xpac01:
I smelled this counter from afar. But seriously this thread should be title "7 ways to identify a responsible lady".
I've dated a gal who never ask anything from me and easily gives but then not rich at all. A poor student. Its just in her.

Just as I mentioned in the previous thread....brokeness is a thing of the mind..

lawanson44:


Someone is uncomfortable that ladies' secrets are being exposed here

Secret oshi wo?!
Ogbeni je ka gbo oro jare

obongproff:
Below are the qualities of an independent and responsible lady.

1. SHE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL:
I have met a numba of chics dat are not broke but one tin day all have in common is punctuality. If u have an appointment with dem by 5pm, day will be der by 5pm, worst case 5:15pm or so becos of traffic. And if she is held up in traffic, she will call u to tell u how bad d traffic and also ask u to give her some time. And if it seems like a dead-end, she will call and ask for a reschedule. Why? She knows d value of time and wdnt like to keep u waiting for long.

But for her counter-parts, baba u go wait tire. Day have no value for time cos day are simply on d collecting side of life.

2. SHE LIKES TO GIVE:
When u are dating dis kind of girl, trust me, you will always get sth from her. U wd most likely get a gift on valentine's day, christmas day and on ur birthday. Dis type of chic just feels she has to get u something even if u dont ask. Even if its an 800 naira Bodman perfume or a 200 naira boxers, d most important tin be say she will get u sth. And its not abt d size of d gift but always abt her attitude of giving.

3. SHE HARDLY OR NEVER ASKS:
She hardly asks for airtime, she hardly asks for cash, she wont ask u for her scl fees, or iphone, etc, except she is really stranded and has totally run out of options.

Wot she usually asks for is for ur attention, ur love and care. She mite ask for se.x sha...dat one day. But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

Why? Cos she doesnt see a man as a solution to all her financial problems. She enjoys d idea of having and spending her own money. She mite not be rich or from a rich family sha but she just like being self-sufficient.

4. SHE CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION:
If u engage her in a thought-provoking conversation, u wd most likely enjoy d ride cos girls like dis usually have sth upstairs. U can reason with her cos she is far beta dan her counterparts who cant talk abt anytin beyond facebook, iphone, bbm, fashion, celebrities and men and dia troubles.

I've neva met a lady in dis category dat was also a sucking blood. And I have neva met a sucking blood dat can hold an intelligent conversation. 15 mins with dem, u feel empty and bored to death.

5. SHE IS CHASING SOMETHING:
This kinda chic is either chasing her studies or working on her career or business or chasing a dream. Day are hardly idle. Even while waiting for dia dream job, day like to engage in sth productive. Day dont like being idle, no mata how small d pay may be. If she cant any job, she mite decide to learn sth just to get herself busy.

6. SHE HARDLY BRAGS:
I have met a numba of independent ladies and I've realized dat dis chics hardly brag. Day hardly form. Some mite put up a stern look just to scare guys away but when u get to know dem, u see dat day are really nice and humble. But broke girls, kai! Na dem form pass, na dem brag pass! Smh.

7. SHE CALLS WITH HER OWN AIRTIME.
She can afford to buy 200 naira airtime to call you. If she is bouyant she will call u everyday. Some will even buy glo or etisalat special packages so day can have more airtime to call u, how sweet

Sucking bloods dont call. Dem no day eva get airtime. Dem go flash u till Jesus comes. Pathetic:@

8. SHE IS NOT ALWAYS AS HOT AS HER COUNTER-PARTS:
She doesnt always show cleavages. She doesnt always wear skimpy and revealing clothes. She mite wear a tight dress or sth revealing once a while, but its neva her trade mark.

And dis is one reason bobos like to fall for d sucking bloods. Becos we are always moved by wot we see, we are naturally attracted to d sucking bloods dat always dress hot, show cleavages and wicked hips, etc, and afta na still us go day complain.

If a lady has at least 6 of dis qualities and more, she is definitely a good wife material.

==========================

I wasnt trying to defend d ladies. I just wanted to let some guys know how to spot a lady dat is not a sucking blood.

Ladies learn from dis so u can earn some respect.

