jadelyn007:
abi o my sister. Divorce will affect the kids. They need both their mother figure and father figure together in one house.

This sentence is sooooooooooooo funny!

Forgive me

Notyourb1tch:
has anyone told you that you are hilarious?

my sister! The things one sees on nairaland, very funny really

bukatyne:


This sentence is sooooooooooooo funny!

Forgive me

lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

jadelyn007:
lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

LOL!

It just sounded so so funny

You should know that a number of people cannot take what they dish out

It's NL human nature

But I don't understand all these comments about the woman not being satisfied sexually by her husband. Why is it that people automatically assume that it is sexual frustration that drives people to cheat? Some people(both male and female) just cheat for the thrill of doing forbidden. Some just cheat for d sake of cheating without any tangible reason. Some people are already so used to having multiple sex partners that they find it hard to restrict themselves to one person in marriage regardless of their partner's sexual performance.

The woman is very irresponsible for cheating and I don't think sexual frustration is d issue. If the man could not perform would she have stayed with him to the extent of having four children?

akinsadeez:
But I don't understand all these comments about the woman not being satisfied sexually by her husband. Why is that people automatically assume that it is sexual frustration that drives people to cheat? Some people(both male and female) just cheat for the thrill of doing forbidden. Some just cheat for d sake of cheating without any tangible reason. Some people are already so used to having multiple sex partners that they find it guard to restrict themselves to one person in marriage regardless of their partner's sexual performance.

The woman is very irresponsible for cheating and I don't think sexual frustration is d issue. If the man could not perform would she have stayed with him to the extent of having four children?

@bold:

Most of them are just sarcastic...

That's what a number of male posters say when it is the man cheating

Please can someone show me the link to that video?

cococandy:


She wasn't after money obviously. Maybe the husband wasn't perfoming well in that other area.

Eya poor kids

wtf??..even you??..why do you women always use this excuse to justify a sslut?..so if the tables where turned,would you find an excuse for the husband?

bukatyne:


I am wondering too

The guy might gain street cred, but I am sure it has affected his prospects probably forever.

IMHO, giving the tape to hubby alone would have been better. What he did is overkill and will bite him in his ass

it won't do nothing to him!...I'm sure if it was a man exposed,you and your groups will be singing and dancing by now..last time a chinese woman,cut off her hubby's d1ck for sleeping around,all y'all were celebrating but here y'all are blaming the janitor who the woman was using..some even blaming the hubby..smh.

The husband should persevere pray for the woman to change. The janitor should not make him abandon his family.
What happened with for better or worse, till death do us part. He should pray for God to give him wisdom to take care of the family.

One thing I know is that a lot women loves to get so attached to some males at their working place to the extent it may get out of hand..majority women in extra marital affairs are doing it with their colleagues/bosses..it takes a woman with integrity(a few though) not to wanna have a thing with their colleague even after all the crushes they have on male colleagues...but this woman(with 4kids) who is seen as a well behaved one and well respected by all is sleeping with a janitor..dam.n..shame to her!!

Come to think of it..she have been cheating on her husband with the same man for years...dam.n..and she able to conceal it.it never showed in her characters etc?..this woman na real devil o.. And she was well respected by all..wow!..the man even need to check on his last kids DNA or possibly all of them to be sure first..you never know,she may be doing it before with somebody else and by the time that person is no longer there,whe moved to the janitor..in real life,I know married women who moved from one man to another and will even continue unless their husband finds out.

Emaprince:
One thing I know is that a lot women loves to get so attached to some males at their working place to the extent it may get out of hand..majority women in extra marital affairs are doing it with their colleagues/bosses..it takes a woman with integrity(a few though) not to wanna have a thing with their colleague even after all the crushes they have on male colleagues...but this woman(with 4kids) who is seen as a well behaved one and well respected by all is sleeping with a janitor..dam.n..shame to her!!

Maybe the janitor was good looking and appealing unlike the pot bellied man that sexually starved her. Its a new dawn for some women LOL

Emaprince:
wtf??..even you??..why do you women always use this excuse to justify a sslut?..so if the tables where turned,would you find an excuse for the husband?

my brother God hates divorce. Marriage is for better or worse.

What do you mean by 'even you'?
Am I above learning?

At least I've learned from NL that such things are too minor a reason for one to divorce their spouse

jadelyn007:
lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

figurine figure

nne Hapu m aka o

Emaprince:
it won't do nothing to him!...I'm sure if it was a man exposed,you and your groups will be singing and dancing by now..last time a chinese woman,cut off her hubby's d1ck for sleeping around,all y'all were celebrating but here y'all are blaming the janitor who the woman was using..some even blaming the hubby..smh.

