Kennywills7:

For me i think there is no valid reason as of now to change ur mind, ur elder sister has never seen him laugh but am sure u hv, from ur story
D guy is caring and responsible so d best thing u can wish for is dat he propose marriage to u
Dats like one a lifetime kind of guy

thanks

ispeaklight:
thanks

U are welcome

I doubt the credibility of this story, but if it is true then I will advise u give thanks to God cos he is an angel in human form..

Alexcollins:
I doubt the credibility of this story, but if it is true then I will advise u give thanks to God cos he is an angel in human form..

Thanks.

But note that i dont have time to forge stories, is real.

Men like this exist and I've had a relationship with one...

You have to tell yourself that no one is perfect, everyone has his/her faults...the issue is finding out if you can cope with these faults..

Now, when you date someone that spends on you very well (the euphoria of the person's wealth blinds you from all of his/her faults)...

In my own case, I took off the wealth and I saw the real man...this is exactly what you should do but if you're love him because of his wealth, please go ahead...

Note: it's not bad to love a man because he is rich...

ispeaklight:
Yes...... I was also suprise when he asked me to sleep in a seperate room.

he's a gud guy to me..n make enquiry bout his manhood too.

johnbuck81:
he's a gud guy to me..n make enquiry bout his manhood too.

enquiry from who?

ispeaklight:
enquiry from who?

my advice is for u to edit ur post and remove all de personal details, den remove ur dp on nairaland, ur story and pics can flood the internet. .... Plsss do.. .. Dont share more personal info, Enugu, poultry.. .. Etc thanks

Wat other facts sir? Ur comment was totally uncalled for. Why wld u refer to my "valentine ish" in dat manner if not to slight me?

sod09:
u see wat I'm saying...
try to get fact b4 concluding pls
its will help u alot

Remember to tell us when u get back from dream land , u also forgot to put the link to your blog. lastly, that shii you smoked last night was a tad too high for you !!

What a wonderful fiction fit for adoption by nollywood!

1. A guy comes to pick you up everyday from the school you teach and then you are surprised he knows your house. He picks you up to drop you where? Mortuary?

2. He gives you 300k for family funeral. Open a supermarket for you in the super city of PH with 6 staff members and even pays their salary and then buys you a highlander. Typical of a nollywood movie scene.

3. He works in Shell, owns three big poultries, and a sachet and bottled water company and he is just 30. This is a fat obvious lie. You obviously over exaggerated the benefits of young shell workers and the free time they have. (He is into all these and yet he finds time to pick you up everyday when you were teaching).

4. He leaves the bedroom for you to sleep in the parlour. Wow! As rich as he is, he lives in an apartment with only one bedroom? Even if he doesn't want to sleep with you in the same room, is he not supposed to sleep in one of the various rooms that a guy as rich as he is would have in an apartment?

5. Your guy according to you is always crying. He often allow his feelings and emotions to control him. Such person don't get successful at least with business. How come your guy managed to make it.

Conclusion : This whole story is nothing but a concocted lie. I therefore see no reason I have to give you any advice. Try harder next time

^^^^^^^^^^now, that sense isn't common^^^^^^^^

holusormi:
Remember to tell us when u get back from dream land , u also forgot to put the link to your blog. lastly, that shii you smoked last night was a tad too high for you !!

wicked
Guy, why u bring me come here self

iyisco2001:
^^^^^^^^^^now, that sense isn't common^^^^^^^^


wicked
Guy, why u bring me come here self

Lolz,, awva na

Purity01:
Wat other facts sir? Ur comment was totally uncalled for. Why wld u refer to my "valentine ish" in dat manner if not to slight me?

apologies...,....I tot it not right to judge without getting fact right.....
wat if I say.......considering d pix on ur dp, u also lying u dnt av val date
u just wanted attention

femidejulius:
What a wonderful fiction fit for adoption by nollywood!

1. A guy comes to pick you up everyday from the school you teach and then you are surprised he knows your house. He picks you up to drop you where? Mortuary?

2. He gives you 300k for family funeral. Open a supermarket for you in the super city of PH with 6 staff members and even pays their salary and then buys you a highlander. Typical of a nollywood movie scene.

3. He works in Shell, owns three big poultries, and a sachet and bottled water company and he is just 30. This is a fat obvious lie. You obviously over exaggerated the benefits of young shell workers and the free time they have. (He is into all these and yet he finds time to pick you up everyday when you were teaching).

