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kunmis1:
how r u

emusmith:
As I type this, I dedicate it to all those who are literally "enduring" their spouse. *tears in my eyes for them*

DISCLAIMER: I do not mean that men aren't also a pain in the neck, but for now I'm specializing on this angle! Don't start to misquote me, abeg!

Marriage is a forever agreement to love and enjoy one another and not to barely manage and endure one another.

It's appalling that is the case of some men. Why? They were blind to little
signs that I'll be listing now.

Some guys are in haste to get married this year, which is good, but WATCH OUT FOR THESE EARLY and TODAY SIGNS that if not heeded to may cost you your peace, joy, dream and above all, your destiny. If your destiny really matters to you at all, you need to read this...
It is the little foxes that eats up the vine....


What Are The Today Signs To Watch Out For To Avoid Regrets Of Tomorrow?

( Remember, some married men are wishing they're still single)


1. Her vocabulary is full of abusive statements.

Guys, don't be blindfolded by her grammar. See beyond that! A woman that will "abuse" the husband tomorrow starts today. You're with her and she "playfully" call her friends over the phone "olosho", "stewpid girl", "F- Word"- Relax, she'll use that on you one day when she's off guard. Unless, you're okay with that, No Problem!



2. Her friends are the "bad" type and she forms the "good" girl before you.


She tells you her friends smokes, drinks and are even lezb but she isn't! Iffa hear! She is or about to be! If her friends are that, she is part of them. Marry her today, tomorrow her friends whom she listens to will set her against you- in critical decisions. Be careful! Friends MAKE or MAR you, they don't leave you the same! Your bae isn't excluded!



3. She hasn't bought you anything "sensible" since dating her.

I don't believe all ladies are stingy. Some are cheerful givers! It is in them. If you are dating a girl who hasn't given anything "sensible" to you, it's not that you want the gift! No! It's that she's not the giving type which may affect her relationship with you and your family later. It's not in the size but in the willingness to doing it.
At least, she should not be selfish- thinking about only herself.



4. She is not enthusiastic about seeing your siblings or parents.


If you have a girl who hasn't bothered to see your siblings or parents, Bro, watch out! If a girl loves you, she would want to see your siblings (experience speaking)- It will be normal!
Ask her what she thinks about in-laws living with you guys...- To see her reaction in her eyes...



5. She has to end every argument.

Ladies talk, I know. But nor be every time you go dey end argument na...I have a colleague like that who flashes green light to me but argues like anything... I don't argue with her... I watch her argue with other colleagues. How can she not know how to guard her tongue even in the presence of one she is crushing on? hmmm



6. She doesn't believe that a woman must necessarily submit to the man.


This topic, feminist don't want to hear. But, I must say it. In the pecking order of authority, the man is above her, even though they're friends. ... He is the Man! If your girl doesn't like to hear this, but keeps saying, we are equal! Haba! Even lioness knows it needs a Lion! They walk side by side but he is on top. Even, you, lady, in your heart, wants him to be the Man o! If she believes otherwise, guy, tread softly!



7. Her mum is a pain in her dad's neck. (It varies)

It varies greatly but an Old Wise man once said, "If you live long enough, you would watch history repeat itself; girls grow up to become just like their mothers, vice versa..."

If her mum nags her dad, there is 75% chance that she will nag you when you marry her, while 85% chance she is currently nagging you right now in that relationship.
If her mum is OROBO, , and she is the first or so, the probability of her becoming like her is 90%.



I'm not a "basher" of ladies, as maligned... I speak the truth.

I stand to be corrected, mind you.

Most of my threads are coined from deep research and experiences from others, books, myself etc.

Enjoy your reading

Cheers.

emusmith:
As I type this, I dedicate it to all those who are literally "enduring" their spouse. *tears in my eyes for them*

DISCLAIMER: I do not mean that men aren't also a pain in the neck, but for now I'm specializing on this angle! Don't start to misquote me, abeg!

Marriage is a forever agreement to love and enjoy one another and not to barely manage and endure one another.

It's appalling that is the case of some men. Why? They were blind to little
signs that I'll be listing now.

Some guys are in haste to get married this year, which is good, but WATCH OUT FOR THESE EARLY and TODAY SIGNS that if not heeded to may cost you your peace, joy, dream and above all, your destiny. If your destiny really matters to you at all, you need to read this...
It is the little foxes that eats up the vine....


What Are The Today Signs To Watch Out For To Avoid Regrets Of Tomorrow?

( Remember, some married men are wishing they're still single)


1. Her vocabulary is full of abusive statements.

Guys, don't be blindfolded by her grammar. See beyond that! A woman that will "abuse" the husband tomorrow starts today. You're with her and she "playfully" call her friends over the phone "olosho", "stewpid girl", "F- Word"- Relax, she'll use that on you one day when she's off guard. Unless, you're okay with that, No Problem!



2. Her friends are the "bad" type and she forms the "good" girl before you.


She tells you her friends smokes, drinks and are even lezb but she isn't! Iffa hear! She is or about to be! If her friends are that, she is part of them. Marry her today, tomorrow her friends whom she listens to will set her against you- in critical decisions. Be careful! Friends MAKE or MAR you, they don't leave you the same! Your bae isn't excluded!



3. She hasn't bought you anything "sensible" since dating her.

I don't believe all ladies are stingy. Some are cheerful givers! It is in them. If you are dating a girl who hasn't given anything "sensible" to you, it's not that you want the gift! No! It's that she's not the giving type which may affect her relationship with you and your family later. It's not in the size but in the willingness to doing it.
At least, she should not be selfish- thinking about only herself.