Can you produce a post of me celebrating?

Can you quote any of my posts I blamed the husband?

If you can't, don't quote me next time.

By the way, you and your groups (Lord knows how many) disgusts me.

If you have a problem with any of my posts in future, please quote me to address whatever issues you have with MINE post (s).

jadelyn007:
lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

Trying to google this sh1t to see the video but its no where..just stories everywhere.but the below in qoute is an excerpts from somebody in the same city who watched it..funny to me and made me shake my head too.

"By the way, the Compromizing Video was uneventful. It was like watching my parents or aunt or uncle having sex. The man jerked a lot, like he was having seizures, and there was a lot of grunting and wheezing, and then he finished. P.S. The couple in the picture above look nothing like the one in the video. I cannot post the video on my blog, but you’re not missing anything. P.P.S. If I were her husband, I would have fainted too. His wife sucked some strange man’s joystick for over five minutes (joystick-sucking for 5 minutes is like 60 minutes in real time) and as if that was not bad enough, the strange man ejaculated who-knows-what into what’s the otherwise private area of his wife. I would faint, too."

Now I get why the janitor exposed her..she was confronted by some people trying to find out if it was true that the janitor was ffucking her..she was like "that dirty man?..I cannever have anything to do with that dirty man"..the guy heard it and said he'll show her what real dirty is about.
She even wore lingerie..red and black lingerie which she doesn't wear for her husband..lol

Miami11:

Maybe the janitor was good looking and appealing unlike the pot bellied man that sexually starved her. Its a new dawn for some women LOL

yeah but she just destroyed the family she and her husband toiled to build for years. the kids? so much for new dawn for some women

jadelyn007:
lol, don't tell me you haven't heard it from nairaland guys before its their national anthem. Especially when a woman wants to dump a serial cheat you start hearing kids need father figure, mother figure, grandparent figure, figurine even.

This is just so funny. Please don't crack my ribs.

cococandy:
sharrap.

I thought you guys hate divorce. He should just stay for the sake of his kids. Single parenthood is bad and affects the kids negatively.

So let him forgive and move on to protect the african family structure

You are now deliberately being dumb... I'm yet to come across a male on NL who says divorce isn't a good option in certain situations.

What you and your fellow slow-thinkers do is prescribe divorce in favour of women for every little topic that comes on this section - so the sarcasm that has infested this thread so far is at best imbecilic.

As for this story, the single parent here after the divorce will be the man - and in case you didn't know, children raised under male single-parenthood on average turn out better than those raised under female single-parenthood... the research is everywhere, go check it out.


All that said, I personally wouldn't divorce that kind of woman - I'll rather make her life a living hell by hanging that incident over her head and reminding her of it every single time she complains to me about anything.
She'll either run mad or move out of the house to keep her sanity.

cococandy:


Some people obviously can't take the same advice they give others. See them vexing over my comment that they would have otherwise applauded if the situation was reversed.

Get over yourself, no one is 'vexing' over blind sarcasm...

This was not a mistake, it had been going on for years.

As the bible says, every day for the thief, one day for the master of the house.
See the disgrace she has brought on her kid`s
Abeg don`t kill yourself because if you do that, no hope that anyone will want to marry into the family.
The harm she has done is enough.

If i was the husband I would have pity on her and forgive her for the sake of the kid`s and also because she was my wife. She has already been punished enough.
I am sure after this ordeal she would be a different person. Ironically it is now that she might become a very good wife.

bukatyne:


I am wondering too

The guy might gain street cred, but I am sure it has affected his prospects probably forever.

IMHO, giving the tape to hubby alone would have been better. What he did is overkill and will bite him in his ass

You obviously have no idea how the mind of such guys work.

crackhaus:

You are now deliberately being dumb... I'm yet to come across a male on NL who says divorce isn't a good option in certain situations.

What you and your fellow slow-thinkers do is prescribe divorce in favour of women for every little topic that comes on this section - so the sarcasm that has infested this thread so far is at best imbecilic.

As for this story, the single parent here after the divorce will be the man - and in case you didn't know, children raised under male single-parenthood on average turn out better than those raised under female single-parenthood... the research is everywhere, go check it out.


All that said, I personally wouldn't divorce that kind of woman - I'll rather make her life a living hell by hanging that incident over her head and reminding her of it every single time she complains to me about anything.
She'll either run mad or move out of the house to keep her sanity.

