| Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
For a man, being shy is like the anti-thesis to being good with women. In case you're not familiar with the term anti-thesis, let me put it like this: If being good with women was sweet as Red Velvet Cakes, or Domino's Pizza...  ... being shy would taste like YoYo Bitters or Chloroquine... and...a mouthful of razor blades  It ain't good. The trouble with being shy is,the women in your life LOVE it. And they encourage you to be MORE shy, as you get older: When you're little, the women in your life like your mother...your sisters... your friends, etc... ... They all think being shy is “cute" or "adorable."And when you're young, it is. But this reinforcement forces you to act shy and quiet well into your 20's... 30's... 40's...50's..... Right up until the day you die. And THAT, my friend is neither adorable... Nor...Good for you, if you want to meet women. Here's the simple reason WHY: Women like "bad boys." At least in theory. Even if most women wouldn't DATE bad boys... ... They can't deny they're TURNED ON by the confidence. The attitude. The rebellion. Women love men they can't CONTROL! Because men are powerful. Women are beautiful. That's just the way the world works, my man. I wish it was different too. But you can't fight reality. And being a "shy" guy means she can control you. She can get you to do things. And she can drive your life like a fucking life coach. Who's got the "best intentions"... yet... ... is NEVER gonna get naked for you. Or kiss you. Or date you. Or take you back, if she's your ex. Them's just the facts: If you're a shy guy, women will NOT want to date you. In fact, being shy isn't even the worst of it: Because being "shy" isn't a disease...... It's just a SYMPTOM OF SOMETHING GREATER! For example: You ever meet a shy, CONFIDENT guy? How about a shy, SUCCESSFUL guy? How about a shy, "SEXY" guy? ... Shy rockstar? ... Shy movie star? ... Shy media mogul? ... Shy porn star? ... Shy businessman? ... Shy character in a romance novel? ... The list goes on and on and on: The types of guys women want are NOT shy. Even if they're quiet, intellectual types, most of the time. They open up when they're around women. So what YOU gotta do, if you're a shy, quiet guy right now is this: Ditch your shyness. Learn to be bold. Learn to be confident. Learn to upset people, break the rules and live a little. You'll be happier, more confident and even more SUCCESSFUL not only with women... but also in other areas of your life as well. (Ever heard the theory that confident guys get paid more not because they actually DO more... but because...they know how to "work” their boss and "the system?"  And because I used to be shy, myself, I think I can help you out. I've got a little system I'd like you to try, if you're ready to make a change. Just let Me Know.................. (NOTE: This is not my original Idea. Its from my Friend Vin). 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Thavik(m): 4:54pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
All true |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by yorex2011: 5:05pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Nice points |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Chizzy20(f): 5:16pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Dont lyk guys who re nt bold nd cant express themselves. |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Mynd44: 5:21pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
I am shy and loving it. If you cant stand me cos of that....
*sings*
"to the left
To the left" 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Ayo081(m): 5:24pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
luv d upset part. |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by luigiajah(m): 5:27pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TheRainmaker1:
For a man, being shy is like the anti-thesis to being good with women.
In case you're not familiar with the term anti-thesis, let me put it like this:
If being good with women was sweet as Red Velvet Cakes, or Domino's Pizza...
... being shy would taste like YoYo Bitters or Chloroquine... and...a mouthful of razor blades
It ain't good. The trouble with being shy is,the women in your life LOVE it. And they encourage you to be
MORE shy, as you get older: When you're little, the women in your life like your mother...your sisters... your friends, etc...
... They all think being shy is “cute" or "adorable."And when you're young, it is.
But this reinforcement forces you to act shy and quiet well into your 20's... 30's... 40's...50's..... Right up until the day you die.
And THAT, my friend is neither adorable... Nor...Good for you, if you want to meet women.
Here's the simple reason WHY:
Women like "bad boys." At least in theory. Even if most women wouldn't DATE bad boys...
... They can't deny they're TURNED ON by the confidence. The attitude. The rebellion. Women love men they can't CONTROL!
Because men are powerful. Women are beautiful. That's just the way the world works, my man. I wish it was different too. But you can't fight reality. And being a "shy" guy means she can control you. She can get you to do things.
And she can drive your life like a fucking life coach. Who's got the "best intentions"... yet... ... is NEVER gonna get naked for you. Or kiss you. Or date you. Or take you back, if she's your ex.
Them's just the facts: If you're a shy guy, women will NOT want to date you.
In fact, being shy isn't even the worst of it: Because being "shy" isn't a disease...... It's just a SYMPTOM OF SOMETHING GREATER!
For example: You ever meet a shy, CONFIDENT guy?
How about a shy, SUCCESSFUL guy? How about a shy, "SEXY" guy?
