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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by ijiini(m): 6:25am On Feb 03, 2015
IT IS A SIN OOOOOOOOOOOOOIIIII
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:52am On Feb 03, 2015
tosyne2much:
hiaan !!!! Takes okada to my house ?

I just hope what I'm thinking is not what is about to happen wink
grin and which is? grin
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by simonsayz: 7:00am On Feb 03, 2015
So u will think but maybe someone else is helping you test drive...lolzzz.
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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Defcon1(m): 7:51am On Feb 03, 2015
Arsenate:
amazing. why do some of you think that any who doesn't buy into your sick immoral way of life is a hypocrite? i kinda feel that some of you are so bad you believe no one can be good. newsflash. there are loads of beautiful people out there with sound moral standings.

Mr Arsenate,how did you deduce that l have a "sick moral way" from just a single sentence.
We Nigerians are always quick to judge others when we are no better
In as much as there are people with good moral standing, you yourself can't deny that when it comes to issues of morality,majority of people turn out to be hypocrites .
Besides,this is a forum and l am entitled to my opinion,no matter what it might be...as are you.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Obanz2(f): 7:52am On Feb 03, 2015
xtervaganza:
it's not even about testing . I've had more than enough sex in my life but how's it possible to be in a relationship with someone you can screw? What kind of f*cked up relationship is that
u have said it all....
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Edigrows: 8:07am On Feb 03, 2015
rhymz:
I don't do the Christian-judo God any way..... His contradictions are enough to make you want to put that book down and start using your goddamm head...... But then again, these books are rife with errors because after all they were written by mere mortals who claim divine revelation, most of them largely unknown, probably church pseudo-writers with their own twisted belief system.

My point is this; sex is a natural human phenomenon and is not meant for marriage, that is a fact most religious people seem to get all wrong. The primary reason for sex is procreation and pleasure, the idea of it being all divine and for marital purpose is all man made and has little to do with natural science. The concept of marriage in itself is man made, animals for in stance do not marry but they have sex for the primary reasons of satisfying body hormonal changes (i.e pleasure) and the need to procreate, and this is phenomenon that is known to exist in adults, meaning sex is for two consenting male and female adults and not married people, simple. And being married cam never override the fact that sex is an adult thing as too unripe man and woman can be married since it is a human concept and still not ready for sex.

So keep all that God God God talk for Sunday sermon and the religious folks that want to feel alright about his religious pursuit, sex is science not God engineering.

I get your Point brov, but you see? Not every body can get this right the way you got it, Religious principles have Helped people to be Discipline and gain Self-control, even if it's not 100%, they are somehow in Line which had Led them to achieve Good results they and their family and frnds around Enjoyed and were Happy for. I aint part of the God dis God dat, and deprive myself wat makes me happy as Long as it's not a crime against any Human being.. i believe in wat works for me.
But still Remember where there is No Law, there is No Order. wink
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhymz(m): 8:20am On Feb 03, 2015
I understand your point, I jut get a little annoyed when people reduce the issue of sex to their religious beliefs as if they were hard coded with some set of belief system from their mother's umbilical cord. There is a big difference between arguing that your religion does not support sex before marriage and somebody coming up here to argue that God says it is a sin to have sex unless you are married. That is the dumbest oversimplification of what sex is all about. Sex is not religion or spiritual, it is what it is, basic human biological process and phenomenon. Just like any human feel different things at different times: from taking a poo, being thirsty, crying and all, sex is no different. That you want to set a rule on how to control these feelings and apply them is equally a different argument, what I wont subscribe to is one religious folks that knows little about the deity he calls god to place sex as some divine godly spiritual nonsense that is meant for you only after one pastor says so, that is bullshyte. You are ready for sex soon as you are mature for it simple.



Edigrows:


I get your Point brov, but you see? Not every body can get this right the way you got it, Religious principles have Helped people to be Discipline and gain Self-control, even if it's not 100%, they are somehow in Line which had Led them to achieve Good results they and their family and frnds around Enjoyed and were Happy for. I aint part of the God dis God dat, and deprive myself wat makes me happy as Long as it's not a crime against any Human being.. i believe in wat works for me.
But still Remember where there is No Law, there is No Order. wink

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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by repogirl(f): 8:35am On Feb 03, 2015
Regiment:

Ahn ahn, fear don dey catch you?
which kain fear, me wey don marry, siiiiiiiiince!
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Jeromejnr(m): 9:01am On Feb 03, 2015
repogirl:
which kain fear, me wey don marry, siiiiiiiiince!

