all have sinned, and fallen short of the glory of God. we must all seek forgiveness or risk eternal damnation. u must learn to stop giving to the sinful lustful desires of Ur flesh. Ur flesh needs to be tamed. it needs to be controlled. don't give in. tame the evil inside u. ask the lord for the holy spirit to help you. God will help u break any sinful habit if u pray sincerely.

@all, l like the way some ladies here responded but that not the fact that we should shift the blame. both men and women needed to be blame on this immoral act but we are look at it in another different angle. The topic were actually directed on ladies. we must learn how to accept our responsibility in any situation which l think that is the best way we can have solution on any matter not to shift the blame.


morealso, The way some ladies let me use the word "some" not all ladies. The way they dress this day is not really good. some dress half nod all in the name of seducing a guy or calling the attention of some guys to their direction whereby all there breast are expose even boot which is bottom were expose with their new style of tight or legist they are wearing nowadays is alarming which has to be corrected fast because that is not a good legacy to leave behind for our children and unborn generation.


finally, men were also not left out. we men were also needed to have a self control in most cases. even if ladies wanted to lure us into fornication or adultery with the way they dress and behave. we men must know how to control our eye and mind. that is the way we can control this, we need not to patronize it. if we do that that means we are encouraging it. sorry if l have offended anyone the way l talk but l think there is need to say the truth nothing but the truth and this is how we can shape our rotten society. Thank you all.

naijaboiy:

Sorry excuse me...

What part of the world are you in?

South Korea

Shut up all of you, men told the women to have multiple sex partners, commit abortion, Bleep different men like dogs, date and Bleep married men without remorse, so women re now zombies that dosent know right or wrong..these women of nowadays re a amplified disgrace to womanity overall and to humanity as a whole...

Sounds like you have just suffered a heart break.It applies to men too.......every time women.....abegi.......

In the 80s and 90s the world was filled with cheating men and more of reserved women. But since the last 10 to 15 years, our women turned a new leaf. They cheat at will, even the married ones are not left out. It crazy now. Recent report suggest that over 70% of men who travel to do DNA test did not father their kids. It that bad now.

Dumbest thread I've read in a while. Mr. Olai believe men are so innocent, doesn't have multiple sex partners and are not involved with abortion. You want me to dig up threads which our holy men open asking for which drugs are best for abortion. The men are faultless alright. It's your type justifies rapè.

dominique:
Dumbest thread I've read in a while. Mr. Olai believe men are so innocent, doesn't have multiple sex partners and are not involved with abortion. You want me to dig up threads which our holy men open asking for which drugs are best for abortion. The men are faultless alright. It's your type justifies rapè.

Men have their blame too.

Xxpress:
na for where u hear dis. Don't be ignorant.

Ask our pastors and Imams.

creamyxoxo:
If des shameful women do dis wit men.....wat will d men called. ....shameless

Shameless men!

corpROYAL:
@all, l like the way some ladies here responded but that not the fact that we should shift the blame. both men and women needed to be blame on this immoral act but we are look at it in another different angle. The topic were actually directed on ladies. we must learn how to accept our responsibility in any situation which l think that is the best way we can have solution on any matter not to shift the blame.
morealso, The way some ladies let me use the word "some" not all ladies. The way they dress this day is not really good. some dress half nod all in the name of seducing a guy or calling the attention of some guys to their direction whereby all there breast are expose even boot which is bottom were expose with their new style of tight or legist they are wearing nowadays is alarming which has to be corrected fast because that is not a good legacy to leave behind for our children and unborn generation.
finally, men were also not left out. we men were also needed to have a self control in most cases. even if ladies wanted to lure us into fornication or adultery with the way they dress and behave. we men must know how to control our eye and mind. that is the way we can control this, we need not to patronize it. if we do that that means we are encouraging it. sorry if l have offended anyone the way l talk but l think there is need to say the truth nothing but the truth and this is how we can shape our rotten society. Thank you all.