4. He leaves the bedroom for you to sleep in the parlour. Wow! As rich as he is, he lives in an apartment with only one bedroom? Even if he doesn't want to sleep with you in the same room, is he not supposed to sleep in one of the various rooms that a guy as rich as he is would have in an apartment?

5. Your guy according to you is always crying. He often allow his feelings and emotions to control him. Such person don't get successful at least with business. How come your guy managed to make it.

Conclusion : This whole story is nothing but a concocted lie. I therefore see no reason I have to give you any advice. Try harder next time

4 bedroom flat my dear

i dont really know the department he serve (in shell), anyway but all i know is that he mostly have time at home like for a whole one month at home before getting lost from mine eyes.

He is a guy controlled by feelings and emotion, yes that is true, but he does'nt cry always, he does that when is neccesary to him, lol crying is not a regular thing, i guess he cry only to me.

but note that i dont have time to write superstories pls.

Thanks for commenting anyway.

Tymax:




You are good.

Thanks

LadyX:


Thanks

Hey! What's the for?

Tymax:

Hey! What's the for?

Me sef don't know the meaning

keppyy:
In my own case, I took off the wealth and I saw the real man...this is exactly what you should do but if you're love him because of his wealth, please go ahead...

Note: it's not bad to love a man because he is rich...

Well said.

holusormi:


Lolz,, awva na

I am good man, this kind story self bad pass nollywood. I no sabi wetin I go call am. .
E sweet sha.

eightsin:
Lol.. this story get as e b.

Do we really have such men? You mean he hasn't even asked for sex yet he spends so much on you and family.

Conji no dey hold am?

Na conji u dey complain for ?

How can the guy be so rich & generous that couldn't afford a luxury apartment (parlour,guest room etc) that he had to sleep in the bathroom so he won't commit any sin
Abi him be ritualist ?

& the girlfriend was so comfy while the man she claimed to love slept in the bathroom , while she was sleeping on the bed probably taking Instagram selfies....Kai Women


@Op you have a lot to worry about Mbok!!!

ispeaklight:
enquiry from who?

u shud kno na...wen both of u r 2geda him tin no dey stand?

ok! i ddnt judge. just said d obvious. ure entitled to ur opinion dear

sod09:
apologies...,....I tot it not right to judge without getting fact right.....
wat if I say.......considering d pix on ur dp, u also lying u dnt av val date
u just wanted attention

Purity01:
Dis story is just too perfect. I smell rotten fishes!

same thing on my mind.

Purity01:
ok! i ddnt judge. just said d obvious. ure entitled to ur opinion dear

so are we cool

johnbuck81:
u shud kno na...wen both of u r 2geda him tin no dey stand?

noticed that just once, could he be hiding it from me?

ispeaklight:
noticed that just once, could he be hiding it from me?

u shud talk to him abt it..kno if his tin is ok.
y dnt u try iniciate sex wit him n see his reaction.
i bet u dnt want to marry someone dat cnt satisfy ur sexual need.
u self no dey try..a guy wud do somtin lyk dat 4 u n u dnt want to giv him ur body.

johnbuck81:
u shud talk to him abt it..kno if his tin is ok.
y dnt u try iniciate sex wit him n see his reaction.
i bet u dnt want to marry someone dat cnt satisfy ur sexual need.
u self no dey try..a guy wud do somtin lyk dat 4 u n u dnt want to giv him ur body.

lol.....you are funny anyway.... Thanks for your advice

An Angel in portharcourt? Forget it, he is married

wait...

you both have been dating for over 2 years, you graduated 22 and now you're 23 and he's 30 abeg which school did you go to gon gon...

in fact show us your certificate...

ispeaklight:
lol.....you are funny anyway.... Thanks for your advice

wait...

you both have been dating for over 2 years, you graduated 22 and now you're 23 and he's 30 abeg which school did you go to gon gon...

in fact show us your certificate...

This is d biggest lie dat I hv seein on nairaland this year. Infact we need to gv ds girl an award. This is due to much addiction to naija love movies.

Inbetwn- girl, u ar a good writer. try writing a novel. All I c in u is talent.

ispeaklight:
On the second day of my graduation from unilag (were i studied mass communiction) i travelled back home from lagos to portharcourt were my parents reside. Here my story line begin, please read below so as to give me perfect counsel thanks.

