healthy relationship at no point should anyone lose power. If I compromise to you (which is what I suspect you mistake submission for) it should be out of MY WILL not YOUR DEMAND.

As for "equality" humans in general are not equal but even so there is a certain level dignity we are all entitled to as creations, this consciousness even spills over to the environment and animals. There is a huge difference between capability and ability. Of course by design men are generally stronger and faster than women and it's okay for you to feel protective and that says nothing about her capability. At that present time she may not be able to protecting herself (maybe she never learnt fighting skills) but that does not mean she's not capable (after learning the skills).
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 1:15pm On Nov 30, 2014
mikolo80:
Why should I be submissive? He's not my master he is just my partner. I have no problem allowing a man LEAD but he cannot LORD/MASTER over me. I am not a submissive kind of woman and I was never taught to be submissive.

2) I don't understand why I keep being blamed. All the r/ship burden has been put on me and it seems you guys expect the woman to put in 350% effort and the man only 25% Yet, I'm supposed to allow this man to lord over me?
Burden , lord, master,weakness is it a competition

Highlight or make bold the part where I say marriage is a competition. Friendly advice: don't ever try to be smart on the internet again you'll just end up looking like the illiterate fool you look like right now cry
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by walanter(m): 2:02pm On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


If you want to say something to me you are need to learn English. I do not speak or understand ignorant language.

Ps before you use big people language it will help you immensely to learn the meaning of words first wink
moreover I think u misunderstand u ur self while while quoting d topic and generalizing the whole shit ...I repeat ur ego met land u in to a big depth.
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by DieeDiee: 2:26pm On Nov 30, 2014
walanter:
moreover I think u misunderstand u ur self while while quoting d topic and generalizing the whole shit ...I repeat ur ego met land u in to a big depth.


IYOOOO not another Engrish speaker! This is so painful to watch cry You have something to say to me but your Engrish is getting the best of you and you not getting your message across. What ever you are trying to say is falling at your feet and not reaching me. Shame Lala, how far did you get in school? I really do feel for you because I'm sure whatever you said in your mind it had power and punch cry ... Very sad ...
Re: Women Must Be Submissive In A R/ship? Ladies Your Say? by scribble: 4:07pm On Nov 30, 2014
DieeDiee:


LMAO!!!!!! *dead*
You are not a good man, you are nothing but a pathetic, sorry excuse of a human being. You only wish you are a man. All you are is a little boy trying to play big.


silly nitwit


leave me alone na


go and die

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