chronique:
Thief! Why did you steal what I wanted to say?

carefreewannabe:


Report to the police.

chronique:
That was so fast of you;how did you do it? I didn't see you viewing the topic. Well,I guess you were running down here to steal another one.

Empero1:
@OP

Those advising you to start ignoring the guy mean no good to you , believe you me . Running away from a problem never bring solution to any trouble . The end result when you follow these kind of shallow advices is molestations and cruel murders many girls out there suffers .

I insist that your best bet should be to boldly meet with him albeit in open place and placate him . You do not necessarily need to date or se,x him , no . Apply diplomacy in this matter , because it is a very delicate issue . All you need to whittle any evil thought he may be nursing against you now that you have made up your mind to date him not , is logic , a sound one .

You never really can tell the kind of mindset he possess . He could be the cruel type who believe in worst forms of revenge when assumed that someone has trampled on his foot . As I said earlier on , always strive to be On the offensive side of the world rather than to be on the defense side of the world -This remain the secret of long and peaceful life . Here I write based on my experience in both the business and social world .

carefreewannabe:


I am a CIA agent. I am even spying on Merkel.

chronique:
Tell us where Abubakar Shekau is in,and we'd finish the rest.

carefreewannabe:


I will work on it.

chronique:
Aiit! Goodnight and stop being a care free wanna be.

nuclearboy:
Go visit TO thank him with a gift AND YOUR BOYFRIEND/FIANCE.

And make sure you and said Fiance wear what yoruba call "An'ko" (i.e. same native material). Make sure your guy collects his number in gratitude asking to be a friend

drlawizle:


You're not getting my point...i'm not trying to badmouth my country...the case you mentioned up there is one in a million..its just like wizkid dropping outta school to

become a star today & every kid too wanna follow suit...you know what will happen nah..what I'm saying is that its almost a norm in the real world for people to put in more

than dr CV to qualify cos there will always be ppl who are qualified than you're....hence when an opportunity like the one the girl had comes up you shouldn't pass it up..the

OP knows that too but she isnt handling it smartly...she can come out unscathed without sleeping with the man if she's wise...if she gotta friend dats cute & also likes the

man or is willing to chop his money then she should placate the guy with her & she's free to go...its a game bro..play!

Nutase:
Is it not better you give d pomo to someone who added value to ur life than one stupid NFA dat has added nothing to u and will still dump u at the end of d day .

majekdom2:
you may think its one in a million ,it depends on how you see it yourself and the mentality you have put up already. I dont think anyone in his or her right senses should compromise his or her standard ..... this is why it is a standard in the first place . There are girls who have vowed not to sleep with anyman for a million bucks and there are those who go as low as 50 naira. its about knowing who you are and your standards and not what is" norm " because whatever is norm to people below or above your standard is not norm to you.

majekdom2:
you may think its one in a million ,it depends on how you see it yourself and the mentality you have put up already. I dont think anyone in his or her right senses should compromise his or her standard ..... this is why it is a standard in the first place . There are girls who have vowed not to sleep with anyman for a million bucks and there are those who go as low as 50 naira. its about knowing who you are and your standards and not what is" norm " because whatever is norm to people below or above your standard is not norm to you.

vislabraye:
Funny thing is that there are men who bang babes and promise them jobs and at the end of the day, they renege. I'm sure such men would receive curses upon curses.

But this man in question might not be bad afterall cos he wants to marry the op. He might not know how to toast her, but his intentions may not be bad.

All the same, the op should sit him down and speak to him one on one. I don't see why the lady should curse him or be angry whenever he calls when she knew what he wants from the beginning.

EfemenaXY:


Shut up you Agbero-cocaine-selling-touting-p!mp.

