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Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 22, 2014

Marriage isn't entirely about finding that right person but being the right person - only you can decide when you are ready (psychologically/financially/emotionally.... etc) to take that plunge.

1: It gives you time to build your education/career: A sound educational qualification is a good step to building your career. Growing a career takes a lot of time/energy which you might not be able to spare when you have a family.

2: Financial Independence/Stability: All things being equal, financial stability should go alongside a career. If you're a prudent bachelor/spinster, this is the time to save and make investments. You would be needing the money later in life. #Owo ni koko

3: Marriage doesn't have age limit: The society has made us to believe there is an ideal age we are expected to walk down the aisle, as true as this might sound - there is actually no age limit to marriage. Everyone's life part is different , some people have their first marriage in their 30s,40s etc (we only pray for it to be worth it)...why don't you just sit, relax and enjoy the single moment'.

4: It isn't a race: Those thoughts that run through your mind when a friend sends that wedding invitation and tells you to do 'asoebi' on top...you're like, "na only me waka come?" No be only you waka come my dear, so many people can relate to that feeling. You're not in a competition with your friends, never consider marriage just to be tagged "Mrs".

5: What better time to explore: This is the perfect time to go on road trips, girls/guys night out. You get to know diverse places/cultures before you become all committed to one person.

With age comes a different perspective. Keep being the best you can be, stay open... you just might find 'it' when you're least searching.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by joseph1832(m): 7:05pm On Dec 22, 2014

I take it you're married? Why give reasons why someone should get married later in life?.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Dymondgurl(f): 7:06pm On Dec 22, 2014

I pray our parents, especially our mothers, will understand

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:08pm On Dec 22, 2014

joseph1832:
I take it you're married? Why give reasons why someone should get married later in life?.

You're the priest/pastor that wedded me?

Dymondgurl:
I pray our parents, especially our mothers, will understand

They really need to, not their fault though...I guess they are just being their age.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 22, 2014

Yea right. No pressure cheesy

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 22, 2014

Well said mam
I repeat,aint gonna be a liability 4 any man
Its gonna be our money,our cars ,our evryfin
Buh we gonna work for it togeda.
Once u leave a man to do evryfin,less value 4 u alrdy

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by joseph1832(m): 7:20pm On Dec 22, 2014

[quote author=Kachisbarbie post=29113816]You're the priest/pastor that wedded me?

Like seriously, you're not married?.

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by mentorandfriend(m): 7:21pm On Dec 22, 2014

You've made your point, but I'm getting married asap. So many benefits, including close intimate friendship with your children. For instance, if you see me and my dad when I accompany him to business meetings, outsiders mistake me for his immediate younger brother, and not his son. And besides, if you marry a real woman (if you yourself are a real man), you will have space, peace, pure love and serenity at home and in your heart to go after your career; and you'll definitely succeed.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chimerase2: 7:34pm On Dec 22, 2014

Marriage marriage marriage kai angry

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by ireneony(f): 7:37pm On Dec 22, 2014*

see funny thread o grin

everyone here will definitely get married. no need to give us reasons undecided

merry xmas to you all
i love you all

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 22, 2014

chimerase2:
Marriage marriage marriage kai

You again?
This is romance section, what else should we be talking about?
*crops?
*airlines?
*jamb questions?
Please enlighten me, amu waiting

author=joseph1832 post=29114142]

Like seriously, lets not derail. Anyday I open a thread on my marital status, we would discuss that

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:40pm On Dec 22, 2014

[quote author=Kachisbarbie post=29113705][/quote]Daalu for the advise.
*stealing is not corruption*

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 22, 2014

ireneony:
see funny thread o everyone here will definitely get married. no need to give us reasons

yeayeaaaa

Sweetie, I am very much aware of that.
Now, tell me something I am not aware of.
Thanks

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chimerase2: 7:44pm On Dec 22, 2014

Kachisbarbie:
You again?
This is romance section, what else should we be talking about?
*crops?
*airlines?
*jamb questions?
Please enlighten me, amu waiting

I can't believe u re using dat shocked

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by ireneony(f): 7:45pm On Dec 22, 2014*

Kachisbarbie:
yeayeaaaa

Sweetie, I am very much aware of that.
Now, tell me something I am not aware of.
Thanks

why can't you create a thread that is more personal than all these top ten thread, is getting boring.
we wanna see the romantic side of you, stop been uptight

