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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 9:21am On Jan 16, 2015
Rapmoney:


Sorry, but I expected this from you! angry
i guess u know the meaning of sarcasm
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 9:30am On Jan 16, 2015
Rapmoney:


Ehnnn...u sure so?
I sure small
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:32am On Jan 16, 2015
sexyseun:
I sure small

If u sure wella, na e be say u be correct smiley
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:33am On Jan 16, 2015
Ipledge:
i guess u know the meaning of sarcasm

Ok sir. No vex.
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 9:45am On Jan 16, 2015
Rapmoney:


If u sure wella, na e be say u be correct smiley
At least i dey try to try, unlike some of my human hair iphone 6 give away sistas grin grin


No be me talk am oooo

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:51am On Jan 16, 2015
sexyseun:
At least i dey try to try, unlike some of my human hair iphone 6 give away sistas grin grin


No be me talk am oooo

Lol...ok, u be correct cheesy

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 12:49pm On Jan 16, 2015
Baddestguyp:
kudos, op tell them, broke ladies full NL

Thanks, ma guy cheesy
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jan 16, 2015
Rapmoney:


Why not? No weapon fashioned against us shall prosper! As far as we speak the truth.
chop knuckle!!!!!...

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 11:00am On Jan 17, 2015
patrickdarlins:
chop knuckle!!!!!...

smiley
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by ehin(f): 11:36pm On Jan 30, 2015
Rapmoney:
It is a pity when I see some dudes involving themselves in parasitic relationship where the lady offers nothing other than s*x!!! These guys take care of the babe as if na dia sperm na e form the babegrin Providing her airtime, taking responsibility for making her hair, meals, clothes (including undies!!!), etc. Na u be her papa, abi? Oruegrin Engaging yourself with such people will only end up pulling you down, financially and mentally. Below are some salient differences between an independent lady and a cheap one who adds no value to your entire life:

1. The Value of Money: An independent lady knows the value of money and she works very hard to succeed. She doesn't need to sit her ass down and wait for a man to come and uplift her to the height she would want, but the cheap ones do. I over-heard two babes discussing recently. One asked the other if 'that guy' has called her and she told her friend that the guy was irrelevant and that she didn't feel 'that 'guy' would be able to take care of her. When I observed them closely, I discovered that they would be in their early twenties and probably, still living with their parents. After what I heard, the value I had for them died and my blood went cold for them! At that age, they expect men to take of those things that are supposed to be provided for by their parents. My sympathy...if you fall for such women.

2 Coordination On A Date: An independent lady knows how to coordinate herself when she goes on a date. Since she knows the value of money, she wouldn't want to push a man too far to spend beyond his means. The pizza, ice-cream, chicken, point-and-kill, fiesta, burger, turkey lapsgrin may not impress her as it would impress the cheap ones. She can afford those things when ever it pleases her. What about the other one? She would eat as if that is her last day on earth! She would order and order, even things that she wouldn't be able to finish. Such type of ladies will tell you that they would like to carry 4 extra packs (take-away) home for her friends, Olawunmi, Aisha, Chinenye and Rukevwegrin She is cheap and can easily betray herself on this because she doesn't know the value of creating wealth. She might unknowingly cast a bad image on herself to a serious dude who could turn out to be one of the best husbands of our time!grin

3 Hard working: An independent woman is hard working but their opposites are lazy. They sit their lazy as.s and wait for a guy to come around with all sort of goodies, even those that their parents can't provide them. That's why some women get laid for as little as a plate of noodles and eggs from the local neighbourhood mishai!!! Go try am with an independent lady na! You go see shege!!!grin

4. Calling Guys 'Broke': An independent lady hardly refer to guys as 'broke' because she wouldn't even care! She makes her own money and spends it the way it pleases her. She is quick to notice a guy's character and attitude instead of his pocket. The cheap ones don't care about attitude or character! The first thing they notice is how fat your pockets are. She doesn't want to know whether you possess qualities such as humour, patience and fear of God...because she is lacking, she would want to cling to anyone who dishes out money to her; she is even ready to open her legs, with one in Warri and the other in Akure grin Such girls are quick to see the 'brokeness'(forgive me for this English) in a guy because all she needs is money and goodies. If you are giving her 3k regularly and she sees someone who is capable of giving her 5k, she would run away from you as fast as possible. No conscience sef! Instead of you calling guys 'broke', why don't you work hard to better your life? Having a boyfriend is not a job, neither is it an occupation or trade! I often wonder why most men don't see it that most women are broke too, even more than us

5. Care for Parents: An independent woman works and she earns income or profits. She has a greater probability of taking care of some of her parents' needs. She can help her parents financially with their trade or buy foodstuffs and electronic gadgets in the house. But the other type? She uses a phone worth 120k, but her father's phone is wearing a rubber-band, lest, it falls apartgrin All her electronic gadgets total 350k but her father's zinc house has a leaking roofgrin She carries a hair of 65k, yet the television in their parlor is a pregnant 14 inch 1980's colour Tvgrin What a life?

6. Many Partners: The probability that an independent woman would keep many romantic or sexual partners is far lower than that of the cheap (broke) ones! If you are in a relationship with the opposite of the independent woman, then just know that 6 more guys you have never met might be bleeping the hell out of your 'girl' grin

7. Offers and Contribution: An independent woman is likely to contribute immensely to your life far more that the cheap ones. She can conveniently buy you gifts both on your birthdays and whenever. A broke cheap girl would not. She even wants you to take her out and buy her gifts on your own birthday! Chisos! What two people contribute in relationship matters a lot in giving the relationship a meaning and value. If you are dating a woman who can only offer s*x and nothing more, she is cheap!