4. She is not enthusiastic about seeing your siblings or parents.


If you have a girl who hasn't bothered to see your siblings or parents, Bro, watch out! If a girl loves you, she would want to see your siblings (experience speaking)- It will be normal!
Ask her what she thinks about in-laws living with you guys...- To see her reaction in her eyes...



5. She has to end every argument.

Ladies talk, I know. But nor be every time you go dey end argument na...I have a colleague like that who flashes green light to me but argues like anything... I don't argue with her... I watch her argue with other colleagues. How can she not know how to guard her tongue even in the presence of one she is crushing on? hmmm



6. She doesn't believe that a woman must necessarily submit to the man.


This topic, feminist don't want to hear. But, I must say it. In the pecking order of authority, the man is above her, even though they're friends. ... He is the Man! If your girl doesn't like to hear this, but keeps saying, we are equal! Haba! Even lioness knows it needs a Lion! They walk side by side but he is on top. Even, you, lady, in your heart, wants him to be the Man o! If she believes otherwise, guy, tread softly!



7. Her mum is a pain in her dad's neck. (It varies)

It varies greatly but an Old Wise man once said, "If you live long enough, you would watch history repeat itself; girls grow up to become just like their mothers, vice versa..."

If her mum nags her dad, there is 75% chance that she will nag you when you marry her, while 85% chance she is currently nagging you right now in that relationship.
If her mum is OROBO, , and she is the first or so, the probability of her becoming like her is 90%.



I'm not a "basher" of ladies, as maligned... I speak the truth.

I stand to be corrected, mind you.

Most of my threads are coined from deep research and experiences from others, books, myself etc.

Enjoy your reading

Cheers.

emusmith:
How you dey?

MzQueen:
Am good

MzQueen:
Am good

emusmith:
You have a wrong image of me which doesn't really matter... I must say what I believe... It may not suit you but at least, one person is informed and cautioned.

lovelyadeola:
1 person kee A lot of ppl cuz ur thread alone boost NL trafic frm mah side... Abeg no luk face Cari Go

Aitee1:
Things that happen only on nairaland...singles giving marriage advice since 1500BC...smh

Nickymezor:
am super gud n u?

asodeboyede:
Excellent! The best way to learn driving is by driving! Thumbs up!

Mrsfaithhh:
You tink in reality u wl b d one to pay all d fees? Wait till u get married na..U ar stil just "Single".There wl b times u won't hav enof an she pays the fees..or isn't dat d reason u guys look for workin class ladies in d first place? Mr I'm "above" her.
I really even hope u understand wat headship in a family means.
A lot of guys want a smart,inteligent and educated lady but deep down inside u, U just nid a dummy.
So because she argues wit her colleagues dats not a gud sign?
How on earth do u expect a lady wit everytin u admire (smartness,inteligence bla bla),not to hav contrary opinions atimes.Or she shud just hav but not say?
I'm sure u hav had to disagree wit som opinions and u voiced it.How com dat dosnt mean dat u wll also b a pin in d ass?
Well anytin u say sha,because it is enusmith, ur NL fans wl com and hail U.

asodeboyede:
Nice one, I wouldn't have said it better!
So disheartening and strange today to see people with theoritical points( from broke authors) championing the course of marriage, when they've gotten little or no experience!
Only he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches, not forgetting there are different sizes.... and different feet!

Mrsfaithhh:

@Enusmith please read my post and make bold d part dat I said "d husband is not d head".
I choose to call u enusmith because u talk too much,way too much for a "wise man" u claim to b.
My point;
Its just like a man is broke and d wife keeps feeding him from her pocket.okay we know.but d woman won't fail to stamp It on her forehead and she keeps telling him or whoeva cares to know "u know Im am d one feeding u and u ar broke my dear
Wat she has said is True.It mite make her feel good.but I don't nid to tell u dat d "feeling" is not same on d oda side.
If u did Sociology in school,u shud know dat every human(both male and female)likes power.nobody wants to b d 2nd.I'm just sayin stop blabbing and telling us dat "she is below u" as if its one compliment to women.
Just b d head.
And because u are paying school fees now means dat u know wat headship in marriage means? Very funny

anumide:
inferior?
hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
so even if a man is dumb/irresponsible, by the virtue of his gender, he is superior to smart/responsible women?

emusmith:
Their NOT thier !

hensben:
yes!

skelefish:
Whether dumb/irresponsible, owning to the appellative 'man' already makes him head, which is synonymous with superior.

gomeek:
With regards to sign #7,if there is a possibility that every lady ends up like her mum,then @OP u saying you guys also end up like your dads, and you could be beaters,cheaters, deceitful,greedy,spiteful,abusive. . .like some dads.

anumide:
i understand. with the dwindling economy and high unemployment rates, every depressed guy need something to hold onto, even if it is just claiming superiority.
enjoy the delusion

skelefish:
Your macadam vituperation of my comment matter from the terminus a quo to the terminus ad quem of a feminist peregrination to a pukuapuku sphinxianconundrum.

The vacuous fugacious razzle dazzle of your mention has given me sufficiency of rationale not to accent the appellative 'man' in the superiority context.

It will be malus for me to engage u in an e-bellum, pro bono, I retire.

anumide:
i understand. with the dwindling economy and high unemployment rates, every depressed guy need something to hold onto, even if it is just claiming superiority.
enjoy the delusion