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latuntop:
If you don't think about marriage, you are not ready.

onadana:
...If you no get money....because no be love dey pay bills.Love is sweet but money makes it sweeter.

leejeebaby:
ANGER! The last point is affecting my relationship badly

herald9:
If you're still in school, you're not ready for marriage

leejeebaby:
ANGER! The last point is affecting my relationship badly

bushdoc9919:
It is a nice list.....and one I fully endorse as a single.

But I guess no one is fully ready for marriage.....what one needs to be fully ready for I guess, is the ability to learn and to learn and to learn.

ALKARULEZ615:
I hate LISTS

Moderrator:
23. If you still eye women's boobs and bumbums when they pass, nada, you aint ready yet.

LordRhot:
(1). If you believe that you must always have the last say in an argument,you are not ready for marriage.

(2). If you don't like anyone invading your space,you are not ready.

(3). If you're a lady,and you don't cook or don't like to,your marriage is not likely to be easy or funny.

(4). If you always say things exactly how they come to your mind not caring who is hurt,your marriage is likely to crash.

(5). If you believe you are who you are and no one can change that,you're not ready.

(6). If you think about others when you've fully sorted yourself out,you're not ready.

(7). If you are so good about holding a grudge and you will only let go when you feel like,stay unmarried.

(.8.). If you're a man and you are not engaged in ventures or a process in time that can financially take care of your immediate family and
beyond,you need to give yourself a few more years to be ready.

(9). If as a man,you're easily swayed and pressurized to do things against your wish,you are not ready for marriage.

(10). If you believe that women at best should be good in bed and kitchen affairs only,you will end up having a bitter and subdued wife;stay away.

(11). If your mind can't conceive the thought of having a more successful wife,even if it is temporary,then you have little growing up to do.

(12). If you have no confidence in your capability and your future,you have no business taking someone else with you.

(13). If as a man,you don't have a mentor or leader you follow,listen or defer to,you're not going to be able to lead your family.

(14). If you can't have wedding ceremony within a budget you can personally afford,give yourself more time. Who says you can't have 20 guests or less at your wedding? Cut your coat according to your cloth and take responsibility. As a man, you can define how small or large you want your wedding ceremony to be and be able to handle it.

(15). If you have anger problem such that you can destroy things when you are angry, get a therapist to help you in managing it. Otherwise engage God's help for the change you seek. With anger issues,you're a disaster waiting to explode.

Marriage is an investment, what you put into it is what comes out of it!
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LordRhot:
(1). If you believe that you must always have the last say in an argument,you are not ready for marriage.

(2). If you don't like anyone invading your space,you are not ready.

(3). If you're a lady,and you don't cook or don't like to,your marriage is not likely to be easy or funny.

(4). If you always say things exactly how they come to your mind not caring who is hurt,your marriage is likely to crash.

(5). If you believe you are who you are and no one can change that,you're not ready.

(6). If you think about others when you've fully sorted yourself out,you're not ready.

(7). If you are so good about holding a grudge and you will only let go when you feel like,stay unmarried.

(.8.). If you're a man and you are not engaged in ventures or a process in time that can financially take care of your immediate family and
beyond,you need to give yourself a few more years to be ready.

(9). If as a man,you're easily swayed and pressurized to do things against your wish,you are not ready for marriage.

(10). If you believe that women at best should be good in bed and kitchen affairs only,you will end up having a bitter and subdued wife;stay away.

(11). If your mind can't conceive the thought of having a more successful wife,even if it is temporary,then you have little growing up to do.

(12). If you have no confidence in your capability and your future,you have no business taking someone else with you.

(13). If as a man,you don't have a mentor or leader you follow,listen or defer to,you're not going to be able to lead your family.

(14). If you can't have wedding ceremony within a budget you can personally afford,give yourself more time. Who says you can't have 20 guests or less at your wedding? Cut your coat according to your cloth and take responsibility. As a man, you can define how small or large you want your wedding ceremony to be and be able to handle it.

(15). If you have anger problem such that you can destroy things when you are angry, get a therapist to help you in managing it. Otherwise engage God's help for the change you seek. With anger issues,you're a disaster waiting to explode.

Marriage is an investment, what you put into it is what comes out of it!
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Moderrator:
nice. Most people think they cannot be changed because they are already who they are #lol

"I'm gay right from the day i was born" is as good as saying "I'm a thief right from the day i was born" or "i'm a geek right from the day i was born
" , what if the current paying job demands political or accounting skills? you send an anonymous email to someone and commit suicide?
Who cares? Basically , you have to adapt to the situation.

23. If you still eye women's boobs and bumbums when they pass, nada, you aint ready yet.

jireh250:
When you are too opinionated...na only your opinion they correct everytime...na wahala o.
Can two work together except they be agreed?

daey118:
Wait .let me ask ifa!

Aprime:
As a man, if you don't have a woman, you're not ready.

lonelydora:
If after sleeping with your girlfriend and you narrate to your friends how the whole thing went, you are not ready for marriage.

mcnnadi:
If as a young man/girl, you still can't control your sexual urge or cannot be satisfied by one person, please you ain't ready....

Moderrator:
nice. Most people think they cannot be changed because they are already who they are #lol

"I'm gay right from the day i was born" is as good as saying "I'm a thief right from the day i was born" or "i'm a geek right from the day i was born
" , what if the current paying job demands political or accounting skills? you send an anonymous email to someone and commit suicide?
Who cares? Basically , you have to adapt to the situation.

23. If you still eye women's boobs and bumbums when they pass, nada, you aint ready yet.

Truckpusher:
5 and 10 is an absolute hogwash.

mizjules:
Lol early riser, didn't see you @ the meeting what happened?