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Hey guys ..theres a guy at church thats kinda confusing me right now. In my church; men and women aint allowed to socialise.
I had this guy on facebook and we chat der until he asked for my number so i gave him.
He phones everyday and i dont pick up coz i honestly dunno what we will talk about.
he now chats me on watsap tellin me i make his day and make him smile when i say "whatever".
We chat everyday now and i know the policy of the church..and i dont wanna break the rules..
Im just confused..do yall think theres more to it or im just being hyper for nothing?

Make i first iceberylin comment jor



dont your church encourage marriage

What kind of useless church is that

He likes you but he is shy
Do you like him ?
what da church policy ?

just flow.. what would Jesus do?

should the church stiffle your social life?

chibwike:
Make i first iceberylin comment jor

Too bad

iceberylin:
Too bad

Now worry..i don modify

chibwike:
Now worry..i don modify

For ya small mind abi

Awww yall not helping

Both you and your church are not serious

That moment when a guy who hasn't asked you out is already getting you wet.

Mbok OP; explain clearly what you mean by,'my church doesn't allow us to socialise' to avoid ambiguity.
From there, let's see how it'll roll.

first of all what is the name of your church??
furthermore, are there married people in your church?

jashar:
Mbok OP; explain clearly what you mean by,'my church doesn't allow us to socialise' to avoid ambiguity.
From there, let's see how it'll roll.

theres something called holy distance ..
We dont want no fallin in love and lust b4 marriage

what is d name of ur church? simple question

Tallesty1:
That moment when a guy who hasn't asked you out is already getting you wet.

Hahaha! You're badder than bad!

holy distance? d tin get as e be.

holy distance? d tin get as e be.




and u said u chat with him everyday on whatsapp and yet u won't pick his calls bcoz u wrongly assumed that there was nothing for u guys to talk about ? is something wrong with u
































i smell cold feet or over the top infatuation

He might jux be friendly,let him ask u out first,you can alwaz say no.

.....the way some people follow some rules to the letter baffles me

The name of the church is holy distance before marriage and lust avoidance evangelical mission

I knw that church wella.. Op, are u not the gal that interpreted last sunday?

op.. U can lie ooo.. Say something else joor.. Abi, u done maga the guy.. Check op picture.. Is that dressing of urs holy enough to be doing holy distance?

Op, r u a LEARNER!!!!

kennyman20:
op.. U can lie ooo.. Say something else joor.. Abi, u done maga the guy.. Check op picture.. Is that dressing of urs holy enough to be doing holy distance?

I find nothing wrong wit wat im wearin...its summer...
I dont dress like dat to church...plus at my church..girls are usually seated on da ryt and men at the left
cant bliv u judge a person by what they wear...im pretty decent sir

okabe:
Op, r u a LEARNER!!!!

Yea..im a student

*shiiits on thread and zoooooooooom offf*

NaNaYaaah:
Yea..im a student

op, am sure they must have also lectured u in church to dress like an old woman so as to avoid men falling in love with u till when u're ready but you refused to give ears to that sermon cos u see how harmful it'll be for you.

Op, use that sytle too to ignore the lecture of holy distance and do ur thing with ur guy.. Op, i swear down! Ask ur pastor how he met his wife.. Op, when u go to church.. U'll be taught all manner of things but na u go use ur frnd take d one wey suit u and ignore the one wey no suit u.. Op, imagine ur pastor asking u to bring all ur salary for the next six months say God needs it.. Be honest.. Would u give it to him? What am trying to tell u is to use ur brain

NaNaYaaah:
Yea..im a student

in dat case, na only u waka come o

what is the name of this church