tintingz:
That is shyness.

Some have the opportunity but are shy or scared to make the move. what should we call that?

BTW a dude can pay for an olosho to get down to the point, is that lack of opportunity?

Yiu have a point but if you call losing your virginity to the walking dead an opportunity then I don't what to say! Lol.

Chomzy19:
dejected fellow depressed over his loss of nt breaking a virgin. Just face d truth 'u were nt good enough' it has nothing to do wit virginity.

choi okay I understand, your type that make those wrong choice , your types that believe every things that is glitters is gold , maybe your types that wasted how many years gathering stones before realize how many diamonds being lost , so tell me what's your pain about my write up ? The lady in this picture that I don't even need her punnani back then cus I'm still a good guy then ... Can u imagine ur life , referring me to dejected fellow cus of cheap punnani , it funny cus from my teens I don't date loose gurls and have never date a gurl I didn't get down with you can as well do the maths urself to help me count how many of them....


**xoxo!

korel9:
My own is if a girl comes to you a virgin and you sit down looking at her forming good guy, na OYO get you when she gets the opportunity with a real sharp guy.

looks like u are talking 4rm experience....pele

Blaqsmith:
Yes it is.
























N0,it's not

see as u occupy everywia u think say na only u rike fp

Never a lack of opportunity...if i knw most people who lost deirs,regrets ever losing deir virginity,,i don't see why i shud lose mine...if it abt opportunity...e 4 don tay na....it just abt self disclipline,morality nd sensiblity..
# touch not my future wife and do her no harm ooh.same way i wouldn't touch urs...

folabayo1:
Well I don't think being a virgin is lack of opportunity its all about choice..Am still a virgin my self and I appreciate and value so much.

me 2!! How about we meet over a few drinks n have a tete a tete on our shared virginity

BRAV0O:
Virginity is overrated pls, keep your virginity till eternity doesn't make you a good wife or good husband and it can never guarantee you a good spouse, life is a choice we choose to live which ever it pleases each and every one of us but nigerians need to stop this keeping virginity till eternity mentality or keeping it for who ever its right in their eyes , many regret doing so! I knew a gurl who always say I'm not the right person for her back then cus I'm dough broke and too skinny, mean while she end up giving it to one yahoo boy with flashing cash and 130k toyota back then , she taught all that can make their future so bright ? So tell me where is she today ? Today she's homeless with kid and the guy never serious from here to there ...


*pls don't let virginity make you over rate urself!

dey console urself na..

Jessyj616:
I dont even know what to say to those who believe that virginity is overrated?!.
If a girl is highhanded, snubbish, S.U (ish) or whatever ish, the first thing you blame is her virginity? Come on!
You want a run down of the advantages of of being /marrying a virgin? HERE IS A GODDAMN LIST-

¤ a person who is able to keep his or her self in this devilish 21st century where it is now a norm to disregard God's word on pre marital sex? is worth keeping. He or she has some level of self control!

¤ Medically, Sti or STD's is not your portion.

¤according to some, when you start, you cant stop. That is why sex was meant for marriage!- you continue to have sexual desire for your Husband/Wife not.... you know who.

If you do get married to a virgin, for gods sake cherish it not because it gives you eternal immunity, not because it reduced the price of garri nationwide, not because it added to you financial status but because that guy/girl had you in mind for more than 20yrs and wanted to be yours only.! Such love.!

¤why do marriages become boring? After five years of dating and seeing all there is to see, what exactly do you expect?

¤with a virgin you get to arouse her curiousity, you both learn, every thing becomes an adventure.
When the kids come, you both make fun of yourselves for silly mishaps eg Remember the first time i did this or that.

I believe claiming that virginity is old school is some peoples way of justifying their failure to trap others with their evil.

I rest my case.... for now

NICE ONE, LOVE THIS .................

UnimkeAk:


Lol ok,

LACK OF RIGHT OPPORTUNITY..

Lack of opportunity is something not well available or great deal of something.

Sex is cheap to get and well available everywhere.