So because you were constantly test driven before marriage, others should follow in your footsteps.

Must you indirectly lead others to sin. Chai!

And if they ask her now she will say she's a Christian. sad
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by repogirl(f): 9:43am On Feb 03, 2015
Jeromejnr:


So because you were constantly test driven before marriage, others should follow in your footsteps.

Must you indirectly lead others to sin. Chai!

And if they ask her now she will say she's a Christian. sad
I wasn't test driven, na me do the test driving!..... Premarital sex isn't isn't the measure of a good or bad Christian, as a 'good' Christian you should know that.

Even men of God in the bible were not perfect, Abraham, David, Jacob, they were polygamous and sinned se'xually, are they in hell now? Even Mary Magdalene a prostitute wasn't looked down on by Jesus Christ! So who be you abeg?

Many Christians are hypocrites and they don't even know it! Rubbish!! Abeg remove the mountain inside your own eye before you see the speck in another persons own!
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Jeromejnr(m): 10:38am On Feb 03, 2015
repogirl:
I wasn't test driven, na me do the test driving!..... Premarital sex isn't isn't the measure of a good or bad Christian, as a 'good' Christian you should know that.

Even men of God in the bible were not perfect, Abraham, David, Jacob, they were polygamous and sinned se'xually, are they in hell now? Even Mary Magdalene a prostitute wasn't looked down on by Jesus Christ! So who be you abeg?

Many Christians are hypocrites and they don't even know it! Rubbish!! Abeg remove the mountain inside your own eye before you see the speck in another persons own!

I understand what you are saying madam.
So supposing they die while test driving, what will they tell God? That Jacob, David and Abraham were not perfect so I am not and therefore have a right through the pearly gates.

God cannot be mocked mehn, whatever u sow is what u reap. Because u survived it doesn't mean others would.
#justsaying.

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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhymz(m): 11:08am On Feb 03, 2015
Jeromejnr:


I understand what you are saying madam.
So supposing they die while test driving, what will they tell God? That Jacob, David and Abraham were not perfect so I am not and therefore have a right through the pearly gates.

God cannot be mocked mehn, whatever u sow is what u reap. Because u survived it doesn't mean others would.
#justsaying.
Tell God will you make puzzy so murdafucking good if you didn't want man to have it once he was ready and ripe for it, what kind of hit and run logic is that one.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by xtervaganza(m): 11:13am On Feb 03, 2015
Obanz2:
u have said it all....
thank you, my beautiful friend. What I don't like about people is hypocrisy

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Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Jeromejnr(m): 11:26am On Feb 03, 2015
rhymz:
Tell God will you make puzzy so murdafucking good if you didn't want man to have it once he was ready and ripe for it, what kind of hit and run logic is that one.

An Atheist....hmmmmm

Well I have no business debating with atheists, God will handle you ppl's case. Am just tryna advise my fellow brethren in Christ.

If u Atheists like, u can go and test drive all d camels in d desert. Afterall since u don't believe in a God u don't believe in a right or wrong. So why limit d pleasures u can get.

Big bang ko small knockout ni.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by teemy(m): 11:28am On Feb 03, 2015
the concept of seals is to show authenticity and such absence could make a product rejected especially if a stranger is believed to have tampered with it. the male organ is however an urinogenital and does not have such a seal (wish it were so).
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by mrkings84(m): 11:31am On Feb 03, 2015
sai....Buhari!!! at his age can he drive his wife not to talk of driving 9ja?
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhymz(m): 11:31am On Feb 03, 2015
Jeromejnr:


An Atheist....hmmmmm

Well I have no business debating with atheists, God will handle you ppl's case. Am just tryna advise my fellow brethren in Christ.

