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AbdulSleek:


She is single and searching oooo! Na why!

killjoy:
lyk i bin dey spoil her market

LordReed:
@killjoy

Have you asked if Bill Gates marriage stopped him from becoming the (on and off) world's richest man? Do you know he has been married to his wife since 1994?

killjoy:
NO

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.
Then what are the importance of not getting married# if woman break ur heart go fix am no com here dey yarn rubbish
2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

killjoy:
u see dis d problem i hav wit ladies... not everybody's life is ruled by emotion, u feel lyk dis today n feel sth diffrently tomao. some pipl(guys) do wot is logical ok if u dnt giv me a reason nt to do sth den i wont do it, damning d society. u get? mind u, i have planned d rest of my life... marriage doesnt feature in it cos i dnt see a need for it. simple

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

Fulaman198:
Some amazing on point things have been said here. One must always question the intentions of their significant other. Why is a woman trying to marry you? Money is one of the biggest reasons. That just isn't love and I do agree with the surmise that true love is extremely hard to find.

I personally don't want a woman marrying me for my career or whatever amount of money I make. I want her to marry me for my heart. But we live in a very artificial world these days.

I guess most men are in agreement that with the advent of technology we are happy with our computers, tablets and smartphones that we are not really in need of a woman anymore.

Another painful thing is that most women are brainwashed today. With the propagation of the false media, women are abandoning their culture, language and tradition all to become wannabe fake white girls. I don't need that sha!

LordReed:
LoL! You believe killjoy is single because he wants to be a better servant of God? ROTBLOL!

killjoy wants to bang chicks without any of the responsibility, very simple.

LordReed:
One sometimes needs to scratch beneath the surface, some people are diamonds in the rough. Just as we guys say don't judge us by the level of money we have but see the potential, we need to also see the potentials in a woman and work towards making them queens. It is when you cannot wake that potential that you hands off. Judging a woman from afar off as "fake white wannabe girl" without knowing the content of her character is misleading.

Fulaman198:
I thumbed to your comment because you are right and I try to bros, I honestly do. It's just that we are living in an age where material things are even more prized than before. With the advent of new innovative technologies, more and more people are getting addicted to tangibles.

killjoy:
readers discretion adviced: this is a long post. get a bowl of popcorn and your glasses. turn off the TV , you don't want to get distracted. if it took me time to write such a lengthy post, I wonder why you should complain about reading it. below are the reasons.

1. We're too different to live together: women love people and relationships, men love objects (like cars, houses, gadgets, game consoles etc), a man's lot is his career, a woman's is marriage (according to the curse after the fall of man), women are indirect, men are always direct, men want sex before they develop feelings for women, women can't have sex without emotional attachment first(unless they r who.res, even if they are who.res lolzzz), a man wants to hv sex, a woman wants to make love (I swear she doesn't even mind just cuddling), men see having dinner as a time to quench hunger, women see having dinner as time for bonding, let me continue? A married man without money feels unfulfilled, a wealthy woman without a man feels similarly, I can go on and on! But no time, my point, you need a lot of patience, tolerance, understanding, endurance, compromise etc to survive in marriage. But life is too short, stay single and be free to be urself or get married and spend the rest of your life struggling to be another person. Continue reading, this is just one of seven.

2. Love doesn't exist: if you intend to stake your future with a woman on an emotion as erratic as love, then you need to have ur head examined. Love is an emotional convulsion which, like other sicknesses, are recovered from with time. Experience has thought me that a woman's love is only skin deep, but you can accentuate it with money. Ohhhh how women react to the smell of cash. Bleep love and go make some muller.

3. You don't need a child: the world will remember you by the kids you left behind. That's a big fat lie!! You don't need a carbon copy of yourself roaming the earth after your demise to ensure your immortality. Instead, the world will remember you by the feats you surmounted! Obama will be remembered not as the father of, I don't even know his child's name and I don't give a fvck bout it! But as the first black US President. Mother Theresa never had a child, Einstein's legacy is not his kids but his discoveries. My point! You are not remembered by the kids you had but the records you set. But if you badly want a kid, adopt one, or get a baby mama and impregnate her but never, never get married just to have kids. marriage is too great a price to pay.

4. There is absolutely nothing new marriage has to offer you: just be honest with yourself. A family? You already belong to one (or do you think you just appeared out of thin air?), love? Your mother loves you like die, trust moi. A woman to manage your home? Get a maid! pay her well and she will manage your home without complications like disrespecting you, PMS, etc. Sex? Gone are the days men marry for sex ooo!!! Sex is damn cheap, you don't need marriage to enjoy it. By the way, what makes you think getting married entitles you to sex when you want it, ie, if at all?? U never jam female Hitler. Continue reading, I'm not even close to the end.

