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Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by ireneony(op): 12:09am On Jan 03, 2015
Tattooboy:
u kidding?
I know you are also guilty of this act undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:11am On Jan 03, 2015
O.p Check the kind of guy friends you are keeping. And make it clear to them "friends don't become dates or bedmates"
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Tattooboy: 12:13am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
I know you are also guilty of this act undecided
not necessarily.
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by ireneony(op): 12:15am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
O.p Check the kind of guy friends you are keeping. And make it clear to them "friends don't become dates or bedmates"
how I know....even the nicest guy can become something else, they have this assumption when a lady is so nice to them, it means she loves them... Which is bad..
I know some ladies also have this experience
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by chimerase2: 12:18am On Jan 03, 2015
So self control is de key cus I knw no mata how u re as a guy sleeping by the side of a gal u will hv temptation
Nw it depends on how a guy can control it and respect his self
After all the much hyped sex is overrated
Nothing new again is there undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by pasqal09: 12:18am On Jan 03, 2015
grin
whizqueen:
Did you jes asked that qwestion shocked
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:19am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
how I know....even the nicest guy can become something else, they have this assumption when a lady is so nice to them, it means she loves them... Which is bad..
I know some ladies also have this experience
Am not saying such guys don't exist. Buh if all you male friends are longing to get into bed with you, then somethin is wrong somewhere o
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by ireneony(op): 12:22am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
Am not saying such guys don't exist. Buh if all you male friends are longing to get into bed with you, then somethin is wrong somewhere o
there is nothing wrong....just try it...once you become close to a lady and you are free with her you must feel something for her in one way or the other
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:25am On Jan 03, 2015
pasqal09:
grin
You don f. Up undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:27am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
how I know....even the nicest guy can become something else, they have this assumption when a lady is so nice to them, it means she loves them... Which is bad..
I know some ladies also have this experience
Smh
U have a lot to learn
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by pasqal09: 12:27am On Jan 03, 2015
shocked
whizqueen:
You don f. Up undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:28am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
You don f. Up undecided
is he d one? grin
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:29am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
there is nothing wrong....just try it...once you become close to a lady and you are free with her you must feel something for her in one way or the other
Chill small. Am a lady n my closest friend is a guy. He has never even instigated such thing. If he ever tries it that means he doesn't value our friendship
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by tosyne2much(m): 12:33am On Jan 03, 2015
pasqal09:
why on earth would i wanna be pals with a lady?
hmmmmm Pasqal09 now gone bad tongue

Enjoy ur life jawe my broda cos life no get duplicate grin
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:33am On Jan 03, 2015
AgapeCharis:
is he d one? grin
shocked shocked what are you doing here?? tongue
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by ireneony(op): 12:35am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
Chill small. Am a lady n my closest friend is a guy. He has never even instigated such thing. If he ever tries it that means he doesn't value our friendship
goodluck to you...he is one in a million
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:36am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
shocked shocked what are you doing here?? tongue
grin
Dx op post dey vex me
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by pasqal09: 12:37am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
You don f. Up undecided
how?
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:42am On Jan 03, 2015
AgapeCharis:
grin
Dx op post dey vex me
grin Nor vex you hear. **drink cold water** cool
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:44am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
grin Nor vex you hear. **drink cold water** cool
smiley
Dtx nice of u
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by TDstarr: 12:44am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
babe that is not true....there was this guy in my department he knew that i have a boyfriend then.....he do come to visit and i will go and visit him too, will also hang out...so oneday he told me he will come over to my side to sleep over, but i refused....but i later agreed cos my girlfriend will be coming over too, since we are all in the same department it will be easy for us to relate, i stay in a flat in school and they will be enough space for everyone....
he came over, later my girlfriend called me she couldn't make it again.
before we slept we chatted...so i allowed him to sleep on the bed while i was sitting on the rug watching a movie i slept off..
it was 1am i decided to move my body i was suprised to see hims sleeping close to me, he even put his hands around my waiste...
i got angry and warned he and went to the parlor to continue....
ever since that incident i stayed cleared from him.
if i want a relationship i state it, i want friendship its friendship, the guy for talk e mind simple, nor be crime
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:45am On Jan 03, 2015
pasqal09:
how?
Wey i dey plan to make you my besty embarassed
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:45am On Jan 03, 2015
wunmi590:
Because you girls always think we are fool
please can you explain that? i really want to know
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by pasqal09: 12:45am On Jan 03, 2015
whizqueen:
Wey i dey plan to make you my besty embarassed
lol, so na wetin i talk de stop u?
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by ireneony(op): 12:46am On Jan 03, 2015
TDstarr:
if i want a relationship i state it, i want friendship its friendship, the guy for talk e mind simple, nor be crime
alright....
but some guys just need to change their mentality
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:47am On Jan 03, 2015
jingh:
it is based on how you present yourself.
a Guy go come ask me for sex when we no dey date.

is he possessed ?
hmmmmmmm ya funny
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:47am On Jan 03, 2015
jingh:
it is based on how you present yourself.
a Guy go come ask me for sex when we no dey date.

is he possessed ?
grin
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by tosyne2much(m): 12:52am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony, change to calibre of guys you move with.. Move with people like us (tosin)

Btw, picture of the guy holding ur waist at 1am or
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:53am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
babe that is not true....there was this guy in my department he knew that i have a boyfriend then.....he do come to visit and i will go and visit him too, will also hang out...so oneday he told me he will come over to my side to sleep over, but i refused....but i later agreed cos my girlfriend will be coming over too, since we are all in the same department it will be easy for us to relate, i stay in a flat in school and they will be enough space for everyone....
he came over, later my girlfriend called me she couldn't make it again.
before we slept we chatted...so i allowed him to sleep on the bed while i was sitting on the rug watching a movie i slept off..
it was 1am i decided to move my body i was suprised to see hims sleeping close to me, he even put his hands around my waiste...
i got angry and warned he and went to the parlor to continue....
ever since that incident i stayed cleared from him.
You shouldn't have slept in the room with him in the first place. What if .................. lipsrsealed
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by ireneony(op): 12:53am On Jan 03, 2015
tosyne2much:
ireneony, change to calibre of guys you move with.. Move with people like us (tosin)

Btw, picture of the guy holding ur waist at 1am or
grin haha...
i lost the pix
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by whizqueen(f): 12:55am On Jan 03, 2015
pasqal09:
lol, so na wetin i talk de stop u?
Infact hin discourage me.
Re: Why Do Guys Take Ladies Friendship For Granted? by Nobody: 12:55am On Jan 03, 2015
ireneony:
babe that is not true....there was this guy in my department he knew that i have a boyfriend then.....he do come to visit and i will go and visit him too, will also hang out...so oneday he told me he will come over to my side to sleep over, but i refused....but i later agreed cos my girlfriend will be coming over too, since we are all in the same department it will be easy for us to relate, i stay in a flat in school and they will be enough space for everyone....
he came over, later my girlfriend called me she couldn't make it again.
before we slept we chatted...so i allowed him to sleep on the bed while i was sitting on the rug watching a movie i slept off..
it was 1am i decided to move my body i was suprised to see hims sleeping close to me, he even put his hands around my waiste...
i got angry and warned he and went to the parlor to continue....
ever since that incident i stayed cleared from him.
You shouldn't have slept in the room with him in the first place. What if .................. lipsrsealed
you have been escaping this but it's best to stay clear of it totally.
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