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Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Ishilove: 5:02pm On Dec 08, 2014
Hian. The two of you have serious issues. Just one week nd you're already reporting each other?? Smh
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by TomiwaDamola(f): 5:02pm On Dec 08, 2014
Get a divorce before he begins to do even worse to you. undecided
Also report him to the police and women's rights groups. You shouldn't have to suffer just because you didn't put out while you were dating.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:03pm On Dec 08, 2014
W t f
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by richardjemedafe1(m): 5:03pm On Dec 08, 2014
Nawa
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:04pm On Dec 08, 2014
I think you should walk outta the marriage. No woman deserves that! angry
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Lilimax(f): 5:04pm On Dec 08, 2014
Story for the gods embarassed
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:05pm On Dec 08, 2014
Seun stop redirecting me to pôrn sites. angry
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by holatin(m): 5:06pm On Dec 08, 2014
Sorry
Now u know pastor no be God but human like you
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 08, 2014
Cholls:
my sister you are a wicked girl.
dunno wat is wicked 'bout wat she jst said, its the truth mehn.. (Though I don't really believe d story shaa..)
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 08, 2014
The man is a capital i.diot and yes these sorts of things can and do happen. The pastor is also a fool for supporting rape in this instance.

what kind of man will force his wife to have sex and then get support from a charlatan parading as a pastor.

And the problem is , this man maybe a habitual rapist who may even rape his own daughter, sister-in law, house help, groundnut seller etc.

Ask him to go for counselling to curb and cure his violent sexual tendencies.

If he does it again and you have brothers, uncles etc, bring them down one weekend to give him a good beating angry
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 08, 2014
Madam abeg how much u pay for FP I for like ask why garri dey swell
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by anthoniaz(f): 5:09pm On Dec 08, 2014
Na wa!
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Ilekeh(f): 5:09pm On Dec 08, 2014
This one no be marriage o.

Chaiiii.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by okotv(m): 5:11pm On Dec 08, 2014
one thing I fear about marriage.... incompatibility..
settle this first
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 08, 2014
Divorce him sharp-sharp. God forbid, this type marry any of my cousins, na to use my own hand kill him angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 08, 2014
He fvcks her like a pornster?
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Boss13: 5:12pm On Dec 08, 2014
I don't believe this story. Something ain't right. I cannot place it, maybe it's the way she describe the husband's side of the side - too vivid, probably from the same story telling mind
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by treasuress: 5:14pm On Dec 08, 2014
pweetixandy:
Hmmm..u and ur "husband" are not just compatible sexually. Ur not even romantic sef. What happend that morning would not have happend if u had just kissed him passionately and told him to wait until after service and u'll make him forget his name.instead u were doing like wood. Better divorce his silly behind and move on to the next phase of ur life cos as it is,100yrs of therapy will not help. U are not sensual and he is not patient. Hez a beast who shld be left alone,since u dnt know how to tame this beast. And u two dnt even have kids yet and u have a non existent sex life..incredible!
he is not a beast , she is looking for an impotent guy she should go outside and try her luck, i did not see any wrong thing the guy did, instead he isa patient person, i know the way other guys would have ignored her to death and go outside, e.g. me, she does not know and she dont wana learn
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by blazetitov: 5:14pm On Dec 08, 2014
Hmmm! What a story. In fact this one pass story for the gods. #Yimu
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by zeb04(f): 5:15pm On Dec 08, 2014
Marriage is not by force .there is no award,medal for it.leave when you can still walk with your two legs.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Saraha1(f): 5:16pm On Dec 08, 2014
Can a right thinking man maltreat his new bride in such a way? I don't think so.
Op, are you sure you are not using our brain to gain something?


It just too hard for me to believe that a man who waited that far could maltreat you to such level.

Pls you need to invlove your parent before it will be too late.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by ojeffo: 5:16pm On Dec 08, 2014
ITS EITHER THE STORY IS FAKE OR THE OP IS A LESBIAN....QED
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by UjSizzle(f):
One question: Did your husband actually use the word 'rape' ? shocked

In his defence, you did say you carried yourself in a manner that suggested your....ahem...was the hold you had over him. So basically he was letting you play on his psych, waiting for the day he'll exert his revenge. This man is the devil grin (I'm sorry)

You two need to relax please. Isn't sex supposed to enjoyed by couples? When did it suddenly become punishment undecided

Your husband is a psycho. Your marriage is worse than anything I've read before. You are something else too. Why did you get married if you weren't going to carry out your conjugal obligationshuh
He could have been patient with you though seeing as it was your first time sad


*sighs*
You two need marriage counseling from someone wiser than your pastor.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by iamASTRO: 5:16pm On Dec 08, 2014
100% fake story
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Nobody: 5:17pm On Dec 08, 2014
pweetixandy:
Hmmm..u and ur "husband" are not just compatible sexually. Ur not even romantic sef. What happend that morning would not have happend if u had just kissed him passionately and told him to wait until after service and u'll make him forget his name.instead u were doing like wood. Better divorce his silly behind and move on to the next phase of ur life cos as it is,100yrs of therapy will not help. U are not sensual and he is not patient. Hez a beast who shld be left alone,since u dnt know how to tame this beast. And u two dnt even have kids yet and u have a non existent sex life..incredible!
Find the part-one this story n read it b4 dropping ur comment in this part-two, else ur comments sounds WICKED. I bliv u don't really know wat lead to the present state of this woman's suffering. Chai! That man is a monster
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by kadas01(m): 5:18pm On Dec 08, 2014
This your story be as e get o!

This must be fiction!
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Igholize(m): 5:18pm On Dec 08, 2014
Pictures of him raping u or Idont bliv it
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by odepacy: 5:19pm On Dec 08, 2014
Story for d gods
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by stagger: 5:20pm On Dec 08, 2014
Your husband is operating with a spirit of seduction. From your pastor's response, you should know you should quit that church. I have never in my life heard of such madness.

People talk of violence against women. This is the worst form. A man raping his wife! God have His mercy! Madam, get help and get it fast...from YOUR PARENTS. You, your husband, his parents and your parents should sit down let all these details come out there and not here on Nairaland. I am sure a solution would come out.
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by Onozboy(m): 5:20pm On Dec 08, 2014
When is part 3 coming out.. grin
Re: Our Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by treasuress: 5:20pm On Dec 08, 2014
TomiwaDamola:
Get a divorce before he begins to do even worse to you.
Also report him to the police and women's rights groups. You shouldn't have to suffer just because you didn't put out while you were dating.
what did he dohuh dont you see she is a virgin?? undecidedsomeone dat has not had sex for 26years to her sex is bad and against her will its rape, honey moon dressing like deeper life to bed the guy was patient and used brain to say she should bathe him, what did the guy dohuh
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