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Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 1:42pm On Apr 08
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Ammishaddai: 1:45pm On Apr 08
There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 1:56pm On Apr 08
Ammishaddai:
There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement
It's neither about right nor wrong. It's about perspective.

#bantilosha
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by philanthropic: 2:00pm On Apr 08
Yes

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Anigreat: 2:05pm On Apr 08
shocked




A very BIG YES.

But the age gap Should be 1-5 years, anything more than that is No.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Kondomatic(m): 2:13pm On Apr 08
NO
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by chatinent(m): 2:15pm On Apr 08
No.


If she lied to me and I discover it after marriage, I'll divorce.


It's fornication to me.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Jaiyeori: 2:16pm On Apr 08

Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by MrSamsung(m): 2:20pm On Apr 08
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu sad. Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted. cheesy
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table angry
My question to you is what do you really want

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by advanceDNA: 2:26pm On Apr 08
englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

You are worried about things u won’t be worried about when you hitting 50-60 years old.... na peace of mind u need for marriage oooo

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by illicit(m): 2:58pm On Apr 08
Ur woman is ur woman abeg
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Drsnives(m): 4:38pm On Apr 08
I foresee guys jumping into this type of marriage jumping out due to the lady's domineering character
This I have seen
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by meobizy(f): 4:47pm On Apr 08
#bantilosha
What is this one again? You Nairalanders won't kill me in this forum.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Themainboy22: 4:50pm On Apr 08
No because I intend enjoying life to the fullest, and marriage as a retirement plan. You know what I'm saying, I don't want to marry a grandma. The younger the better.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by kenzysmith(m): 4:53pm On Apr 08
Marrying a woman older than u us the most wisest thing a man can do they ten to be experience, wise they can build a man from nothing to something most great men today are married to their agemate or women older than them. U see those ones from 23 down world if u are a man marry to those ones u signing your death warrant prayer wise no, financial support no, brain wise no, cheating 100% lying 100% nagging 100% blood suckers 100%

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Polynek(m): 5:01pm On Apr 08
opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by playapayaski(m): 5:20pm On Apr 08
englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

Who tell u say u go reach 90 or 40 sef? Don't worry too much about the uncertain future bro.

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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 6:03pm On Apr 08
chatinent:
No.


If she lied to me and I discover it after marriage, I'll divorce.


It's fornication to me.
Abi adultery? angry cheesy grin


#bantilosha
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 6:07pm On Apr 08
playapayaski:


Who tell u say u go reach 90 or 40 sef? Don't worry too much about the uncertain future bro.
90 sure pieces.

#bantilosha
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 6:13pm On Apr 08
Polynek:
opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own
You think it's everyone that has nose?


#bantilosha
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Polynek(m): 9:16pm On Apr 08
englishmart:
You think it's everyone that has nose?


#bantilosha
You are funny oo
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by phazotron(m): 10:53pm On Apr 08
advanceDNA:


You are worried about things u won’t be worried about when you hitting 50-60 years old.... na peace of mind u need for marriage oooo


No mind d mumu
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 3:45pm On Apr 09
MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu sad. Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted. cheesy
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table angry
My question to you is what do you really want
What did you say?

#bantilosha
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by SavageResponse(m): 4:20pm On Apr 09
englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

How many times will you people ask this question?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by jamiudarex(m): 6:23pm On Apr 09
englishmart:


#bantilosha
what is the meaning of these
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by BuySweetOrange: 7:19pm On Apr 09
Older women seems to be more responsible and understand what respect means. Also age is just a number and not an actual representation of affection
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by Jesse1991: 7:23pm On Apr 09
Yes, but she must not be more than 3 years older. Older women are wiser and more understanding. They won't carry shoulder for you and some of them are very beautiful. If there is anyone interested, my number is 08082421881. I am in my late 20s.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by lusid: 7:27pm On Apr 09
For fùck sake, he who finds a wife has found a good thing age is nothing but a number.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 9:03am On Apr 14
lusid:
For fùck sake, he who finds a wife has found a good thing age is nothing but a number.
For sanity sake, age isn't just a number.


#bantilosha
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Woman That Is Older Than You? by englishmart(m): 9:04am On Apr 14
Jesse1991:
Yes, but she must not be more than 3 years older. Older women are wiser and more understanding. They won't carry shoulder for you and some of them are very beautiful. If there is anyone interested, my number is 08082421881. I am in my late 20s.
Work on your self-esteem, bro.

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