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safarigirl:
I was watching one of Chris Rock's comedy shows recently where he made a valid point that women cannot go back materialistically.

What he meant by this simply is that women just won't fancy dating any guy who is less financially buoyant than their last boyfriend and if they do, they won't be 'feeling' the other guy s much.

I've had conversations with two of my female room mates whose idea of their 'best boyfriend ever' was the guy who spent on them, who got them the expensive stuff and provided them with their heart's desires without them having to even ask. There is nothing any female loves more than when her man gets her some item (be it a shoe, a handbag, a phone etc) she's been pining for without her having to utter a word about it to him. Example, if she's been posting a pic of a pair of shoes on her IG or DP and her man asks why she's so interested in the shoe followed by her shoe size, trust when I say the Shoki the babe will be dancing that day in anticipation of the arrival of the shoes will be enough to send Lil Kesh out of business

Fellas, if you're looking to date a woman whose ex is responsible for half the shiiit in her closet, plus the Samsung galaxy/Iphone she's currently using and you're not loaded, I regret to inform you that you don enter one chance. As in, your own don kpafuka. Like, she most likely will have the same interest in the relationship as the average straight man has in an episode of The Kardashians

This ain't no Dr.Phil so imma give you some straight-talkin' , you want the truth? Well, here it is. You may love her more than that ex did, you may be ready to sell your father's land in the village to provide for her, but all of that will most likely pale in her eyes in comparison to what the mofo ex has done for her.

Women tend to place their wants above their needs. Forget Nollywood movies bro, you're not Ramsey Noah and she's not Genevieve, if she's with you despite the fact that you're 'poorer' than her ex, then know that she's most likely just hanging around until either the ex is released from whatever spiritual bondage that caused him to break up with her or the Lord directs some other rich dude to her stable.

So I explained to one of the two girls that her ex isn't necessarily the best guy she'll ever meet, he just happens to have the funds to express his love as opposed to some other guy who may respect her more and generally be more loving, but is unfortunately, not financially buoyant enough to show he's a better catch. In such situations it's left to the woman to decide what she really wants in a relationship and if she can survive with a man who may not be financially gifted, but possesses other traits that in the long run would be much better than wealth

So on that note, I will agree with emusmith, that love isn't always enough in any relationship, but not necessarily based on the terms he listed in his write-up, which in all honesty, I found some vapid, petty and somewhat shallow (no offence ). Sometimes the psychological make-up of a gender will come into play.

And before the men cry foul, Chris Rock also stated that men on the other hand, can NOT go back Sexually....but I believe that's a topic for another day. Ciao

YOU'RE A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF A GOLD DIGGER WOMEN LIKE YOU SHOULD BE IGNORED BY SANE MEN

can this be true?

Who cares women pls love u the heart that loves u and not the one love

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Broke girls of course will want richer guys...broke guys be advised,find rich ladies too.

f oolish thread..

fk all u hoes

Smh no wonda men use em any how don't mean any disrespect u expect a guy 2 spend on u wit out asking 4 smetin in return afta una go talk say naija guys 2 lyk sex no wahala shebi na iphone6 u nid ild get it 4 u bt u gotta gimme free visa 2 dat place anytym anyday any min and by d way not wen d lady z 35-40 jux promise her mairriage and volla boyant or not shes yours

Na me dey always provoke pass when una dey promote gold digging for this our big naira.

emusmith:
Nigeria Women cannot go back "materialistically". ( Emphasis Mine )

What you implied here is:

1. Women are materialistic- palpably.

2. They depend on what their guy is worth.. This is unlike one of your threads I read months ago about how Nigeria ladies need to start doing something with their lives other than just "depending" on their guy's substance.

I believe strongly "without misconstruing your points" that A lady can date a guy earning less than his ex. I believe so.

We are in Nigeria, young lady. , not in Beverly Hills or California.

If tomorrow something happens to his business, you would run away right? This might happen with a CAPTION like yours.

True love has "something", not everything to do with money.

Just that most Nigeria n ladies wanna be like Kourtney Kardarshian and Scott...

Make your own cash and love him with your will power of choice, please...Chris Rock ain't a Nigerian.


Just a suggestion.


About my points being petty...I dunno know what to say

Beverly hills is California or let me say it's a place in Cali.

Chris "brown" is a comedian .

We shouldn't take him serious

He should be a Chris under the "Rock"

BTW," Everybody hates Chris" ,so his points are not valid!!!