... Shy rockstar?
... Shy movie star?
... Shy media mogul?
... Shy porn star?
... Shy businessman?
... Shy character in a romance novel?
... The list goes on and on and on: The types of guys women want are NOT shy.
Even if they're quiet, intellectual types, most of the time. They open up when they're around women.
So what YOU gotta do, if you're a shy, quiet guy right now is this:
Ditch your shyness. Learn to be bold. Learn to be confident. Learn to upset people, break
the rules and live a little. You'll be happier, more confident and even more SUCCESSFUL not only with women... but also in other areas of your life as well.
(Ever heard the theory that confident guys get paid more not because they actually
DO more... but because...they know how to "work” their boss and "the system?"
And because I used to be shy, myself, I think I can help you out.
I've got a little system I'd like you to try, if you're ready to make a change.
Just let Me Know..................
(NOTE: This is not my original Idea. Its from my Friend Vin). Confession: I'm Shy Around Ladies I haven't met before buh after sometime the shyness fades away.. And About Being Famous... Fame comes with an overpowering sense of confidence.. I Can attest to that 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Ayo081(m): 5:29pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Chizzy20:
Dont lyk guys who re nt bold nd cant express themselves. nt dier fault |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by TrishaP(f): 5:36pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Mynd44:
I am shy and loving it. If you cant stand me cos of that....
*sings*
"to the left
To the left" I'm not buying that..  1 Like |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by wirelessssss(m): 5:40pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
abegi! many shy guys are married. |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Mynd44: 5:46pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TrishaP:
I'm not buying that.. Have I toasted you before? |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by TrishaP(f): 5:48pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Mynd44:
Have I toasted you before? I'm not a bread 1 Like |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Shy guys don't quote long posts just to make a 'confession'  luigiajah:
Confession: I'm Shy Around Ladies I haven't met before buh after sometime the shyness fades away.. And About Being Famous... Fame comes with an overpowering sense of confidence.. I Can attest to that
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| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by justmag(m): 5:55pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TrishaP:
I'm not a bread hahhaha haha! Good one.  |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Mynd44: 5:55pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TrishaP:
I'm not a bread I can imagine you as bread |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by justmag(m): 5:57pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Being shy is safe sometimes! Nothing wrong with that. I have heard girls say they like shy guy and how they are easy to get comfortable with when they open up. As for me!! Life is too damn short to be shy. |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by luigiajah(m): 6:00pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Zeemoor:
Shy guys don't quote long posts just to make a 'confession'
lol.... Says who? |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TheRainmaker1:
For a man, being shy is like the anti-thesis to being good with women.
In case you're not familiar with the term anti-thesis, let me put it like this:
If being good with women was sweet as Red Velvet Cakes, or Domino's Pizza...
... being shy would taste like YoYo Bitters or Chloroquine... and...a mouthful of razor blades
It ain't good. The trouble with being shy is,the women in your life LOVE it. And they encourage you to be
MORE shy, as you get older: When you're little, the women in your life like your mother...your sisters... your friends, etc...
... They all think being shy is “cute" or "adorable."And when you're young, it is.
But this reinforcement forces you to act shy and quiet well into your 20's... 30's... 40's...50's..... Right up until the day you die.
And THAT, my friend is neither adorable... Nor...Good for you, if you want to meet women.
Here's the simple reason WHY:
Women like "bad boys." At least in theory. Even if most women wouldn't DATE bad boys...
... They can't deny they're TURNED ON by the confidence. The attitude. The rebellion. Women love men they can't CONTROL!
Because men are powerful. Women are beautiful. That's just the way the world works, my man. I wish it was different too. But you can't fight reality. And being a "shy" guy means she can control you. She can get you to do things.
And she can drive your life like a fucking life coach. Who's got the "best intentions"... yet... ... is NEVER gonna get naked for you. Or kiss you. Or date you. Or take you back, if she's your ex.
Them's just the facts: If you're a shy guy, women will NOT want to date you.
In fact, being shy isn't even the worst of it: Because being "shy" isn't a disease...... It's just a SYMPTOM OF SOMETHING GREATER!
For example: You ever meet a shy, CONFIDENT guy?
How about a shy, SUCCESSFUL guy? How about a shy, "SEXY" guy?
... Shy rockstar?
... Shy movie star?
... Shy media mogul?
... Shy porn star?
... Shy businessman?
... Shy character in a romance novel?
... The list goes on and on and on: The types of guys women want are NOT shy.
Even if they're quiet, intellectual types, most of the time. They open up when they're around women.
