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emusmith:
You didn't really read it right?

amokeme:
After all the troubles another woman will come and help you enjoy him so why stress yourself Abeg leave him the way he is. If he wants to change fine, if not and you can't cope just leave simple!
Life is really easy you know,

Nickymezor:
Nice tips.Mk I absorb dem well .Anyway wat will be will be

silverspringle:
I agree with d op 100 percent. People change people. No matter how tough one seems to be, u can change him by pressing d right buttons. "There are some battles one can't fight in life except by humility". And for those of u saying dat "any man dat wants to marry u will marry u even if u Dnt practice what d op listed", note dat getting married isn't a big deal but staying married is.

Euckybaby:
hmmmm.. maybe

emusmith:
Amokeme

amokeme:

emusmith:
If What Will Be Will Be... There will be no need for change or education...

We are umpires of the events of our life.

Nickymezor:
Yeah ur rite

poundlander:
ChapelHillShooting NEED FRONT PAGE

miztola:
Please which market can i get the so called 'husband material'? I need to make an agbada with it.

Thanks for ur honest answer.

emusmith:
Change they say, is constant.

I assure you, I have heard the saying, " You can't change anyone"...I used to believe that until I had a reason to doubt it... They also say stuff like "Once a cheat always a cheat" etc.

I do believe Love changes people.

Turning him to a Husband material is all about touching certain spots in him so much so that IF something happens and you're no longer together, he never forgets you- You Left An Indelible Mark In His Heart.


NB: These points can also be followed in a PLATONIC relationship, not only in a LOVE relationship.

How Can You Turn Him To A Husband Material?



1. Keep Your Standards Genuinely High



Most ladies think that "giving up your standards for him is one of those things love will should cost you...No! In fact, giving up your standards shows that all ladies are the same and both of you (you and him) are just the same meaning- you can't positively affect him and fix his challenge. If your stand is no sex, don't lower it to touchings...Keep it high- WE WILL HATE YOU AT FIRST BUT THEN YOU WILL JUST BE ONE SHINING DIAMOND in the sky . If you're doing it with some other guy, it won't be long, he'll find out.



2. Be Real With Him At All Times- Express Emotions Sometimes.


Don't be too firm and resolute. Be emotional occasionally. Trying to impress him isn't the key. I had a lady then who shed tears just because some folks she was leading were so recalcitrant- As she wept, I loved her more- I can't explain it but I saw reality in her.

Being real with him means you have to always open up when you're not comfortable with something but in a mature/ mild way.



3. Lead Him To Believe In The Supernatural.


Especially, if he doesn't believe in God...
The Supernatural is inexplicable using the human mind. There is just something when a girl invites a guy to her Church. He may be a whizz in natural life and work but he feels inept in this area...How do you feel when you see him turning to Genesis when the pastor told them to open to Hebrews?
He can't forget you...



4. Don't Put Money As Top Priority


Putting money as top priority makes you like the rest of 'em...If he asks you to cook for him, try as much as possible to do so much with just little- hard right? Try to...You may not have a second chance to make a first impression. Some girls even give...You love him, you see his potentials, isn't it wise to sow a seed or two? Don't say, he'll leave you when things get better, not when put all the 7 points to practice.



5. Be Committed In Checking Up On His Goals In Life.


Find out what matters most to him- his vision, goals, purpose etc. Ask him about it and once in a while remind him... Insist that he go look for a job, sends his CV to so and so... Every guy still have baby tendencies- being like a mother to them energizes them.


6. Teach Him And Make Him Look Like The Teacher.


Mothers are life mentors. So are Real Ladies. Teaching a guy, you need to be wise, especially when you're not trying to be selfish. I do this a lot to girls. In teaching, ask questions, suggest...It's not inferiority, it's courtesy, respect and regard.


7. If You Don't Agree With A Certain Behavior Of His, Create An Avenue For Him To Correct It.



He didn't call you on your birthday. Call him and insist that he calls you immediately. Don't take it too personal. He still loves you nonetheless. By doing so, you're standing out as a Big Girl and not a Spoilt Brat.



This thread does not promise you that he will change but ...You will change...

Love changes people in amazing ways. You haven't experienced it doesn't falsify these points... Maybe you have to put these to practice thus enhancing your chances of even finding the guy who won't be a tough but to crack.


Good morning.

papaskino:
Nice one!!!

emusmith:
Change they say, is constant.

I assure you, I have heard the saying, " You can't change anyone"...I used to believe that until I had a reason to doubt it... They also say stuff like "Once a cheat always a cheat" etc.

I do believe Love changes people.

Turning him to a Husband material is all about touching certain spots in him so much so that IF something happens and you're no longer together, he never forgets you- You Left An Indelible Mark In His Heart.


NB: These points can also be followed in a PLATONIC relationship, not only in a LOVE relationship.. Best post so far. I think I agree with all your points except for the supernatural, it's always better he's one who if he is someone who is already in the know of that inorder for the lady not to make him a consistent prayer point after marriage.

How Can You Turn Him To A Husband Material?



1. Keep Your Standards Genuinely High



Most ladies think that "giving up your standards for him is one of those things love will should cost you...No! In fact, giving up your standards shows that all ladies are the same and both of you (you and him) are just the same meaning- you can't positively affect him and fix his challenge. If your stand is no sex, don't lower it to touchings...Keep it high- WE WILL HATE YOU AT FIRST BUT THEN YOU WILL JUST BE ONE SHINING DIAMOND in the sky . If you're doing it with some other guy, it won't be long, he'll find out.