BRAV0O:
choi okay I understand, your type that make those wrong choice , your types that believe every things that is glitters is gold , maybe your types that wasted how many years gathering stones before realize how many diamonds being lost , so tell me what's your pain about my write up ? The lady in this picture that I don't even need her punnani back then cus I'm still a good guy then ... Can u imagine ur life , referring me to dejected fellow cus of cheap punnani , it funny cus from my teens I don't date loose gurls and have never date a gurl I didn't get down with you can as well do the maths urself to help me count how many of them....


**xoxo!

guy i feel you, cus from my teens I don't date loose gurls and have never date a gurl I didn't get down with you can as well do the maths urself to help me count how many of them.... lol

correct nigga.

tintingz:
I still don't understand how being virgin is lack of opportunity.

Are there not brothels to get cheap who,res?

You can just walk up to one and have your sexx without no string attach.

It is by individual choices.

. If u say so sir

striktlymi:
Yes and No!

Some people are 'virgins' because one or more factors acted to make them so. They actively seek and look forward to the day someone would take them out of their perceived misery.

Others are virgins because they want it so and they actively guard against those occasions that would compromise their virginity. For some of them, they have had one or more opportunities but they chose to remain virgins.

How I wish I chose the latter.

Pardon me, I had to quote this..

OP, NO.

NO

I wouldn't say it is wholly but I believe it is 95% lack of opportunity. Only in some rare cases

Virginity can be due to the absence of bad boys/men around during a woman's growing days. Virginity can be due to the foresight of parents who have helped their girls to move on without the distraction of premarital sex. Virginity can be due to the determination of the girl/woman even after the good and bad boys come milling around with shady promises. Virginity is due to god helping the girl/woman to remain chaste despite what friends are saying. To be a virgin requires strength of character and confidence. Virginity is saying NO to peer pressure. Kudos to all virgins!

folabayo1:
Well I don't think being a virgin is lack of opportunity its all about choice..Am still a virgin my self and I appreciate and value so much.

Den i suggest u become a rev. sister so u wnt have 2 worry abt loosing it

justmag:
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virginity for girl is more likely to be a choice, for a guy it's more likely to be lack of opportunity. However! I do have a guy friend who is about 32 and has never been with a woman. This is a choice! He is not ugly at all and many girls have tried and failed!

You sure say the guy no be gay!!!!!!!!!

[quote author=korel9 post=28579408]My own is if a girl comes to you a virgin and you sit down looking at her forming good guy, na OYO get you when she gets the opportunity with a real sharp guy. [/quote
Hmmm dats interesting

Human beings consoling themselves since ages....

Aspireahead:
i dont know what it is, but i regret losing mine. Sex is so so overrated.

Laughing in swahili...

Olypeppy:
Human beings consoling themselves since ages....

Pls tell them ooooo...

xavier047:



You sure say the guy no be gay!!!!!!!!!

You really get IQ.

johncreek:

Laughing in swahili...

lol...abobi, wetin dey funny u?

Tallesty1:
It is not because no matter the ugliness or worworness of a girl, there is still a guy that is tripping for her.






That's why some guys have ex they would never talk about

u hit the Hammer on my head

Aspireahead:

lol...abobi, wetin dey funny u?

Sex is overrated abi?
When you were busy kancking kpa kpa kpa.. Were you not enjoying it?
Seriously you guys are just so funny.
Now its overrated..... Lolz

justmag:
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virginity for girl is more likely to be a choice, for a guy it's more likely to be lack of opportunity. However! I do have a guy friend who is about 32 and has never been with a woman. This is a choice! He is not ugly at all and many girls have tried and failed!

My sister... He's not normal!!!!

Big letter YES. N lack of guts too.

We all know the truth but we kip on runing & painting around it.......ur body is the temple of GOD........Kip ur virginity Fellaz

Maybe for guys but a girl, no way! I can have sex now If I want to. I choose to remain chaste....

It is not lack of opportunity for some guys.

I lost mine to my dream girl. I started dreaming about her when I was in JS 2, we started normal talking in SS2, finally poke her in ND1.
Lost my virginity to her, and it worth it. Though she married someone else.

Ebiz12:
Maybe for guys but a girl, no way! I can have sex now If I want to. I choose to remain chaste....

#true.....buh Wat of some guys who doesn't like girls kitten like me?