Who d'you think you're talking to?

mechanics:
My candid advice 4 u is dat u need to text hm dat u are nt interested in any form of relationship, u need to b dedicated, punctual n hardwrking in ur place of wrk by doing dat even if d man may plot 4 ur sack, it wil nt wrk cos u ave d backing of ur new boss, n above all, prayer is d key, pray and fast b4 texting hm n u wil see dat al dat trash wil b history. Pray 4 d faith of Abraham.

drlawizle:


Its like you dont read my post b4 you comment...never said she should sleep with the man...only said she should be wise about it...for her to have kept quiet & not blow

d guy off but was smiling all through its probably because she has tried it b4 & it didnt work...as I've said again you dont know what you're saying until you're in this Lady's

shoes..

supo19884:
Don't be deceive am sure this man prompt a call before u got there, so i advise you to treat him softly and act mature. Better to visit in company of ur parent than going with ur said fiancee cos danger may loom. Make a friend and do ur inside findings in ur working place to know how close the man in question is to the establisment sometimes contractor link up with subcontractors or customer link up with organisation. U can underrate him so handle it with some sense of maturity

majekdom2:
ofcourse , I have got a deep sense of uderstanding and I comprehend your posts perfectly . what is there to be wise about ? what if the man keeps disturbing , perhaps sets traps . its so easy , if he continues and she feels not ok with it , she should resign . The man may be more desparate and takes it to a level of blackmail . I know what am saying as I know each individual has got his or her standard and I dont need to be in his or her shoes. The standards they have put for themselves is what determines their decision no matter the advice they come seek on a forum like this.

drlawizle:


She should exhaust all possible means b4 she hangs up...what about trying what someone said by taking her parents instead of boyfriend to meet the man & telling the

parents to be matured about it & not embarrass the man...the man might eventually even see the lady as his niece & have a change of heart..how about even introducing

the man to some of her friends that might be willing to chop his money?with the way you talking I sense you'll be a hot-tempered person who's very strict & I tell you it

doesn't help...it only worsens matters..you can't be as strict as I am but now I've learnt a better way of not compromising my standards & yet still flowing with the good,

bad & d ugly...its not by strictness, its by wisdom...So many times in the Bible Jesus would have been lynched but he bypassed them with wisdom until it was time b4 he

gave himself by himself...what if she resigns only to meet the same thing in her new place of work...I've always jumped from one job to the other thinking those ppl are full

of crap but later I had to chill & devise means of handling them...cant be jumping up & down anymore..mind you I'm still clean

drlawizle:


Its your type that stop ppl from being helpful....even though the man wants something the fact is that he helped her & you shouldn't talk like that as it shows you have a

potential of being ungrateful..i'm not saying she should gratify him with sex but she should learn diplomacy as thats how successful ppl role...its not a crime for a man to

want something in return from a woman..he liked her in the first place & wanted to please her first so whats the big deal?

eyinjuege:


She really owes him nothing other than thank you unless she doesnt meet the minimum qualification for the job.
A lot of people (men and women) are where they are today because of someone's reference. Either admission into Uni, civil service, private employment, nysc posting, letter of invitation to apply for visa etc. and note that they are qualified tor the position.
Its ok for one to receive help or information from others and we don't have to pay in cash or kind.

majekdom2:
life is all about risks. her resignation is all about risk . you just used" what if " thats a conditonal statement with some risk involved. the man may feel embarassed with parent introduction et all . he may get more desparate . A man that just calls her to come get laid .. .. I see him as a rude person who will not even give a Bleep . well diff opinions cause of diff experiences. You can say am strict tho , I just deal with issues as I see them . cheers man

shelter4luving:
The way some people reason here is so shallow. God. it amazes me why some cant read and some read but have no reasonable thing to say, but they chose to comment anything that pop out of their head.
Thank you all for your contributions. at least now i know the average reasoning of most peole concerning issues like this.
@mod pls close my thread. am trying to delect but cant.
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crackhaus:

Listen to yourself go, are you a child?
Or have you been living in a cave and just got released into the world?


You typed this, didn't you?

So when all of this was happening, what exactly was going on in your mind?
Even a 16year old will sense that the man was coming on to you and making passes.

It's either you're naturally naive due to lack of exposure, or just faking it to gain sympathy.

I have a feeling your intent was just to start a thread...

shelter4luving:
The way some people reason here is so shallow. God. it amazes me why some cant read and some read but have no reasonable thing to say, but they chose to comment anything that pop out of their head.
Thank you all for your contributions. at least now i know the average reasoning of most peole concerning issues like this.
@mod pls close my thread. am trying to delect but cant.
THREAD CLOSE PLS