2. Be Real With Him At All Times- Express Emotions Sometimes.


Don't be too firm and resolute. Be emotional occasionally. Trying to impress him isn't the key. I had a lady then who shed tears just because some folks she was leading were so recalcitrant- As she wept, I loved her more- I can't explain it but I saw reality in her.

Being real with him means you have to always open up when you're not comfortable with something but in a mature/ mild way.



3. Lead Him To Believe In The Supernatural.


Especially, if he doesn't believe in God...
The Supernatural is inexplicable using the human mind. There is just something when a girl invites a guy to her Church. He may be a whizz in natural life and work but he feels inept in this area...How do you feel when you see him turning to Genesis when the pastor told them to open to Hebrews?
He can't forget you...



4. Don't Put Money As Top Priority


Putting money as top priority makes you like the rest of 'em...If he asks you to cook for him, try as much as possible to do so much with just little- hard right? Try to...You may not have a second chance to make a first impression. Some girls even give...You love him, you see his potentials, isn't it wise to sow a seed or two? Don't say, he'll leave you when things get better, not when put all the 7 points to practice.



5. Be Committed In Checking Up On His Goals In Life.


Find out what matters most to him- his vision, goals, purpose etc. Ask him about it and once in a while remind him... Insist that he go look for a job, sends his CV to so and so... Every guy still have baby tendencies- being like a mother to them energizes them.


6. Teach Him And Make Him Look Like The Teacher.


Mothers are life mentors. So are Real Ladies. Teaching a guy, you need to be wise, especially when you're not trying to be selfish. I do this a lot to girls. In teaching, ask questions, suggest...It's not inferiority, it's courtesy, respect and regard.


7. If You Don't Agree With A Certain Behavior Of His, Create An Avenue For Him To Correct It.



He didn't call you on your birthday. Call him and insist that he calls you immediately. Don't take it too personal. He still loves you nonetheless. By doing so, you're standing out as a Big Girl and not a Spoilt Brat.



This thread does not promise you that he will change but ...You will change...

Love changes people in amazing ways. You haven't experienced it doesn't falsify these points... Maybe you have to put these to practice thus enhancing your chances of even finding the guy who won't be a tough but to crack.


Good morning.

tundabolt:
Best post so far. I think I agree with all your points except for the supernatural, it's always better he's one who if he is someone who is already in the know of that inorder for the lady not to make him a consistent prayer point after marriage

ozor1:
Op u tried.but the fastest way is to get pregnant

smugmanuel:
Perfect. I love this.

Change they say, is constant.

I assure you, I have heard the saying, " You can't change anyone"...I used to believe that until I had a reason to doubt it... They also say stuff like "Once a cheat always a cheat" etc.

I do believe Love changes people.

Turning him to a Husband material is all about touching certain spots in him so much so that IF something happens and you're no longer together, he never forgets you- You Left An Indelible Mark In His Heart.


NB: These points can also be followed in a PLATONIC relationship, not only in a LOVE relationship.

How Can You Turn Him To A Husband Material?



1. Keep Your Standards Genuinely High



Most ladies think that "giving up your standards for him is one of those things love will should cost you...No! In fact, giving up your standards shows that all ladies are the same and both of you (you and him) are just the same meaning- you can't positively affect him and fix his challenge. If your stand is no sex, don't lower it to touchings...Keep it high- WE WILL HATE YOU AT FIRST BUT THEN YOU WILL JUST BE ONE SHINING DIAMOND in the sky . If you're doing it with some other guy, it won't be long, he'll find out.



2. Be Real With Him At All Times- Express Emotions Sometimes.


Don't be too firm and resolute. Be emotional occasionally. Trying to impress him isn't the key. I had a lady then who shed tears just because some folks she was leading were so recalcitrant- As she wept, I loved her more- I can't explain it but I saw reality in her.

Being real with him means you have to always open up when you're not comfortable with something but in a mature/ mild way.



3. Lead Him To Believe In The Supernatural.


Especially, if he doesn't believe in God...
The Supernatural is inexplicable using the human mind. There is just something when a girl invites a guy to her Church. He may be a whizz in natural life and work but he feels inept in this area...How do you feel when you see him turning to Genesis when the pastor told them to open to Hebrews?
He can't forget you...



4. Don't Put Money As Top Priority


Putting money as top priority makes you like the rest of 'em...If he asks you to cook for him, try as much as possible to do so much with just little- hard right? Try to...You may not have a second chance to make a first impression. Some girls even give...You love him, you see his potentials, isn't it wise to sow a seed or two? Don't say, he'll leave you when things get better, not when put all the 7 points to practice.



5. Be Committed In Checking Up On His Goals In Life.


Find out what matters most to him- his vision, goals, purpose etc. Ask him about it and once in a while remind him... Insist that he go look for a job, sends his CV to so and so... Every guy still have baby tendencies- being like a mother to them energizes them.


6. Teach Him And Make Him Look Like The Teacher.


Mothers are life mentors. So are Real Ladies. Teaching a guy, you need to be wise, especially when you're not trying to be selfish. I do this a lot to girls. In teaching, ask questions, suggest...It's not inferiority, it's courtesy, respect and regard.


7. If You Don't Agree With A Certain Behavior Of His, Create An Avenue For Him To Correct It.



He didn't call you on your birthday. Call him and insist that he calls you immediately. Don't take it too personal. He still loves you nonetheless. By doing so, you're standing out as a Big Girl and not a Spoilt Brat.



This thread does not promise you that he will change but ...You will change...

Love changes people in amazing ways. You haven't experienced it doesn't falsify these points... Maybe you have to put these to practice thus enhancing your chances of even finding the guy who won't be a tough but to crack.


Good morning.