shelter4luving:
Thank you all for your contributions.
well, when i said i was smiling. i do not mean anything serious. i was just be nice. and i wasn't nice because i wanted anything from him. i didnt even know him as the manager then.
as for the job i got, i didnt go there in his name. as a matter of fact, i went there to try my luck. i was even ask if someone directed me and i said no one. the manager told me she like my confidence, the manner of approach and boldness.
@sir Empero, i do not enter any contract relationship with this man pls. u sound as if am defrauding him.

shelter4luving:
Gastigate men and Menopause. hmmmmmmmmmm u try sha.

mutter:


To be very honest you could never have walked into an office and got a job just like that. I have worked in HR before and I can tell you that for every vacancy there are enough applicants. Even existing staff have enough relations and friends to be brought in.
The lady knew you would come and even before she took you she confirmed with that man that you were the one.
The man has come immediately to collect his own share of the bargain.
You knew what the deal was?
You might be good but I am certain there were also people that have better qualifications.
You deprived someone of a job by using your" bottom power" .. sorry for putting it so crudely. Now you are turning around to question his own indecency.
This was an indecent arrangement. At the end of the day you might fly out because people owe each other favors and the man could get you out. .. unless the new boss is so pleased with you and pleads for you and keeps you.
She probably liked your confidence in not mentioning that you were sent....as in you know how the game goes. In these kind of arrangments there is special language and body talk.. like we both know what we are trying to say.

chincent:


Abeg go settle the man, other guys have been doing u without connecting u to good job. Even your Nairaland name have said it all " SHELTER4LUVING" now u see love u come dey form. Abeg make i hear word.

MissMeiya:


Sorry you had to find out this way. Welcome to Nairaland.

In the words of a friend of mine, the male demographic of this site consists mainly of "unemployed youths with room temperature IQs".

byvan:
I can't believe how stu*pid most men have become because of sex. OP tell him without mincing words that you have no interest in him, if you have to be rude to get it across do so. Don't mind the blames being thrown at you here .

Billyonaire:
Have sex with him, he has impacted your life than most men you may have loved freely. Sorry, I am always blunt.

shelter4luving:
C L O S E D. C L O S E D. C L O S E D

duni04:

Very unnecessary

shelter4luving:
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shelter4luving:
i got a new job through someone i just met. it was 4 days ago, i make photocopies of my CV and was summiting round some companies and offices. lucky for me i walked in somewhere while talking to the security man at the gate, the manager came out, called me and we got talking. he said he just like me immediately he saw me. that am going to be his wife. that i should leave all my boyfriends and get serious with him. i was just looking and smiling. so after all the talked, he went through my CV and ask me to go to one organization and summit. so i went. lucky for me again i went straight to the place and was able to see the manager. after much conversation, she employed me immediately. although i did not tell the manager someone directed me there. that was how she took me to HR. and i was asked to resumed the following day.
I've resumed and i appreciate God and the first manager guy who directed me to this job.
the problem now is, he called me yesterday to come and spend the night in his house after work. he desperately want sex and i dont want to sound rude or ungrateful and at the same time i hate such nonsense.
Sis in the house, how do you handle such without looking ungrateful?
men in the house, how do you think i should treat this guy?
He calls me like mad with all manner of stu.pid love names. getting me angry but i want to be polite.

Mynd44:
Tell him no.

carefreewannabe:
^^You must be kidding.

Shelter4luving, don't you date this man under no circumstance. You don't owe him anything.

jadelyn007:
You see the bloody nairaland men advising you to sleep with the man, mark them! Its the same men who will whine about how no good girls in nigerian, how every naija girl is a runs girl, how you could get any girl in ur bed with a plate of indomie n all that shiit!


My advice to you, meet him in an open place and try to make him see reasons why you can't sleep with him. If he refuses and threatens your job, my dear be smart and sleep with him.
You won't get any trophy for losing your job rather its this same naija men that will insult you.

In the end they will still be the ones to marry the recycled runsgirl. Take care and have a good life!!!

Edigrows:


She should agree sex if d man threatens her job? Will u advice ur younger blood sister to do such pls? Do U have conscience? Do U know only the truth is wat can set ppl free? God isn't involved in this just common sense. Ladies should sometimes think like a man.

carefreewannabe:


But I love being me.

Good night, sleep well.

hezey3davida:
Plz give me the mans number,I need a job too or is there still vacancy in your company. Pls link me up. Here is my Number 08161259106