It was on the 22 of november 2011 when i visited my friend's house, so why going back home we must have to cross one of the busiest road over here, but something happened i and my friend were carelessly discussing and were'nt watching and focusing why crossing the road, unfortunately a car almost hit me down why my friend had already crossed, at that time i was lucky because the guy driving the car was careful enough to stop the car from hitting me. And seriously i was scared i jumped out of the road look at the guy with a very bad eye and motive, he glanced at me, then moved the car from the road and then spend time looking at me before i could know he began to shed tears, my friend touched me and said is okay lets go, i listen to her and leave immediately but before i could even step 3 times he blocked me and was really pleading and begging me to forgive his carelessness, that it was all his fault.

He asked me if i was injured that he could take me to the nearest hospital or chemist, but i said no he should'nt bother because at this time i was ashamed as people were really staring at us. I walked out of him immediately but he blocked me again and pleaded for my forgiveness as if he had known me somewere, i had no other obtion than to tell him he did'nt hit me, at the end we left each others to our different ways.

But as fate may have it, he met me again in 2012 on a dirty road, why i was looking for were to put my legs, he asked me to enter his car but i asked him not to bother that i can manage, but he pleaded so i agreed, why in the car he gave me paper and pen to write my phone number and i did, after i have got home he called me in some hours and asked me to be his friend but i said not too fast, he pleaded and sounded as if he was crying to end the whole matter i agreed immediatly, he also asked for my facebook address i also gave him too, we began our chat on facebook and in few months i got to know him more better as he also knew me in and out too, as of then i do teach in a school very far from my home, but he always volunteer to come and pick me every day, he never missed out even one day.

One night he called me to come out side that he is waiting for me, i asked him outside were he said my house, seriously i was perplex because i never showed him my house niether did i give him my address in anyway, why i came out i met him and we began to discuss all of a sudden he proposed to be my boyfriend, but i said no, that i like it as we are just friends, he knelt down and sounded as if he was crying (i can't really tell if tears dropped out his eyes because it was late) to prevent any further drama i agreed immediately, i have always know him as a guy that allow feelings and emotion to control him.

At this time, we became more intimate as never before, he began to call me "sweetheart", but i call him by his name though, he has always been so good to me, he give me lot of money and bought fruits for me even when i dont ask for them, when my grandmother died and my parents did'nt have much to contribute, i told him and he gave me N300,000 for the burial and i was shocked.

Few months after the burial he sent me a message on facebook, pleading with me to accept the gift he had prepared for me, i asked him what gift but he said dont bother, all i need from you is to behave matured and dont seem to be too suprise because you might faint, i thought as much as i could to guess what kind of gift but to no avail, the day he planned came and he took me out to a very busy area here in portharcourt and showed me a very big supermarket with 6 staff in uniform and said this is your supermarket, i looked at him and look at the supermarket, i became dumbed for about 5minutes and screemed (just joking though, but i can remember that i was scared,suprise and happy at same time) after all i accepted the key to the supermarket and the one to my office, we both went to my parents and explained the whole issue and they were very happy because they had already known him to be my fiancee for a long period anyway.

But something suprised me most, he asked me not to pay the staff working at the supermarket, that he is incharge of their payment, few months after he bought me a nice highlander car. But something is suprising me most we have been in relationship for 2years and some moths now and he had never mentioned marriage, he is a very handsome guy of 30years old why am 23.

I had to pass a night one of the days in his house after i have finish cooking for him and washing most of his cloths, to be suprise he gave me the key to his bathroom and asked me to lock it and he slept in the parlour, the next morning i asked him the reasons for his decision last night and he replied "i dont want to sin that is why i slept off the bathroom".

Less i forget, he owns 3 big poultries in portharcourt and a pure water and bottle water industries too, he also works in shell.

The reason for this long story is because i need your advice,

1. Do you think this guy want to buy my love with money? (although i love him very much anyway).

2. What are his reason for not talking about marriage yet because i dont want him to leave me and marry another girl.

3. My senior sister asked me not to marry him because he had never seen him smiling ever.

4. Do you think this is true love?

5. He is too good at begging and crying when i dont agree most times to him, do you think if we get married he will still be as gentle as he is now?

I need your advice please, thanks.

Regards: Ozichi jonathan

It sounds like love o o.
Emmmmm everything he has done looks like what I could do.

I don't think he's trying to buy your love with money. there's no way you can love without giving I think you have filled up his heart such that all he thinks about is you, to do you good and keep you happy.

But Your story doesn't say much about his personality, beliefs, family background etc.

Well said, his care for you has made you grow in love for him, but Don't get carried away, look at realities, talk to him. About your feelings and future plans and hear his response.

Sweet dreams