naijaboiy:
But they commit all these with men...so what's the difference

naijaboiy:

if the man doesn't get her pregnant,,she wouldn't indulge in it.

MrOlai:
@ThoniaSlim. They are, of course.

GbengaOG:

Since you want to blame everyone for her actions, instead of taking responsibilities for them, then if there wasn't a doctor to abort it for her, she wouldn't indulge in it. If there wasn't a cab man to take her to the hospital for the abortion, she wouldn't indulge in it. BULLSHIT.

MrOlai:

Pls, don't defend evils. Nobody is saying we don't have men who commit d same evils. 2 wrongs do not make right. It's all our collective responsibility to speak against it in order to have a better society.

naijaboiy:
But they commit all these with men...so what's the difference

MarieSucre:
I support this 100%. Cause your post encouraged only slut shaming of women. we are tirèd of carrying the burden of the world's morality on our shoulders.

Sophyrocks:

Can you successfully date a lady without having s.ex?

GbengaOG:

Since you want to blame everyone for her actions, instead of taking responsibilities for them, then if there wasn't a doctor to abort it for her, she wouldn't indulge in it. If there wasn't a cab man to take her to the hospital for the abortion, she wouldn't indulge in it. BULLSHIT.

How does that bother me

MrOlai:

People like u are d ones destroying d lives of innocent ladies. Sex is a mercy from God Almighy on us. It's a pleasure given to us by God to enjoy only between a man and his wife. So, if u date 10 girls, by implication, u would have sex with all of them and dumb them for one mumu to marry? What do u call dat? Love or sexual abuse? Mtcheeewwww...

Sophyrocks:


This is my problem with people like this guy. Mr man simply answer the question i asked you. This is how people fail english comprehension exam just because they want to blab. Can YOU successfully date a lady without having s.ex with her? Have you ever tried it? Yes or No.

baralatie:

let us ask the right question,


should you as a man make an offer of she.xx anytime you date a woman!

Sophyrocks:


News flash: I AM NOT A MAN.

I have a reason i am throwing this question at the op and he is obviously dodging it because its easier to preach than to practise. I want a straight up answer. thats all.

baralatie:

OK!
it does not change the fact that the question you asked is more biased,meaning every relationship is about sex!

Sophyrocks:

Can you successfully date a lady without having s.ex?

Sophyrocks:

This is my problem with people like this guy. Mr man simply answer the question i asked you. This is how people fail english comprehension exam just because they want to blab. Can YOU successfully date a lady without having s.ex with her? Have you ever tried it? Yes or No.

Sophyrocks:

News flash: I AM NOT A MAN.
I have a reason i am throwing this question at the op and he is obviously dodging it because its easier to preach than to practise. I want a straight up answer. thats all.

Sophyrocks:

Did i not speak english? Its just a question. and the question is for the Op not You. Did my question preach s.ex in relatonships?

MrOlai:

So, u are a woman? I'm highly disappointed in u, for u as a lady to have asked such a question. Fornicating around with different men in d name of dating! The likes of u make people abuse and insult women.

Sophyrocks:


Mr man, can you date a lady without having s.ex? can you strictly follow your preaching? That is my question. When the disciples ask jesus christ questions, he confidently answers them. As a preacher, if you are confident within yourself that you can and not be a Hypocrite, you will confidently answer my question, Yes or No. SIMPLE!!! Why is your b.p rising because of a simple question? or have you been fornicating?

baralatie:

then you make the op a justified fella!

Sophyrocks:


Justified how?

baralatie:

because of your question!
it paints the women as ?
which is what the op Is painting!

Sophyrocks:


It is common knowledge that most guys cannot date a lady without having s.ex. you cannot deny that. Churchy guys like the Op also have s.ex inspite of the fact that they know its a sin. Having s.ex outside marriage is a sin. I am against guys turning s.ex as a condition for relationships or even double dating simply because ladies abide to the 'No sex' rule. And these same guys come here to preach. I am asking a simple question and the Op cannot even answer it. He quickly jumped to criticising before allowing me to land. You know why? Because he can preach but he cannot practise it like every other 'churchy' guy out there. A guy that doesnt practise fornication will confidently answer my question. Or is there any shame in it?

baralatie:


generalisation and over rating of issues pertaining to
she.x
again your angle is still giving the op the edge in his claims
rephrae your question!

uzolexis:


Shiorr,advising n encouraging her 2 do it and her doing it is d same thing. U r an accomplice every step of d way, both in d process of making d baby n comoting d baby.

MrOlai:
Fornication/Adultery is a serious crime b4 Almighty God our creator. In Christianity, Bible condemns it, so also Quran. In fact, in Islam, penalty 4 adultery is death!
So, ladies who are into fornication & adultery one way or d other should seek God's forgiveness & repent. Otherwise, God's severe punishments await them even right from dis Earth. What breeds all d afore-mentioned immoralities is boyfriend-girlfriend relationships. Boyf-girlf relationship is euphemism for Fornication/Adultery. Ladies should pls keep themselves chaste. If u are married, remain faithful to ur husband. If u are not yet married, preserve ur virginity to ur future husband. Don't have boyfriend(s). If u do, u'll end up committing some or all d atrocities mentioned above! If u are not married yet & u have lost ur virginity through boyf-girlf relationship, seek God's forgiveness, repent & stop d rubbish. Whenever somebody has access to ur vagina, breasts, bom bom & other parts of ur body apart from ur husband, dat'll be a withness against u b4 Almighty God.

MrOlai:

So, u are a woman? I'm highly disappointed in u, for u as a lady to have asked such a question. Fornicating around with different men in d name of dating! The likes of u make people abuse and insult women.