Safarigirl please face your books. Ladies who actually know what they want and how they want it in life do go back materially. Your epistle is for the broke, ebinna and I never chop girls.
Till you have seen life beyond the four walls of your University, u cannot categorically post that ish u just posted.

falconey:
that is why they got used easily.....spend few thousands and you will see everything.......those guys that spent on them are not fools ,they do that to get what they want

Throw some money around and watch them open that thang the way they've not opened it before.

Wrong perception.
Your opinion I guess.
Let me make it clear to some of u "Men" 80% of ladies love with their heart 40% might be lucky to love a rich guy. Now tell me, who doesn't like to be in love and comfortable.
You guys now tell, me if u catch a wealthy lady you will let her go without a fight...

Truckpusher:
Throw some money around and watch them open that thang the way they've not opened it before.

smh

safarigirl:
I was watching one of Chris Rock's comedy shows recently where he made a valid point that women cannot go back materialistically.

What he meant by this simply is that women just won't fancy dating any guy who is less financially buoyant than their last boyfriend and if they do, they won't be 'feeling' the other guy s much.

I've had conversations with two of my female room mates whose idea of their 'best boyfriend ever' was the guy who spent on them, who got them the expensive stuff and provided them with their heart's desires without them having to even ask. There is nothing any female loves more than when her man gets her some item (be it a shoe, a handbag, a phone etc) she's been pining for without her having to utter a word about it to him. Example, if she's been posting a pic of a pair of shoes on her IG or DP and her man asks why she's so interested in the shoe followed by her shoe size, trust when I say the Shoki the babe will be dancing that day in anticipation of the arrival of the shoes will be enough to send Lil Kesh out of business

Fellas, if you're looking to date a woman whose ex is responsible for half the shiiit in her closet, plus the Samsung galaxy/Iphone she's currently using and you're not loaded, I regret to inform you that you don enter one chance. As in, your own don kpafuka. Like, she most likely will have the same interest in the relationship as the average straight man has in an episode of The Kardashians

This ain't no Dr.Phil so imma give you some straight-talkin' , you want the truth? Well, here it is. You may love her more than that ex did, you may be ready to sell your father's land in the village to provide for her, but all of that will most likely pale in her eyes in comparison to what the mofo ex has done for her.

Women tend to place their wants above their needs. Forget Nollywood movies bro, you're not Ramsey Noah and she's not Genevieve, if she's with you despite the fact that you're 'poorer' than her ex, then know that she's most likely just hanging around until either the ex is released from whatever spiritual bondage that caused him to break up with her or the Lord directs some other rich dude to her stable.

So I explained to one of the two girls that her ex isn't necessarily the best guy she'll ever meet, he just happens to have the funds to express his love as opposed to some other guy who may respect her more and generally be more loving, but is unfortunately, not financially buoyant enough to show he's a better catch. In such situations it's left to the woman to decide what she really wants in a relationship and if she can survive with a man who may not be financially gifted, but possesses other traits that in the long run would be much better than wealth

So on that note, I will agree with emusmith, that love isn't always enough in any relationship, but not necessarily based on the terms he listed in his write-up, which in all honesty, I found some vapid, petty and somewhat shallow (no offence ). Sometimes the psychological make-up of a gender will come into play.

And before the men cry foul, Chris Rock also stated that men on the other hand, can NOT go back Sexually....but I believe that's a topic for another day. Ciao

you are one s1ck biitch and an insult to womanhood

cherryice:
smh

You can shake your head all you want but that doesn't change the fact that the more money you throw around the better they get in bed.

And FYI ; Quit stalking me here. You're not my Mom.

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women and money are synonymous esp in our jet age. the worst thing a lady hates to hear is the future will b better or e go better.

@Safari girl: I think to an extent I agree with your post. Currently, d girl I'm dating, was once dating a medical doctor who used 2 spoil her with cash. As 4 me, am working but it's without pay. My kind of job requires dat i get my masters first before i could be converted (I'm about rounding up). Sincerely, I'm bothered but I leave everything 2 God. I will only play my role. However, if she feels nt satisfied, the door is wide open 4 her 2 vacate.

Truckpusher:
You can shake your head all you want but that doesn't change the fact that the more money you throw around the better they get in bed.

And FYI ; Quit stalking me here. You're not my Mom.

stalking a misogy is something I'll never do..
tell us how many girls you been deceiving with your kobos? Start from the year 1890, I know you were born then

@OP.. Dz kind of thread isn't educating.
abi kilokowa naa





D real truth is dat I know d kind of lady u fall in their class
U Re d MATERIALISTIC type, so don't be amused or surprised dt dat was why u posted this thread.


u re an exemplary of Wht we call Owo epo, ese eja, eebinna, I never chop.. omo atoko wa ba ileje. (asshole)


Ejowo ni ti tori olohun oba alahu rabi.. talk better thing

I don't date golddiggers or jobless ladies... If u ain't a bit rich or industrious... I won't notice you if u like fine pass mama water...

safarigirl:
I was watching one of Chris Rock's comedy shows recently where he made a valid point that women cannot go back materialistically.