Bro, you just said it all. Nice one!

petra22:


Secret oshi wo?!
Ogbeni je ka gbo oro jare

Watchasay?

petra22:
Everyday on nairaland, ladies this...ladies that. Haba! Give it a rest for just one day. It's becoming such a cliché
*yawns*

You took the words outta my fingers.
I wish some NL guys can actually get a life or better hobbies and stop thinking about girls 24/7 and yet praying to God to make em rich.:-/

jworos:
d right one is around d corner, might b me sef

lol, leMme fast n pray abt it fr 40 days n nite.

sweetbaby22:


Hmmmmm your target market abi

no sis, i date them not knowing they are rich, but it turns out later that they are......most times i wouldnt even know until they invite me over to their home......so dats why i said am lucky.

marinel:
lol, leMme fast n pray abt it fr 40 days n nite.

i fit help u do 20 days

jworos:
i fit help u do 20 days

lol, dt wud b nyc.

Mtcheww!

I exhibit 7 of these traits apart frm number 1... Funny enough, most guys see self-sufficient attribute in ladies as pride...

Also, they are always frugal... They buy or spend money on what is necessary...

SisiNini:
I exhibit 7 of these traits apart frm number 1... Funny enough, most guys see self-sufficient attribute in ladies as pride...

Also, they are always frugal... They buy or spend money on what is necessary...

Choi choi choi diarisgodooooo

All the beauty wey you been power grab for yourself alone ehn

So my name is Jay but you can call me Jay2dbee!



[size=4pt]PS: Trust awon bois to put her profile on permanent refresh[/size]

All my qualities!

obongproff:
Below are the qualities of an independent and responsible lady.

1. SHE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL:
I have met a numba of chics dat are not broke but one tin day all have in common is punctuality. If u have an appointment with dem by 5pm, day will be der by 5pm, worst case 5:15pm or so becos of traffic. And if she is held up in traffic, she will call u to tell u how bad d traffic and also ask u to give her some time. And if it seems like a dead-end, she will call and ask for a reschedule. Why? She knows d value of time and wdnt like to keep u waiting for long.

But for her counter-parts, baba u go wait tire. Day have no value for time cos day are simply on d collecting side of life.

2. SHE LIKES TO GIVE:
When u are dating dis kind of girl, trust me, you will always get sth from her. U wd most likely get a gift on valentine's day, christmas day and on ur birthday. Dis type of chic just feels she has to get u something even if u dont ask. Even if its an 800 naira Bodman perfume or a 200 naira boxers, d most important tin be say she will get u sth. And its not abt d size of d gift but always abt her attitude of giving.

3. SHE HARDLY OR NEVER ASKS:
She hardly asks for airtime, she hardly asks for cash, she wont ask u for her scl fees, or iphone, etc, except she is really stranded and has totally run out of options.

Wot she usually asks for is for ur attention, ur love and care. She mite ask for se.x sha...dat one day. But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

Why? Cos she doesnt see a man as a solution to all her financial problems. She enjoys d idea of having and spending her own money. She mite not be rich or from a rich family sha but she just like being self-sufficient.

4. SHE CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION:
If u engage her in a thought-provoking conversation, u wd most likely enjoy d ride cos girls like dis usually have sth upstairs. U can reason with her cos she is far beta dan her counterparts who cant talk abt anytin beyond facebook, iphone, bbm, fashion, celebrities and men and dia troubles.

I've neva met a lady in dis category dat was also a sucking blood. And I have neva met a sucking blood dat can hold an intelligent conversation. 15 mins with dem, u feel empty and bored to death.

5. SHE IS CHASING SOMETHING:
This kinda chic is either chasing her studies or working on her career or business or chasing a dream. Day are hardly idle. Even while waiting for dia dream job, day like to engage in sth productive. Day dont like being idle, no mata how small d pay may be. If she cant any job, she mite decide to learn sth just to get herself busy.

6. SHE HARDLY BRAGS:
I have met a numba of independent ladies and I've realized dat dis chics hardly brag. Day hardly form. Some mite put up a stern look just to scare guys away but when u get to know dem, u see dat day are really nice and humble. But broke girls, kai! Na dem form pass, na dem brag pass! Smh.