5. Marriage is expensive: a woman's problems end when she gets married (at least on financial level), while a man's problems just begin. Most ladies don't have plans of making money(some stop after getting married). for a woman, after graduating from uni, a husband is top on d list above a job ie, if a job is on the list. Guys, stay alone and worry for one. Apart from financially, marriage drains you emotionally. You have to deal with a partner suffering from PMS five days in a month for life (by the time she reaches menopause, you'd be probably dead) and when she ain't suffering PMS, its worse cos she is pregnant!! Don't forget regular mood swings, test games, among other complicated female emotional ailments. Plus wait till you get divorced before you know how much financially and emotionally expensive marriage could be. That brings us to...

6. It may end up in divorce: possible causes of divorce. She gains weight, sex with one person for years gone stale and boring, the love (or whatever dumb ass name you call it) fades, you want a new woman, (men are polygamous by nature, hard truth. Deal with it), she is no longer the woman you married, (true, women do change after marriage for many reasons, that is story for another day), you cheat on her, she cheats on you, many many more. Don't scar yourself with a painful divorce. Stay single and happy.

7. You get to focus on your dreams without distractions. Like I said earlier, a man's career is his lot (or curse). As s man if you haven't got a successful career, you will probably die unhappy and unproductive. The compromise you have to make to keep her happy will retard you from achieving your dreams to the fullest. Pleasing a woman and pursuing your dreams are mutually exclusive. don't get married.

disclaimer: its ironic when people say honesty is a virtue yet can't bear to hear (or read) the truth.

nota bene: I am not prejudiced towards women. I hate all equally.

LordReed:
So what gives you the impression that it is impossible to be married and successful?

Specialist900:
Op

You also didn't recognise that marriage to some people has been the only that has made sense in their life.

AfricanApple:
one thing I'm seeing in u is that you hate women. you know what, you are making the right choice for yourself cos I see you are not ready to love. you might end up making the life of a woman miserable :-x
but at least don't kill the joys of others

Lol @plan the rest of your life, good for you hun. but remember we don't always get what we want

kentozybee:
Wats PMS

Adex097:
GOODBYE marriage!!!








Thank you @OP

killjoy:
being married and successful are mutually exclusive

LordReed:
So the (on and off) world's richest man is not successful because he is married? Warren Buffet is not successful because he is married? Mark Zuckerberg is not successful because he is married? Michael Dell is not successful because he is married? Dangote is not successful because he is married?

killjoy:
dats pipl who hav failed in der careers ryt

killjoy:
my point exactly

LordReed:
So according to you even if you are a billionaire once you are married you are no longer counted as successful? LoL! I didn't know you were deluded before now you've confirmed it. SMLH.

AfricanApple:
one thing I'm seeing in u is that you hate women. you know what, you are making the right choice for yourself cos I see you are not ready to love. you might end up making the life of a woman miserable :-x
but at least don't kill the joys of others

Lol @plan the rest of your life, good for you hun. but remember we don't always get what we want

TDstarr:
who said u cant love, its just marriage we against, women cant just be in a relationship and enjoy it without thinking of turning the guy to take care of her forever, am in a relationship now i use a lot of protection cos i still gat life ahead of me, and she understands no marriage for me, the bittch is trying to change me and am taking advantage of it fully

killjoy:
the pleasure is all mine... same with me... im now ferrociously ambitious without getting distraction from girlfrend or crap... nw i feel lyk my lyf has a direction... not jst living it to please a woman, lyk it used to be... but striving to create a brand that wud stand d test of tym and remain long after im gone... brands lyk lipton, halley davidson, apple, microsoft... mehnnn my brand must live foreva

holluwai:
A lot of times I wish I was not MARRIED!!! I can't stand certain things my wife does and I know one day I'll get my freedom again..... One way or the other!

skelefish:
I must commend KILLJOY and COLINADUA, it's really not easy to make such a decision 'hats off to both of u'.

I have been following your post and I want u guys to know that u have made the right decision,just hold firm to it.

Both of u should always have these bible passage @ the back of your mind;
1 corinthians 7:26-28, 32-35, 38.

Christ wish for every man is to remain a lifetime celibate for heaven sake, but most men can't do this because of sexual drive. Mathew 19:3-12 buttress this.

The major problem every single man face is sex, but if u're able to condition your mind and build your self control, 70% Of the problem is gone. Pressure will definitely come,just be resolute.
U don't need to tell anybody, just keep it to yourself, cause the opposition is stiff.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing & obtains favour frm the lord. No doubt, but he will be anxious abt worldly affairs & how to pls his wife & his interests are divided. But the unmarried man is anxious abt the affairs of d lord, how to pls d lord,which gives peace of mind.
Marriage is good,but singleness is better.

Am not gay, neither am I a misogynist. Am just an easygoing celibate, who resides in d ancient city of benin.