What he meant by this simply is that women just won't fancy dating any guy who is less financially buoyant than their last boyfriend and if they do, they won't be 'feeling' the other guy s much.

I've had conversations with two of my female room mates whose idea of their 'best boyfriend ever' was the guy who spent on them, who got them the expensive stuff and provided them with their heart's desires without them having to even ask. There is nothing any female loves more than when her man gets her some item (be it a shoe, a handbag, a phone etc) she's been pining for without her having to utter a word about it to him. Example, if she's been posting a pic of a pair of shoes on her IG or DP and her man asks why she's so interested in the shoe followed by her shoe size, trust when I say the Shoki the babe will be dancing that day in anticipation of the arrival of the shoes will be enough to send Lil Kesh out of business

Fellas, if you're looking to date a woman whose ex is responsible for half the shiiit in her closet, plus the Samsung galaxy/Iphone she's currently using and you're not loaded, I regret to inform you that you don enter one chance. As in, your own don kpafuka. Like, she most likely will have the same interest in the relationship as the average straight man has in an episode of The Kardashians

This ain't no Dr.Phil so imma give you some straight-talkin' , you want the truth? Well, here it is. You may love her more than that ex did, you may be ready to sell your father's land in the village to provide for her, but all of that will most likely pale in her eyes in comparison to what the mofo ex has done for her.

Women tend to place their wants above their needs. Forget Nollywood movies bro, you're not Ramsey Noah and she's not Genevieve, if she's with you despite the fact that you're 'poorer' than her ex, then know that she's most likely just hanging around until either the ex is released from whatever spiritual bondage that caused him to break up with her or the Lord directs some other rich dude to her stable.

So I explained to one of the two girls that her ex isn't necessarily the best guy she'll ever meet, he just happens to have the funds to express his love as opposed to some other guy who may respect her more and generally be more loving, but is unfortunately, not financially buoyant enough to show he's a better catch. In such situations it's left to the woman to decide what she really wants in a relationship and if she can survive with a man who may not be financially gifted, but possesses other traits that in the long run would be much better than wealth

So on that note, I will agree with emusmith, that love isn't always enough in any relationship, but not necessarily based on the terms he listed in his write-up, which in all honesty, I found some vapid, petty and somewhat shallow (no offence ). Sometimes the psychological make-up of a gender will come into play.

And before the men cry foul, Chris Rock also stated that men on the other hand, can NOT go back Sexually....but I believe that's a topic for another day. Ciao

cherryice:
stalking a misogynist is something I'll never do..
tell us how many girls you been deceiving with your kobos? Start from the year 1890, I know you were born then

This is the problem with you ladies whenever we speak the truth you accuse us of being chauvinists or misogynists.
I'm not a misogynist and can't be one - But I won't still fail to point out the too many fucck ups I've seen.

So ,you tell me - How many guys have you hated and cursed like you did to me the other time, because of one insignificant boy that broke your heart?

Truckpusher:
This is the problem with you ladies whenever we speak the truth you accuse us of being chauvinists or misogynists.
I'm not a misogynist and can't be one - But I won't still fail to point out the too many fucck ups I've seen.

So ,you tell me - How many guys have you hated and cursed like you did to me the other time, because of one insignificant boy that broke your heart?

you still havent answered my own question and I wont let that slide..
I been seeing your posts, you are nothing far from the women- hater, too bad. I wonder what women did to you.
Oh and plsss, I was asking the question in relation to what you said about 'throwing more money and the ladies open their legs wider'. Therefore, dont see my question as an insult. How many ladies? Can you remember? ..

Crazy but true..

cherryice:
you still havent answered my own question and I wont let that slide..
I been seeing your posts, you are nothing far from the women- hater, too bad. I wonder what women did to you.
Oh and plsss, I was asking the question in relation to what you said about 'throwing more money and the ladies open their legs wider'. Therefore, dont see my question as an insult. How many ladies? Can you remember? ..

Until you disabuse your mind about me being a woman hater I will not answer that ridiculous question of yours.

Now tell me what are the attributes of a woman hater?

Truckpusher:
Until you disabuse your mind about me being a woman hater I will not answer that ridiculous question of yours.

Now tell me what are the attributes of a woman hater?

Attrributes of a woman hater? Yourself

cherryice:
Attrributes of a woman hater? Yourself

But this is not true.