@bold consider comedy first.

@the rest, doesn't even deserve a response.

crackhaus:

Get over yourself, no one is 'vexing' over blind sarcasm...

what were you quoting the blind sarcasm for if it wasn't biting you?

cococandy:


@bold consider comedy first.

@the rest, doesn't even deserve a response.

It's not about comedy, you have the internet - make use of it.
You could also ask any social workers around that you know, I know my reality check never goes down well with you.

Err, the rest don't deserve a response or you don't have anything sensible to counter them with?

Emaprince:
Trying to google this sh1t to see the video but its no where..just stories everywhere.but the below in qoute is an excerpts from somebody in the same city who watched it..funny to me and made me shake my head too.

"[i]By the way, the Compromizing Video was uneventful. It was like watching my parents or aunt or uncle having sex. The man jerked a lot, like he was having seizures, and there was a lot of grunting and wheezing, and then he finished. P.S. The couple in the picture above look nothing like the one in the video. I cannot post the video on my blog, but you’re not missing anything. P.P.S. If I were her husband, I would have fainted too. His wife sucked some strange man’s joystick for over five minutes (joystick-sucking for 5 minutes is like 60 minutes in real time) and as if that was not bad enough, the strange man ejaculated who-knows-what into what’s the otherwise private area of his wife. I would faint, too.

Now I get why the janitor exposed her..she was confronted by some people trying to find out if it was true that the janitor was ffucking her..she was like "that dirty man?..I cannever have anything to do with that dirty man"..the guy heard it and said he'll show her what real dirty is about.
She even wore lingerie..red and black lingerie which she doesn't wear for her husband..lol

you would faint? Why Na?

It was just sex. It didn't mean anything. Afterall you can still love someone and have sex with another person.

cococandy:
what were you quoting the blind sarcasm for if it wasn't biting you?

Okay you desperately want it to bite me? Lmao, then consider me bitten...I hope you had your orga.sm!
To think that by now you would know me well and my kind of person.

Anyway you're still hurting from our last encounter, I understand.

crackhaus:

It's not about comedy, you have the internet - make use of it.
You could also ask any social workers around that you know, I know my reality check never goes down well with you.

Err, the rest don't deserve a response or you don't have anything sensible to counter them with?

A woman can raise kids without a man while a man will look for another woman to dump the kids with as step-mom. Pls stop the barefaced BS. Are we even arguing this?

How man women remarry after their first husbands die or leave? Yet men can't wait a few months before landing a new wife because they are practically helpless by themselves.

next thing you will tell me research and social workers say the sun is green even when everyone knows otherwise.


The rest of your post as in where you say you will make the woman run mad bla bla bla. How does one respond to such nonsense sensibly. I hope you can see why I ignored it.

crackhaus:

Okay you desperately want it to bite me? Lmao, then consider me bitten...I hope you had your orga.sm!
To think that by now you would know me well and my kind of person.

Anyway you're still hurting from our last encounter, I understand.

the same encounter where you got tired and gave up because we wouldn't agree that man sharing was a good thing.

cococandy:
you would faint? Why Na?

It was just sex. It didn't mean anything. Afterall you can still love someone and have sex with another person.

faint for what?..for a sslut??..that's not possible..it can only happen the day I learn to trust women(which isn't possible too)..that comment is in qoute and its excerpts from some one who narrated it online...that's why I put it in italics.

Look the last part of my post where I said she wore lingerie for the show..na real po.rn star she be o..but unfortunately,her type will behave good at home and almost every where that's why people respects her so much..but she allowed the wh.ore in her to get the best of her...smh..imagine that the janitor never did this..this thing fit go on for 10yrs untill she makes more babies from the stewpid man.

Ahh. But you were the one that said you will faint too if you were the man.

Anyway don't be forming hard man. Heartbreak is a very tough thing. So if he fainted doesn't mean he's weak.

Lord knows me I will have high BP if I were him.

Emaprince:
faint for what?..for a sslut??..that's not possible..it can only happen the day I learn to trust women(which isn't possible too)..that comment is in qoute and its excerpts from some one who narrated it online...that's why I put it in italics.

Look the last part of my post where I said she wore lingerie for the show..na real po.rn actor be o..but unfortunately,her type will behave good at home and almost every where that's why people respects her so much..but she allowed the wh.ore in her to get the best of her...smh..imagine that the janitor never did this..this thing fit go on for 10yrs untill she makes more babies from the stewpid man.