Pay her and move on.

that girl is a runs girl... I tell u

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

OP, do you need Prophet TB joshua to tell you to do the needful? After all you told us that part of you want to continue to eat the forbidden fruit and another part of you want her to go. Why approbate and the same time repprobate.

This is my 2kobo for you

Be decisive and rescue yourself from apocalypse approaching.

Be careful and discreetly carry out your discharge of this lady without her having a clue of your plan.

The third law of power says CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS. Be careful in engaging her from now.

The fifth law of power says POSE AS A FRIEND, WORK AS A SPY.

Finally, it's your life, don't allow someone to ruin your prospects and joy because of sweet bedroom mastercraft. There are good and

responsible ladies out on planet earth moving around for your toast. DON'T FORGET, LIFE IS TOO SHORT. SPEND EVERY SECOND

TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY.

NB. My over 20 years of marriage experience is not a joke. I have seen the good, bad and the ugly of a relationship.[color=#000099][/color]

As for me,i cant date someoñe whose voice could be heard by neighbours during our disagreement.
So, as they say on NL; Do the needful

samisparkle24:

Who told you is normal. You make me laugh

If you did a bit of sociology back in school then you'd understand why/how it's normal for 2 people living together and having one form of relationship to pick fights 'once in a while'

elantraceey:


To me it's not normal , whatever happened to anger control? no matter how angry i am i can't easily bring myself to insult an enemy not to talk of someone i love, i'll just walk away and we'll discuss it latter , shouts and insults is a big turn off for me , i can't live with an insultive person.

The fact it isn't normal to you does not posit that it's also abnormal. I did a bit of sociology back in the university and I know it's normal. Otherwise, what you have is one partner living the shadow of the other simply because he/she is afraid to air views whenever there's a quarrel or fight.
Ciao!

Toktee:
Thank you sweetheart,you said it all,if the lady is nt afraid of you nw that you cn walk out of the relationship,what will happen when you finally say "i do"
WARNING....don't marry some1 out of pity.
A lady that will shout when you shout and even asked you to pay 4 sexx is a prostitute,run 4 ur life.

Confirm,pls don't marry out of pity or u ll spend the rest of ur life regretting,a good wife brings prosperity but the bad one ll impoverish ur life.shine ur eyes,marriage is not about sex,the word love is an abstract.

TrishaP:

Most guys have said worse than these statements you saw here and they were forgiven and bck together. Don't be too fast to criticize someone.

please! Enlighten me with an example that could be worse than realising I have been dating a prostitute and I need to get my asss tested!

Absolutely

Toktee:
Thank you sweetheart,you said it all,if the lady is nt afraid of you nw that you cn walk out of the relationship,what will happen when you finally say "i do"
WARNING....don't marry some1 out of pity.
A lady that will shout when you shout and even asked you to pay 4 sexx is a prostitute,run 4 ur life.

mployer:


I agree with You. She meant 'pay me off'

For what services rendered, bikonu? Is she an employee sort of ni cos I'm still finding it hard to wrap my head on that your ''pay me off'' phrasal verb.

Your marriage shouldn't depend on what she did or didn't say during that argument...

why should you be d one to accept the retired-hustler as a wife.
To put your mind at rest, do some digging. You can employ d services of some one who can do it for you. send a mail to backgroundqenu@yahoo.com. Or ping 295710E6

Pls run away from her faster than your shadow.

HARDDON:


Arrh! A dead dog with foul attitude!

Little wonder

Btw, we all keep learning, the very day 1 stops, he stops living also

Bro, Learning is good but I truly wasn't Learning that which You are teaching, haba

I was trying to experiment on something else. I've read articles were pronouns are changed to pass some message.
'him' is basically used used for male humans, a primary one pupil knows that.

People say terrible things on provocation. But for me those words are heavy and behavioural-I think she is used to saying things like that before that day. That does not mean you can't forgive,ignore and look at the good side of her that you love. Who she can become should more important. There ladies that become prostitutes after marriage for the reasons known to them alone. There prostitutes that have become good wives too. Think straight

They say, we are more honest, when we are either drunk or angry! I'll leave u to chew on that.

[Loool crazy fellow quote author=xynerise post=29461366]She has to pay for the sperm you wasted in/on her[/quote]

Bakersfield:


OP, do you need Prophet TB joshua to tell you to do the needful? After all you told us that part of you want to continue to eat the forbidden fruit and another part of you want her to go. Why approbate and the same time repprobate.

This is my 2kobo for you

Be decisive and rescue yourself from apocalypse approaching.

Be careful and discreetly carry out your discharge of this lady without her having a clue of your plan.

The third law of power says CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS. Be careful in engaging her from now.

The fifth law of power says POSE AS A FRIEND, WORK AS A SPY.

Finally, it's your life, don't allow someone to ruin your prospects and joy because of sweet bedroom mastercraft. There are good and

responsible ladies out on planet earth moving around for your toast. DON'T FORGET, LIFE IS TOO SHORT. SPEND EVERY SECOND

TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY.