So what YOU gotta do, if you're a shy, quiet guy right now is this:
Ditch your shyness. Learn to be bold. Learn to be confident. Learn to upset people, break
the rules and live a little. You'll be happier, more confident and even more SUCCESSFUL not only with women... but also in other areas of your life as well.
(Ever heard the theory that confident guys get paid more not because they actually
DO more... but because...they know how to "work” their boss and "the system?"
And because I used to be shy, myself, I think I can help you out.
I've got a little system I'd like you to try, if you're ready to make a change.
Just let Me Know..................
(NOTE: This is not my original Idea. Its from my Friend Vin). I endorse this thread for front page... Mods do the needful. Someone needs this. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by TrishaP(f): 6:04pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Mynd44:
I can imagine you as bread Imagination can hurt you know.. |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Mynd44: 6:05pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TrishaP:
Imagination can hurt you know.. I am a masochist |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by TrishaP(f): 6:09pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Mynd44:
I am a masochist Never said you were.. |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
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| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by luigiajah(m): 6:14pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
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| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TheRainMaker1, what is the method you'd like for shy people to try ? You sound like someone from one of those sites that advertise their 5 dollar mail services on how to get rid of 'introversion'. No offence. Ayamlaykorn 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Mynd44: 6:19pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TrishaP:
Never said you were..
You are derailing |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by dnacrystal: 6:32pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Mynd44:
You are derailing Is sex.killz still alive and well? |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by herald9: 6:41pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
I've come to realize humans don't bite...therefore have shaded some of my shyness...though I've still got some left...I don't know whether it's genetic  |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
herald9:
I've come to realize humans don't bite...therefore have shaded some of my shyness...though I've still got some left...I don't know whether it's genetic You  I too am shy  Ayamlaykorn |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by ilo04(m): 6:50pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
TheRainmaker1:
For a man, being shy is like the anti-thesis to being good with women.
In case you're not familiar with the term anti-thesis, let me put it like this:
If being good with women was sweet as Red Velvet Cakes, or Domino's Pizza...
... being shy would taste like YoYo Bitters or Chloroquine... and...a mouthful of razor blades
It ain't good. The trouble with being shy is,the women in your life LOVE it. And they encourage you to be
MORE shy, as you get older: When you're little, the women in your life like your mother...your sisters... your friends, etc...
... They all think being shy is “cute" or "adorable."And when you're young, it is.
But this reinforcement forces you to act shy and quiet well into your 20's... 30's... 40's...50's..... Right up until the day you die.
And THAT, my friend is neither adorable... Nor...Good for you, if you want to meet women.
Here's the simple reason WHY:
Women like "bad boys." At least in theory. Even if most women wouldn't DATE bad boys...
... They can't deny they're TURNED ON by the confidence. The attitude. The rebellion. Women love men they can't CONTROL!
Because men are powerful. Women are beautiful. That's just the way the world works, my man. I wish it was different too. But you can't fight reality. And being a "shy" guy means she can control you. She can get you to do things.
And she can drive your life like a fucking life coach. Who's got the "best intentions"... yet... ... is NEVER gonna get naked for you. Or kiss you. Or date you. Or take you back, if she's your ex.
Them's just the facts: If you're a shy guy, women will NOT want to date you.
In fact, being shy isn't even the worst of it: Because being "shy" isn't a disease...... It's just a SYMPTOM OF SOMETHING GREATER!
For example: You ever meet a shy, CONFIDENT guy?
How about a shy, SUCCESSFUL guy? How about a shy, "SEXY" guy?
... Shy rockstar?
... Shy movie star?
... Shy media mogul?
... Shy porn star?
... Shy businessman?
... Shy character in a romance novel?
... The list goes on and on and on: The types of guys women want are NOT shy.
Even if they're quiet, intellectual types, most of the time. They open up when they're around women.
So what YOU gotta do, if you're a shy, quiet guy right now is this:
Ditch your shyness. Learn to be bold. Learn to be confident. Learn to upset people, break
the rules and live a little. You'll be happier, more confident and even more SUCCESSFUL not only with women... but also in other areas of your life as well.
(Ever heard the theory that confident guys get paid more not because they actually
DO more... but because...they know how to "work” their boss and "the system?"
And because I used to be shy, myself, I think I can help you out.
I've got a little system I'd like you to try, if you're ready to make a change.
Just let Me Know..................
(NOTE: This is not my original Idea. Its from my Friend Vin). Am a shy guy and intelligent |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by herald9: 6:50pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
laykorn:
You
I too am shy
Ayamlaykorn Don't mind my e-persona... My introversion knows no bound
I'm improving though... |
| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
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| Re: Why Being Shy Sucks by SkinnyDude(m): 9:07pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
okay. but how can we stop being shy.
i want to be able to express myself publicly. and also speak in public with boldness.
any tips? |