If u Atheists like, u can go and test drive all d camels in d desert. Afterall since u don't believe in a God u don't believe in a right or wrong. So why limit d pleasures u can get.

Big bang ko small knockout ni.
dont quote me again you little swine..... Do I look like I am in your little Christian vs them league..... Abi you dey craze for head ni.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Jeromejnr(m): 11:49am On Feb 03, 2015
rhymz:
dont quote me again you little swine..... Do I look like I am in your little Christian vs them league..... Abi you dey craze for head ni.

Hehe..
Abi u no sabi read ni.

But wait o! Why do most of u atheists even marry? trying to commit urself to one life partner when u could be out there busy sampling. Its pointless right.

I mean who even created this idea of marriage sef. If man, why follow their rules. Then you have no business in threads like dis.

Food for your thought.
Abeg no quote me o. Just go and think of your life.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by teemy(m): 12:04pm On Feb 03, 2015
but with the female sex organ nature has made it clear that the hymen seal which has only one purpose of affirming non tampering. the woman in songs of solomon would after depicting a sexual act say do not not stir love till its proper time
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by teemy(m): 12:08pm On Feb 03, 2015
if we (self included) have not lived up to this calling do let us encourage those who still have b chance to to. in agreement with the op's questions of knowing what you are getting into, most can be known from a relationship of truth. we know liars.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by teemy(m): 12:12pm On Feb 03, 2015
the rest from proper medical examinations. most marriages are not with first loves. if there is no sex outside marriage stds would be a thing of the past. herpes has no cure and not even caused by sexual fluids, it shows as boils caused by skin link.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by teemy(m): 12:16pm On Feb 03, 2015
the almighty has his set of rules and won't bend it for anyone. heaven i know won't be overpopulated. if anyone has acted in disobedience in the past, follow jesus' rule of go and sin no more. God help us all. Wishing you well - Teemy
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by dandydrey(m): 12:20pm On Feb 03, 2015
Dahjhi:
One Baginatu for you man... grin cheesy

Thanks sir!
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Seunannointing: 12:21pm On Feb 03, 2015
So wat now happens after test driving and u discovered few negative things? U leave her to test another person? Marriage is made in heaven, and sex is not d climax of marriage, companionship is dere! If u base ur judgement of a woman on her sexual performance for marriage, u are making a big mistake
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by sucess001(m): 12:35pm On Feb 03, 2015
[size=22pt]So women don turn motor wey dem dey test drive?[/size]
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by rhemadhee(m): 1:24pm On Feb 03, 2015
this is a write-up frm d bottom pit of hell,I saw it in punch few days ago.It's satanic,If 1Billion people are doin it doesnt make it rit.hw many ll u test run b4 u get u married,Den lots of our girls wud hv become a wore/harlot,due to trial n error n u stil complain u wnt a decent girl.God luvs u
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Adaeze003(f): 1:25pm On Feb 03, 2015
If getting married is equivalent to buying a car, how about ya'll just buy a car instead and rest.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by nickydof(m): 1:46pm On Feb 03, 2015
Regiment:

So if I hear you condemn Shekau & his boko boys again ehn!!? So you and them are the same? Or is their sin bigger?

God, the Society and the laws of man condemns BOKO BOYS. No need for me to condemn them any more. Which nigerian law is against pre marital sex? How many people you sabi way them don jail for pre marital sex? Boko mata different completely.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by lele007: 2:17pm On Feb 03, 2015
"The stomach for food and food for the stomach but God will destroy them both"

This is a statement in the Bible, which aims to teach us about focusing on eternal things, as Holy men and women of old did. Now, substitute "stomach" with "sex organ" and[b] "food"[/b] with "sex", and you will be wise.

This generations over-hypes sex, to their own destruction.
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by Nobody: 3:12pm On Feb 03, 2015
justmag:
Sooo many girls will swear they are virgins just to find out they have been beeped before. I don't think I can marry a girl I haven't ......
99 percent of the girls for nairaland are virgins tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: Why You Should Test-Drive Your Partner Before Marriage by lekkiss(m): 5:09pm On Feb 03, 2015
nnafather:
The writer should ask his mother if she was test-driven by his father...amu nkita!
....caution bro.

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