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Ologunjude:
In the 80s and 90s the world was filled with cheating men and more of reserved women. But since the last 10 to 15 years, our women turned a new leaf. They cheat at will, even the married ones are not left out. It crazy now. Recent report suggest that over 70% of men who travel to do DNA test did not father their kids. It that bad now.

This is now a terrible world!

Are you telling me that, guys are less involve in this?

MrOlai:
Some ladies today commit all sorts of immoralities without d fear of God. These include:

1. Sex Before Marriage
Any sex outside marriage without parents' consent is a sin. This is fornication/adultery.

2. Serial Fornication with Different Men
Some ladies would have sex with up to 10 different men before getting married to d real husband who could be innocent! In fact, some ladies have lost count of d no of men that commit fornication/adultery with them!

3. Multiple Sex Partners
Some ladies have 3, 4, 5, 6 or more multiple sex partners servicing them!

4. Abortion
Many ladies commit abortion. Some do it serially. Unfortunately 4 some of them, they end up crying for the fruit of the womb when they get married.

5. Adultery
Some married women commit adultery. They give their vagina to other men to use. Their breasts which belong to their husbands and children, they give to other men to suck!

What's the diffrence afterall, when they don't commit all this by themseves?

naijaboiy:
But they commit all these with men...so what's the difference

abi....

MrOlai:

Men have there blame too.

so why dint u include men in ur topic? smh

Edusouls:
Shut up all of you, men told the women to have multiple sex partners, commit abortion, Bleep different men like dogs, date and Bleep married men without remorse, so women re now zombies that dosent know right or wrong..these women of nowadays re a amplified disgrace to womanity overall and to humanity as a whole...

shut the hell up mugu!! nobody said these women were forced. intact most of them were done with mutual agreement. but still u can't shift the blame to women alone. both the man and woman are committing adultery. that's d point pple are trying to pass across. Or are u saying if the guys are not forcing these women to sex..then their act is not immoral and thereby justified?! see you're saying bullshit. infact I'm not sure you even went through the whole thread sef!

booqee:
so why dint u include men in ur topic? smh

I felt it wasn't necessary. A lady who engages herself in any of d evils should be able to stop and make corrections herself.

Tinalex:
@Op...honestly i dnt get you,why are you directing this onto the ladies? So the men they are doing this with,those men are just having fun,not fornication/adultery right? Smh....some men and their hypocrisy...mmmtttccchheeewwww

see, I'm not a female bashing fellow but lets call a spade a spade. If the law enforcement officer n a motorist are involved in a given n taken bribe the officer have 60% of the blame. In give n take agreements there must a person that holds the ace so if the whole thing is a crime the person recieves more %age of the blame. Same goes to a woman-man fornication sin, the woman holds the ace. Lets stop the way we reason issues these days along gender line (sometimes along ethnic or religious lines) but instead be objective. This doesnt insinuate men are saints far from it but the topic is what we're dealing on.
In summary have many chaste women in a society n u have a moral society n have many immoral women in a society n u have a very immoral society. Thanks

Men have their blames too as regards these immoralities but there's also he who holds the ace. Then our structure is another thing. E.g a family had a case that goes thus. The woman is preggy which the husband is not responsible then she said what caused it is that the husband has been cheating on her so she has to cheat back. Both families ruled she leave the matrimonial home, after giving birth the husband'll decide to take her back or not. Now my question is, who is at fault among between them?

BellaBambina:
Bia! Your post is laced with hypocrisy. Does a woman commit these sins alone? It take two to tango. I believe you are on a mission to defame women.
I do not support immorality, but wwho are you to judge the woman who was deceived into sex by a man or the lady who gets raped? What about the girl who has nobody in this world and turns to prostitution for survival? Also, the lady who committed thae "serial abortions" was abandoned by her boyfriend who promised to stand by her (he forced her to give him se.x, promised to take care of her if she gets pregnant and when she tells him about her pregnancy, he takes off). Some poeple are victims of unfair circumstances you know. In the bid to judge them, show some compassion, find out the underlying reasons for their behaviour and don't just strategise, actually help them become responsible and Godly.
Jesus Christ said to the mob about to stone the adulterous woman to death "let he who is without sin cast the first stone". In essence, you have sinned by judging people who sinned against God. The Holy Bible says "judge not, so that you won't be judged"
Help people find their way to God, do not make them flee from God. Our righteousness is as filthy rags before God.
I'm through here.

