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redsun:
That is what mean by getting to point you go any more. And the one that can carry on will have to adapt. Making provision for care for the fallen loved one and at the same time carrying on with his/her life.

kilokeys:
dude.. u r sick..
chai. i just had rice turkey and coke o.. why u wan spoil my belle na..

ur mind is messed up guy

sukkot:
old enough to vote for sai buhari

sukkot:
lmao. hey, this is why me personally, i think in a marriage there should be separate rooms for the husband and wife. so she can have her privacy. and then when you guys are feeling romantic you visit each others rooms. i think this is what will make marriages last. you dont want to become too over familiar to where the attraction diminishes. she has her own toilet and bathroom in her room and i have mine in my room. so this way there is mystery conserved in the relationship. you dont want to totally demystify the relationship by sharing the same room 352 days in a year

sukkot:
lmao. hey, this is why me personally, i think in a marriage there should be separate rooms for the husband and wife. so she can have her privacy. and then when you guys are feeling romantic you visit each others rooms. i think this is what will make marriages last. you dont want to become too over familiar to where the attraction diminishes. she has her own toilet and bathroom in her room and i have mine in my room. so this way there is mystery conserved in the relationship. you dont want to totally demystify the relationship by sharing the same room 352 days in a year

sukkot:
You know the level of familiarity i am talking about ? you have seen her on the toilet many times and smelt her shyttt, and you may have run into her inappropriately disposed bloody sa-nitary towels a few times etc etc. its like a family member now as opposed to a sex-ual desire driven union. its a companion union and no longer se-xually driven.

sukkot:
ahhh but you miss the point. this is directed only for nightime. throughout the rest of the day you are hanging out together, going places, watching tv etc etc. then at night if she has a headache or just wants to have privacy she can retire to her space. and likewise me. you making it out like we seperate for the rest of the day. this is strictly sleeping arrangements. throughout the day we are hanging colliding colluding and collaborating. and you dont need a big home in order to have 2 bedrooms. i have yet to see a one bedroom apartment or flat in naija

sukkot:
Does it ever get to a point of familiarity and companionship in a wedding ( after a long period ) where you are now like best friends and ' family members ', and then trying to summon up a s-e-xual desire is akin to someone trying to sleep with their brother or sister, especially if you now have children.

Apparently Elvis Presley could never ever bring himself to sleep with his wife Priscilla again after she had his baby. and they never had sex after that.

sukkot:
lmao. hey, this is why me personally, i think in a marriage there should be separate rooms for the husband and wife so they can have their privacy and then when you guys are feeling romantic you visit each others rooms. i think this is what will make marriages last. you dont want to become too over familiar to where the attraction diminishes. she has her own toilet and bathroom in her room and i have mine in my room. so this way there is mystery conserved in the relationship. you dont want to totally demystify the relationship by sharing the same room 352 days in a year

sukkot:
You know the level of familiarity i am talking about ? you have seen her on the toilet many times and smelt her shyttt, and you may have run into her inappropriately disposed bloody sa-nitary towels a few times etc etc. its like a family member now as opposed to a sex-ual desire driven union. its a companion union and no longer se-xually driven.

kilokeys:
dude.. u r sick..
chai. i just had rice turkey and coke o.. why u wan spoil my belle na..

ur mind is messed up guy

sukkot:
You know the level of familiarity i am talking about ? you have seen her on the toilet many times and smelt her shyttt, and you may have run into her inappropriately disposed bloody sa-nitary towels a few times etc etc. its like a family member now as opposed to a sex-ual desire driven union. its a companion union and no longer se-xually driven.

delishpot:
:Pn

That was because the men had many wives. The mans room had to be free cos no one wife can dominate the bed. The man had a woman in his bed every night. The wives had their duty roaster and besides, those men had plenty kids you can imagine how it will be if all the women and kids lived under the same roof and the husband slept with all the women in the same bed every night
To make life easy and avoid wahala, each wife was assigned her hut, where she and her kids will have freedom and privacy. No who took my salt? Who stole my meat? Who removed my soup from the fire and put her stupid pot? Who removed my wet clothes from the line? Mama mary go to the back its my turn to sleep on our husbands right hand side
That was why. Those women had no choice. If they did, they would not have lived that life. Ask any woman from those days. Ask them why they did not leave, 90% of them will say...... leave to where? No escaping the obvious they had no choice o.

sukkot:
You know the level of familiarity i am talking about ? you have seen her on the toilet many times and smelt her shyttt, and you may have run into her inappropriately disposed bloody sa-nitary towels a few times etc etc. its like a family member now as opposed to a sex-ual desire driven union. its a companion union and no longer se-xually driven.

KingBish:
The post isn't crap. Trust me if it were, you wouldn't come back here even if you see it on instagram not to talk of dropping another comment.
Some people are genuinely passing through this phase of life.

In other news, OP biko what has happened to the remaining 12 days in a year? I painstakingly read through all your comments and you proclaimed there are 352 days in a year twice

delishpot:
Nope. Wife is wife, sister is sister. Besides, what kind of marriage is that when husband and wife start seeing themselves as brother and sister? That marriage must be borring mana! No dirty talks? no flashing? No ass spanking? No nada? Shuo, I guess that marriage was never romantic from the start. So lets not blame time here.
On the other hand, the man may be looking for excuse to start cheating

cyberguy72:
u re misunderstanding d dude.wot d op means is dat it gets to a stage in ur marriage life where u c ur wife as a sister.u dnt hv a sexual craving for her again,overfamiliarity.and dats true.

kilokeys:
guy.. never use a sib to compare.. it isnt d same..
u might just say reduced libido.. it cannot be same as saying sister.. haba

Lilimax:
Eww! The first page of this thread to me is bullshit! Why all the attacks on female gender

sukkot:
lmao. hey, this is why me personally, i think in a marriage there should be separate rooms for the husband and wife. so she can have her privacy. and then when you guys are feeling romantic you visit each others rooms. i think this is what will make marriages last. you dont want to become too over familiar to where the attraction diminishes. she has her own toilet and bathroom in her room and i have mine in my room. so this way there is mystery conserved in the relationship. you dont want to totally demystify the relationship by sharing the same room 352 days in a year

sirfrankben:
nigga it's 365 days a year.. :-p you can thank me leta tho'




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sukkot:
You know the level of familiarity i am talking about ? you have seen her on the toilet many times and smelt her shyttt, and you may have run into her inappropriately disposed bloody sa-nitary towels a few times etc etc. its like a family member now as opposed to a sex-ual desire driven union. its a companion union and no longer se-xually driven.