7. SHE CALLS WITH HER OWN AIRTIME.
She can afford to buy 200 naira airtime to call you. If she is bouyant she will call u everyday. Some will even buy glo or etisalat special packages so day can have more airtime to call u, how sweet

Sucking bloods dont call. Dem no day eva get airtime. Dem go flash u till Jesus comes. Pathetic:@

8. SHE IS NOT ALWAYS AS HOT AS HER COUNTER-PARTS:
She doesnt always show cleavages. She doesnt always wear skimpy and revealing clothes. She mite wear a tight dress or sth revealing once a while, but its neva her trade mark.

And dis is one reason bobos like to fall for d sucking bloods. Becos we are always moved by wot we see, we are naturally attracted to d sucking bloods dat always dress hot, show cleavages and wicked hips, etc, and afta na still us go day complain.

If a lady has at least 6 of dis qualities and more, she is definitely a good wife material.

==========================

I wasnt trying to defend d ladies. I just wanted to let some guys know how to spot a lady dat is not a sucking blood.

Ladies learn from dis so u can earn some respect.

Lol. With the exception of no.1, all the others are point.

Invest In The Future, Invest In Lekki.

jaybee3:

Choi choi choi diarisgodooooo

All the beauty wey you been power grab for yourself alone ehn

So my name is Jay but you can call me Jay2dbee!



[size=4pt]PS: Trust awon bois to put her profile on permanent refresh[/size]

Are u not Ugochukwu Sunday Benedict...? I can also call you USB!!! #lol

How are doing JayBee?

SisiNini:


Are u not Ugochukwu Sunday Benedict...? I can also call you USB!!! #lol

How are doing JayBee?

I'm aiight darling


#All my enemies should back off! I know i'm an ashewo so ain't no smoking gun coming ma way

jaybee3:

I'm aiight darling


#All my enemies should back off! I know i'm an ashewo so ain't no smoking gun coming ma way

You are such a funny dude... #smiles

SisiNini:


You are such a funny dude... #smiles

This writeup must have been inspired by one Fadekemi, my very good friend.
That lady is the younger sister to Christ honestly.
Nice one OP, so true... I'm bookmarking straight.

ArewaSweetheart:



Lol. With the exception of no.1, all the others are point.

Work on that dearie and you're good to go.
Husbands better appreciate punctual Wives

evegran:


You took the words outta my fingers.
I wish some NL guys can actually get a life or better hobbies and stop thinking about girls 24/7 and yet praying to God to make em rich.:-/

Lol, I feel your pain. So annoying

whao!!!! with all d points listed above by op,all l can say is I AM RICH.l mean super RICH.

oloworulz:
dat one na problem oo. Give me another sister dat likes guys who wil be rich in future

lmao!

I met a few naija babes with similar character traits But sadly I couldn't date anyone of them cos they are 32yrs old and above looking for a husband.

Nneka123:
Thank God! I'm not a broke girl , halleluya! i don't beg, i don't ask...lmao!

you don run go remove ur pix because of these woman wrapperz wey full Romance section. Nne, that one follow o! o di kwa okay

obongproff:


U mite be broke but ur not a sucking blood. Cos actually, d focus was on d opposite of being a sucking blood chic

If u do all dis, ur simply an independent lady.

HMMmMmm... Ko easy sha!

[quote author=obongproff post=30467340]Below are the qualities of an independent and responsible lady.

1. SHE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL:
I have met a numba of chics dat are not broke but one tin day all have in common is punctuality. If u have an appointment with dem by 5pm, day will be der by 5pm, worst case 5:15pm or so becos of traffic. And if she is held up in traffic, she will call u to tell u how bad d traffic and also ask u to give her some time. And if it seems like a dead-end, she will call and ask for a reschedule. Why? She knows d value of time and wdnt like to keep u waiting for long.

But for her counter-parts, baba u go wait tire. Day have no value for time cos day are simply on d collecting side of life.