Gbam! Op sounded too sanctimonious n very partial, whereby he committed a sin too. We should correct gently n with love, not judge n curse people, so says d bible!
My humble submission

uzolexis:


even abortion, no be man dey give woman belle b4 she go abort, sometimes the man go fflw encourage her to comot the belle.
yeye dey smell

Yes but the eventual act of abortion would be carried out on the woman,man own na only decision now

1miccza:


Yes but the eventual act of abortion would be carried out on the woman,man own na only decision now

Shiorr,advising n encouraging her 2 do it and her doing it is d same thing. U r an accomplice every step of d way, both in d process of making d baby n comoting d baby.

What shall we say to all these? If you don't know God, then you don't have path in Him, neither can you ever have anything in His kingdom. If you want to count sins one after the other, the list will be endless. If you are not fornicating but telling lies, gossiping, etc, you are the same sinners before God. If you want to be free from sin and have hope of eternal life with God, then you need JESUS.

*singing*
I am a sinner, whose probably gonna sin again, lord 4giv me.

Tinalex:
@Op...honestly i dnt get you,why are you directing this onto the ladies? So the men they are doing this with,those men are just having fun,not fornication/adultery right? Smh....some men and their hypocrisy...mmmtttccchheeewwww

its because women should be seen with standard n high quality. They should be the pride of every responsible man. And d less corrupt they are the more sexual immorality in d world will decrease. Tnx

FolarinToks:



There is nothing like hypocrisy here, a man ll always wants a woman but it is a woman choice to either accept or reject

I'm sorry what school of psychology did you attend? you think women don't want men too. dey there make pant dey wear you.

Edusouls:
Shut up all of you, men told the women to have multiple sex partners, commit abortion, Bleep different men like dogs, date and Bleep married men without remorse, so women re now zombies that dosent know right or wrong..these women of nowadays re a amplified disgrace to womanity overall and to humanity as a whole...

What is this one saying? are the women lesbians? who are their multiple sex partners? some men such as yourself pride themselves with being sex-freaks? who are the women you're creating your sex records with. or do you think God created some women for you to experiment with and others to keep themselves for you. mtchewwww yeye dey smell.

MrOlai:

This is now a terrible world!

and in the 70's many men fathered armies of chidren that they did not acknowledge or divorced their existence from their nuclear family. kini difference?

Pamcrest:


Gbam! Op sounded too sanctimonious n very partial, whereby he committed a sin too. We should correct gently n with love, not judge n curse people, so says d bible!
My humble submission

very true dear. I'm glad you see things from my biblical viewpoint. the op didn't even profer solutions or ask such "sinners" to repent. He just angrily wrote out his judgement and condemned the sinners.

BellaBambina:
very true dear. I'm glad you see things from my biblical viewpoint. the op didn't even profer solutions or ask such "sinners" to repent. He just angrily wrote out his judgement and condemned the sinners.

Did u read d entire post - d 2nd part, at all? Pls read again.

MrOlai:

Did u read d entire post - d 2nd part, at all? Pls read again.

remain blessed. I Read every bit of it. You were very judgemental in all...

MarieSucre:
and in the 70's many men fathered armies of chidren that they did not acknowledge or divorced their existence from their nuclear family. kini difference?

MarieSucre:
What is this one saying? are the women lesbians? who are their multiple sex partners? some men such as yourself pride themselves with being sex-freaks? who are the women you're creating your sex records with. or do you think God created some women for you to experiment with and others to keep themselves for you. mtchewwww yeye dey smell.

MarieSucre:
I'm sorry what school of psychology did you attend? you think women don't want men too. dey there make pant dey wear you.

Pls, don't defend evils. Nobody is saying we don't have men who commit d same evils. 2 wrongs do not make right. It's all our collective responsibility to speak against it in order to have a better society.