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chimerase2: 7:49pm On Dec 22, 2014

Pple in romance always take me serious cheesy

Some times de abuse me gon self I will just laff in ma mind cheesy

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by lionduke(m): 7:50pm On Dec 22, 2014

potential

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:54pm On Dec 22, 2014

ireneony:
what can't you create a thread that is more personal than all these top ten thread, is getting boring.
we wanna see the romantic side of you, stop been uptight

Is this top 10?
Personal? Romantic side of me?
What's yo definition of those words?
You wanna see a thread on how I twerk on the D*ck or what?
Pls elucidate.....

chimerase2:
I can't believe u re using dat
Yesss.
So that you know amu, very-very serious nna.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by OohMpa: 7:56pm On Dec 22, 2014

[color=#808000]This is what ooh Mpa tells his gfs but they won't listen, dem dey hustle Mrs ooh Mpa cry

Now, they're using style to hunt ooh Mpa's raincoat for artificial belle, Ooh Mpa say no, dem dey vex angry

Ooh Mpa now ties raincoat, use raincoat, dry raincoat then burn raincoat.....Their fada angry

[/color]

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by ireneony(f): 7:57pm On Dec 22, 2014*

Kachisbarbie:
Is this top 10?
Personal? Romantic side of me?
What's yo definition of those words?
You wanna see a thread on how I twerk on the D*ck or what?
Pls elucidate.....

Yesss.
So that you know amu, very-very serious nna.

something like
guys, do you cry when a lady breaks your heart.
more over been free does not mean someone twerk on a d:ck

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chimerase2: 7:57pm On Dec 22, 2014

Kachisbarbie:
Is this top 10?
Personal? Romantic side of me?
What's yo definition of those words?
You wanna see a thread on how I twerk on the D*ck or what?
Pls elucidate.....

Yesss.
So that you know amu, very-very serious nna.

nne ibu copy cat grin

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chibwike(m): 8:04pm On Dec 22, 2014

Following ernestly...i must get married...this christmas

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 8:07pm On Dec 22, 2014

OohMpa:
[color=#808000]This is what ooh Mpa tells his gfs but they won't listen, dem dey hustle Mrs ooh Mpa

Now, they're using style to hunt ooh Mpa's raincoat for artificial belle, Ooh Mpa say no, dem dey vex

Ooh Mpa now ties raincoat, use raincoat, dry raincoat then burn raincoat.....Their fada [/color]

Ooh Mpa, I don't get you o

chibwike(m): Quote Post
Following ernestly...i must get married...this christmas: - Three(3) days to go baby.
What's the colour of the day.

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 8:09pm On Dec 22, 2014

Nice points
Bt i wish to get married early.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 8:11pm On Dec 22, 2014

chibwike:
Following ernestly...i must get married...this christmas

be fast abt it,d year is runnin out.

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chibwike(m): 8:13pm On Dec 22, 2014

kristina1:
be fast abt it,d year is runnin out.

I haven't met anyone...buh i really wanna get married before 25th...is that possible?

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chibwike(m): 8:15pm On Dec 22, 2014

kristina1:
Nice points
Bt i wish to get married early.

why.

Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 8:17pm On Dec 22, 2014

chibwike:
I haven't met anyone...buh i really wanna get married before 25th...is that possible?

Lol,,i dnt think itz possible.
Remember,rush in,rush out.
Take ur time.

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Beennkumar(m): 8:17pm On Dec 22, 2014

You've got a point. Nice thread. cool

I think I prefer getting married early though, at least, being a grandpa at 50 ain't a bad idea. grin

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Naavah(f): 8:19pm On Dec 22, 2014

Nice one. All I know is this marriage thingy isn't a must. Bleep dis age nonsense

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 22, 2014

Kachisbarbie:
Is this top 10?
Personal? Romantic side of me?
What's yo definition of those words?
You wanna see a thread on how I twerk on the D*ck or what?
Pls elucidate.....

This is PG-25 stuff cheesy

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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Beennkumar(m): 8:19pm On Dec 22, 2014

chibwike:
I haven't met anyone...buh i really wanna get married before 25th...is that possible?

Yes, it's possible. cheesy

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