NB. My over 20 years of marriage experience is not a joke. I have seen the good, bad and the ugly of a relationship.[/color]

[color=#000099] OP, do you need Prophet TB joshua to tell you to do
the needful? After all you told us that part of you want to continue to eat the forbidden fruit and another part of you want her to go. Why approbate and the same time repprobate.
This is my 2kobo for you
Be decisive and rescue yourself from apocalypse approaching.
Be careful and discreetly carry out your discharge of this lady without her having a clue of your plan.
The third law of power says CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS. Be careful in engaging her from now.
The fifth law of power says POSE AS A FRIEND, WORK AS A SPY.
Finally, it's your life, don't allow someone to ruin your prospects and joy because of sweet bedroom mastercraft. There are good and responsible ladies out on planet earth moving around for your toast. DON'T FORGET, LIFE IS TOO SHORT. SPEND EVERY SECOND TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY.
NB. My over 20 years of marriage experience is not a joke. I have seen the good, bad and the ugly of a relationship. Ehn ehn, Nice post jawe...

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

Bleep love, think with your brain, its marriage not relationship, even if she is a prostitute she is a bad person for shouting it to the public, youfvcked free ashawo move on bro.

i had dis experience ones, she was giving me a blow jobb, i was feeling it , i held her head , she said with a tone i dont like "leave my head, you are not paying for it" LATER FOUND OUT SHE WASA BIG TIME RUNS GIRL

TrishaP:
Anger can make someone say alot of shitty things. Forgive her but you still have to try and convince her to open up more about herself to u. Cus there might be more to what you heard.

IF na your broda nko? smh, anger makes women to say the truth

Toktee:
Thank you sweetheart,you said it all,if the lady is nt afraid of you nw that you cn walk out of the relationship,what will happen when you finally say "i do"
WARNING....don't marry some1 out of pity.
A lady that will shout when you shout and even asked you to pay 4 sexx is a prostitute,run 4 ur life.

Excuse meme but is a lady supposed to be afraid of her bf or husband? Why can't she shout at him abi wasn't he shouting at her too? I've seen some very strange things on this NL. She can't argue with him as he is God? Even a female is saying the same thing!

Dear OP, you guys had an argument. Don't gloss over anything u are not comfortable with. Ask her if she equates sex with money. This may even be a sign as to what the future holds. She might decide to sit at home or not contribute financially since she has done her own contribution in the bedroom :

xynerise:
She has to pay for the sperm you wasted in/on her

omo na true o. women gas pay us for all those release....

She isn't necessarily a prostitute, what she is however, is a gold digger and she is only with you for the money.

Toktee:
Thank you sweetheart,you said it all,if the lady is nt afraid of you nw that you cn walk out of the relationship,what will happen when you finally say "i do"
WARNING....don't marry some1 out of pity.
A lady that will shout when you shout and even asked you to pay 4 sexx is a prostitute,run 4 ur life.

even if she is a prostitute does not mean she is doomed for life. u can bring abt dat desired change in her life. tink twice

Daresh:


Excuse meme but is a lady supposed to be afraid of her bf or husband? Why can't she shout at him abi wasn't he shouting at her too? I've seen some very strange things on this NL. She can't argue with him as he is God? Even a female is saying the same thing!

Dear OP, you guys had an argument. Don't gloss over anything u are not comfortable with. Ask her if she equates sex with money. This may even be a sign as to what the future holds. She might decide to sit at home or not contribute financially since she has done her own contribution in the bedroom :

are you seriously trying to twist an obvious "gold digger" situation? Smh

I will say d lady was angry and wanted to hurt herself and the guy in question. She didn't meant wat she said. She used that word to puntuate herself 4rm leaving as ordered by u. Babe; words dat came out of d mouth is like an egg. Guy; if u drop her 4 anoda lady, which character do u know dat one will possess. Conclusion: d satan we know is beta dan d angel we only hear about. Verdict; hold on 2 ur babe as u both still need enough panel beating work to do. U patch her, she patch u. Wit time d vehicle will look clean

Very thin fine line between a gold digger and a prostitute.

if she is from anambra then ignore her words she mean none of if but if she is any other place please investigate before u marry

for the fact that you still want to consider this girl after all she said and done, shows that you really LOVE her..you are playing your biblical RESPONSIBILITY....But if she refuses to be SUBMISSIVE then she is not ready for the relationship...

@OP,

You actually have to be worried.

Words said out of anger are thoughts entertained when one is calm. Your girlfriend thinks she is doing you a favour when she sleeps with you and that is a sure sign of no emotional involvement.

If I were you, I will be very careful even if she claims she is sorry for the outbursts. She was in a potion to say so many other things apart from asking you to pay for intimacy had in a seemingly romantic relationship.

Be wise!

Wendy80:
I won't say u should break up with her cos I don't know her but No DECENT girl(married or single) will say such to her Man no matter the level of anger. That's absurd.

you have said it all ..love the caligraphy of ur write up..excellent penmanship..one orijin for you.

okay you were doing post paid , so many guys are on pre paid ooooo oooooo you go spend money first hahahah. i see danger