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Good day people. Something has been bordering me for a while now and i'l like to seek ur counsels. I'm in love with this girl and she realy loves me too. But sometimes, i tend to doubt if this love is real cos whenever she's angry wt me or i hurt her she doesn't lyk to hear from me... She wouldn't pik my calls, reply my messages, sometimes she wouldn't even wana see me. I'l lyk to know whats responsible for this. Thanks

It's normal, just give her some time!

Maybe your word are ear piercing or you look like obasanjo

Lol, she dey form ni. Try buying ha flowers weneva she z angry or send ha card nd see if she no go call u bck

emmyasam95:
Good day people. Something has been bordering me for a while now and i'l like to seek ur counsels. I'm in love with this girl and she realy loves me too. But sometimes, i tend to doubt if this love is real cos whenever she's angry wt me or i hurt her she doesn't lyk to hear from me... She wouldn't pik my calls, reply my messages, sometimes she wouldn't even wana see me. I'l lyk to know whats responsible for this. Thanks

Op u are in my shoes, I dnt know y some girls behave lik dat and its really annoying.. last nit i had to give her serious warning dat if she wants me to continue to hav interest in her she shuld stop and neva try it again. And I hav seen som little changes towards dat. Mayb u try giv her serious warning too

yhomz093:
It's normal, just give her some time!

Som tim lik nt piking ur calls for gud 3days

emmyasam95:
whenever she's angry wt me or i hurt her she doesn't lyk to hear from me... She wouldn't pik my calls, reply my messages, sometimes she wouldn't even wana see me.

You already said it, she's angry with you. Why not just understand she's being emotional and needs time? I think its normal not to pick the calls of someone you're angry with.

MzPreshie:
You already said it, she's angry with you. Why not just understand she's being emotional and needs time? I think its normal not to pick the calls of someone you're angry with.

Bt its shuldnt b for long nah, if u dnt hear each oda out how do u settle ur misunderstanding

jsunex:
Bt its shuldnt b for long nah, if u dnt hear each oda out how do u settle ur misunderstanding

That's why you should let her cool down first or send a text explaining yourself.

MzPreshie:
That's why you should let her cool down first or send a text explaining yourself.

Cool for days abi wheN the other partner is worried

emmyasam95:
Good day people. Something has been bordering me for a while now and i'l like to seek ur counsels. I'm in love with this girl and she realy loves me too. But sometimes, i tend to doubt if this love is real cos whenever she's angry wt me or i hurt her she doesn't lyk to hear from me... She wouldn't pik my calls, reply my messages, sometimes she wouldn't even wana see me. I'l lyk to know whats responsible for this. Thanks

good question?

emmyasam95:
Good day people. Something has been bordering me for a while now and i'l like to seek ur counsels. I'm in love with this girl and she realy loves me too. But sometimes, i tend to doubt if this love is real cos whenever she's angry wt me or i hurt her she doesn't lyk to hear from me... She wouldn't pik my calls, reply my messages, sometimes she wouldn't even wana see me. I'l lyk to know whats responsible for this. Thanks

How was she s'pose to show her anger then? By frowning her face only?

jsunex:
Cool for days abi wheN the other partner is worried

Worried ke? When you were annoying her, what were you expecting? That she'd kiss you and say 'it is well'?

MzPreshie:
Worried ke? When you were annoying her, what were you expecting? That she'd kiss you and say 'it is well'?

Wit wat u typing, u too go dey do lik dat abi

jsunex:
Wit wat u typing, u too go dey do lik dat abi

Maybe, maybe not.

MzPreshie:
Maybe, maybe not.

Haa I no ask u out again oo

Op
its a normal thing...Maybe she didn't expect yhu to do wah yhu did to make her angry @ yhu..sometimes she may be disappointed @ yhu...doesn't mean she doesn't love yhu ...

op its possible u treated her with d tender loving care method from d onset of d relationship.. most ladies act like Dat wen deh r aware dier guy is really into dem and if deh receive much attention from other guys. And to some ladies, its dier nature, most esp d last born. is ur gf d last born?

solution
1.stylishly withdraw d TLC method
2.apply d silence treatment method, ( don't make dis too long,it can backfire!!!)
3.call her and explain to her Dat u don't feel comfortable with Dat attitude.

good luck!!!

Anger is d cause o

But you hurt her...

I hope you are not one of those who would hurt a lady and expect her to overlook it as a sign of submissiveness?

The fact that she is not picking your calls doesn't mean she doesn't love you, she is trying her possible best not to say anything that can cause future damage. You know most times guys make use of a lady's word against her and that is what i think she is trying to avoid. Just give her time to cool off am very sure she will come around provided that what you did to offend her is forgivable. But dont stay too long before contacting her if not she will start thinking other wise.