2. SHE LIKES TO GIVE:
When u are dating dis kind of girl, trust me, you will always get sth from her. U wd most likely get a gift on valentine's day, christmas day and on ur birthday. Dis type of chic just feels she has to get u something even if u dont ask. Even if its an 800 naira Bodman perfume or a 200 naira boxers, d most important tin be say she will get u sth. And its not abt d size of d gift but always abt her attitude of giving.

3. SHE HARDLY OR NEVER ASKS:
She hardly asks for airtime, she hardly asks for cash, she wont ask u for her scl fees, or iphone, etc, except she is really stranded and has totally run out of options.

Wot she usually asks for is for ur attention, ur love and care. She mite ask for se.x sha...dat one day. But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

Why? Cos she doesnt see a man as a solution to all her financial problems. She enjoys d idea of having and spending her own money. She mite not be rich or from a rich family sha but she just like being self-sufficient.

4. SHE CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION:
If u engage her in a thought-provoking conversation, u wd most likely enjoy d ride cos girls like dis usually have sth upstairs. U can reason with her cos she is far beta dan her counterparts who cant talk abt anytin beyond facebook, iphone, bbm, fashion, celebrities and men and dia troubles.

I've neva met a lady in dis category dat was also a sucking blood. And I have neva met a sucking blood dat can hold an intelligent conversation. 15 mins with dem, u feel empty and bored to death.

5. SHE IS CHASING SOMETHING:
This kinda chic is either chasing her studies or working on her career or business or chasing a dream. Day are hardly idle. Even while waiting for dia dream job, day like to engage in sth productive. Day dont like being idle, no mata how small d pay may be. If she cant any job, she mite decide to learn sth just to get herself busy.

6. SHE HARDLY BRAGS:
I have met a numba of independent ladies and I've realized dat dis chics hardly brag. Day hardly form. Some mite put up a stern look just to scare guys away but when u get to know dem, u see dat day are really nice and humble. But broke girls, kai! Na dem form pass, na dem brag pass! Smh.

7. SHE CALLS WITH HER OWN AIRTIME.
She can afford to buy 200 naira airtime to call you. If she is bouyant she will call u everyday. Some will even buy glo or etisalat special packages so day can have more airtime to call u, how sweet

Sucking bloods dont call. Dem no day eva get airtime. Dem go flash u till Jesus comes. Pathetic:@

8. SHE IS NOT ALWAYS AS HOT AS HER COUNTER-PARTS:
She doesnt always show cleavages. She doesnt always wear skimpy and revealing clothes. She mite wear a tight dress or sth revealing once a while, but its neva her trade mark.

And dis is one reason bobos like to fall for d sucking bloods. Becos we are always moved by wot we see, we are naturally attracted to d sucking bloods dat always dress hot, show cleavages and wicked hips, etc, and afta na still us go day complain.

If a lady has at least 6 of dis qualities and more, she is definitely a good wife material.

==========================

I wasnt trying to defend d ladies. I just wanted to let some guys know how to spot a lady dat is not a sucking blood.

Ladies learn from dis so u can earn some respect. thanks op,you 've just described my lady,,I'm so much in love with her,like jesus himself.

Nneka123:
Thank God! I'm not a broke girl , halleluya! i don't beg, i don't ask...lmao!

if I hear, u better say d truth nw b4 I call ur ex here

obongproff:
But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

bros, it is either ATM or AT Machine...please

Gabbysky:
This writeup must have been inspired by one Fadekemi, my very good friend.
That lady is the younger sister to Christ honestly.
Nice one OP, so true... I'm bookmarking straight.

No sir. Dis thread was inspired by d silent cries of d young dudes like me who kept going from one sucking blood chic to another and are almost giving up cos day feel independent chics dont exist. I only wrote from my experience from my encounters with all d independent chics I've been lucky to meet so day cd be encouraged and also know how to spot one.

Thanks for the compliment doe.

deepthougths:


bros, it is either ATM or AT Machine...please

U sabi book jare and u go beta school jare. So of all d tins way I type, na only ma ATM machine blunda way ur deepthoughts eye fit see abi? Deepthoughts indeed.