Things are changing...some young men dor wise-up now. Soon, lazy women who do nothing but sit and wait for a dude for all their provisions will be left behind to rot with Old Nick in hellgrin

Na me write this post and I get copyright licencegrin

Peace!!!
you even look broke your self local pot calling gas pot black
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by 100Cents: 11:25am On Jan 31, 2015
Nice write up.

This topic cannot be over emphasized. The wise guys have started avoiding the cheap broke girls who think thy are entitled to being taken care of while doing nothing in return.

It is really a shame because such girls are always very lazy, contribute nothing and still cheat on their guys because of their insatiable nature for material things..

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by 100Cents: 11:27am On Jan 31, 2015
Ipledge:
No cheap girl for nairaland oo,80%of them are virgin,remember a cheap girl can never be virgin grin

Brother, there are foolish virgins who date men on per second billing.

The bottom line is having value for money and being hardworking..
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by 100Cents: 11:32am On Jan 31, 2015
sexyseun:
The shoes on my feet
I've bought it

The clothes I'm wearing
I've bought it

Cause I depend on me

If I wanted the watch you're wearin'
I'll buy it

The house I live in
I've rented it

The car I'm driving
I've bought it.

All the women who are independent
Throw your hands up at me

All the honeys who makin' money
Throw your hands up at me

All the mommas who profit Nairas
Throw your hands up at me

All the ladies who truly feel me
Throw your hands up at me grin tongue

Are you Tiwa Garbage ?

Nice rendition..
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 31, 2015
100Cents:


Brother, there are foolish virgins who date men on per second billing.

The bottom line is having value for money and being hardworking..
you know am merely joking...80% virgin ko 99% NI
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 10:33pm On Feb 01, 2015
100Cents:


Are you Tiwa Garbage ?

Nice rendition..

grin grin grin
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 11:04pm On Feb 01, 2015
ehin:
you even look broke your self local pot calling gas pot black

U must be a very cheap girl! If all girls are like u, I wuld never date a girl! Nonsense girl!
Ashawo 10 kobo!
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by passionate88: 11:11pm On Feb 01, 2015
@ No. 4, they are many on NL, broke girls calling guys broke... Buncha greedy bastards

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 12:55am On Feb 02, 2015
Rapmoney:


U must be a very cheap girl! If all girls are like u, I wuld never date a girl! Nonsense girl!
Ashawo 10 kobo!

grin grin

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 9:38am On Feb 02, 2015
Loving this thread cool... Nice inspiration for some ladies out there

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 10:09am On Feb 02, 2015
@Rapmoney..You're so on Point! I've come to find out that It is lazy ladies that are always quick to term a guy "Broke". I wish all guys can learn from this write up.

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 10:56am On Feb 02, 2015
klassiquette:
Loving this thread cool... Nice inspiration for some ladies out there
check ur pm pls.
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 12:16pm On Feb 02, 2015
PiperAlpha:
@Rapmoney..You're so on Point! I've come to find out that It is lazy ladies that are always quick to term a guy "Broke". I wish all guys can learn from this write up.

Bro, that's if the guys will learn. This is the more reason why you should avoid broke girls wink
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 12:18pm On Feb 02, 2015
klassiquette:
Loving this thread cool... Nice inspiration for some ladies out there

Thanks...peeps like u keep us going smiley
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 12:20pm On Feb 02, 2015
passionate88:
@ No. 4, they are many on NL, broke girls calling guys broke... Buncha greedy bastards

Very soon, they will be revealed grin
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by cutieberie1(f): 12:47pm On Feb 02, 2015
LadyX:
Number 5 is so true!

5. ...She uses a phone worth 120k, but her father's phone is wearing a rubber-band, lest, it falls apart grin grin All her electronic gadgets total 350k but her father's zinc house has a leaking roof She carries a hair of 65k, yet the television in their parlor is a pregnant 14 inch 1980's colour Tv grin grin What a life?

lol...

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Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 12:51pm On Feb 02, 2015
100Cents:


Are you Tiwa Garbage ?

Nice rendition..

Lol...@Tiwa Garbage!
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by cutieberie1(f): 12:51pm On Feb 02, 2015
sexyseun:
The shoes on my feet
I've bought it

The clothes I'm wearing
I've bought it

Cause I depend on me

If I wanted the watch you're wearin'
I'll buy it

The house I live in
I've rented it

The car I'm driving
I've bought it.

All the women who are independent
Throw your hands up at me

All the honeys who makin' money
Throw your hands up at me

All the mommas who profit Nairas
Throw your hands up at me

All the ladies who truly feel me
Throw your hands up at me grin tongue

nyc...thumbs up....
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by yemicoal(m): 12:54pm On Feb 02, 2015
ehin:
you even look broke your self local pot calling gas pot black
You sound so pained about this write-up. The question is are you broke or an independent lady??
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 1:07pm On Feb 02, 2015
Lolz.It gets to a time in life when u realise its time to start dealing in Independent women.na so d matter reach o
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 1:08pm On Feb 02, 2015
LadyX:
Number 5 is so true!

5. ...She uses a phone worth 120k, but her father's phone is wearing a rubber-band, lest, it falls apart grin grin All her electronic gadgets total 350k but her father's zinc house has a leaking roof She carries a hair of 65k, yet the television in their parlor is a pregnant 14 inch 1980's colour Tv grin grin What a life?
Lmaoo.
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by ehin(f): 1:44pm On Feb 02, 2015
yemicoal:
You sound so pained about this write-up. The question is are you broke or an independent lady??
yes am broke
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by IceSplash(f): 1:57pm On Feb 02, 2015
Miss independent cool

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